🎙Newz and Trendz with Dave and Len: Black News Episode 122

[00:00:14] All right y'all, get ready for another edition of Newz and Trendz with your host Dave and Len. Black guy, Delaware, Black.com, Jean R. Campground and another life future Olympic triathletes. Yeah, okay. All right.

[00:01:06] Yeah, this is a triathlete that you know, you got some brave raises this weekend. Yeah, I did. I swam in the Delaware State Open Water Championships. I swam. My category was the half mile swim and I got second overall mail.

[00:01:27] Yeah, yeah, but you know, Dave, but you know, Dave, I'm always up to my list and call it out how it is. I don't know where all these 12 year old Katie LaDecis are coming from.

[00:01:42] So, you know, even though I got second for men, there was a 12 year old girl who beat me. And it's so funny because my wife and you know, Dave, I really, I'm past this round. I went out too fast. I died.

[00:01:59] I thought about quitting. I was like, I can't do that. But there was a, my wife said, while I was swimming, her family was sitting right next to where you're lying to was sitting and her family's like, beat him, beat him, beat him.

[00:02:14] Right. And you know, it's all we're doing the thing where it's like, okay, is it because I'm black? You know, but no, all in all, Delaware is Katie LaDecis beat me. But, but yeah, that's a deal. So, see the real swimmer, huh?

[00:02:33] I have no idea, but I'm, and I mean, I'm not, you know, Superman, but she definitely is on somebody's swim team somewhere. Okay, all right. Yeah. Do you think you son could beat her? I think he could have, yes.

[00:02:53] But I'm not 100% because, you know, he's not a distance person. And they, I probably could not have paid him to go out there and swim. You know, I mean, if it's anything off his regular schedule, I don't want to do it. You know? Okay. Hey, that's funny. Okay.

[00:03:14] All right. Well, I mean, it is what it is. We, we're in that, you know, we got the electric buzz going on and all that stuff. So, that's great. That's great. Yeah. The water was cold. No, I mean, actually, the water was nice. It wasn't bad at all.

[00:03:30] So, you know, it was pretty good. Well, no, what about you, Dave? How was your weekend? Anything, uh, you've been, well, I didn't, I didn't swim in. Yeah, try it for us. Sorry. I will say that. Um, did I do anything this weekend? No, not really.

[00:03:46] Just kind of chill. Um, or I didn't even work. I'm sorry because it's just one down. So, um, I mean, you know, so, I mean, so. But everything, everything is everything. It was good weekend. Dave, I think you put yourself on mute. Sorry about that folks.

[00:04:17] Leonard did that on purpose. Oh, so. He doesn't like to hear me talking. I don't know what I'm doing. Okay. Um, but anyway. Wait, hello. Are you there? Yeah. Yep. Do you hear me? Okay. Yeah. Okay. Wait, I'm telling the figure out. Uh, my phone then, um,

[00:04:39] Turn me back to the video. Um, anyway. Well, they don't know where it just blame it on Leonard. Okay. All right. Yeah. We'll blame it on. Okay. All right. Anyway. So, what we got to talk about, um, I figured when you know we reached week. Yeah.

[00:05:01] So, I mean, yeah, I was in, you know, tracking field final that. I know you were watching it. And I know I called bits and pieces. Um, what overall did you think about some of the highlights of the, the final finals for the trials? Well, okay.

[00:05:19] So, you know, we, um, we both, uh, for those of you who haven't figured out. We're both, um, tracking field and through to you. And, um, um, So, you know, we were geeking, you know, because Leonard and I've been talking to each other about the,

[00:05:38] the finals and, you know, going into the final, the final finals, um, whatever. So, there was some very good races. Um, you know, course we're watching to make sure that some of the big names make it to, um, make it to the track and field, um,

[00:05:58] um, Olympic team. Um, so we, uh, course watched, Chicago Richardson win the hundred, right? Um, where she looked very good at doing. You know, she definitely was the dominant one in the race. She looked fast and everything. Um, we wasn't all, uh,

[00:06:22] know, um, lives when the hundred and, he just looks, he looks like a completely different runner right now. Yeah, he does. Yeah, he does. You know, he has, you know, of course he has the confidence to do what he does.

