Ep 307: Tampa Strong feat Hoeology Podcast

[00:00:01] Liquor Talk, a brand new episode starts right now. Welcome one, welcome everybody to another edition of Grown Folks Conversation with some Liquor, ladies and gentlemen. I am Victor, the host of Liquor Talk. Shout out to everybody that I met at Afros and Audios this past weekend. It's a wonderful podcast conference. Shout out to everybody. A lot of you, you will be featured on the podcast, just highlight me and we'll make it happen.

[00:00:28] But as for today, we got a guest in the house. And guess what? She is in my city. This is the first time that this has happened in some long time that I had somebody in the podcast community in my city. And guess what? We both are in Tampa and we both had to recover from this damn hurricane. And she and yes, we're going to talk about some spicy things. So, um, so you might want to get your liquor ready, pour it up and join us as welcome.

[00:00:58] Welcome Destiny from the Hoeology Podcast. Welcome to Liquor Talk, Destiny. How are you doing today?

[00:01:03] I'm doing so well. Thank you for having me.

[00:01:07] Thank you for coming on. Thank you for blessing the Liquor Talk with your presence. Um, let's get into it. Why don't you tell people about the Hoeology Podcast?

[00:01:16] So Hoeology is a podcast that's kind of dedicated to explaining different kind of sexual topics, um, at a more like conversational friendship level versus, you know,

[00:01:28] hearing some story and taking your knowledge from there. Um, it's kind of meant to feel like you're talking to your best friend and like you can just ask any questions you want. Um, we've had a lot of guests on some of my stories or like my personal stories that I talk about.

[00:01:43] Um, so it's kind of like bridging the gap between curiosity and exploration.

[00:01:50] That's real. Yeah. We need to, we need more podcasts like that. And also ones that are simple to listen to because some people tell the wildest stories on their platforms and they're like, oh my God.

[00:02:00] Yes. Yes. We're going to get to the spicy shit. Y'all just, just stay with stick with me now, but we're getting to know destiny right now. So tell me, and I know you, you're based in Tampa and you're telling me you're from St. Louis. So talk to me about coming from St. Louis to Tampa. How was that transition for you?

[00:02:17] So, okay. So I kind of, kind of grew up in Orlando. Um, I would live there through middle school, but like I'm born and raised in St. Louis, but also raised in Orlando. Um, so after college, I moved back down to Orlando and then I was like, I don't have kids. I don't want kids. And Orlando is very like family focused. So I was like, this is like boring to me. Like it's dead here. Like I want to go somewhere where like all the young hot people are. So I moved to Tampa and, uh, I'm trying to move.

[00:02:46] Yeah. And I love Tampa like so much. It's, it's an amazing city to live in.

[00:02:53] Yes. Tampa is an amazing city to, um, to people not from Tampa. Like I've been here for some years. I'm originally from St. Petersburg, which is across the, across the bridge. And unfortunately we got swept up in a hurricane, but Tampa is that hip city. And I've had people from Tampa tell me that, um, I'd rather be in Orlando. That's, that's crazy. That's crazy. That's crazy.

[00:03:16] Yeah. Because people like Orlando is bigger and there are more opportunities in Orlando, but I mean, it is what it is, but at least you not, it's nice. You ask someone where it's going to be warm for the holidays and that's somewhere. It's not the holidays.

[00:03:31] Right. Yeah. I had to get away from that. Um, I don't, I don't do snow anymore. I can't do it.

[00:03:37] I don't know if anybody can do snow. So, so what was, what made you decide to start a podcast and what made you decide to start whole algae podcast?

[00:03:46] Um, so I've always been the person in my friend group that is either like, I always, I'm talking about sex, sexuality, sexual exploration, like exploring, like to me, when people try to keep things like hush hush, that's what leads to like inappropriate, like sexual experiences or like you, people hide their assault or people are afraid to talk about, you know, what they want to explore.

[00:04:10] People feel ashamed. Like somebody is going to think something bad about them. Um, so I've always been that person in my friend group. That's like, well, fuck it. Let's talk about it. Like, let's like, oh, you don't know how to, you know, give head. Okay, great. Like, let's find a resource to do better at giving head. Like, so it's like, I have always been that person. Um, and then in like 2016 or 17, my ex best friend and I at the time, we were like, we should just start a podcast and just talk about it. Um, and so we did.

[00:04:38] And then she ended up getting married and her husband was like, absolutely not. So, so then it was just kind of me. Um, and yeah, it's just been my baby and it's grown into something that I had no idea would ever become.

[00:04:55] Yeah. You know, that's, that's how it is with a podcast. You started, um, people drop off and then it grows into something that you never thought it'd become. Like for me, like I never thought I'd be at a podcast conference, um, sing on a panel. Like that was wonderful.

[00:05:11] Well, just for me starting the conversations and having conversations with black people and all times people never knew that people are always listening. So you always got to keep it going.

[00:05:23] And I commend you on keeping it going because sometimes if somebody leaves the group and most times I've seen people split up and then a podcast just stops.

[00:05:31] And I'm like, why did y'all, why did you start this thing to begin with? You got to understand people come and people go, but if you have a vision, you got to keep pressing forward.

[00:05:41] Right. Right. And I think that was like, that's what keeps me going even now, because, you know, as a podcaster, like you get into these funks of like, damn, real life, real world.

[00:05:51] Like, you know, if your podcast is not monetized, like, damn, you're like, this is my hobby more so than like a job.

[00:05:55] And you just get into this kind of a lull and you're like, do I want to keep doing this? Like, do I have the motivation?

[00:06:01] And like, it can be difficult, but like you said, like when you really keep trying, you, you see the results.

[00:06:09] For real. And it's like, and also with the monetization part, you just got to stay patient.

[00:06:14] And also you got to connect with the right people because I'm trying, I'm, I feel you.

[00:06:18] I'm trying to get on that monetization vibe as well.

[00:06:20] So if any of you sponsors out there listening to go ahead and support Looker Talks, I can tell y'all what's in my cup because I'm not about to tell y'all that because I'm not giving y'all asses no free promotion.

[00:06:30] By the way, it's tequila today, but I'm not telling y'all what kind of tequila though.

[00:06:35] I'm dead. I do have a drink here, but you're right. I should have put it in like a clear cup instead.

[00:06:41] What you sipping on?

[00:06:43] Twisted tea. I love it so much.

[00:06:47] Yes. Shout out to twisted tea.

[00:06:49] So what would you say is your favorite kind of liquor? Do you like brown liquor? Do you like white liquor? Or are you a wine girl?

[00:06:55] I'm a wine girl, but I also like vodka, like lemon drops, strawberry lemon drop me, please.

[00:06:59] Like any kind of martini really is my thing because you only need like three and then you're good for the night.

[00:07:07] Yeah, that's definitely true. You only need a handful of those and you're definitely good for the night.

[00:07:13] I've kind of been off vodka for a while. I might get back on it just because I might decide to get a bottle of vodka for next month.

[00:07:20] I don't know because ever since Ciroc fell off, ever since Diddy stopped promoting Ciroc.

[00:07:25] Oh, what?

[00:07:28] We were supporting a black man, but now we find out all this shit about him.

[00:07:32] So, but.

[00:07:33] Yeah. I'm a Tito's girl.

[00:07:37] You know what's funny? I have an uncle that's at Tito's as well.

[00:07:41] I go to his house. He have a big ass bottle of Tito's.

[00:07:43] Or if we got a family hangout, he got the big ass bottle of Tito's on deck.

[00:07:48] I'm like, yes, on.

[00:07:49] He's a Tito's on deck.

[00:07:52] Yes, I love Tito's.

[00:07:54] Shout out to Tito's.

[00:07:56] Yes.

[00:07:57] Shout out to Tito's.

[00:07:59] I checked out your last episode.

[00:08:01] That was an amazing conversation.

[00:08:03] And shout out to that couple because it takes patience to figure out somebody's sexual libations and what turns them on into kinks and stuff.

[00:08:13] So what do you call that conversation?

[00:08:14] Yes, the shenanigans will start early.

[00:08:16] Fuck it.

[00:08:17] Let's get into it.

[00:08:19] The conversation was like crazy to me because I'm just like, this is another reason like why my podcast is so important is because think about all the people that like dictate their lives around religion, for example.

[00:08:31] And then imagine being like in a specific type of religion where what you wear is dictated.

[00:08:36] What you talk about is dictated.

[00:08:38] Your sexuality between you and your husband is dictated by religion.

[00:08:42] Like that's weaponization to me.

[00:08:44] Like, damn.

[00:08:45] That definitely is.

[00:08:47] Oh, like I want to please my wife better.

[00:08:48] No, you can't talk about that.

[00:08:50] Like what?

[00:08:52] No, man.

[00:08:53] So like I think that entire conversation, how they were just talking about literally like escaping almost like a cult, like to then discover like, you know, the wife said like, oh, I discovered I was bisexual, which a lot of women will get married to a man and then discover after they're married that they're bisexual.

[00:09:09] Which is like crazy because like how do you even navigate that?

