Hello 2025. How this year goes is totally up to the person in the mirror. No matter what. Its a new year and a new chapter in life. So celebrate and enjoy the vibes of a brand new year. On this episode of Liquor Talk Vic welcomes back Kashari from the Kay's Vibes podcast for the first episode of 2025. Topics covered were what we want to achieve in the new year, what to do with an crazy gift, and why do people in relationships act more single than the people who are actually single. Please support both platforms in 2025.
[00:00:01] A brand new episode starts now. Welcome, everyone, welcome everybody to another edition of the Liquor Talk Podcast. Happy New Year, ladies and gentlemen. Happy New Year for listening to this. We have made it into 2025. We are blessed to see another new year, ladies and gentlemen. But I welcome back a former guest, ladies and gentlemen. You heard her last season, first on episode 296 of Liquor Talk Podcast out of GA.
[00:00:30] Your shirt will be in GA later this year, by the way. It's Kashari from Kays Vibes. Welcome back to Liquor Talk. How you doing today, Kays?
[00:00:38] All right. How are you?
[00:00:39] I'm doing great. I'm doing great. I appreciate you for bringing me on your podcast a few weeks ago. For those people who didn't listen to the last episode, briefly tell us a little bit about Kays Vibes.
[00:00:51] Okay. Kays Vibes is really just like controversial topics. And I really talk mainly about sexuality, relationships. I talk about uncomfortable conversations. That's what about, you know, getting a laugh out and telling real shit.
[00:01:13] That's real. That's real. We had some real conversations on her podcast and over here. So I want to say shout out to K. Thanks for coming back. And also to the listeners out there, I do apologize. The last two episodes, I wasn't really drinking. But today, I got a cup. I got some tequila to bring in the new year. So we got to do it right, ladies and gentlemen.
[00:01:34] So, Kishari, what is something you want out of 2025?
[00:01:40] Something I want?
[00:01:42] Yeah. Well, you feel like you...
[00:01:46] Getting towards financial stability. That's what I'm saying.
[00:01:52] I think we all want that. I feel you on that. I want to get to that point of financial stability because financial stability is amazing. We can do more things when we're financially stable instead of just having to, you know, live all that survival mode.
[00:02:13] Yes. Oh, trust me. I feel it. Survival mode every day. The podcast dollars hadn't came for me yet, but I'm hoping at some point in 2025, these podcast dollars start to roll in here because, you know, your boy been putting in work over here.
[00:02:28] So I know you've been putting in work as well, talking to artists and talking to everybody as well.
[00:02:34] So, and personally, I just want peace. You know, I want everything to go how it's supposed to go.
[00:02:41] I want to see the fruits of my labor start to pay off because over the years you've been putting in work, putting in work, but haven't really seen the payoff.
[00:02:49] I want to start to see the signs of that payoff. And one of them is, like you said, financial stability.
[00:02:55] Well, they do say that it's a website where you can get monetized and it goes and distribute on all platforms.
[00:03:06] It's somewhere in my messages.
[00:03:11] But people help too, Facebook and, well, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube.
[00:03:18] But you gotta get certain things to get monetized.
[00:03:24] Yeah, they have you jump through so many hoops to get monetized via social media.
[00:03:31] Even YouTube as well.
[00:03:32] Like all those places, it's like they make you jump through so many hoops just to get your shit monetized.
[00:03:39] It's crazy.
[00:03:42] But it is what it is.
[00:03:44] It's gonna happen one way or another.
[00:03:48] Excuse me.
[00:03:48] Another thing I want for 2025 is I want all these messy ass people to stop talking about their relationships on social media.
[00:03:56] Like not everybody needs to know your goddamn business because everybody had this, we listen, don't judge.
[00:04:04] Well, I was a little cute judging audiences.
[00:04:06] I'm not even gonna lie to you.
[00:04:09] I would say don't put it on social media if you don't want people a pain.
[00:04:15] You put it on people a pain.
[00:04:19] Not just to put it up there.
[00:04:22] For real.
[00:04:23] And why it seems like when people post somebody, they always want the side person manages to come out and say, oh, I was with them.
[00:04:31] Because I know we talked about this on your podcast.
[00:04:34] But I don't understand these side people.
[00:04:37] Like why do y'all want to always bring this shit out?
[00:04:41] They want attention.
[00:04:44] They want attention.
[00:04:44] That's it.
[00:04:45] They want attention.
[00:04:46] They want to be noticed.
[00:04:48] They want to.
[00:04:49] Oh, okay.
[00:04:49] She said it.
[00:04:50] So I'm going to say it too.
[00:04:52] It's all about attention.
[00:04:54] Or to get that.
[00:04:56] Something like that.
[00:04:57] That.
[00:04:59] It's like, I get that.
[00:05:01] But sometimes you got to know who you're dealing with.
[00:05:02] Like, just because you're not getting shown off then.
[00:05:06] But I guarantee you're that same person.
[00:05:08] You probably got somebody in your DMs right now that'll probably do all those things for you.
[00:05:11] But you're probably ignoring them.
[00:05:14] Some of them.
[00:05:16] You don't know how a person will be until you give them a chance.
[00:05:22] Yeah.
[00:05:22] But I will say that sometimes the people in relationships aren't helping themselves.
[00:05:28] Because they're motherfuckers.
[00:05:29] They be bombs away and stuff.
[00:05:31] They be shooting their shots like it's nothing.
[00:05:34] Oh, people in relationships.
[00:05:36] To me, they're more single than the single people.
[00:05:42] They out here doing more things than single people.
[00:05:45] It's the relationship people who be trying to get with other folks.
[00:05:51] Yeah.
[00:05:52] And I've never understood that.
[00:05:53] Like, if you're going to do all that, then you might as well break up with the person.
[00:05:57] Like, I don't understand why people can be so territorial.
[00:06:00] Like, if you're going to do all that, just break up with the person.
[00:06:03] No, they're doing it because they got comfortable.
[00:06:06] Or, if some reason, some of them still stay with that woman and ain't got no place to go.
[00:06:13] Or, got a kid.
[00:06:18] Money tied in it.
[00:06:20] Or, I don't know.
[00:06:23] Because I heard one little story where the girl, the dude wanted a video call.
[00:06:31] If you know what I mean.
[00:06:33] A video call.
[00:06:35] He was next to his wife.
[00:06:37] She was asleep.
[00:06:39] And he was trying to get a video call done.
[00:06:44] Why he couldn't just wake up and say, I want some?
[00:06:49] Because, yeah.
[00:06:51] I understand that.
[00:06:52] But sometimes, but some ladies, they'd be like, they might be sleeping.
[00:06:57] They might not want to wake up for no sex.
[00:06:59] I mean, it just depends on the woman.
[00:07:02] Because some women are like, hey, I'll wake up.
[00:07:04] I might want it.
[00:07:05] But then some women, they might look at you funny if you try to wake them up and ask them for some sex.
[00:07:11] I guess it depends how long she will sleep.
[00:07:15] You could be considerate and let her sleep a little bit.
[00:07:21] But if you didn't let her sleep a little bit, she's going to be cranky.
[00:07:25] That's your fault.
[00:07:26] Yeah.
[00:07:27] Yeah.
[00:07:27] That's definitely your fault.
[00:07:29] Because me, if I'm with somebody and I know they're asleep, I'm just going to let them sleep.
[00:07:32] You know?
[00:07:33] Let them sleep because you never know what the heck going through.
[00:07:35] So I'm definitely like, I'm going to let you sleep.
[00:07:38] I'm not even going to wake you up for that.
[00:07:39] Now, would I want to be waking up for that?
[00:07:41] Sure.
[00:07:42] I'm a man.
[00:07:43] What man wouldn't want to be waking up to a woman?
[00:07:44] His woman wanted to give him some play.
[00:07:46] I mean, what man wouldn't want that?
[00:07:48] Right.
[00:07:49] I don't know.
[00:07:50] Do that happen a lot?
[00:07:53] I mean, I haven't met a woman that wasn't going to do that yet.
[00:07:56] So I don't know.
[00:07:57] So that is kind of rare that a woman will wake you up.
[00:08:01] Right.
[00:08:04] Yeah.