[00:06:36] He's, he's, he's, he's finished and speed is crazy right now. Um, you know, like he, he's, he's still a little slow out of the blocked, but he makes up for it by half the race. He's, he's, he's, he's, he's gone.

[00:06:50] You know, but, but his boy Kenny Benerick right there will. Yeah, every time, every time I, I, I, I was like, Kenny Benerick is closer to no allows and there's on shadow. Yeah, that's right. That's right. So it's, you know, so that was very,

[00:07:10] you know, that the hundred races were really, really good. The 200, however, didn't go well for, Cicari Richardson, who finished for thin air, and actually slowed down. The finish, you know, as she was running because she got out of the block slow. She didn't have a good time.

[00:07:31] I mean, she, she came out of the block car. But it was already over. Yeah. And the time she came out of the block because Gaby, that girl was no dude. And then she said a record, right? Gaby Thomas said a record, right?

[00:07:49] Um, I think she said, and I'm, no, no, I think she had the fastest American. Well, whether the meat work, whether the meat work or the, the, the, the, the, the, okay. I might have been one of them. Yeah. But, um, she looked good. She looked good.

[00:08:03] Yeah, she didn't mean that girl came out. Look, she came out there. Look, you know, it's so strange because it always looked like an optical illusion in the 200 when they come around that curve. And you hear the guy said, you know, you'll hear somebody say,

[00:08:17] but this person is leading the race and you'd be like, but that person is on the high curve. It's not like it's leading, right? But that girl, she controlled that race almost from the start. Yeah, she did. Yeah.

[00:08:32] And, and she carried, there was no, there was no way she even won't be here. No way, no, not that race, not that race. And now, so, so, so, carry fell in the 200. No one got out there, did his thing in the 200 right behind them.

[00:08:50] It's funny, it's been there. You know, I mean, Benar, he was right there. So, um, so those races, the sprints were good. Unfortunately, we watched one of the favorites in the long distance run, um, go down in a fall, a thing of, um, man, that was so hard.

[00:09:15] Hard breaking the watch, man. Yeah. No, it was, did you see that Instagram commentary I sent you today regarding the thing? Oh, no, I didn't see it. Yeah, yeah. It was later on the day, and I kind of agreed to God was saying that it was a,

[00:09:32] it was a thing's fault. You know, she's a world class runner. She should not have gotten bottled neck in that pack. She either should have won out fast or she should have kind of laid on the side.

[00:09:42] But, um, he was saying he thinks it's her fault because, you know, you, you don't, and I'm a track spectator. But I'm not a, you know, I've never really ran track track like that. So I don't know the strategy.

[00:09:55] Anyway, long story, she was saying that she should not have got stuck in that pack like that. Yeah, but, you know, she shouldn't have got stuck in that pack. But did they close her in? I don't know. I mean, I don't know. I don't know.

[00:10:17] I purposely closed her in. I think they were all jacking for position and, you know, they didn't give her respect. Like, uh, you know, they didn't give her a world champion respect and I probably wouldn't either. Um, yeah, they, they, they just seemed like to me,

[00:10:34] they was a very tight pack and before the, at the beginning of the race, they were in the same very tight pack. They didn't got in around the first tournament. Yeah, it was over early. Yeah, it was very early.

[00:10:49] So, and she went there and she went down hard. I mean, it wasn't one of those, you know, go down and get right back up. She went down hard. So, um, yeah, I really felt bad for it. They said that she's probably going to go for the,

[00:11:10] for the, for by for relay. Yeah. Which day one the last time, she was then, she was the anchor. What's he, she was the third anchor in that race, the last time he won. So, um, um, then see who else? Oh, my god. Oh yeah. That girl, man.