[00:09:14] You know, is he going to get jealous?

[00:09:16] Is he going to feel offended?

[00:09:17] Like, so for that, for them to have the conversation was like crazy.

[00:09:23] Like she, I had, I had edited it out, but at one point she started like crying just talking about how strong her husband was to like help her make it through that part of like their life because she was just like, I really believed everything that like our pastor or whatever was telling us.

[00:09:41] And I was just like, damn, it's crazy.

[00:09:44] Yeah, it is crazy.

[00:09:46] And, and which is why I confirm my, I'm, I'm a free spirit and I definitely, I pray I meditate, but I'm one of those people.

[00:09:54] You got to live life for you.

[00:09:56] Fuck with the church thing, because at the end of the day, the church isn't paying your bills.

[00:10:00] The church isn't married to somebody because outside the church, they all got their own lives.

[00:10:05] And I just need people to realize that you got to have this life outside of the church.

[00:10:09] That I understand being religious, but man, fuck all that, man.

[00:10:13] It's like live your goddamn life.

[00:10:15] Life is too damn short to be trying to please people in a goddamn church.

[00:10:20] That's just how I feel about it.

[00:10:21] I strongly agree.

[00:10:22] I think that like people that use, for example, like the Bible, like I do believe in God.

[00:10:28] I am not a religious person.

[00:10:29] I'm a spiritual person.

[00:10:31] But I think people that use like the Bible, for example, to say what is right and what is wrong, like to dictate their morals essentially.

[00:10:37] But think about how many awful, awful scenes are in the Bible of like a father and daughters like having sex.

[00:10:46] Like that is not okay.

[00:10:47] But like you use that same book to dictate your life and tell other people what's wrong and what's right.

[00:10:52] Like, and I think that it goes so deep, especially with sexuality, because people will talk about, oh, the Bible.

[00:10:58] Oh, God.

[00:10:58] Oh, this.

[00:10:59] Oh, that.

[00:10:59] And it's like they cherry pick what they want out of, you know, whatever religious book they're following their lives with.

[00:11:06] But it doesn't need to be all that.

[00:11:09] Like, it doesn't at all.

[00:11:11] It really don't need to be all that because people at church are hypocritical.

[00:11:15] Because guess what?

[00:11:15] People in all the ministries guarantee you all their asses are fucking something.

[00:11:19] They all doing some fucking that they shouldn't be doing.

[00:11:22] They're cheating on their spouses, cheating on somebody because there's pastors that were cheating on their wives with women in the congregation.

[00:11:30] So make it make sense.

[00:11:32] It goes so deep.

[00:11:33] It goes so deep.

[00:11:34] Even like the Catholic church and like that report that came out that like Catholic churches are some of like the most abusive as far as like sexually abusive to children.

[00:11:42] Like religion right there.

[00:11:45] Right there.

[00:11:46] But, yeah, overall, that whole conversation was really eye opening, too.

[00:11:51] But, yeah, it was good.

[00:11:53] Yeah, that conversation is definitely eye opening.

[00:11:55] Go check out that conversation on her podcast if you haven't done so already.

[00:12:00] Ladies and gentlemen, once again, this is Liquor Talk.

[00:12:02] The more you drink, the better we sound.

[00:12:04] We are in a city that had to recover from a hurricane.

[00:12:08] Tampa, we are strong.

[00:12:10] Shout out to everybody in Tampa that we made it through the hurricane.

[00:12:15] And also, the one thing I will say is I will not take having power and going to get gas for granted ever again.

[00:12:21] Never again, I will not take that for granted ever again.

[00:12:26] No.

[00:12:27] Having the power or not having power for four days is a very humbling experience.

[00:12:31] Like, very humbling.

[00:12:34] Yes, it is very humbling not having power for like four days.

[00:12:39] Another thing I learned about a storm.

[00:12:40] If one part of your region gets hit, they all get wiped out.

[00:12:45] Because the main storm cell, the main Sturge area hit Bradenton.

[00:12:50] But everywhere up from Bradenton all the way up to Zephyr Hills, power got knocked out.

[00:12:55] Everything closing.

[00:12:57] Everything fucked up.

[00:12:58] People were like shooting each other for gas and stuff.

[00:13:02] Like.

[00:13:02] Yes.

[00:13:04] Oh, my goodness.

[00:13:05] Did you see that fight over by the casino?

[00:13:07] You know, they were fighting over the damn gas.

[00:13:09] They were busting windows down.

[00:13:11] Yeah.

[00:13:12] I'm like, are you serious?

[00:13:13] I saw that.

[00:13:15] I'm just like, where is y'all decorum?

[00:13:17] Please.

[00:13:18] And then it's like, y'all do this every year.

[00:13:21] Every year.

[00:13:22] They act like this is the first hurricane anybody's ever experienced.

[00:13:26] It's crazy.

[00:13:27] They really do act like that.

[00:13:30] And the real ones, no, it's like, it's only going to be for a few days.

[00:13:33] And also, and if it's that bad, take your ass somewhere else and go.

[00:13:38] Right.

[00:13:38] Which I think I'm going to have to do that next year.

[00:13:40] Because if you notice, Jacksonville, Florida never gets hit.

[00:13:44] Shout out to Duval.

[00:13:45] How you motherfuckers don't ever get hit by a damn storm?

[00:13:49] It's probably because maybe that's why the Jaguars suck.

[00:13:51] That's from what I heard.

[00:13:53] They all heard that they were willing to sacrifice the Jaguars to make sure Jacksonville don't ever get hit by a storm.

[00:13:59] But I don't know.

[00:14:01] I think it's because of the water.

[00:14:03] People of Jacksonville, y'all holler at me about that.

[00:14:05] Go ahead.

[00:14:05] They have sharks in Jacksonville, like really bad.

[00:14:08] I think it's because the water is so cold on that side.

[00:14:10] You know?

[00:14:12] Yeah, that's definitely true.

[00:14:13] But y'all are some lucky ass motherfuckers.

[00:14:16] Because I know people that were in Orlando, they got hit.

[00:14:20] They got a little bit as well.

[00:14:21] But I've seen Orlando get hit.

[00:14:22] And I've seen Daytona Beach get hit as well.

[00:14:24] So, and it's like.

[00:14:27] And also my prayers go up for North Florida as well.

[00:14:31] Because Helene did some damage up there as well.

[00:14:33] Yeah.

[00:14:34] It was literally back to back.

[00:14:36] Like.

[00:14:37] Yes, it was.

[00:14:40] Yes, this was giving me 2004 vibes when Florida got hit with three storms back to back to back.

[00:14:46] And school was out for a whole entire month.

[00:14:49] Yeah.

[00:14:49] Some of the flooding was crazy too.

[00:14:51] Like, I've never seen it flood how it did.

[00:14:54] It was scary.

[00:14:56] Yes, that was definitely scary.

[00:14:58] There are some streets in Tampa that flooded.

[00:15:00] I was like, holy shit.

[00:15:03] I'm thinking it's not going to be that bad.

[00:15:05] But then you go down Fowler.

[00:15:07] Fowler's flooded.

[00:15:08] I'm like, what the?

[00:15:09] Yeah.

[00:15:09] Not Fowler.

[00:15:10] God damn.

[00:15:10] I know.

[00:15:11] That thing in Fowler is just flooding.

[00:15:14] Huh?

[00:15:15] I was saying.

[00:15:15] It's like Fowler's so busy as a street.

[00:15:18] It's like to imagine that flooded how it was was crazy.

[00:15:23] Yes.

[00:15:24] It was just crazy seeing the flooding.

[00:15:27] I knew down by Bayshore and all that area was just going to get wiped out because that area is definitely below sea level.

[00:15:34] But I'm seeing people have to get on boats and stuff and to get rescued.

[00:15:39] And then there are some people who are stubborn and not leaving.

[00:15:42] I'm like, if you don't take your ass home.

[00:15:45] I'm always like the people that buy those mansions on Bayshore.

[00:15:48] It floods every time.

[00:15:49] Sometimes it floods if it rains too hard down there.

[00:15:51] I'm just like, why do you have a house right there?

[00:15:54] Why?

[00:15:55] Yes.

[00:15:56] I know Bayshore is the prettiest street in Tampa.

[00:15:59] But it has a, it has a, and that's the biggest downside.

[00:16:02] It may even be the most beautiful street in Tampa.

[00:16:04] But that's the biggest downside.

[00:16:05] That it floods.

[00:16:06] Because if it rains hard enough, it will flood the fuck out that damn street.

[00:16:10] You can't get nowhere.

[00:16:12] Yeah.

[00:16:13] Yeah.

[00:16:13] I saw the, they were doing some video of like a guy who had a boat down on Bayshore.

[00:16:17] And he just like chose to ride out the storm in his little boat.

[00:16:20] They were calling him like the mayor of Tampa or something, something like that.

[00:16:24] I need to look it up.

[00:16:26] Hurricane Dan or something like that?

[00:16:27] Or Lieutenant Dan?