[00:08:05] Yeah, that is kind of rare.
[00:08:07] So.
[00:08:07] But nevertheless, what's something that you hope stayed behind in 2024?
[00:08:15] What's going to stay behind is people that want to call down my friends.
[00:08:22] Hello.
[00:08:23] I don't want to deal with all that.
[00:08:25] I will be staying to myself a lot more this year because that term gets turned around and
[00:08:32] tossed and gathered.
[00:08:35] And people don't even know what a friend is.
[00:08:38] What is like what a friend is to me?
[00:08:41] I'm saying to me.
[00:08:42] It might mean something else to somebody else.
[00:08:44] But to me, a friend is somebody who got my back.
[00:08:47] Somebody can call on.
[00:08:48] If I got to go somewhere all the time by myself, you're not my friend.
[00:08:54] Yeah, that's true.
[00:08:56] But what if the friend lives in a different city that's like maybe 100 or 200 miles away?
[00:09:03] I have a friend that's like that.
[00:09:05] That's considerate.
[00:09:07] It's playing things.
[00:09:09] It's not really about always having to go somewhere with you.
[00:09:13] It's being available when needed.
[00:09:15] But people want you to be available for them.
[00:09:20] Their whole life is an emergency for you.
[00:09:23] When things come up in your life, it's not an emergency or a priority to them.
[00:09:29] So no, I'm good.
[00:09:30] Yeah, I got that.
[00:09:32] I feel you there.
[00:09:33] Because some people can't be phony like that.
[00:09:35] They'll be blowing you up for something.
[00:09:37] But then when you need them, they're nowhere to be found.
[00:09:39] So I definitely feel you.
[00:09:41] And those vibes, they eventually fall off.
[00:09:43] Sometimes you ain't got to really go hard to cut them off.
[00:09:46] They just fall off gradually.
[00:09:48] And also, real friends, they're going to show you about our actions.
[00:09:52] They're going to show you that they're some real ones.
[00:09:56] And it's crazy.
[00:09:57] So to all the phony friends out there, we say rest in peace.
[00:10:01] You might still be alive, but you're dead to me.
[00:10:04] And you know.
[00:10:05] Absolutely.
[00:10:07] You are dead to me.
[00:10:08] And guess what?
[00:10:09] And you didn't make a new enemy.
[00:10:10] You don't become the ops.
[00:10:12] I'm not about to be like on some gangster shit.
[00:10:14] Be like, oh, you're not an ops now.
[00:10:16] No, I just don't fuck with you.
[00:10:18] We ain't got no beef.
[00:10:19] I wish you the best and everything in life.
[00:10:21] But we good.
[00:10:24] Yes, we good.
[00:10:25] We definitely good.
[00:10:27] Another thing I hope that stay in 2024 is this damn pop the balloon shit.
[00:10:32] You know, because people be popping them damn balloons.
[00:10:36] And they have a whole dissertation on why they pop the damn balloon.
[00:10:41] And they be so damn nitpicky.
[00:10:43] A person could have this, that.
[00:10:45] And I'm like, y'all will turn somebody down over the dumbest shit.
[00:10:49] I'm like, and I'm like, man, sir.
[00:10:52] I'll be looking at them.
[00:10:53] Some of them like, I'm like, sir, ma'am.
[00:10:55] What the fuck are y'all doing out here?
[00:10:58] I don't know.
[00:10:59] I hate it.
[00:11:00] But I also think before it came, it happens too.
[00:11:05] Like, I feel like some men do nitpick.
[00:11:10] Like, men, what they say, men will go for what they want.
[00:11:14] Women will go for potential.
[00:11:16] So a man going to go for what he want.
[00:11:19] Like, some women be like, ah, he okay.
[00:11:22] I'm going to give him a chance.
[00:11:23] A man going to be like, if he don't see her as a girlfriend material,
[00:11:30] he's still going to have her as something else in a category.
[00:11:34] Or she the sleep with.
[00:11:35] Or she the friend.
[00:11:37] Or she this cool with.
[00:11:39] You know?
[00:11:40] But on that show, I hate it because one dude said that he didn't like her hair.
[00:11:47] Then another one said the feet.
[00:11:49] And it just, you're not.
[00:11:54] They be doing too much on that show.
[00:11:57] They really do.
[00:11:58] And also, they and the women on there, they will go hard about a man's presentation.
[00:12:03] They'll be like, oh, why isn't it like this?
[00:12:05] Oh, your presentation is not my style.
[00:12:08] Mind you, this man making good money.
[00:12:10] And he got it.
[00:12:11] He settled.
[00:12:12] And he's doing what he needs to do.
[00:12:14] I'm like, you know what?
[00:12:15] People, y'all need to.
[00:12:16] Y'all can't be out here judging a book by its cover.
[00:12:20] Well, I can say the same thing for the man.
[00:12:23] The man, one man, he had tore the woman down and popped a balloon because he didn't like how she was dressed.
[00:12:32] He said, you just not my style because I don't like your dress style.
[00:12:36] It don't go together.
[00:12:39] Yeah.
[00:12:40] So, I'm guessing people are just so damn shallow on both ends.
[00:12:45] It's crazy.
[00:12:47] Yeah.
[00:12:48] I don't need it.
[00:12:50] I don't need it.
[00:12:51] I don't need it, picky.
[00:12:56] I just go off the vibes.
[00:12:57] If I get a good vibe from somebody, I don't care what you're looking like because I know you may.
[00:13:03] Also, you won't know what somebody's going through that day because there might be a day they roll out of bed.
[00:13:07] They don't feel like they're looking pretty.
[00:13:09] But then you have some days where you look pretty, you know?
[00:13:12] Right.
[00:13:12] I feel you.
[00:13:13] We all have them days.
[00:13:15] Yeah.
[00:13:16] Yeah.
[00:13:16] We definitely all have them days where we need to just, you know, well, hey, it is what it is.
[00:13:23] And you can't be judgmental.
[00:13:25] Also, you need to be with somebody who they can love you while you look like that as well.
[00:13:29] I'm like.
[00:13:29] Absolutely.
[00:13:30] Absolutely.
[00:13:30] I need a hype man.
[00:13:36] Yeah.
[00:13:38] And Lord knows if I had that woman, I would definitely do that.
[00:13:41] If somebody was there with me, I would definitely be, hey, baby, you look good even though you might not look good to somebody else.
[00:13:47] You'll still look good to me.
[00:13:49] Right.
[00:13:50] For somebody.
[00:13:52] Yes.
[00:13:53] For somebody.
[00:13:54] But 2025 is going to be a big year.
[00:13:58] And also, I hope people stop talking about what they want to do and just go ahead and do it.
[00:14:04] Stop waiting around for the right time.
[00:14:06] If you wait around for the right time, the perfect time, that will never be a perfect time.
[00:14:11] Just go ahead and do something.
[00:14:12] Like if you got something on your mind you're wanting to do, go for it and go do it.
[00:14:17] That's true.
[00:14:19] And also, I need people to also be consistent with what they're doing because I bet you the gym is going to be crowded this week.
[00:14:27] I was so tired of folks talking about the gym.
[00:14:30] Now, me personally, I done been to the gym for the last three to four months.
[00:14:36] Off and on.
[00:14:37] Well, no, I might then go like two weeks mentally.
[00:14:42] But I made it every day.
[00:14:45] Every day.
[00:14:46] No, I feel you.
[00:14:48] When I'm not getting killed by these 12-hour shifts I got to work and stuff, I'm good for going to the gym and stuff.
[00:14:55] But the only thing I hate about going to the gym is I can go at an hour and think, okay, nobody really in there.
[00:15:02] Everybody and their mama in there.
[00:15:03] You motherfuckers.
[00:15:06] I don't want to go to the gym.
[00:15:09] I'm like, God damn.
[00:15:11] I'm looking at it.
[00:15:11] It's just so darn crowded.
[00:15:13] But, hey, I don't care if it's going to the gym or eating better or whatever you want to do.
[00:15:19] Just do it and be consistent with it because that's the only way you're going to get the results you want because so many people say, I want to do this.
[00:15:26] I want to do that.
[00:15:27] In the new year, I'm going to do this.
[00:15:28] I'm going to do that.