[00:11:33] Yeah. I don't know if anybody could be there. No, I mean, she, she, she was very smooth and she looked like she took her time running to that thing. Um, she, look. And she got strong as the, as the, the race went on.

[00:11:55] I mean, the, she put, she went in at the burners at the end. Yeah. Um, I don't know. I, I just think that the American team looks strong. Oh yeah. I think, I, and you know, even with some of the field events, they look strong.

[00:12:16] The, the young lady, um, then one, the, the, um, the cat fly. Yeah. She looks good. Yeah. They might be, she, she, and she's trained by in, um, I don't know if she's, um, Kersy, um, Jack or doing a courtesy training or I'm not sure.

[00:12:36] They're real close or they're, they're, they're another good friend. Yeah. She was saying that's like her mentor on official mental health. Yeah. Okay. I knew she, yeah. Well, this girl, this girl, she really looked good. I was impressed by her. She did everything well. Yeah. She did.

[00:12:52] So, um, So I think, um, think we got a pretty strong team to go with. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Well, we all we got worried about with what the, uh, to make and says, when we always got, especially when it comes to the sports and everything.

[00:13:09] When we always got worried about what the, the, uh, when it comes to the distance and great Britain, always seems to put together pretty deep, and we always, you know, we always get a very good, you know, and you know, we always get, you know,

[00:13:23] we're getting a good, you know, we always get a good, you know, that's in the, and great Britain always seems to put together pretty decent team. But we'll see what happens. Yeah. I think that we will be quite surprised with how well we do over there.

[00:13:54] I think we got some athletes going over there. So everyone, make sure you tune into the Olympics. And even with the other, I even watched some of the gymnastics. The most involved is the Beast man. Yeah, she is. Yeah, she's a beast.

[00:14:10] And basically it's the same team they sent over to the left Olympics. So I think they're going to do very well over there too. Even though two of their strongness or not going, they're not, they didn't make the team because they have injuries.

[00:14:30] And um, but I think this team is still going to do very well. So, can't wait for that. Less than a month. No, they have a little more to go. Yeah, they have to work real. What did you think about the BTO Awards?

[00:14:45] That's Olympic then a different spectrum. You know, so, well let's do this. Let's go good moment. Bad moment. Well, so you can probably do a good moment, bad because I didn't see it much as you did. Yeah, I've seen any other performances.

[00:15:10] I mean, to be honest when I've seen stuff on social media, I just grow up past it. You know, I mean, nothing that made me stop. I mean, I saw the usher tribute and I think that's probably would have been one of my favorite parts to see.

[00:15:22] Because you know, I think usher is a great entertainer, but to be a other stuff just look fractured enough, I just kept on scrolling. Bificky words are words. Right, although you know the new thing is this a black job. You know that's the new thing right now.

[00:15:40] So, is the B&T award a black job? You know, I don't know what it is. I'll give it a little quick recap. The show opens with Megan. What would you know, no, no, no, they do. Do you do good bad in the ugly? Okay. Well, okay.

[00:16:02] The good Megan opened the show. Megan was Megan. If you're a Megan, style your fans. She killed it. I ain't gonna lie, she did. Okay. And, um, more good doing it. I ain't gonna lie. Yeah. So, um, Therodgy P. Henson was the host of the show.

[00:16:22] She had her moments. She messed up. She did embarrass herself for a couple of times. He messed up people's names. She called, you know, Keef Lee is. Yeah. So, you thought Keef is a dude that was sitting on the same road as him.