[00:16:29] Yeah.

[00:16:30] Like something like that.

[00:16:33] Because I'm mad that he got arrested and they confiscated his boat because of health concerns.

[00:16:39] What?

[00:16:39] Because he had filled health codes.

[00:16:41] Yeah.

[00:16:42] Bro, Tampa is some haters.

[00:16:44] Tampa is some haters.

[00:16:45] He was living his best life before all that happened.

[00:16:49] That man just out here living his best life.

[00:16:52] And he ain't committing no crimes.

[00:16:54] He ain't bothering nobody.

[00:16:55] And y'all gonna arrest this man?

[00:16:58] They're evil.

[00:17:00] They have nothing better to do with their time.

[00:17:03] They need to fix this flood shit.

[00:17:06] They need to be fixing these levels to make sure this shit don't flood no more.

[00:17:09] But this is what y'all want to do?

[00:17:13] But Tampa, overall, Tampa we're gonna make it from this.

[00:17:16] We're definitely gonna recover it.

[00:17:17] But I love how people in Tampa got things back moving and stuff as if we didn't get hit by a storm.

[00:17:23] And shit wasn't just shut down a few days ago.

[00:17:27] Right.

[00:17:27] I did go out to a party, actually, like two days after.

[00:17:31] We still didn't have more, but I went out.

[00:17:33] It was like, I'd rather be out, you know, somewhere where there's AC that's stuck in the house, not doing nothing.

[00:17:38] So I went out.

[00:17:39] For real.

[00:17:40] Well, I was definitely out, too.

[00:17:42] I had to find, like, a little coffee shop.

[00:17:45] Even though the bitch didn't have Wi-Fi in it, I was still in there chilling because, you know what?

[00:17:49] Ain't no damn power at my house anyway.

[00:17:51] So, hey, we'll make the best of it.

[00:17:53] And shout out to everybody in Tampa that's been raiding in FEMA, too, because everybody was just going off about that.

[00:18:02] They were denying the fuck out of everybody.

[00:18:03] But I'm like, how the hell y'all supposed to be for the people, but people are flying and y'all denying?

[00:18:09] We ain't working this stuff, but y'all denying us.

[00:18:12] What the fuck, man?

[00:18:13] I haven't seen anybody that got approved.

[00:18:15] Like, we own our house.

[00:18:17] I haven't seen anybody.

[00:18:18] They were like, oh, your homeowner's insurance should cover it.

[00:18:22] They don't cover the $400 worth of groceries we had to throw away.

[00:18:27] Like, I don't know.

[00:18:29] And then, like, Taylor Swift says she donated, like, $5 million.

[00:18:33] Where's that money at?

[00:18:34] Who got it?

[00:18:35] It's not us.

[00:18:36] Who got it?

[00:18:37] Is that her Illuminati fee?

[00:18:39] Is that what it is?

[00:18:40] You're saying it's a donation, but really that might be your Illuminati fee.

[00:18:44] Yeah.

[00:18:44] You're calling it a donation.

[00:18:46] Because I haven't seen it.

[00:18:48] No.

[00:18:49] I haven't seen it.

[00:18:51] Because the damn Tropka used it in St. Pete.

[00:18:53] Because I don't even know where the Rays from play at because the whole roofing came off.

[00:18:57] And, yes, the whole roof came off.

[00:19:00] And it said because that they don't have proper water treatment systems in there that they can't play there.

[00:19:06] So, where are y'all about to play?

[00:19:07] Because I know they're supposed to be getting a new stadium three years from now.

[00:19:11] So, I don't know where they're going to play it.

[00:19:14] But they need to go ahead and figure out something.

[00:19:16] They better use the Yankee Stadium.

[00:19:18] Why is that even here?

[00:19:20] But whatever.

[00:19:21] Free training.

[00:19:23] Because teams up north always come to Florida to train.

[00:19:28] Because sometimes in, like, February or March, it's probably still stormy and cold.

[00:19:33] And they can't get out and train.

[00:19:34] So, that's probably why.

[00:19:37] Also, shout out to the Yankees on making it to the World Series.

[00:19:41] Hope they ask us to lose.

[00:19:42] But, hey, shout out to them anyway.

[00:19:45] Wow.

[00:19:45] I don't know anything about sports.

[00:19:47] So, shout out to whoever.

[00:19:48] Yeah.

[00:19:49] Yeah.

[00:19:50] And also, shout out to the Buccaneers for winning.

[00:19:53] They beat the mess out the Saints the week after the hurricane.

[00:19:57] We went to New Orleans and beat the shit out of them.

[00:19:59] I'm like, hell yeah.

[00:20:01] Shout out to the Bucs for this.

[00:20:03] But shout out to everybody in Tampa.

[00:20:05] Because you see we in Tampa holding it down.

[00:20:07] And we ain't stopping.

[00:20:08] So, shout out to everybody in Tampa.

[00:20:11] Because that storm was a motherfucker, man.

[00:20:14] It was.

[00:20:15] Like you said, back to back.

[00:20:16] We didn't get a break.

[00:20:17] We just got jumped, low key.

[00:20:19] But we made it through.

[00:20:20] We definitely got jumped.

[00:20:21] We got jumped and we made it through.

[00:20:23] We had to make it through getting up at 5 in the morning to go get gas.

[00:20:27] And I'm like, never again.

[00:20:31] Because every damn gas station was crowded.

[00:20:35] It was.

[00:20:36] The wait was like an hour, two hour wait.

[00:20:39] People fighting.

[00:20:40] People robbing people.

[00:20:41] Standing in line.

[00:20:43] It was crazy.

[00:20:45] And the reason why I was so long is because you got motherfuckers filling up these big ass gas cans.

[00:20:49] I'm like, how many gas cans you need?

[00:20:52] Shit.

[00:20:52] They were so greedy.

[00:20:55] Maybe.

[00:20:56] Yes, they really were.

[00:20:57] I'm like, y'all acting like this.

[00:21:00] As soon as the ports open back up, that's when all the gas started coming.

[00:21:03] And you motherfuckers bought that damn gas or nothing.

[00:21:06] Yeah.

[00:21:06] So, that's why I'm like, what are y'all doing with it?

[00:21:08] Because gas can expire, I think, if it's just sitting in your garage.

[00:21:11] You know?

[00:21:12] I believe so.

[00:21:13] Yeah.

[00:21:14] Like, I believe that's the case.

[00:21:15] I'm like, I hope y'all, which y'all should dip that gas.

[00:21:18] Y'all should take it into people in your neighborhoods and stuff.

[00:21:20] Because there were literally some people on Facebook groups asking, oh, can somebody bring me some gas?

[00:21:26] I can't make it out.

[00:21:28] And there are also people pouting up their generators and stuff.

[00:21:32] Yeah.

[00:21:32] Oh, my gosh.

[00:21:33] Two of our neighbors had generators.

[00:21:35] Like, they were going all night.

[00:21:36] We cannot sleep.

[00:21:37] They were so loud.

[00:21:39] Damn.

[00:21:40] Y'all should have just actually parted with them.

[00:21:42] I'm like, shit.

[00:21:43] Pull y'all resources together.

[00:21:45] Well, they got kids.

[00:21:45] So, I was just like.

[00:21:51] I feel you.

[00:21:52] I feel you.

[00:21:52] The no kids vibe.

[00:21:54] I got you.

[00:21:54] I got you.

[00:21:55] No kids over here either.

[00:21:57] So.

[00:21:57] Yeah.

[00:21:58] Heavy on the no kids.

[00:22:00] Yes.

[00:22:01] Heavy on the no kids.

[00:22:02] But overall, we made it through it.

[00:22:05] Tampa, we are strong.

[00:22:06] We are mighty.

[00:22:07] This Hurricane Milton, we ain't stopping us because we still here, y'all.

[00:22:12] Milton ain't taking us out yet.

[00:22:14] It ain't like what Katrina did to New Orleans.

[00:22:16] But hey.

[00:22:16] Oh my gosh.

[00:22:19] I know that was 20 years ago, but from everybody I know from New Orleans, they said Katrina just changed New Orleans.

[00:22:27] New Orleans went the same after Katrina.

[00:22:30] Yeah.

[00:22:30] And also, shout out to my people in North Carolina as well because I know Helene did some major damage up there as well because I don't know if you saw it, but streets were flooded.

[00:22:40] It was crazy.

[00:22:41] Yeah.

[00:22:42] Yeah.

[00:22:42] I did see like a couple clips of the flooding and stuff in North Carolina.

[00:22:46] But yeah, I hope by now they have a little bit of like relief, you know.

[00:22:52] Yeah, they should definitely have it by now.

[00:22:55] They should definitely have relief by now.

[00:22:57] But the hurricane, the only thing downside about it is I missed work for a few days and I was like, I hate it.

[00:23:03] But it didn't stop me from going to this podcast conference that you should have gone to that I hope maybe next year we keep talking and we keep networking and keep working together.

[00:23:13] But you have come with me.

[00:23:15] It's called Afros and Audios.