[00:15:28] But, hey, quit waiting around for the new year.
[00:15:30] Go ahead and fucking start doing it before the new year comes.
[00:15:34] Yep.
[00:15:36] And once again, ladies and gentlemen, this is Liquor Talk.
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[00:15:55] What are some things people need to leave behind in 2025, 2024, going forward into 2025?
[00:16:01] Let us know what you think.
[00:16:03] And also, I would be remiss right now if I didn't give a special shout out to my little sister who's celebrating a birthday today.
[00:16:11] She holding it down in Texas.
[00:16:12] She's a New Year's baby.
[00:16:14] Happy birthday, kiddo.
[00:16:15] Your brother loves you.
[00:16:17] Unlike the other two motherfuckers that came out my day to ball sack, you know.
[00:16:20] I love you.
[00:16:21] Not them other two, you know what I'm saying.
[00:16:23] So happy birthday to my sister.
[00:16:27] I hope you turn up.
[00:16:28] Do something big for your birthday.
[00:16:29] And 22 days from now, happy birthday to my mama.
[00:16:34] She's an Aquarius.
[00:16:35] So happy birthday to my mom.
[00:16:38] I'm sorry I didn't make it to the family event, but I appreciate you for being a big supporter.
[00:16:43] So shout out to you guys as well.
[00:16:45] I love the both of y'all.
[00:16:46] Y'all two very important women.
[00:16:47] So speaking of Christmas, did you get something good for Christmas this year?
[00:16:52] I got absolutely nothing.
[00:16:56] I really didn't care about Christmas too much.
[00:17:00] Death and heartaches.
[00:17:04] Damn, I'm sorry to hear that.
[00:17:07] But I feel you on that Christmas part, I really didn't get much either because I guess when you get to the adult age, you're like, you can just go buy it yourself later in the year.
[00:17:16] So if you want something, you can just go buy it for yourself.
[00:17:20] But speaking of, before I get to an embarrassing thing that happened to me, what is the worst Christmas present someone has ever got you?
[00:17:36] You don't know?
[00:17:38] I don't know.
[00:17:41] Because, I mean, Christmas really in my family is really not even like a holiday.
[00:17:46] So if I got something that's for myself, it's rarely anybody.
[00:17:52] And I don't think any time I got a bad gift.
[00:17:56] I mainly got my daddy getting me some high jewelry gold earrings with my name on it.
[00:18:03] I never got a bad gift when I actually got a gift.
[00:18:08] Well, you are blessed.
[00:18:11] So I went to a Christmas party this weekend and everybody did something called White Elephant.
[00:18:17] And for those of you who don't know what White Elephant is, White Elephant is basically you bring a gift under $20, right?
[00:18:23] You bring in a gift and then you get to draw a number because everybody attended a party.
[00:18:29] They all bring gifts all for like $20, right?
[00:18:34] And we all pick out a number, 1 through 50.
[00:18:38] I drew 39.
[00:18:40] And guess what the fuck I got?
[00:18:47] Some fucking sex toys.
[00:18:50] Some fucking balls.
[00:18:51] A goddamn sex toy.
[00:18:53] What the fuck am I supposed to do with this?
[00:18:56] Hold it still.
[00:18:58] Try to see.
[00:18:58] Is that Kegel balls?
[00:19:01] Orgasm.
[00:19:02] That's Kegel balls.
[00:19:03] That's not even for you.
[00:19:06] That's for the woman that goes in her coochie and helps stretch it out.
[00:19:17] Somebody gave that away.
[00:19:19] Oh, but it gets better.
[00:19:21] Guess what else?
[00:19:22] We got this.
[00:19:25] That's a penis ring.
[00:19:29] Helps stay erected for longer.
[00:19:36] Listen, I'm going to be kind of scared to use that.
[00:19:39] You know why?
[00:19:40] Because I don't need nothing that's going to hurt the penis because we need to keep the blood flow going to the penis.
[00:19:47] I don't know.
[00:19:50] I've talked to a sex coach before.
[00:19:54] That's not going to hurt you.
[00:19:56] It's not?
[00:19:57] That's not going to hurt you.
[00:19:59] Ha!
[00:20:01] And then lastly, they had the nerve to get this.
[00:20:06] Spermicide?
[00:20:08] Let me see.
[00:20:09] No.
[00:20:10] Hold on.
[00:20:10] Come on.
[00:20:11] Where is Kegel at?
[00:20:13] Arousal gel.
[00:20:16] The hell was supposed to do with that?
[00:20:20] I think it's an edible.
[00:20:22] Like, I think you put it on your tongue and it makes you looser.
[00:20:32] Like, more comfortable, I guess.
[00:20:37] It's similar to honey.
[00:20:40] The honey?
[00:20:40] You know what honey I'm talking about?
[00:20:42] Yeah, them gold packs.
[00:20:45] Yeah, no.
[00:20:46] I've heard about them gold packs and I heard people, they said they had a headache the next day.
[00:20:51] So, yeah.
[00:20:52] Yeah, because that's what they were doing.
[00:20:55] No, I will buy, listen, I will buy the natural honey packs you get off of Amazon or something like that.
[00:21:02] I'm not about to buy them gold packs from the damn sex store.
[00:21:05] Hell no.
[00:21:08] But, yeah.
[00:21:09] That is my, that was my white elephant experience.
[00:21:14] And I had to hear about it all night long.
[00:21:17] They're like, man, what you gonna do with the balls?
[00:21:19] Where the balls at?
[00:21:20] What you gonna do with the balls?
[00:21:22] And I'm trying to be discreet with it.
[00:21:25] And then, um, when the AMAC go, fit the gun, so, or orgasm balls.
[00:21:29] Motherfucker, I'm trying to be discreet with it.
[00:21:31] And your ass being loud with it.
[00:21:33] Come on, man.
[00:21:34] Yeah.
[00:21:35] They trying to be funny and telling you to get to work.
[00:21:40] I'm like, I don't know what the fuck y'all thinking.
[00:21:43] And I'm like, and then they say you just put some lube on the balls.
[00:21:46] I ain't putting this shit.
[00:21:47] I ain't using this shit for me.
[00:21:48] What the fuck wrong with y'all?
[00:21:49] That ain't for you.
[00:21:52] Yeah, tell them people that.
[00:21:54] I'm like, that's not for the man, though.
[00:21:57] They didn't read nothing.
[00:21:58] They just bought it.
[00:22:00] That's what it was.
[00:22:02] That's exactly what it is.
[00:22:03] And then the person that had bought it, she said, I can show you.
[00:22:06] I'm like, ma'am, I saw you come in here with your nigga.
[00:22:09] Why the fuck you asking me?
[00:22:10] Oh, I can tell him, trying to tell me how to use it.
[00:22:12] Ma'am.
[00:22:12] No.
[00:22:13] Nah.
[00:22:14] Go on back over there with your nigga.
[00:22:16] Nah.
[00:22:16] Nah.
[00:22:16] Nah.
[00:22:18] I'm dead.
[00:22:19] She trying to show you how to use it.
[00:22:22] All while the nigga was there, I'm like, ma'am, I saw you walk in with this dude.
[00:22:27] Nah, we not doing that.
[00:22:30] Huh?
[00:22:31] It says she trying to help.
[00:22:39] Damn.
[00:22:42] I don't know.
[00:22:44] I just don't take help from people that, you know, are already in the relationship, you
[00:22:50] know, because I, unlike some people, I respect relationships.
[00:22:54] I try to respect people's relationships.
[00:22:59] Mm-hmm.
[00:23:01] And going back to our last conversation on your podcast, and I'm just amazed about people
[00:23:07] that don't respect other people's relationships.
[00:23:09] Like, why the hell people go so hard to try to break up happy homes?
[00:23:16] I guess because they're jealous or intimidated or know they not going to have it at the end
[00:23:23] of the day.
[00:23:25] Half of the time, it's very rare that a man or a woman will leave the person they with.
[00:23:33] Half of the time, side bitch.
[00:23:35] Oh.
[00:23:36] They going to...
[00:23:37] You good.
[00:23:37] You good.
[00:23:37] You good.
[00:23:38] Okay.
[00:23:39] Half of the time, side bitch is just temporary.