[00:16:38] He might have been with him, but he was too sweet away from Keef Lee. Yeah, Jordan. I think his name is Jordan. Yeah. Yeah. That's what it was. Yeah. She's talking to him. Keef Lee though, uh, and Keef is,

[00:16:54] and when the guy realized that Keef thought he was Keef Lee, he pointed over that Keef Lee over there. Yeah. Oh my god. And she called, Ellie Bailey. Um, um, um, but what she did, that was really good. She opened up the show. Was he, um, Keef, Keef,

[00:17:20] Keef, Keef, and she came out dressed with a hoodie on, and jeans, and started doing a parody of, they not like us, Kendrick Lamar saw him. And it's talking about the, the BET awards. It was, it was funny. She thought, trip walking, and everything in the swamp.

[00:17:42] She really did. So that was, that was a, that was a good moment. Victoria Monet was really good. I will say that. Um, it's funny. Um, you really get to look at, like, a lot of these new people we, we know the songs. We may hear the songs.

[00:18:04] But we don't know who they are. You know what I mean? So one day I will say about this show. I will say about these people are. So, Victoria Monet was good. Will Smith come out and perform, so new song. I think it was in the movie.

[00:18:20] It was in the movie. Um, but it's a new song he has out with Kurt Franklin. That was a good. Um, and Lauren Hill performed at the end of the show. Right. I didn't see that. Anytime you get a chance to see Lauren Hill, you know, you know,

[00:18:45] and she always going to be a good moment. And she sounds more in still can think. I mean, she got them jobs man. And she had her son out there. You know, and then why a club came out and joined her.

[00:18:59] They did a couple of food these own. So that's a good. The ugly. It's actually weird. Yeah. And she thinks she defined it. They want her. I don't know. You can tell if she ain't defined it. I'm probably okay. I think that's her fanfare. So high right now.

[00:19:23] Yeah, then people love her man. Then people look. You always could tell when people are feeling somebody. When they pan to audience and everybody party. You know what I mean? Mm-hmm. And they party any time. She performs. I mean, you see everybody shaking their head. They're talking.

[00:19:40] They're dancing. Um. Lotto. Lotto is a good rapper. I will say she is. She had on Alpen. You know, their teeth and part of her cheeks are how, you know. I mean, you know, that's the thick girl. You know, and see, you know, you know,

[00:20:01] you know, she's doing a her thing. And then a couple of performances later. Ice fights come out. Ice fights. You know, got her low Alpen on. And she's going to shade at Lotto. Because she don't like Lotto. You know, so I mean, you can't write this stuff, man.

[00:20:17] I really can't. Um, so. And who else was bad? Um. Take those words a bad point. Um. The ugly. Uh. I sure is up there speaking. And he was, he was given the icon award. He's up there speaking. And he was, he was given the icon award.

[00:20:43] He's up there speaking. And he says a couple of cuss words and B.T. He decides that they're going to mute him. Right. The whole thing. The whole thing just about. Now, I don't know if you guys can't listen to the speech. They have heard it online. No.

[00:21:00] He only said, he only cuss maybe once a twice more time. I mean, not enough for them to mute him out that whole time. It was, it was crazy. And basically, you know, he got up there.

[00:21:13] He was pouring out his heart about how he got to where he was. And, you know, talked about his father. Didn't, you know, didn't want them and all that stuff. And, you know, and how he had to forgive his father, even though he never did anything for him.

[00:21:26] Right. So for B.T. the mute him out all that time trying to, they had to figure on the button the whole time. And that was crazy. You know, he's got all his heroes up on stage. People that made him who he was.

[00:21:41] I did like that for it because he had LA really had baby face. He had Jimmy Jam Terry Lewis and D'Maine to pre up there. Those are the people that made him. You know, so he had his mother with him in his kids.

[00:21:56] So I mean, even though it was a great honor for him, it was kind of messed up the thing. They muted them out the way they get. And so, so that's basically, I mean, there were a couple other performances.

[00:22:11] I mean, is not even about the words, but so funny because they only do a couple of words. You know, they are on screen. But they, you know, it's all about the performances. And you know, that show used to be so good, man.