[00:23:16] Shout out to everybody I've met at Afros and Audios.

[00:23:20] I promise you all, you all will.

[00:23:22] Yes.

[00:23:23] I've seen the info as well.

[00:23:26] Everybody that I met there, I will be bringing you on Look It Talk at some point.

[00:23:30] But it's amazing.

[00:23:32] Black creatives all coming together.

[00:23:34] The sessions were amazing.

[00:23:36] Yours truly got to get up there too.

[00:23:39] And people loved it too.

[00:23:40] People were asking me questions and shit.

[00:23:42] I'm like, goddamn, I feel like a goddamn celebrity up here.

[00:23:45] They were waiting to talk to me and stuff and asking me questions.

[00:23:49] And it's like when you've been podcasting for so long and you get to the point where you're the OGs and you're giving back.

[00:23:56] And hell, even if you haven't been podcasting that long, go and learn.

[00:24:00] Yeah.

[00:24:01] Yeah.

[00:24:02] So where was it held?

[00:24:04] It was held in Baltimore.

[00:24:07] And shout out to all the goddamn Ravens fans that were on my flight back because the Ravens play the Bucks on Monday Night Football.

[00:24:14] So all the Baltimore fans were on my flight back.

[00:24:17] But Baltimore is a nice city.

[00:24:20] But it ain't no goddamn nightlife.

[00:24:21] That's the only thing I didn't like about it.

[00:24:24] Man, we were driving.

[00:24:25] Me and my people were driving around trying to find something to do because the food was good.

[00:24:28] The food was definitely on point.

[00:24:30] But we tried to ride around and find something to do.

[00:24:33] The first stop we stopped at was a damn hookah spot that's by an abandoned church.

[00:24:40] And that should have been an alarm right there.

[00:24:42] And then you had to ring a doorbell to get in.

[00:24:46] Like a speakeasy kind of?

[00:24:47] Or no?

[00:24:50] No, it's not.

[00:24:52] It is something weird in ghetto.

[00:24:54] Speakeasies are a little more organized.

[00:24:56] I don't know about that.

[00:24:57] We opened the door.

[00:25:00] I asked Matt Watts the door.

[00:25:01] He said there were teenagers shooting up the block a few days ago.

[00:25:04] I'm like, that means left the damn door.

[00:25:07] We expect to get some business.

[00:25:09] Get me up out of here.

[00:25:11] Yes.

[00:25:12] And then on top of that, he said, all I have is the hookah.

[00:25:15] If you want to go to the liquor store, you can go up the liquor store up the street and you can bring your own bottle.

[00:25:20] I'm like, sir.

[00:25:22] Most hookah spots have liquor in the facility.

[00:25:26] Where you can buy a damn drink.

[00:25:28] You can get your drink and get your hookah.

[00:25:31] Oh, that ain't the funniest part.

[00:25:33] Oh, the next spot we went to, we drove down.

[00:25:37] I think we're like downtown Baltimore.

[00:25:40] We found this one hookah spot.

[00:25:41] The guy had these freaky ass contacts in.

[00:25:44] You see people with the weird, I think he had some yellow contacts in.

[00:25:49] And he's like, it's $40 to get in, right?

[00:25:53] $40?

[00:25:54] $40 for a goddamn hookah spot.

[00:25:57] I'm not making this up.

[00:25:58] Is it included?

[00:26:01] No, I don't even think the hookah is included.

[00:26:03] The drinks are included.

[00:26:04] He said, and also he said, it's bring your own bottle.

[00:26:07] But if you need a bottle, I sell it out of the back of my car.

[00:26:10] What the fuck am I doing with a bottle of the back of your car?

[00:26:14] He tried it.

[00:26:16] That's very sketchy.

[00:26:17] He tried the fuck out of us.

[00:26:19] I can't believe we can go in.

[00:26:22] I don't know when to go in.

[00:26:23] Okay.

[00:26:24] All right.

[00:26:24] Okay.

[00:26:26] Wow.

[00:26:26] See, my dog, once he said $40, we would head back to the car.

[00:26:30] We're like, fuck this shit.

[00:26:31] And then on the way back to the car, we see a damn failed drug bus going down.

[00:26:36] I'm like, oh, Lord.

[00:26:39] Baltimore is ghetto as hell.

[00:26:42] I want to go.

[00:26:42] Yes.

[00:26:43] I didn't realize that.

[00:26:44] I'm thinking Baltimore is classy because it's right by D.C.

[00:26:48] But I'm like, God damn.

[00:26:51] So needless to say, that Saturday night, we end up going to a liquor store and getting a bottle.

[00:26:55] And then we walking up to the liquor store.

[00:26:57] There was this man sweeping up these goddamn cash shoes and stuff.

[00:27:01] I'm like, bro, what the fuck is you on a goddamn street block sweeping that shit up for?

[00:27:08] What in the world?

[00:27:09] Was it maybe it was like a hood part of town and you just didn't know?

[00:27:13] Yeah, it was definitely a hood part of town that we definitely didn't know.

[00:27:16] So we got that bottle of Jack and we left because we're like, oh, hell no, man.

[00:27:22] This is crazy.

[00:27:24] Crazy.

[00:27:25] But we ended up, like I said, we ended up making it back to the hotel.

[00:27:28] But the one thing I learned is find a bar by your goddamn hotel because the bars by the hotel, they were somewhat decent.

[00:27:36] Okay.

[00:27:37] That's good.

[00:27:39] Yeah.

[00:27:40] And the shout out to my friends, though, it's like, it's nothing like having your friends with you when you go somewhere and you have to speak at a conference.

[00:27:48] It's in your friends in your corner.

[00:27:50] So you ain't going up there by yourself.

[00:27:52] Shout out to my people.

[00:27:53] They were definitely security blankets.

[00:27:54] Shout out to Kai.

[00:27:55] Shout out to Godfrey.

[00:27:57] And also, Kai, shout out to your wife, too, because your wife, his wife was very interested in my storytelling of my single wife.

[00:28:04] And I'm like, but I appreciate them for being a safe space.

[00:28:07] But I'm just like, all the shit that happened to me, I just, it's so bad you got to laugh to keep from crying.

[00:28:12] But, hey, we still here, though.

[00:28:14] That's real.

[00:28:15] That's real.

[00:28:17] But, yeah, like I said, it's Afro-Sahayers.

[00:28:20] They do it every year.

[00:28:22] I even talked to some sexual podcasts as well that were there as well.

[00:28:26] I literally had this one lady.

[00:28:28] I'm going to feature her lady, but she gave the whole breakdown of the female anatomy of the woman's body.

[00:28:34] I'm like, wow, this is interesting.

[00:28:37] We're supposed to be here.

[00:28:40] A lot of people don't really know, like, women's anatomy.

[00:28:43] I mean, they don't care to understand it.

[00:28:47] But, yeah.

[00:28:48] Yes, we need to learn.

[00:28:50] And also, we got to stop being so selfish.

[00:28:53] All right, y'all.

[00:28:55] Shout out to everybody I met in Baltimore.

[00:28:57] Shout out to all the people.

[00:29:00] Shout out to my friends.

[00:29:01] Shout out to everybody.

[00:29:02] Afros and Audios.

[00:29:03] We're going to do it again.

[00:29:05] And hopefully next year, I'm going to get a table.

[00:29:07] Because I think what I want to do is I want to have a new live podcast from Afros and Audios as well.

[00:29:12] Because that's what some people were doing.

[00:29:13] So, it was beautiful.

[00:29:15] And also, it was in the Maryland African American Museum as well.

[00:29:20] So, there was exhibits as well.

[00:29:22] I didn't get a chance to see the exhibits because I was too busy doing interviews.

[00:29:26] Like, every time I was about to break away, somebody with a mic was like, hey, come talk to me and stuff.

[00:29:30] So, I was too busy talking to people.

[00:29:32] And my people, they checked it out.

[00:29:35] Yeah.

[00:29:36] Nice.

[00:29:37] So, yeah.

[00:29:38] I'll definitely show you their profile and stuff.

[00:29:42] And hopefully next year, we see and such, we keep networking.

[00:29:45] And you'll make the trip to Baltimore with me.

[00:29:46] Because I'm definitely going to go back again next year.

[00:29:48] Because it's something that we needed.

[00:29:50] And it's a black-owned podcast conference.

[00:29:52] You really don't hear about that much.

[00:29:54] You really don't hear a community of black content creators.

[00:29:58] And even some from Africa as well.

[00:30:00] I'll shout out to the African podcasters.

[00:30:02] I'm going to get y'all asses on as well.

[00:30:05] That sounds lit.

[00:30:06] Sounds diverse, too.

[00:30:08] Like, as far as us.

[00:30:10] Yeah.

[00:30:10] Mm-hmm.

[00:30:11] It really is.

[00:30:12] It's something beautiful.

[00:30:13] All right, ladies and gentlemen.

[00:30:15] Shit is about to get real.

[00:30:17] Because y'all see the name of our podcast.

[00:30:19] So, shit is about to get real.