[00:23:42] Anyway, it's something that he trying to fulfill that the other one ain't doing.
[00:23:47] Or he ain't telling her what he needs, so he just going to go get it for somebody else.
[00:23:54] But I always say, that door is already cracked.
[00:23:59] I'm just coming in to do some housekeeping.
[00:24:04] You just trying to do some housekeeping.
[00:24:06] Oh.
[00:24:07] But his thing about some of them housekeepers, though, they be trying to eventually get to
[00:24:11] that main spot.
[00:24:12] And I'm like, why would you want the main spot when you see how he doing, the chick already
[00:24:17] in the main spot?
[00:24:18] Why would you want that for yourself?
[00:24:20] They're delusional.
[00:24:23] They really are.
[00:24:25] Because I would never even think I'd be the main one.
[00:24:28] I don't want to be the main one.
[00:24:30] Because I already know what you're doing.
[00:24:31] You're going to do it to me.
[00:24:33] Exactly.
[00:24:34] A lot of people don't think like that.
[00:24:36] They just think, oh, just because it happened to her, it ain't going to happen to me.
[00:24:40] Man, bullshit.
[00:24:42] As soon as you stop doing what you need to do, you're going to be looking.
[00:24:45] Or either you're going to be looking or he's going to be looking.
[00:24:48] Somebody's going to start cheating, damn it.
[00:24:50] Well, they also be thinking they don't owe loyalty to that woman.
[00:24:55] So.
[00:24:57] They don't owe loyalty to that woman.
[00:25:00] Then why is you with somebody if you feel like you don't owe loyalty to them?
[00:25:04] I'm saying the female they cheating with don't owe it.
[00:25:08] But the man do.
[00:25:12] I don't know.
[00:25:13] It's weird.
[00:25:14] But believe it or not, back in the day, our grandparents used to get away with it all
[00:25:18] the time.
[00:25:18] You know why?
[00:25:19] They didn't have technology.
[00:25:22] Oh, yeah.
[00:25:22] That's why they hate it now.
[00:25:24] I don't know how to use that.
[00:25:25] I want to use that.
[00:25:26] I don't care about using it.
[00:25:27] That's all they're going to say.
[00:25:29] Hell, yeah.
[00:25:35] Ironically, I say that as my grandmother did text me on my birthday.
[00:25:38] Happy birthday.
[00:25:39] I'm like, damn, my grandmother got involved people to get texts from my grandmother is
[00:25:43] using her phone.
[00:25:45] I'm like, go ahead, granny.
[00:25:46] But I don't know.
[00:25:47] Back in those days, people knew how to be discreet with it.
[00:25:51] They knew how to shut the fuck up.
[00:25:52] And they knew what the role they were playing.
[00:25:56] Well, nowadays, social media, people video everything, screenshot everything.
[00:26:02] Everything is a show.
[00:26:04] So you cheating?
[00:26:05] Baby, social media going to know it before she done or he done.
[00:26:11] So I wish we didn't.
[00:26:13] I'm not going to say I wish we didn't have social media.
[00:26:15] But at the same time, people can get away with a lot of stuff if we didn't have it.
[00:26:24] Yeah.
[00:26:25] And also, people can still get away with it.
[00:26:28] But they don't know how to be discreet.
[00:26:31] And they don't know how to blend in.
[00:26:35] And also, people don't know how to shut the fuck up.
[00:26:37] Women and men, they don't know how to just shut the fuck up and play their role.
[00:26:41] You know your role before you signed up.
[00:26:43] If you don't like your role, get the fuck home.
[00:26:45] Find somebody else where you can be the center of attention.
[00:26:49] Well, I've never really heard a man say, like, out a woman.
[00:26:57] I don't think so.
[00:26:58] I feel like it's more women who tell, oh, he with me, da-da-da-da-da-da.
[00:27:04] I wouldn't do that if I was doing it.
[00:27:08] I done had a situation before.
[00:27:09] I'm not telling you nothing.
[00:27:11] Not nothing.
[00:27:12] I'm good.
[00:27:13] But I know for sure, I would think in my head,
[00:27:17] even when you're single,
[00:27:19] half of the time people will say they're single,
[00:27:21] but you never know.
[00:27:22] So that's why you're supposed to be careful going to people's houses.
[00:27:26] Because you might be in the car with him or her
[00:27:29] and somebody they messing with,
[00:27:31] or they woman or man, roll up.
[00:27:34] What you gonna do?
[00:27:37] That's true.
[00:27:38] And that's why they always tell us men,
[00:27:40] don't really sleep at women's houses,
[00:27:41] especially if she in the hood.
[00:27:43] Because you don't know what niggas still got soul ties to her.
[00:27:46] And also, you don't know what ex-boyfriend might still have excess.
[00:27:49] Because I don't know why people just don't cut everybody off.
[00:27:52] But some people, they'll still have excess, you know?
[00:27:57] I'm gonna be trying to go to nobody's house like that.
[00:28:00] Or they ain't coming to mind.
[00:28:02] You don't even know.
[00:28:06] I feel you.
[00:28:08] You really don't need to know all that business.
[00:28:12] Or if it's somebody I can trust, you know,
[00:28:15] unless you're gonna show me I can trust you,
[00:28:17] which that takes time though, you know?
[00:28:19] Because you can't be trusting everybody nowadays.
[00:28:22] Yeah, you just gotta be careful
[00:28:23] because people will start messing.
[00:28:25] You'll start messing with somebody.
[00:28:26] There's still no way to live.
[00:28:30] Or be careful to love your dog.
[00:28:33] Uh-huh.
[00:28:36] Oh, damn.
[00:28:37] You can't be having them damn stalkers now
[00:28:39] because them stalkers,
[00:28:40] they be ones that you want to try to get rid of.
[00:28:43] But it's like impossible
[00:28:44] because they know where you're at.
[00:28:48] I never...
[00:28:49] I don't think I...
[00:28:52] You don't think what?
[00:28:54] I was about to say,
[00:28:54] I don't think I had a stalker
[00:28:56] unless my ex.
[00:28:59] Mm.
[00:29:00] I ain't never had no damn stalkers.
[00:29:02] Most of my exes,
[00:29:03] once we were done,
[00:29:05] we were just done.
[00:29:06] We just went our own separate way.
[00:29:07] Never heard from them.
[00:29:08] Never seen them.
[00:29:09] Out of sight, out of mind.
[00:29:11] Even though we all live in the same area,
[00:29:13] I just never bump into them, you know?
[00:29:15] Nor did I try to go out of my way to find them
[00:29:17] because I'm like,
[00:29:18] what do I need from you?
[00:29:20] Not one thing.
[00:29:22] Not a damn thing.
[00:29:23] Ladies and gentlemen,
[00:29:24] once again,
[00:29:25] this is Liquor Talk.
[00:29:26] This podcast sounds a whole lot better
[00:29:28] when you got some liquor,
[00:29:29] whether it's some dark liquor,
[00:29:31] some brown liquor,
[00:29:32] some wine,
[00:29:32] some beer,
[00:29:33] whatever your libation is,
[00:29:35] pour it up for 2025.
[00:29:38] And the ladies and gentlemen,
[00:29:39] one thing I hope this stops...
[00:29:40] I hope motherfuckers stop catfishing people
[00:29:42] because I be seeing the videos,
[00:29:45] I be seeing the people be
[00:29:47] taking their masks off
[00:29:48] and they're a whole ugly ass motherfucker
[00:29:50] or people that don't look the same
[00:29:53] on their profile photos.
[00:29:54] Like,
[00:29:55] what the fuck?
[00:29:55] It's 2025.
[00:29:56] What the fuck are we still catfishing niggas?
[00:29:59] Well,
[00:29:59] I mean,
[00:30:00] we got a lot of filters out here.
[00:30:02] I use filters sometimes,
[00:30:04] but not the catfishes
[00:30:05] only to be like,
[00:30:06] I want a good lighting
[00:30:08] or I didn't feel like putting makeup on that day.
[00:30:10] So,
[00:30:11] I'm just going to use the filter.
[00:30:13] But,
[00:30:13] I don't know
[00:30:14] because
[00:30:15] they don't,
[00:30:16] they're not confident in themselves
[00:30:18] or
[00:30:21] that,
[00:30:21] that one.