[00:22:30] It is it is right to TV now though. It really is. All right, all right. All right. And I just need a day that BT, I think is for sale. So again, depending on who's hands it goes, if we get even get more right.

[00:22:45] Oh, they're going, you think they're going to let bar and get it this time? Probably not. You don't think so. I mean, I don't take that. You take that so do a white person first? Probably. I wouldn't be surprised. Yeah, I guess we'll see what happens with that.

[00:23:07] Right. But yeah, but that's my recap of what happened. That particular night. The show ran a little long. I don't know what they could do. The same as I mean, you got, you know, young people stuff now, man.

[00:23:26] You know, no matter who, you know, they will have to bring back people like Jay Z and Beyonce and you know, those kind of people who built that show to come back and be like performance on that show.

[00:23:43] But do you still would have the third time to the high people? Yeah. Are you right? Yeah. So I don't know. We'll see, I guess we'll have to see what happens with that. That's my assessment anyway. That's right.

[00:23:59] Well, Dave, our first story today, you may have heard of this story. So it's around a six year old black boy who drowned on the first day of summer camp. Did you hear about this story? No. Yeah. So this actually happened in our area happening, man's field,

[00:24:21] township New Jersey. And so there was a six year old black child with special needs. He drowned at a youth summer camp in New Jersey. And this happened last week that literally like they camp in man's field,

[00:24:36] township of the the lifeguard saw him or found him breathless at the bottom of the township of the city. But he threw up the water and jumped in and tried to save him. Of course, they administered CPR but it was too late.

[00:24:50] He was taken to a hospital where he was pronounced dead. Now the crazy part of this story, Dave, was that the young boy was assigned to an advocate to help supervise him throughout the camp because he was special needs. So he had his own dedicated advocate.

[00:25:11] But there were about was nowhere to be found at the time of drown. The police are, you know, are investigating. And you know, it's really sad because the boys mother said that the night before he was so excited

[00:25:28] about swimming the next day that he actually went to sleep with his goggles on. You know, like that's how excited he was. So, you know, of course she was devastated to hear that on the first day of that camp that,

[00:25:42] you know, he got a, she got a call that she needs to rush through the hospital. Now the camp owner said that there were more than one lifeguard on duty at the time of the drowning.

[00:25:54] And then, you know, they tried to kind of rectify the situation saying that they, you know, they exceed the lifeguard swimmer ratio and listen that. But you know, at the end of the day, none of that matters to some of the drowns and their multiple lifeguards there.

[00:26:10] You know, it's, it, you know, it, it don't make you feel too good. So I'm, the family has set up a go-fun me. I think I saw something I would not be surprised that they sued. And I mean, you know, I almost think that's probably automatic.

[00:26:25] But you know, more details are coming. What, what do you think about the story, Dave? I was like, fell, played in me. Yeah, I mean, it's just crazy. Like they have an advocate and multiple lifeguards. Right. Yeah, that's, that's amazing to me that the advocates now,

[00:26:45] that they say they have found, that they talked to the advocate or. Well, so I think because the families probably going to sue, you know, the, the, um, they can't stop giving up. They may give up the information to the police,

[00:27:01] but they're not giving it up publicly because it probably be used against them. Hmm. Well, now that just says to me that, that, something happens that, you know, they definitely did not.

[00:27:19] Whoever did not do what they was supposed to do or was this something that was done on purpose. And that is not good. It was done on purpose and I really don't get. Um, I really don't get how that could happen.

[00:27:40] And you said other lifeguards was on duty, right? Correct. How could they not see this? Yeah, I don't know. So, you know, this is something we can definitely follow up with. And I'm to be honest, um, so they show the visa face on our local news.

[00:27:58] So, you know, I think as stuff happened, we'll definitely hear about it. And did you say to tell us what black? Yes, he was. All right. Yeah, let's kind of keep out. I have for that story to find out what happened with that because that.