[00:30:21] This is the part where I'm telling y'all, you might want to go ahead and put your kids up.

[00:30:25] Go ahead and turn it off for the kids.

[00:30:27] Because this is super mature.

[00:30:29] Grown folks conversation.

[00:30:31] Get your liquor poured up.

[00:30:33] Go ahead and talk to us.

[00:30:35] So, first thing I want to get to you and talk about is this 30 days of lube.

[00:30:40] How the hell did you come up with that?

[00:30:42] And did they drop off all the oil from the diddy party to your house?

[00:30:47] Because 30 days of lube.

[00:30:49] Let me just say something.

[00:30:51] Let's talk about it.

[00:30:53] Let me just say, first of all, baby oil is not lube.

[00:30:58] Okay?

[00:31:00] Like, let's just put that in giant headlines.

[00:31:02] Baby oil is not lube.

[00:31:03] Oh.

[00:31:04] Baby oil is not lube.

[00:31:05] So, then why the hell motherfuckers be wanting to use that shit, man, if it ain't supposed to be lube?

[00:31:10] So, you can, like, there's a bunch of different types of lubricants.

[00:31:15] Which is, okay.

[00:31:16] So, let me start at the beginning.

[00:31:17] The reason I wanted to do 30 days of lube is because I feel like when people hear lube, they're like, I don't need that.

[00:31:23] Or, they think that it's only for people that are having, like, anal interactions sexually.

[00:31:31] Because the anus is not naturally lubricated.

[00:31:35] So, I wanted to kind of put a light on it and say, like, lube has a bunch of different uses.

[00:31:42] And it's cool.

[00:31:43] It's not that you have to need it.

[00:31:45] But it's a great enhancer if you want to use it.

[00:31:48] So, making lube cool, basically.

[00:31:50] Making it normal to talk about, to learn about, et cetera.

[00:31:54] So, whenever I do my content, I try to use whatever is being talked about around us.

[00:32:01] Because it helps with, like, gaining traction.

[00:32:03] Like, getting eyes on it.

[00:32:05] So, when I made a post about, like, what you can use different types of lube for.

[00:32:09] I knew that the baby oil conversation was going on.

[00:32:12] So, I'm like, okay, let me get this out here.

[00:32:14] Because people on Black Twitter are fucking ignorant.

[00:32:18] So, they're like, oh, why you got all this lube for?

[00:32:21] You're having a lot of, like.

[00:32:22] Like, they were saying he was having, like, gay sex.

[00:32:24] And I'm like, that lube is, like, oil is terrible for anal sex.

[00:32:28] It's horrible for it.

[00:32:29] So, basically, if you're going to use oil, it's good for, like, massages.

[00:32:35] Or, like, metal toys.

[00:32:39] Maybe glass toys.

[00:32:40] But you don't want to use oil lubricant on, like, a condom.

[00:32:44] Or, like, with a silicone toy.

[00:32:48] Or, like, a fleshy type of toy.

[00:32:51] It just won't work.

[00:32:52] It'll cause friction.

[00:32:52] And then that'll cause, like, a micro tear.

[00:32:55] Like, it's.

[00:32:56] Yeah.

[00:32:56] Well, baby oil should never be used as, like, lube, though.

[00:32:59] Same for Vaseline.

[00:33:00] It's not a safe option as lube.

[00:33:02] Like, don't use Vaseline.

[00:33:04] Don't use baby oil.

[00:33:06] Damn.

[00:33:07] Like, because people were talking about that thousand bottles of baby oil.

[00:33:11] I'm like, why the fuck do y'all need all that goddamn baby oil?

[00:33:14] If all you need.

[00:33:15] And doesn't baby oil draw your skin out as fast as well?

[00:33:19] If I'm not mistaken.

[00:33:20] I will say, though, if you.

[00:33:22] And I've heard that that man did, like, a lot of pool parties.

[00:33:26] If you were in a pool, a silicone-based or oil-based lube is, like, better in water.

[00:33:34] Because you can't use, like, water in water.

[00:33:36] It doesn't work.

[00:33:37] But if you want something, like, slick while you're in the water, yeah.

[00:33:42] Yeah.

[00:33:42] Well, staying on that subject of lube, like, let's say we have some.

[00:33:47] It's male and woman, of course.

[00:33:49] What is the best lube to use if you want to get your woman off?

[00:33:52] Because sometimes it might not be wet down there.

[00:33:55] So what is the best lube to use?

[00:33:58] I don't know why some of them just don't just eat it out beforehand.

[00:34:00] But this is for them.

[00:34:02] I don't know.

[00:34:03] So first of all, let me just say this, too.

[00:34:05] Spit is not lube.

[00:34:07] Put that in big letters, too.

[00:34:08] Spit is not lube.

[00:34:09] So don't spit at lube, y'all.

[00:34:11] Don't hop to us.

[00:34:12] That's disgusting.

[00:34:14] The best lube, I think, is a water-based lube.

[00:34:16] So I have, I use, like, Astro.

[00:34:19] No, it's not Astro.

[00:34:20] I use Trojan H2O Closer.

[00:34:22] It's actually linked in my thing.

[00:34:24] It's on Amazon if you care to look for one, if you're looking for one, period.

[00:34:29] The reason you want to use water-based is because the vagina itself is, like, naturally lubricating.

[00:34:35] And it works well with our personal, like, lubrication.

[00:34:39] If you're going to be using toys while y'all are having sex and the toy is silicone, you cannot use silicone lube because it will kind of counteract with the silicone toy.

[00:34:48] So that's why I stick to water-based.

[00:34:52] And you're going to be a cry.

[00:34:53] And, like, don't think that just because your partner wants to use lube or needs lubricant that anything is wrong with them.

[00:35:01] Like, sometimes your body just changes, and that is okay.

[00:35:05] Yeah, that's real.

[00:35:07] Definitely got to use the lube, the right lubes and stuff.

[00:35:11] So what's a lube that you would stay away from?

[00:35:13] Because I've seen people talking about the KY Jelly.

[00:35:16] And KY Jelly asses, those motherfuckers, they don't have the commercials showing the KY Jelly, and then they'll show rockets taking off and shit.

[00:35:24] I'm like, are y'all shit really that good?

[00:35:27] It's not.

[00:35:28] I would say stay away from, like, KY Jellies.

[00:35:32] Astroglide is, like, the most known lube.

[00:35:36] But to me, in my vagina, theirs is, like, not good.

[00:35:40] I don't like Astroglide's lubricants really at all.

[00:35:47] But another popular one is Uber Lube, which is, like, I think a German company.

[00:35:52] They're pretty popular.

[00:35:55] Any water-based, to me, is going to be, like, your best option.

[00:35:58] Because you can, it's pretty, like, versatile as far as where you can use it.

[00:36:03] So with the water-based lubes, they don't mess up y'all pH balance.

[00:36:07] Because I don't need y'all getting sick off y'all of a bad pH balance.

[00:36:11] Right.

[00:36:12] So, like, you don't want to use, like, flavored lubes internally, if that makes sense.

[00:36:16] So, like, if you're, you know, let's say you're eating her out and then she gives you head with, like, a flavored lube just because for the taste.

[00:36:26] And then you stick your dick in her without a condom.

[00:36:28] And that's going to mess up the pH.

[00:36:30] Like, for most women, I'm going to say you could cough wrong and your pH is off.

[00:36:35] Like, it really is such a sensitive, just, like, area.

[00:36:38] So I think, like, again, sticking to, like, the basics of the basics.

[00:36:43] Like, it doesn't need to be heated.

[00:36:44] It doesn't need to be, oh, contains vitamin E, aloe.

[00:36:48] Like, it doesn't need all that.

[00:36:49] Just, like, a very basic water-based lube.

[00:36:52] Some of them are, like, vegan.

[00:36:53] They have, like, vegan ones or plant-based.

[00:36:55] Those, for me, are, like, the better option if it's plant-based because I'm, like, at least it's natural.

[00:37:00] You know?

[00:37:01] It doesn't have, like, chemicals.

[00:37:02] There was a study, actually, that came out that said Trojan condoms contain forever chemicals, which are chemicals that do not, like, they're never broken down by your body.

[00:37:14] And, you know, condoms are lubricated.

[00:37:16] So it's, like, those are the things that women have to consider.

[00:37:19] Like, damn, if we use a condom and it has lube on it, is my body?

[00:37:23] It's going to have, like, plastics and chemicals and shit in it.

[00:37:26] Like, it's really scary to think about.

[00:37:28] But that's why I say use lube.

[00:37:31] Yeah.

[00:37:31] So in that case, because I remember I was talking to a chick and we were about to, it was about to go down.

[00:37:38] But she saw I had a Trojan and she was like, oh, no, you can't use Trojan because that really messed up my body.

[00:37:44] I'm like, god damn.

[00:37:45] Yeah.

[00:37:46] Yeah.

[00:37:46] I'm like, so what else does, I'm like, I guess I might have to make a visit to the Todd Couples Store to figure out what kind of condoms or maybe just order some online.