[00:30:24] That,
[00:30:24] that don't make,
[00:30:25] it's like,
[00:30:26] if you're not confident in yourself,
[00:30:27] then that tells me one thing,
[00:30:28] that you,
[00:30:28] you really don't love yourself.
[00:30:30] That's what that tells me,
[00:30:31] is like,
[00:30:32] you don't love the man or woman
[00:30:33] in the mirror.
[00:30:34] Like,
[00:30:35] for you to have to catfish somebody
[00:30:37] because
[00:30:37] I've had dating situations
[00:30:39] where
[00:30:39] I'd have met somebody
[00:30:41] that they totally
[00:30:42] didn't look the same
[00:30:43] on,
[00:30:43] on social media.
[00:30:45] I see their Instagram
[00:30:45] and I see them in person.
[00:30:47] I'm like,
[00:30:47] what the fuck?
[00:30:49] Mm-hmm.
[00:30:50] And I'm just like,
[00:30:51] that's like an instant buzzkill.
[00:30:54] Like,
[00:30:55] the high I had,
[00:30:56] I'm just like,
[00:30:57] okay,
[00:30:58] I'm,
[00:30:58] I'm just ready to go now.
[00:30:59] No,
[00:30:59] no,
[00:31:00] we're not about to do this.
[00:31:02] See,
[00:31:02] this is why
[00:31:03] I had to see a photo of you,
[00:31:07] a video call,
[00:31:09] I need to be on the phone
[00:31:10] at least a couple times
[00:31:11] before we meet up
[00:31:13] because
[00:31:13] I done been catfish.
[00:31:17] Damn,
[00:31:17] you two,
[00:31:18] your pretty ass got catfish?
[00:31:20] Yeah,
[00:31:21] I did.
[00:31:23] Damn.
[00:31:24] By African.
[00:31:27] What,
[00:31:27] whoa,
[00:31:28] Lord,
[00:31:28] what did the African want?
[00:31:29] Did he want,
[00:31:30] did he,
[00:31:30] don't tell me he hit you with the
[00:31:32] send me some money
[00:31:33] so I can go back to my country
[00:31:34] or something like that.
[00:31:36] No,
[00:31:36] he didn't even get to that.
[00:31:38] Um,
[00:31:40] he didn't even get to that.
[00:31:41] I just know that
[00:31:42] he never wanted to get on the phone.
[00:31:45] He never wanted to get on FaceTime
[00:31:47] and he texted weird
[00:31:50] and it sounded like his English
[00:31:52] was broken up.
[00:31:54] And,
[00:31:55] his TikTok page,
[00:31:58] look,
[00:31:59] at first I didn't think it was fake
[00:32:01] or he's still in some of their photos.
[00:32:03] but then I looked
[00:32:04] and I realized
[00:32:06] when,
[00:32:06] when I asked him
[00:32:07] to send a voice message,
[00:32:10] he didn't send it.
[00:32:11] But when I
[00:32:12] called him on the phone,
[00:32:14] heard a voice
[00:32:14] and then matched
[00:32:15] with the voice
[00:32:16] on the video,
[00:32:17] that's two different people.
[00:32:21] So,
[00:32:21] do you think he was like
[00:32:22] using a filter
[00:32:23] or something?
[00:32:26] Um,
[00:32:27] on,
[00:32:27] on the video,
[00:32:28] it just sounded like
[00:32:29] somebody else's stuff
[00:32:30] he just put on the page.
[00:32:32] Hmm.
[00:32:35] Huh.
[00:32:35] That,
[00:32:36] that's definitely weird.
[00:32:37] Um,
[00:32:38] I remember years ago
[00:32:40] I got catfished
[00:32:41] and
[00:32:41] the chick,
[00:32:42] she had this model chick page
[00:32:44] on,
[00:32:45] on,
[00:32:46] I think she had some random model
[00:32:47] on her,
[00:32:48] um,
[00:32:48] profile,
[00:32:49] whatever,
[00:32:50] on Facebook profile.
[00:32:51] We exchanged numbers.
[00:32:52] We had good conversation
[00:32:52] with exchange numbers.
[00:32:54] I FaceTimed her
[00:32:55] and I look at her
[00:32:56] and I'm like,
[00:32:56] ma'am,
[00:32:57] you don't look like this.
[00:32:59] You are
[00:33:01] four or five shades darker
[00:33:02] than what you look like
[00:33:03] in person.
[00:33:05] I'm like,
[00:33:06] what the fuck?
[00:33:08] In my head,
[00:33:09] I'm saying that,
[00:33:09] but I didn't say that to her.
[00:33:12] But,
[00:33:14] needless to say,
[00:33:14] based off that conversation,
[00:33:15] I was like,
[00:33:17] yeah,
[00:33:17] no,
[00:33:17] we're,
[00:33:18] we're not about to do this.
[00:33:20] So,
[00:33:21] she just was darker
[00:33:22] than the photo.
[00:33:24] Yeah,
[00:33:25] it's just,
[00:33:26] it's like,
[00:33:26] I think all darks
[00:33:27] to me are beautiful,
[00:33:28] but it's just,
[00:33:29] I need you to look like
[00:33:30] yourself on there
[00:33:31] because I don't need you
[00:33:32] looking one way
[00:33:33] on,
[00:33:34] on,
[00:33:34] on,
[00:33:35] you know,
[00:33:35] social media
[00:33:36] and then,
[00:33:37] then when I see you
[00:33:38] in person,
[00:33:38] you're like,
[00:33:39] what the fuck?
[00:33:40] I don't even recognize you.
[00:33:42] Did her features
[00:33:44] look the same?
[00:33:46] No,
[00:33:47] the features really
[00:33:48] didn't look the same.
[00:33:49] It was like
[00:33:50] two totally different people.
[00:33:53] Oh,
[00:33:53] okay.
[00:33:55] What she thought
[00:33:56] when you,
[00:33:57] did she FaceTime you
[00:33:58] or you Face,
[00:34:00] I,
[00:34:01] I just asked him
[00:34:02] with FaceTime
[00:34:03] and she was like,
[00:34:03] sure.
[00:34:04] And then
[00:34:05] lo and behold,
[00:34:05] I'm like,
[00:34:06] what the fuck?
[00:34:11] Yeah,
[00:34:12] she was.
[00:34:13] And,
[00:34:14] and believe it or not,
[00:34:15] years ago,
[00:34:16] I got called
[00:34:17] a catfish by somebody.
[00:34:18] I'm like,
[00:34:19] now mind you,
[00:34:19] I didn't have a fresh cut
[00:34:20] at the time,
[00:34:22] but the person
[00:34:23] was like,
[00:34:24] now I kind of had
[00:34:25] a little bit of an afro
[00:34:26] and the person was like,
[00:34:27] oh,
[00:34:27] you ain't nothing
[00:34:28] but a damn catfish.
[00:34:29] I'm like,
[00:34:30] man,
[00:34:31] what the fuck?
[00:34:32] Cause,
[00:34:33] and I learned the hard way
[00:34:34] that,
[00:34:34] you know,
[00:34:35] sometimes I might need
[00:34:36] to leave a photo
[00:34:36] on my pages
[00:34:37] of me having like
[00:34:38] an afro or something
[00:34:39] like that
[00:34:39] so that people
[00:34:40] don't think I'm a catfish.
[00:34:42] Needless to say,
[00:34:43] like two weeks later,
[00:34:44] I ended up getting
[00:34:44] a haircut because
[00:34:45] I had an event
[00:34:46] to go to,
[00:34:46] so,
[00:34:47] but it was that chick's loss
[00:34:48] because,
[00:34:49] hey,
[00:34:49] I would have flew her
[00:34:50] out and everything.
[00:34:52] Well,
[00:34:53] people say I'm a catfish
[00:34:54] cause sometimes
[00:34:56] I have makeup on,
[00:34:57] sometimes I don't.
[00:34:58] I like,
[00:34:59] the makeup enhances me.
[00:35:00] I don't cake up makeup
[00:35:02] like other people.
[00:35:04] So,
[00:35:05] I think it just
[00:35:05] over-desperated.