[00:28:15] That sounds like it was. I'm found playing for or. Hopefully the advocates wasn't the one that did it, but, you know, It's not something just does not sound right there. Yeah, now it doesn't. All right, Dave. So our next story deals with one of your favorite people.

[00:28:39] I'm not very, very, very good. Donald Trump. So, I don't know if you heard about the, um, the Trump campaign that happened at a black barbershop in Georgia where the owner felt like he was kind of misled to host the event. So, yeah, yeah.

[00:28:58] So, um, you know, the Trump campaign responded after and Atlanta man who was a barbershop owner claimed that he was misled in the hosting a Trump event at his barbershop. So, the, the barber Ricky Jones told the news that a friend of his approach

[00:29:19] about hosting a round table for small black businesses in the area. So, you know, of course, Jones said he was all in, you know, Black businesses, get back to the community. Like I'm in. I'm all about this.

[00:29:34] Um, you know, so when they showed up to host the event, it was led by some of Trump's black allies like your boy, Dr. Ben Carson, representative Byron Donalds and some other black Trump Trumpers.

[00:29:55] And, uh, so basically, you know, the guy said, you know, he did not know was a Trump sponsored event. You know, he knew nothing about that. And he said afterwards, he's kind of been blackballed a little bit. You know, he's got a lot of hate mail.

[00:30:10] Um, he has lost business. You know, people are kind of bad mouth. And so anyway, so recently the Trump campaign responded and they posted a, um, they posted a copy of the contract. Oh, Lord. Right. The contract between the two of them.

[00:30:33] And I'm trying to look now to see that now the contract does say between the barbershop owner and Donald J Trump for president, 2024. And they that is on the very first line of the contract. So you know, it does say, um, maybe he did look at it.

[00:30:56] Maybe he didn't. But the part that thought was interesting was, um, and this is a part that maybe think maybe he didn't look at it as closely as he thought he did. And for the national, if you saw this date, he was paid.

[00:31:10] Let me see whether he was paid $4,800 to host this two hour event. So, what is that? Oh, he's always the money. Right. Right. Now, now I will say in, in the defense of the Trump campaign, they look at the contract the very first lines.

[00:31:34] So this is agreement between so and so and so and Donald J Trump for president 2024. So yeah, yeah, I mean, like, you know, because that first I was kind of on this side. And then when I saw that copy, I was like, you know what?

[00:31:49] It's hard to debate this because this is, I mean, I mean, it's right in your face. It looked like nothing sneaky about it. It was on the first line. And it had his name written in.

[00:32:02] I kind of feel sorry for him, but I mean, in a way I don't. They say old of a guy this is. No, so when I looked at the picture, he looked late 20s early 30s. I mean, he definitely felt like somebody who would, you know,

[00:32:18] who would have known. Pretty younger guy. Yeah. Wow. Yeah, he's been a, it's probably messed up right now. And the fact that he signed the fact that he signed that. And not knowing when he signed even though it says clearly what he signed.

[00:32:38] Yeah, it doesn't make a very smart first speaker. Right now I agree. And I'm sure his thing was probably more about, you know, that the money probably blinded him from, you know, seeing all the details. Yeah, I don't know what it is that people are doing these days.

[00:32:58] When it comes to this whole thing with Trump, it's just like a lot of people are saying that they got to Trump and that. That's a big rally. He has all the black people in back of them. And the work.

[00:33:12] And he, you know, they said that they were told that they were going to be there for something else. They didn't know what the Trump wrote. That's what they think. Yeah. You know, because that's why it was so many of them.

[00:33:27] And they didn't know what the Trump wrote. Right, you know. So I don't know what the people that they're putting their substance situation. I know I was looking at something the other day. And the man that stills even thought that this morning about this picture of Swiss beef.

[00:33:45] And he said, you know, that's a big rally. And he said, you know, that's a big rally. And he said, you know, that's a big rally. So even thought that this morning about this picture of Swiss beef. And Timberland.