[00:37:54] Hey, Todd Couples Store, if y'all listening, there's y'all pre-promotion.

[00:37:57] So what are some safe brands of condoms to use?

[00:38:02] Okay, well, no, no, hold on.

[00:38:04] Skin, S-K-Y-N, is the number one top tier condom.

[00:38:07] Okay?

[00:38:08] Leave the Trojans at home.

[00:38:10] Make sure, actually throw them in the trash.

[00:38:11] But skin condoms are going to be, like, the number one choice I have for everybody.

[00:38:16] Next after that will be B condoms.

[00:38:18] They're actually black owned.

[00:38:19] You can get them at Walmart.

[00:38:21] You can get them on Amazon.

[00:38:23] Literally everywhere.

[00:38:24] And I believe that B condoms are plant-based condoms as well.

[00:38:30] I think that whenever we are in that, like, before we have sex stage as, like, teenagers or even, like, early adulthood, you're not sitting with your parent and talking about different types of condoms.

[00:38:45] I don't even know anyone that had, like, an actual talk with their parents about sex.

[00:38:49] It was just, don't get a girl pregnant.

[00:38:52] Don't come home pregnant.

[00:38:53] It wasn't like, oh, these are the best types of condoms.

[00:38:56] Yeah, pretty much.

[00:38:56] They're like, this is where to buy condoms.

[00:38:58] This is how to know what condom fits your penis size.

[00:39:01] Like, no one has that conversation.

[00:39:03] So, what do boys do?

[00:39:05] They see what's on TV.

[00:39:06] It's that gold wrapper.

[00:39:07] It's supposed to look cool.

[00:39:09] Oh, that means I have a big dick if I have a gold wrapper.

[00:39:12] Not knowing, though, that those type of condoms are the worst for vagina owners.

[00:39:17] So, like, you and your ego might be big because I got a gold-packed condom and I got a Magnum.

[00:39:22] But, like, you just messed up her pH, which is going to take at least two weeks to correct.

[00:39:27] Like, so.

[00:39:28] Damn.

[00:39:29] Yeah.

[00:39:32] Yeah, our parents really fucked this up on that end.

[00:39:35] They didn't really have that conversation with us.

[00:39:38] They really fucked this up.

[00:39:39] They just told us, oh, don't go be having sex and stuff.

[00:39:42] They didn't tell us nothing about these damn condoms.

[00:39:44] They didn't tell us nothing about this.

[00:39:46] They didn't tell us nothing about pH balance.

[00:39:48] So, mom, I forgive you because, you know, you certainly didn't tell me nothing about that.

[00:39:52] So, but I do have a personal question for you, though.

[00:39:55] What made you decide you wanted to study all this fascination with exploration and sexuality?

[00:40:01] So, what got you started in this line of work?

[00:40:05] So, because I liked to talk about sex, because I'm a very curious person naturally.

[00:40:11] I like to understand, like, how things work, why they do the way they do, why we're taught the certain things that we're taught.

[00:40:17] And then my, like I said, my like for talking about sexuality specifically, I'm like, well, if I'm going to be talking about it, I want to make sure that I know what I'm talking about and that I have, like, evidence and proof and, like, have done research on it.

[00:40:29] So, right now, I'm actually studying to become a sex educator, even though, like, in a lot of places, that's, like, you can't teach about it.

[00:40:36] You can't really talk about it.

[00:40:39] But if we continue down that path, people are going to continue to just have all this misinformation out there.

[00:40:45] And it creates, like, stigmas and it creates taboos.

[00:40:48] And then, like, the cycle continues.

[00:40:49] You know what I mean?

[00:40:50] Because people are too embarrassed to talk about sex or too embarrassed to even ask questions.

[00:40:54] And so, they just go with what they hear.

[00:40:57] And maybe they heard misinformation.

[00:40:58] And then, like I said, the cycle continues.

[00:41:00] So, that's kind of where I, where my passion derives from.

[00:41:06] It's, like, I just want the misinformation to stop.

[00:41:08] And I want to make sure I'm doing my part.

[00:41:10] Especially for the Black community.

[00:41:12] Because we love a good conspiracy.

[00:41:14] Like, we love.

[00:41:15] Yeah, we love.

[00:41:16] We really do.

[00:41:17] We love conspiracies.

[00:41:19] It tells me that every job I've been at, we start talking conspiracies, we'll talk for hours.

[00:41:23] But getting back to the sex and stuff, what are some misconceptions that you've heard that you're like, okay, this is not true.

[00:41:32] I did my research.

[00:41:33] What are some misconceptions that the Black community need to understand?

[00:41:39] That one of them is a big one.

[00:41:41] It's, like, consent.

[00:41:42] Like, we don't teach our kids about consent.

[00:41:44] We just say no means no, which is not all that consent is.

[00:41:48] Like, why don't...

[00:41:50] Like, for example, they say that you should not...

[00:41:53] I've heard that you should not talk to children about sex because it will then expose them to sexuality.

[00:41:58] Which is not true.

[00:42:00] If you talk to kids about anything, like how you talk to them about eating their vegetables and making them strong.

[00:42:05] You can talk to kids about consent and saying, this is my body.

[00:42:09] Please do not touch me.

[00:42:10] Or this is what, you know, bodily autonomy is.

[00:42:13] And this is how to report this type of assault.

[00:42:16] And, like, those type of things.

[00:42:17] You should talk to kids about them because if you don't, how are they supposed to learn?

[00:42:22] Unless something terrible happens to them and then they learn through trauma.

[00:42:25] You know?

[00:42:27] I also heard...

[00:42:28] There was a big argument on Twitter, like, maybe last week about some, like, content creators that are sex workers were creating videos.

[00:42:38] And one of them is, like, positive for HSV, which is the herpes virus.

[00:42:43] And there was all this misinformation about, oh, see, that's why sex workers are dirty.

[00:42:48] And that's why...

[00:42:49] Like, it was just like, bro, we have to stay away from this language.

[00:42:54] Like, okay, what the sex worker did was essentially knowingly infected people that he worked with with HSV.

[00:43:01] Which is...

[00:43:02] Does not have a cure.

[00:43:03] There are treatment options.

[00:43:04] But, again, there's no cure.

[00:43:06] That is illegal already to do.

[00:43:08] If you have an STI and you do not disclose it to your partner and you know you have it, that is illegal.

[00:43:13] You can go to jail for that.

[00:43:16] That's illegal.

[00:43:17] Like, that's a fact.

[00:43:19] And people were online, like I said, they were just like, oh, he's dirty.

[00:43:21] She's dirty for doing X, Y, and Z.

[00:43:23] And it's like, we keep saying this, like, dirty language.

[00:43:25] And that's why people don't disclose.

[00:43:27] We say, like, oh, they're disgusting and they're sex workers so they deserve it, which is not true.

[00:43:32] Like, if you're having consensual sex with someone, that's all that should matter.

[00:43:36] As long as their STI status has been disclosed or y'all have talked about it, like, that's between y'all.

[00:43:41] But stay away from the dirty versus clean language because the current level of, like, HSV that's in the world, the percentage is over 50% of the entire world's population has it.

[00:43:54] So to call people dirty and clean when the virus can lay dormant, it cannot show up on test results.

[00:44:01] It's like, you don't even know.

[00:44:03] So I think that we should stay away from that type of language.

[00:44:07] And I think that there should be more education on it, which, again, it's tough because we live in such, like, a taboo society where, like, we can't talk about it for whatever reason.

[00:44:18] But, yeah, those are some of the craziest things I've heard, though.

[00:44:22] Yeah, those are definitely some crazy things.

[00:44:25] And it's sad that we're about to be in 2025 and we're still in a taboo time, a world where we can't talk about shit.

[00:44:32] But, hey, that's why we have podcasts and that's why we have platforms where we can talk about it.

[00:44:37] But I will say this, though.

[00:44:39] I will say everybody needs to do your research on natural cures and stuff because I've read stories about people that cure themselves from HSVs and STIs naturally.

[00:44:52] They just bought the right supplements.

[00:44:54] They were taking the right supplements from the earth, not from Big Pharma because Big Pharma wants you to believe shit can't be cured.

[00:45:02] There's a fucking cure for everything.

[00:45:03] You just got to do your research and take the right supplements.

[00:45:06] Because let Big Pharma tell it, there's no damn cure.

[00:45:10] All you can do is manage it.

[00:45:12] They say manage it because they're giving you the medicine and you're paying them and you're putting pockets in them.

[00:45:19] You line their pockets.

[00:45:20] So I would say do your goddamn research because that's why they killed off Dr. Sepp because Dr. Sepp was out here curing motherfuckers.

[00:45:28] Hey, because, hey, he cured some people from AIDS and stuff, from HIV.

[00:45:34] It's out here.

[00:45:35] The cures are out here.

[00:45:36] It's naturally you got to commit to it.

[00:45:38] But, hey, it can't be cured.

[00:45:42] Interesting.

[00:45:43] News to me.

[00:45:44] Yeah, you definitely got to do your experience on that.