[00:35:07] Man,
[00:35:08] whoever said you
[00:35:09] were catfish
[00:35:09] is a damn lie
[00:35:10] because I didn't seen you
[00:35:12] with and without makeup
[00:35:13] and you're beautiful
[00:35:14] either way.
[00:35:15] So,
[00:35:15] I don't know,
[00:35:15] somebody lied.
[00:35:17] They lying.
[00:35:19] Thank you.
[00:35:20] No,
[00:35:21] yes,
[00:35:21] they are definitely lying.
[00:35:22] But,
[00:35:23] why do people
[00:35:24] still catfish
[00:35:25] in the year 2020?
[00:35:27] When?
[00:35:27] 2025?
[00:35:28] Why?
[00:35:28] Why motherfuckers
[00:35:29] can't just be honest
[00:35:30] and be themselves?
[00:35:31] Like,
[00:35:32] somebody will embrace you.
[00:35:35] They want to live
[00:35:36] a double life.
[00:35:39] You know,
[00:35:40] that double life shit,
[00:35:41] it catches up to you
[00:35:42] faster.
[00:35:43] It catches up to you
[00:35:44] faster now
[00:35:44] because everybody
[00:35:45] got technology
[00:35:46] and everybody
[00:35:47] got AI trackers
[00:35:48] and shit.
[00:35:49] We can't,
[00:35:50] the people
[00:35:51] back in our
[00:35:51] grandparents' days,
[00:35:52] they could do that shit.
[00:35:54] We can't do that shit now.
[00:35:57] Unless you just
[00:35:58] go off the grid.
[00:35:59] You could find
[00:36:00] people anywhere.
[00:36:03] Yes,
[00:36:04] you really can
[00:36:05] find people
[00:36:06] anywhere.
[00:36:08] Like,
[00:36:08] you're not safe
[00:36:09] out here.
[00:36:12] Yes,
[00:36:13] you're really
[00:36:13] not safe
[00:36:14] out here.
[00:36:15] Even when you
[00:36:15] think you're safe,
[00:36:16] you're not safe
[00:36:16] because you got
[00:36:17] people selling
[00:36:18] you information
[00:36:19] and all this
[00:36:20] dumb shit.
[00:36:21] I'm like,
[00:36:22] you know.
[00:36:24] But,
[00:36:24] no more
[00:36:25] catfishing
[00:36:26] in 2025,
[00:36:27] y'all.
[00:36:27] Be yourselves
[00:36:29] because the
[00:36:30] right person
[00:36:30] is going to
[00:36:31] come along
[00:36:31] and embrace
[00:36:32] you for
[00:36:33] your insecurities
[00:36:34] because you
[00:36:35] never know
[00:36:36] the areas
[00:36:36] you feel like
[00:36:37] you might
[00:36:37] not like about
[00:36:38] yourself.
[00:36:39] The person,
[00:36:39] the right
[00:36:40] person,
[00:36:40] they might
[00:36:40] love those
[00:36:41] features about
[00:36:42] you.
[00:36:42] You just
[00:36:43] never know.
[00:36:48] But,
[00:36:48] ladies and
[00:36:49] gentlemen,
[00:36:49] once again,
[00:36:50] this is
[00:36:50] Liquor Talk.
[00:36:51] We done
[00:36:51] made it
[00:36:52] through to
[00:36:53] 2025.
[00:36:54] Now,
[00:36:55] I know I
[00:36:56] asked you
[00:36:56] this earlier,
[00:36:57] what is
[00:36:57] something going
[00:36:58] forward you're
[00:36:58] looking forward
[00:36:59] to with
[00:37:00] this year
[00:37:00] with your
[00:37:01] podcast and
[00:37:02] going forward?
[00:37:05] Being
[00:37:05] consistent
[00:37:06] more
[00:37:08] on it
[00:37:09] and
[00:37:10] seeing
[00:37:11] growth.
[00:37:12] That's about
[00:37:12] it.
[00:37:14] Yeah,
[00:37:15] I feel you
[00:37:16] there.
[00:37:16] I feel you
[00:37:16] on both
[00:37:17] those things.
[00:37:17] I definitely
[00:37:18] want to be
[00:37:19] consistent and
[00:37:19] maintain the
[00:37:20] consistency and
[00:37:21] also I want
[00:37:22] to see the
[00:37:22] growth.
[00:37:23] And also,
[00:37:24] I want to
[00:37:24] travel and
[00:37:25] do some
[00:37:25] more shows
[00:37:26] this year.
[00:37:27] I'm going
[00:37:28] to be coming
[00:37:28] to your
[00:37:29] home state
[00:37:29] in a few
[00:37:30] weeks because
[00:37:31] I did meet
[00:37:32] with somebody
[00:37:33] today.
[00:37:33] A poet
[00:37:34] wanted them
[00:37:34] to do the
[00:37:35] show.
[00:37:36] They're like,
[00:37:36] hey, I
[00:37:36] love it if
[00:37:37] you came
[00:37:37] in person.
[00:37:38] I'm like,
[00:37:38] let's do
[00:37:39] it.
[00:37:39] So,
[00:37:40] I might be
[00:37:40] coming to
[00:37:41] your home
[00:37:41] state,
[00:37:43] come to
[00:37:43] Savannah,
[00:37:44] that is.
[00:37:46] So,
[00:37:46] I might be
[00:37:47] pulling up
[00:37:47] there.
[00:37:48] Got to
[00:37:48] finalize
[00:37:49] things.
[00:37:49] And also,
[00:37:50] the season
[00:37:51] eight premiere
[00:37:51] might be
[00:37:52] coming from
[00:37:53] New York
[00:37:53] as well.
[00:37:54] I got to
[00:37:55] finalize that
[00:37:56] as well.
[00:37:56] So,
[00:37:57] because there's
[00:37:57] somebody I
[00:37:58] met at a
[00:37:59] podcast conference
[00:37:59] and we just
[00:38:01] started talking.
[00:38:01] They said,
[00:38:01] I would love
[00:38:02] to have you on
[00:38:02] my show.
[00:38:03] and they
[00:38:03] said,
[00:38:04] they would
[00:38:05] agree to,
[00:38:05] hey,
[00:38:06] we need
[00:38:06] to go
[00:38:06] ahead and
[00:38:07] do your
[00:38:08] show while
[00:38:08] we're here.
[00:38:09] So,
[00:38:10] I'm trying
[00:38:11] to do more
[00:38:11] live shows.
[00:38:12] Hell,
[00:38:12] if you want
[00:38:13] me to pull
[00:38:13] up to
[00:38:14] your part
[00:38:14] of Georgia,
[00:38:15] all you
[00:38:16] got to say
[00:38:16] is the word
[00:38:17] and we
[00:38:17] can plan
[00:38:17] something.
[00:38:33] collab,
[00:38:34] like meet
[00:38:35] up type
[00:38:35] of things.
[00:38:37] Yeah.
[00:38:37] And also,
[00:38:38] I do want
[00:38:38] to go to
[00:38:39] more podcast
[00:38:40] shows as
[00:38:40] well because
[00:38:41] I got a chance
[00:38:42] to speak at
[00:38:42] a podcast
[00:38:42] conference last
[00:38:44] year and I
[00:38:45] feel like I'm
[00:38:46] going to get
[00:38:46] involved with
[00:38:46] that one as
[00:38:47] well,
[00:38:47] but I'll
[00:38:47] definitely
[00:38:48] want to go
[00:38:48] to the other
[00:38:48] podcasting
[00:38:49] conferences as
[00:38:50] well.
[00:38:50] What happened?
[00:38:51] You look
[00:38:52] confused by
[00:38:53] something.
[00:38:53] Starting to
[00:38:54] do the
[00:38:54] fireworks.
[00:38:57] They
[00:38:58] started to
[00:38:58] do the
[00:38:58] fireworks and
[00:38:59] it's only
[00:39:00] 730?
[00:39:02] Absolutely.