[00:34:00] And there's Sidney, I'm yucking it up with with Eli Muck. And you know, it's a picture, you know, they're all laughing whatever. And, you know, of course, that's a big no-no because, you know, of course, we know Eli Muck is a Trump supporter as well. Right.

[00:34:24] But you know, they just told versus to Eli Muck. Why? Well, it's supposed to be a black owned thing. Why would he tell a whole thing to all people to sell it to Eli Muck? Yeah, there's a further money. We got to wake up people. We really do.

[00:34:48] We really got to wake up. So hopefully, then young men. Hopefully, he's able to bounce back on what happened. And if he was that up or if he was, if something was, you know, this construed or whatever the case may be, let's hope the truth comes out.

[00:35:11] But right now, I'm looking to do. Yeah, no, no. All right, so I mean, we can kind of see how that develops as well. All right, what's everybody now time for Dave's favorite part of the show? Oh, here we go. It doesn't happen too often, but lens corner.

[00:35:31] All right, so Dave, this week and this is just kind of a quick perspective. So I saw something on social media. And it says that many black women are preferring to be a rich anti rather than a mother.

[00:35:52] And I just want to play a quick clip that we will hear the audio. As for go, and then decide if we're going to go having kids the concept of the rich anti-asmurge.

[00:36:03] Anti-anti, these are the women who are finding joy in ways that don't center on family life. Crystal Young has her stories. Young girls are often taught that a big part of being a woman is being a mother. Here's the ghost society's sweet personal choices.

[00:36:26] Questioning the norm was uncommon. Now, the concept of the rich anti has emerged and you don't have to be rich or be an anti-be one. Rich anti-is are women living a rich life, focusing on sources of joy that don't include building a family. Storytellers, grandmothers, composers.

[00:36:48] Rachel Gargol is found out of a rich anti-suppreme at 34. She's a confident woman who knows who she is and what she wants. My decision to be child free. I, it was something that always felt true to me and felt natural to me having children.

[00:37:04] Just wasn't that something that felt aspirational per se to me. Rich anti-suppreme. They all got to stop it right there. So basically, they said a lot of these rich anti-s or the idea of the rich anti-s are people who, you know,

[00:37:20] were rather kind of focused on themselves and others but without having a family or raising children. What do you think of this? You know, new emergence of and I will just say this. When the rich anti is generally associated with black women.

[00:37:43] But what do you think about this rich anti-phenomenal? I think what happens in that situation is that there are a lot of women that you say to a career or an interest in. And they, you know, are getting out here to get involved in business.

[00:38:06] You know, some of them are top-effects and there are their fields and for some of them are victim entrepreneurs who are creating wealth for themselves by, you know, different types of ways.

[00:38:23] And they don't really want to stop and we adjust that live because they're pregnant or having a job. And then have to become a mother of their job.

[00:38:37] You know, these women, generally, as they are here on street and they are trying to make sure that they don't mind it's not that they don't like kids.

[00:38:52] And they don't mind having other people's kids around them because, of course, the old accident says you can always send them home. You know what I mean?

[00:39:05] So, and they don't mind trying to make those children happy and do things for them that maybe they are parents will do for them or having them for them. Because they have the means to do it, but they just don't want to have the responsibility of their own.

[00:39:23] And I see that a lot. I mean, if you look at some of the top celebrities and top social media personalities, you don't have kids of their own. You see, you might see them in pictures with their nieces and nephews and stuff like that, you know?

[00:39:43] Because, you know, they're not interested in being a parent. Right? You know? Because, you know, they're making it all about them and what they want out of life. What should I say?

[00:39:55] You know, I agree, you know, I think society would, at one point, would push women into being mothers and to being family. And I think, you know, now women as they're growing and but you're touring.

[00:40:15] I think once you kind of get into a mood of not, and then I'm not even to make it sound selfish, but kind of doing you having enjoyment focusing on yourself.