[00:45:49] So I had another podcast on like a few weeks ago, like the second episode of season seven.

[00:45:55] And she was like 11% of women actually orgasm from penetrative sex.

[00:46:01] What are your thoughts on that?

[00:46:03] Because is it that hard to get a woman off?

[00:46:07] I don't think it's that hard to get a woman off.

[00:46:09] I think sexuality as a whole has been geared towards the male experience.

[00:46:13] So people don't really bother to understand a woman's perspective.

[00:46:17] But that's what she's referring to is called the orgasm gap.

[00:46:20] And it was actually a research study done on homosexual men, homosexual women, heterosexual man and woman, and then like solo experiences.

[00:46:33] And it said that like obviously the highest was solo experience.

[00:46:38] Like obviously if you're masturbating, you're going to come 100% of the time.

[00:46:41] If it's homosexual experience, like man and man, woman and woman, the percentage was like 95%.

[00:46:47] They're going to have an orgasm.

[00:46:50] With heterosexual, it was like 63% of women experience an orgasm.

[00:46:55] That same study group, men in male woman sexual experiences have like an 85%.

[00:47:04] So if you're coming 85% and I'm only coming 63%, it's not right.

[00:47:10] So yeah, something's not right here.

[00:47:13] I definitely agree.

[00:47:14] Something's not right.

[00:47:14] And it's like we got to hold both parties responsible because we get,

[00:47:18] because it takes two to tango.

[00:47:19] It's like we got to hold the men responsible for and women responsible because I thought we're both being selfish

[00:47:25] and not really trying to look out for each other's needs.

[00:47:28] What do you think?

[00:47:30] I think that yes and no.

[00:47:32] I think that because of like our society as a whole is very like still stuck in the past,

[00:47:39] like still like a little bit misogynist.

[00:47:41] So I agree that women should speak up and not like if you're not having good sex,

[00:47:45] say this is not working for me.

[00:47:48] But I know also in that same turn, women have a lot of fear in speaking out to men about something

[00:47:53] that they don't like because of men's like the male ego.

[00:47:57] Whereas he's going to take it as like, you know, oh, like you, like no,

[00:48:01] no other girl has ever said that I didn't make her come.

[00:48:03] And it's like, okay, well, every body is not the same body.

[00:48:06] So like, why don't we figure something out together?

[00:48:08] But a lot of women continue to just have bad sex and not speak up about it.

[00:48:12] In the same breath, if the man is coming, usually he doesn't care if she did or did not because he did,

[00:48:19] you know?

[00:48:20] So I agree that you need to be both parties responsible.

[00:48:24] Yeah, fellas, we definitely got to do better of communicating and stuff.

[00:48:28] And ladies, I need y'all to communicate as well.

[00:48:30] If something didn't come, if you didn't get there, then you need somebody,

[00:48:33] what the hell I need to do to get you there?

[00:48:34] And also, and also some women like, stop fucking niggas that you don't want to fuck.

[00:48:40] Stop having the pity sex.

[00:48:41] Like, let's be honest, because sometimes you might just lay there and just let them masturbate in you for real.

[00:48:48] Like, if you don't think it's somebody that can get you there, then don't fuck them.

[00:48:52] Yeah.

[00:48:53] And I've actually had that conversation with my friends because obviously I'm married now,

[00:48:58] but when I was single, like if a guy, if we had bad sex, like I'm not giving you like another chance.

[00:49:03] Whereas I have friends that will be like, oh, let me give him a second or third chance.

[00:49:06] I'm like, why are you wasting your time?

[00:49:09] Like, I don't understand it, but yeah, no.

[00:49:13] Maybe it's because she really likes them.

[00:49:15] But listen, if you really like somebody and they like you back,

[00:49:19] they will take your criticisms and they will grow from it and they'll be willing to work at it.

[00:49:24] A lot of times people will take the criticisms but not really grow from it.

[00:49:28] They're just looking at it as, hey, I'm getting some pussy for you or I'm giving some dick for you.

[00:49:33] You know, so we got to tell these women that if they have a bad sex and the sexual expenses,

[00:49:38] then do it for us as well.

[00:49:39] Like, we got to be communicative.

[00:49:41] Like, fuck all this bullshit.

[00:49:43] Like, we got to talk more.

[00:49:45] Right.

[00:49:45] I agree.

[00:49:46] A thousand percent.

[00:49:48] Yeah.

[00:49:48] And what do you think that women have to do on their end?

[00:49:51] Because we can sit here and grill the men all day.

[00:49:54] So what do you think women have to do on their end to help their own orgasm?

[00:49:59] Um, like you said, speaking of, I also would think that women need to do a better job of

[00:50:05] understanding exactly what they like about their own bodies.

[00:50:08] I like to say you can't expect someone to love your body if you don't even love your body.

[00:50:13] So whether that's appreciating what size you are, what shape you are,

[00:50:18] like whatever your favorite features are about yourself,

[00:50:20] like talk to yourself in the mirror, hype yourself up.

[00:50:22] Because when you're super confident in yourself, you, that energy just like pops off.

[00:50:27] He can feel it.

[00:50:28] You can feel it.

[00:50:29] Like it's going to make you 10 times better.

[00:50:31] And I also feel like it will make you speaking up easier because you're like, I love me.

[00:50:37] I'm going to make sure that I am doing whatever I need to.

[00:50:40] Like whether I like this person a lot or not, you know, I'm getting what I need out of it.

[00:50:46] That's real.

[00:50:47] And it's sad like that.

[00:50:48] So sticking with that, um, what it was shifting to relationships.

[00:50:52] Why do people stay with people that have bad sex?

[00:50:55] If you're, if the sex ain't good, what's the point of staying with somebody?

[00:50:58] If the sex ain't good, I don't, I never really understand that.

[00:51:01] I don't know either.

[00:51:02] Like, I think, you know, obviously love is not just the physical or not just sex.

[00:51:08] And there are so many different types of intimacy outside of physical intimacy.

[00:51:14] However, if, well, maybe they're asexual,

[00:51:17] but if you're a person that like, you know, that you need the physical side of sex,

[00:51:23] you're, if you're staying with someone because like, oh, I feel like our love is stronger

[00:51:27] than the physical side, or you're waiting for them to catch up, or you think that you're

[00:51:30] going to be like the exception to the rule.

[00:51:32] Like all of that can be extremely toxic and can start to build resentment over time, which

[00:51:39] is why then I think people go and cheat or people, you know, start to be hateful towards

[00:51:45] their partner.

[00:51:46] Like if you're okay with it, then okay with it.

[00:51:49] But if you're someone that is just kind of suppressing it, I don't think it's going to

[00:51:52] end well for anybody.

[00:51:54] It's definitely not going to end well for anybody.

[00:51:56] And also there are sex therapists out here.

[00:51:58] So it's like, if you want to go talk to a sex therapist and a sex coach, that's a step

[00:52:03] in the right direction because most men aren't willing to do that.

[00:52:06] And I'm like, bruh, y'all need to do that.

[00:52:08] And most women aren't willing to initiate that.

[00:52:10] They'd rather go fuck on the side nigga because they know all the side niggas just going to

[00:52:14] do that.

[00:52:15] That's all he good for instead of making this work with the husband.

[00:52:18] Because all the side pieces of adventure is going to blow up.

[00:52:23] Unless, of course, you're in a polyamorous relationship, then more probably to you motherfuckers

[00:52:26] because I don't know.

[00:52:29] Yeah, I think so.

[00:52:33] Yeah, it gets slippery.

[00:52:36] It definitely gets slippery.

[00:52:38] Now, I got another thing.

[00:52:40] Going from your name, the whole Algae podcast, and this is something I talked about way back

[00:52:45] in season three, but I was trying to talk about it in season three.

[00:52:49] Don't want to season three premiere.

[00:52:50] But another point got made, which is, we can debunk this right now, that if you play

[00:52:56] video games after sex, and that means the sex wasn't good, do you think that that's

[00:53:00] necessarily the case?

[00:53:01] Because some of us, we're energetic after sex.

[00:53:04] Like, do you have to be just knocked out, ready to go to sleep?

[00:53:08] Because they basically said, if you're playing video games or doing something after sex,

[00:53:13] then the sex was trash.

[00:53:14] What do you think?

[00:53:16] I think that's ridiculous.

[00:53:18] That is ridiculous.

[00:53:19] Whatever you do after sex has nothing to do with the other person.

[00:53:22] Now, if you, like, are like, every time you guys have sex, you're going to be like, oh,

[00:53:27] I'm going to go outside or something like that, then I would be like, why are you always leaving

[00:53:32] to go outside?

[00:53:32] Like, ask your partner, talk to your partner.

[00:53:34] But to say that that means that sex was bad, like, that's you being insecure at that point

[00:53:39] because who cares?

[00:54:09] Yeah.

[00:54:10] She was the main, I remember have her on and she said she could give a class on the hope phases, but you know, precious, wherever you at, we still got love for you.

[00:54:19] But what do you think about hope phases?