[00:39:06] People just
[00:39:07] ready to
[00:39:07] celebrate the
[00:39:08] new year
[00:39:08] already,
[00:39:10] but never
[00:39:11] know,
[00:39:11] in some parts
[00:39:11] of the world
[00:39:12] it's already
[00:39:12] the new
[00:39:13] year though,
[00:39:13] so,
[00:39:15] but I
[00:39:16] mean,
[00:39:17] everybody out
[00:39:18] there,
[00:39:19] we celebrate
[00:39:19] the new year,
[00:39:20] please celebrate
[00:39:21] it safely.
[00:39:22] If you,
[00:39:22] I hope y'all
[00:39:22] celebrate the
[00:39:23] new year safely.
[00:39:24] And also
[00:39:25] turn up
[00:39:26] and also
[00:39:27] let's not
[00:39:27] don't wait
[00:39:28] till don't
[00:39:29] put shit
[00:39:29] off to
[00:39:29] 2026.
[00:39:30] Go ahead
[00:39:31] and do
[00:39:31] it now.
[00:39:32] We got
[00:39:32] 365 days,
[00:39:34] 364 more
[00:39:35] days to do
[00:39:35] some shit.
[00:39:36] Let's go
[00:39:36] ahead and
[00:39:37] continue to
[00:39:37] grind and
[00:39:38] do what we
[00:39:39] have to
[00:39:39] do for
[00:39:39] the new
[00:39:40] year,
[00:39:41] ladies and
[00:39:41] gentlemen,
[00:39:41] because these
[00:39:43] years just
[00:39:43] fly by.
[00:39:44] I don't know
[00:39:44] what it is.
[00:39:54] I'm
[00:39:55] worried.
[00:39:55] I was
[00:39:56] worried.
[00:39:56] No,
[00:39:57] this year
[00:39:57] been very
[00:39:58] slow.
[00:40:01] Yeah,
[00:40:02] sometimes
[00:40:02] it fluctuates.
[00:40:04] I mean,
[00:40:05] if I mean,
[00:40:06] to some
[00:40:06] it was slow,
[00:40:07] but to some
[00:40:08] it was fast
[00:40:09] because it
[00:40:10] just when
[00:40:11] shit,
[00:40:12] when all
[00:40:12] you're doing
[00:40:12] is going
[00:40:13] to work
[00:40:13] and stuff,
[00:40:14] it speeds
[00:40:14] up.
[00:40:15] But,
[00:40:15] you know,
[00:40:16] to some
[00:40:16] people,
[00:40:16] it was just
[00:40:17] slow.
[00:40:20] But,
[00:40:20] I definitely
[00:40:21] want more
[00:40:22] after the
[00:40:23] new year
[00:40:23] and I
[00:40:23] definitely
[00:40:23] want more
[00:40:24] for
[00:40:24] everybody
[00:40:24] out there.
[00:40:25] But,
[00:40:26] you got
[00:40:26] to want
[00:40:26] it for
[00:40:26] yourselves
[00:40:27] out there
[00:40:27] and stuff.
[00:40:29] And,
[00:40:29] ladies and
[00:40:29] gentlemen,
[00:40:29] for my
[00:40:29] people that
[00:40:30] are in
[00:40:30] relationships
[00:40:31] and stuff,
[00:40:32] go out
[00:40:33] there and
[00:40:33] try.
[00:40:34] Tell my
[00:40:34] single
[00:40:34] people out
[00:40:35] there,
[00:40:35] just go
[00:40:35] out there,
[00:40:36] shoot
[00:40:36] your shots,
[00:40:37] try to
[00:40:38] talk to
[00:40:38] people,
[00:40:38] go to
[00:40:39] networking
[00:40:39] events,
[00:40:40] go to
[00:40:40] mingle
[00:40:40] events.
[00:40:41] Shout out
[00:40:42] to Dr.
[00:40:43] Kim.
[00:40:43] I went
[00:40:44] to a
[00:40:45] dating event
[00:40:46] as well.
[00:40:47] Now,
[00:40:47] obviously,
[00:40:48] I knew
[00:40:48] my ass
[00:40:48] wouldn't
[00:40:49] get chosen
[00:40:49] because I
[00:40:50] saw who
[00:40:50] it was
[00:40:51] and I'm
[00:40:51] like,
[00:40:52] man,
[00:40:52] come on
[00:40:52] now,
[00:40:53] I already
[00:40:53] know.
[00:40:53] This shit
[00:40:54] got kids
[00:40:57] and I
[00:40:57] know from
[00:40:58] what I've
[00:40:59] learned is
[00:40:59] most people
[00:41:00] with kids,
[00:41:02] they want
[00:41:02] somebody with
[00:41:03] kids,
[00:41:03] they don't
[00:41:03] want nobody
[00:41:03] without kids,
[00:41:04] I don't
[00:41:04] know.
[00:41:06] That's true.
[00:41:08] As they
[00:41:08] should.
[00:41:10] Yeah,
[00:41:10] as they
[00:41:11] should because
[00:41:12] I'm spontaneous
[00:41:13] over here
[00:41:14] because I
[00:41:15] ain't got
[00:41:15] no kids,
[00:41:15] I'm spontaneous.
[00:41:16] I might
[00:41:16] call you
[00:41:17] like,
[00:41:17] hey,
[00:41:17] what you
[00:41:18] doing?
[00:41:18] Let's
[00:41:18] let's
[00:41:18] roll.
[00:41:19] Let's
[00:41:19] ride.
[00:41:19] I don't
[00:41:20] need to
[00:41:20] be hearing,
[00:41:21] oh,
[00:41:21] I can't
[00:41:21] find a
[00:41:22] babysitter
[00:41:22] for my
[00:41:23] son or
[00:41:23] I can't
[00:41:25] find a
[00:41:25] babysitter
[00:41:25] for my
[00:41:25] daughter.
[00:41:28] It'd be
[00:41:29] like that.
[00:41:30] If you're
[00:41:31] single
[00:41:31] with no
[00:41:32] kids,
[00:41:33] then date
[00:41:33] somebody
[00:41:34] who's
[00:41:34] single
[00:41:34] with no
[00:41:35] kids.
[00:41:38] child
[00:41:38] or if
[00:41:39] you're
[00:41:39] single
[00:41:39] or
[00:41:40] have to
[00:41:40] deal
[00:41:40] with
[00:41:40] kids,
[00:41:41] please
[00:41:42] let
[00:41:42] the
[00:41:42] kid
[00:41:42] be
[00:41:43] a
[00:41:43] teenager
[00:41:43] or
[00:41:44] an
[00:41:44] adult
[00:41:44] child.
[00:41:45] Somebody
[00:41:45] that can
[00:41:46] do
[00:41:46] for
[00:41:46] themselves
[00:41:47] that they
[00:41:48] don't need
[00:41:48] adult
[00:41:48] supervision
[00:41:49] 24-7.
[00:41:51] don't
[00:41:52] please
[00:41:52] don't
[00:41:53] get involved
[00:41:53] with
[00:41:53] somebody
[00:41:53] who has
[00:41:54] small
[00:41:55] kids
[00:41:55] as well
[00:41:56] because
[00:41:56] most
[00:41:57] times
[00:41:57] the
[00:41:58] baby
[00:41:58] father
[00:41:58] or
[00:41:59] the
[00:41:59] baby
[00:41:59] mama
[00:41:59] might
[00:42:00] still
[00:42:00] be
[00:42:00] in
[00:42:00] the
[00:42:00] picture.
[00:42:01] Exactly.
[00:42:03] That's
[00:42:03] true.
[00:42:04] Not
[00:42:04] most
[00:42:04] times.
[00:42:05] All
[00:42:05] the
[00:42:05] time.
[00:42:07] Most
[00:42:07] times.
[00:42:09] Yes,
[00:42:10] definitely.
[00:42:11] Most
[00:42:11] times
[00:42:12] that's
[00:42:12] true.
[00:42:13] Go out
[00:42:14] there and
[00:42:14] be
[00:42:15] intentional
[00:42:15] with
[00:42:16] who you
[00:42:16] date
[00:42:16] and
[00:42:16] stuff.
[00:42:17] Know
[00:42:18] what you
[00:42:18] want
[00:42:18] when
[00:42:18] you're
[00:42:19] dating.