[00:40:26] I mean, you know, being a father and myself being a father, you know, them kids will text the hell out of you. You know, you know, take up all your time, all your money. So I could see it. Yeah, thank you. It's worse.

[00:40:40] Yeah. So I can see people not wanting to be in that position. And, you know, maybe later they'll have a grasp, maybe later they won't. But I can see, you know, it's almost like right now if I'm having a great time living my life, you know?

[00:40:53] What would maybe we want to settle down and have a relationship and have a child when I can keep on traveling? I can do what I want to do. I go party. I can, you know, I don't have to be home by certain time.

[00:41:04] I don't got to pick up kids from school. I don't got to get early in, you know, that stuff. So I think it's, you know, women just kind of, you know, kind of doing what they want to do. What's their manager, this question, and play devil's advocate.

[00:41:20] Aren't you cheating? You're a legacy. Possibly. You know, possibly. I mean, think about it. Without having children and doing all these things where you might be very successful at it so far.

[00:41:48] Something happens to you. You don't have an office, you know, somebody that, you know, came from you to lead lead something to.

[00:42:03] But you know what do these? I mean, we'll have a look at this. They're a lot of people dying and then I leave in no legacy. What we're doing, what fish fries and putting their picture on t-shirt.

[00:42:17] I mean, you know, there's a lot of people not leaving a legacy period. So, but we're doing my return. Yeah. Yeah. That's what we're talking about return. So, you know, they got some clothes. You know, they got a little something.

[00:42:36] And if they don't leave it to their own kids, they'll be leaving to the kids that they're being honest.

[00:42:43] But then, like I said, what about your own legacy? Right. You know, I remember talking to a guy he was 50 years old and, you know, it's pretty successful. He's in banking. He's a VP with Chase Bank.

[00:43:07] That's very well financially as a nighthouse up in Hoceston. No, very well. Remember having a conversation with him? He's been married once. He has a long time ago for it now. I asked him. I said, are you in doing your life? And he said, put the most part.

[00:43:37] And I'm like, huh? He drives a horse. Got a nice house. Beautiful girl friends. Great job that, you know, he saw my return before he turns 55. I said, so what's the problem? Well, why are you saying for the most part?

[00:44:07] And never had any kids. And I think it was going to be a big deal. But as I'm getting older, it has become a big deal. You know, because when I was before 40 years old, somebody says something to me about a kid.

[00:44:31] I got them out. He said, now when I see my friends with their children, you know, he's a, you know, he played ball and everything. He said, look at some of my friends teaching their kids how to play sports now. I missed that. I missed that whole thing.

[00:44:57] And he said, so my biggest regret is not having kids. Right. Now it's getting him. I said, it's not too late because the girl is only like 40 now. Oh, wow.

[00:45:13] And he said, oh, no, it's that I ain't going to be one of these old dudes walking around with, you know, I'll be 55. You know, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. He said, oh, look at the grandparents. You know, there'd be a kid.

[00:45:33] Right. So you know, I just always don't think about it because they said it's a growing trend. So I think it's definitely something we're going to start seeing in the next couple of years of, you know, women who just make that decision.

[00:45:49] Yeah, we're in a different day and time. There's been a lot of different day and time. People are very selfish these days. They're very entitled and go about that.

[00:46:04] You know, and not a bad thing because some of these people have become some of the richest and most famous people in the world. Right. So I was just, you know, to get a chance to listen to the interview that Club Shayshade with Megan and the Stalian.

[00:46:28] Very interesting. She's going top of the world right now. Right. You know, and she, you know, I hear her talking about no kids. You know, she, she's having fun doing her right now. So, but it was a good interview and I'm sure she's a rich out of it.

[00:46:53] Right. Right. So there you go. Yeah. So that's where we are. All right. There you have it folks. You know, make sure to check out our Facebook and our Instagram. You know, I know everyone has date numbers. So you know, message me message day blown up. Lettuce.

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