[00:42:19] If
[00:42:19] you
[00:42:19] know
[00:42:19] all
[00:42:20] you
[00:42:20] be
[00:42:20] as
[00:42:20] friends
[00:42:20] if
[00:42:21] you
[00:42:21] just
[00:42:21] see
[00:42:21] the
[00:42:21] person
[00:42:21] as
[00:42:22] a
[00:42:22] friend
[00:42:22] don't
[00:42:23] waste
[00:42:23] your
[00:42:23] time
[00:42:23] with
[00:42:23] them
[00:42:23] and
[00:42:24] you
[00:42:24] see
[00:42:24] that
[00:42:24] they
[00:42:25] may
[00:42:25] want
[00:42:25] more
[00:42:25] from
[00:42:26] you
[00:42:26] just
[00:42:27] waste
[00:42:27] your
[00:42:27] time
[00:42:28] don't
[00:42:28] waste
[00:42:28] time
[00:42:28] because
[00:42:29] I
[00:42:29] respect
[00:42:29] the
[00:42:49] ones
[00:42:52] and
[00:42:53] I
[00:42:53] don't
[00:42:53] know
[00:42:55] to
[00:42:56] to
[00:42:56] need
[00:42:56] to
[00:42:57] do
[00:42:58] to
[00:42:59] get
[00:42:59] done
[00:42:59] then
[00:43:00] just
[00:43:01] leave
[00:43:01] don't
[00:43:02] date
[00:43:02] what
[00:43:04] you
[00:43:05] mean
[00:43:05] I
[00:43:17] mean
[00:43:18] there's
[00:43:18] to be like a give and take you know you can't be asking for all this shit but yet you have nothing
[00:43:23] to offer oh yeah i mean they can go to saying some men i ask for videos and photos and
[00:43:36] sex but if a woman asks them to do something for them they're not available
[00:43:42] or you hey you might ask them to buy you something to eat
[00:43:49] they be like i do that for a girlfriend nah look i ain't gonna lie to you if we're somebody and we
[00:43:59] smashing and we and that's involved and yeah i'll look out you know i'm saying if i have it i'm gonna
[00:44:04] look out you know because and also quit ignoring people with good hearts because some of my people
[00:44:09] good hearts out there hang on hang on through it keep pushing keep pushing tomorrow on people good
[00:44:15] hearts we're gonna stop getting screwed over by these dumb ass motherfuckers out here
[00:44:22] i'm on a i'm i'm good dating right now no you and me both to be honest you know i just honestly i went
[00:44:31] to that um dating event um the dating games for shits and giggles it was like you know what the
[00:44:37] shit might as well see who out there might as well see if i can network i just wish that they would
[00:44:42] just did some speed dating and stuff because the way it was advertised you you had a profile on all
[00:44:48] these damn singles i'm like why the hell y'all just you know have something where we all can meet
[00:44:55] instead of having only two people end up with dates out of everybody but that's here nor there because
[00:45:03] i don't know speed dating do sound fine though i wouldn't mind i wouldn't mind going to a speed
[00:45:09] dating event um because i haven't did one in years and you know what and it would just be a good
[00:45:17] experience so and i guess and i feel you because i'm good on dating too because i'm just tired of the
[00:45:24] bullshit you know i'm tired of people telling me one thing but their actions are totally different so
[00:45:31] and that's when i realized my love language changed i'm like damn
[00:45:36] people tell me that love languages can change and i didn't believe them and i'm like and i realized my
[00:45:43] love language actually changed because it went from words of affirmation to acts of service because i'm
[00:45:48] like you tell me all these things but i need to see it i need to see that you're a bat backing your talk
[00:45:55] up yeah i agree um i never heard of it changing but i know mine is i care more about quality time
[00:46:08] and acts of service not gifting i'm not saying i don't know i really don't care about no gifts
[00:46:16] i just care about you got my back that's it yeah i feel you on that because i i'm i'm good on gifts
[00:46:24] because i can do it myself but i really just need somebody that really has your back and that's
[00:46:30] really going to help you and also also and there's gonna be an accountability partner as well because
[00:46:36] sometimes you might need to be held accountable because you're not on your a-game and you're okay
[00:46:40] with being held accountable because this person wants the best for you because that's that's hard
[00:46:47] to find nowadays absolutely because that person probably don't have goals they self for you to
[00:46:53] keep them accountable and a lot of times you can see that person something better in that person that
[00:46:59] they don't see in they self so they're not gonna push they self even though you try to push them
[00:47:04] and i'm over that i'm over that i ain't doing it i need an accountable person somebody who see me
[00:47:13] uh falling and going push me to get back up not watching you fall down yeah i feel that i feel that as
[00:47:24] well because you need somebody that's really gonna be in there or also somebody that may see you fall
[00:47:30] down but they read they got a handout like hey get back get your ass up we in this thing together you know
[00:47:38] but because you need somebody that because shit gonna happen not everything's gonna go your way and
[00:47:42] also you need so and i realize another thing i need i need somebody that's gonna rock with you
[00:47:47] even when shit gets tough like when adversity happens that's what it's like you got their back
[00:47:58] type of vibe yeah yeah that's right i got i got a party too by the way
[00:48:06] but yeah
[00:48:17] oh okay uh but yeah i definitely agree with that and i hope we find those things all in 2025
[00:48:25] ladies and gentlemen we have also in 2025 where there's gonna be more look talk episodes
[00:48:30] these are the final rounds of look talk by the way the season finale is coming in about two weeks
[00:48:34] and i'm gonna take a break from podcasting so but yeah but okay what what do you what
[00:48:40] you have hoping that you're gonna do this with the podcast i know you say you want to be consistent
[00:48:44] what shows you got planned coming up i wrote down some ideas about it i wrote it now now i'm a star
[00:48:57] but i don't know where i'm a star yet i just know i know that i'm going to start doing
[00:49:03] i'm trying to do more like live type of podcasts like on the spot um interviews like going to events and
[00:49:15] interview them on the spot or something like that people like to pull up to location and sit down and talk
[00:49:23] instead of virtually yeah i feel that too and that's something i want to do as well i want to do more
[00:49:31] virtual episodes so talk about people in florida if you're listening to this whether you're in
[00:49:35] orlando or tampa holla at me because i need to be going ahead i want to do some more things in person
[00:49:40] and also if you want me to come to your state just say the word okay you say the word too and i got
[00:49:48] you i'll come to your part of georgia even though i ain't never been to columbus but i will i'll come
[00:49:52] to your part of georgia um and also shout out to my mom too my mom's in georgia well she in
[00:49:59] augustus she on way on the other side of the state so um i will definitely pull up to georgia
[00:50:05] um like i said i might have to fly into atlanta though you know so i'll but if y'all want me to
[00:50:11] pull up y'all let me know we can definitely pull up and um but kay i want to thank you for joining me
[00:50:17] on the first episode of 2025 i want to thank you for having me on your podcast as well because you
[00:50:24] are the one rare person out there that um that you know they'll also call me hey um come jump on
[00:50:30] the podcast as well because you got a lot of people in the podcast industry that they're good to get on
[00:50:34] the podcast but they don't want to reciprocate but you're one of what real ones to do and i really do
[00:50:39] appreciate that so once again i want to thank you for joining me on the podcast you're welcome thank
[00:50:45] you for having me hey how can people get in touch with you y'all can get me at ig at k's vibes
[00:50:55] underscore then you can get me on facebook at k's vibes not tiktok because i guess tiktok would be gone
[00:51:04] but um you can get me on lemon eight at k a a y p e e one two three yeah i'm on lemonade as well by
[00:51:15] the way i'm still trying to figure out how to work this shit it looks like a damn pinterest is that's
[00:51:20] what it looked like me so i'm trying to figure out how to work it as well but it is yes yes it is so
[00:51:27] but here's to the new year ladies and gentlemen we're gonna keep pouring up i want to thank you all for
[00:51:32] listening to this episode of liquor talk whether you assist on our podcast spotify iheart radio
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[00:51:49] until the next episode keep pouring it up keep turning in and we'll keep pushing out more episodes
[00:51:56] this has been liquor talk your boys now sign out this thing peace hey i appreciate that um
[00:52:06] don't don't feel bad though um yeah because i definitely i gotta go to a party myself so
[00:52:12] yeah i think they will call me
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