[00:54:21] Do you think a hope phase is necessary for people in their life?

[00:54:26] Um, absolutely.

[00:54:28] But I also don't think there, there's like a such thing as a hope phase.

[00:54:34] I think it's just, it's just dating.

[00:54:38] Like women do not get to, do not get to verbally express their sexual exploration out loud.

[00:54:47] They get, they get called a hope phase.

[00:54:49] Men date.

[00:54:50] Okay.

[00:54:51] They're dating multiple women trying to figure out what they want.

[00:54:54] That is okay.

[00:54:55] Women do not get that same luxury.

[00:54:57] If a woman is dating multiple men, look at any celebrity, Lori Harvey, whoever, she's a hoe.

[00:55:03] She can't keep a man.

[00:55:05] And it's like, she's just trying to figure out what she wants.

[00:55:07] Just like the man, the same men in her age group.

[00:55:10] Why is it different when a woman does it versus a man?

[00:55:13] Yeah.

[00:55:13] The reason I will say that sometimes a woman is different when a woman does it because maybe they're looking at the fact that maybe this woman is using a man.

[00:55:21] Maybe this woman is a requirement by her.

[00:55:24] And so that's true.

[00:55:25] And it's like, I don't know.

[00:55:28] It's weird.

[00:55:30] Like dating is figuring out what you want.

[00:55:33] Like you're going to date someone.

[00:55:34] You're going to be like, okay, this guy was, he was really nice, but he wasn't funny.

[00:55:37] I really like guys that are funny.

[00:55:39] So then you date someone else.

[00:55:40] He's hilarious, but he's not stable in his, in his life and his career.

[00:55:44] Like there was a study that came out that said black women are now like the highest earners within our community, like over black men.

[00:55:52] So it's like, if we're coming and we're saying like, okay, we got our shit together.

[00:55:55] And now we're trying to figure out what we want to settle down to have a family.

[00:55:58] Why is that?

[00:55:59] Like, obviously we have to be intimate to figure out if we're compatible in that way.

[00:56:04] Why am I, oh, she just having a whole phase.

[00:56:07] And the same man could do the exact same thing.

[00:56:10] And it's like, oh, that's all right.

[00:56:12] Like nobody says anything.

[00:56:13] If anything, he just like dapped up for it.

[00:56:15] Like, but women do it and it's like, she's a hoe.

[00:56:18] It's a weird thing.

[00:56:20] But the one thing I got from the episode is sometimes you've got to embrace the hoe phase.

[00:56:24] But I thought we're all in the hoe phase.

[00:56:27] I thought we're all in the hoe phases until we find that one person that, that just locks it down.

[00:56:32] And it's like, it's so different.

[00:56:34] Yeah.

[00:56:35] And then like, like we were talking about, I feel like having that hoe phase is what helps you to be more confident in speaking up when you are seeing something.

[00:57:11] That you don't want.

[00:57:13] Communicate like, what is something you like to do?

[00:57:15] Because I know one chick, she was, she loved it when I was fingering her.

[00:57:19] And I found those spots and she got, got it there just for my hands.

[00:57:23] Another chick was just laying there, boy, like, what the fuck are you doing?

[00:57:26] So I'm like, y'all gotta, we gotta communicate because not every woman is the same.

[00:57:32] Because you can't do the same thing on one woman that on another woman.

[00:57:35] And ladies, y'all gotta do the same thing because not all men are the same.

[00:57:39] Right.

[00:57:39] Absolutely.

[00:57:40] Everybody should ask questions.

[00:57:41] Like, you just never know.

[00:57:44] Because some people too, like my, my husband and I had the conversation before we got married because like, I don't like fingers or being fingered because I had a sexual assault when I was in middle school.

[00:57:55] And that was like, what happened to me.

[00:57:57] And my husband was like, he was so used to doing it with other women.

[00:58:01] Like, oh, you know, you go down on a girl, you finger her at the same time.

[00:58:04] Like, and so he had to kind of get creative with like what I, what I was okay with because he had to take that out of the equation.

[00:58:12] You know what I mean?

[00:58:13] So like you said, don't treat everybody like the last body, like have a conversation, ask questions.

[00:58:18] And I feel like asking questions can be fun too, because you guys are getting to explore together.

[00:58:24] Like, even though you guys have both had sex, this is a whole new type of sex because it's a new person.

[00:58:30] That's real.

[00:58:32] I'm sorry about the sexual assault.

[00:58:34] I'm glad you were sharing that.

[00:58:36] I appreciate you for sharing that because not a lot of victims come out until like years later.

[00:58:41] So definitely appreciate you overcoming that and being happy in where you're at in your relationship.

[00:58:47] So now, where do you recommend toys?

[00:58:50] Because I see a lot of people say use toys in your relationships.

[00:58:55] Oh, I got the spices tingling over there.

[00:58:57] I noticed that.

[00:58:58] Now, this is something I'm going to try.

[00:59:02] But like I'm single right now, so I'm just chilling.

[00:59:05] So eventually I'm going to get around to trying to finding that rose or find that toy and using them toys on her.

[00:59:11] Because a lot of men look at toys as the enemy when they should be looking at as toys as the right-hand man.

[00:59:18] Because if only 63% women are orgasming, you got to do something.

[00:59:24] So what do you think?

[00:59:25] Right.

[00:59:26] I like toys is probably my favorite thing to talk about, like ever.

[00:59:31] Because they're so fine.

[00:59:33] Like they really are a teammate.

[00:59:34] And toys are not just created for women.

[00:59:37] They're created for men too, like to enhance your experience.

[00:59:39] Like, yes.

[00:59:41] And then there's toys that you can use together.

[00:59:43] There's like you can have her use one.

[00:59:46] And then like you finish her off.

[00:59:47] Like there's so many different combinations.

[00:59:50] I just wish people would be more open-minded because they think, oh, I can't compete.

[00:59:55] You don't need to compete.

[00:59:56] It's there to enhance.

[00:59:58] You know what I mean?

[00:59:58] Like a girl giving you a hand job is never going to compete with your own hand.

[01:00:04] But it's sexy when she does it.

[01:00:05] You know, it's like a, it's just like a feel, you know.

[01:00:09] But if you're looking for toys, first of all, the rose is that girl.

[01:00:13] She's a game changer, life changer.

[01:00:15] But I like to say if you're someone that's new to incorporating toys into like your bedroom,

[01:00:21] start with your partner, like seeing what kind of toys they like.

[01:00:25] Because there's internal toys.

[01:00:26] There's external toys.

[01:00:28] There's like dual stimulation.

[01:00:29] There's some that are just kind of stationary, like if you're using plugs.

[01:00:34] There's toys for your nipples, toys for, that go around like the penis that help with circulation

[01:00:41] to kind of build up the blood flow and build up the pressure.

[01:00:44] There's vibrating like gummy toys that she can use if she's going down on you.

[01:00:50] There's like literally the possibilities are endless.

[01:00:53] And it can be intimidating going to like a sex store for the first time.

[01:00:56] Or like you said, going to Todd's couple stores.

[01:00:59] It can be extremely intimidating because you see some crazy stuff in there.

[01:01:04] But start with the basics.

[01:01:05] Ask your partner, what kind of, you know, vibrators do you already have?

[01:01:09] And that will tell you what she likes.

[01:01:11] And then if you're headed from the back, you can tell her, okay, I want you to use your toy while I'm going from the back.

[01:01:16] Or tell her to start and you can watch her masturbate.

[01:01:19] And then you're like, okay, put the toy away.

[01:01:21] Then I want to, you know, do it or use it on her.

[01:01:23] Like really there's endless possibilities.

[01:01:26] I love toys.

[01:01:27] There's definitely endless possibilities.

[01:01:29] Now, shout out to my homeboy, Cobb.

[01:01:32] Because I thought me and him had back in the day when we were young and stuff.

[01:01:36] We were like in our 20s.

[01:01:38] The funniest thing happened to us, we went into a sex store.

[01:01:41] We were just cracking up having jokes the whole time.

[01:01:43] So, listen, don't be afraid to go to the goddamn sex stores.

[01:01:47] Like, hell.

[01:01:49] Even shout out to my sister.

[01:01:50] Because I went to a sex store with her ass.

[01:01:52] And that was funny as well.

[01:01:53] Like, me and her were cracking up and stuff and telling jokes.

[01:01:56] Like, don't be afraid to go into the goddamn sex stores, ladies and gentlemen.

[01:02:00] I agree.

[01:02:00] And also, you've got to talk to people.

[01:02:02] You've got to use their toys as well.

[01:02:05] Because I never thought about using toys.

[01:02:07] But just know, if you listen to this, if I use the toy on you, I'm trying to keep you long term.

[01:02:12] Because us, man, we don't really do that shit.

[01:02:15] Yeah.

[01:02:16] Yeah.

[01:02:17] And if anyone ever has, like, a question about where to start, please feel free to DM me.

[01:02:21] I've gotten some pretty strange DMs.

[01:02:23] Like, oh, what size butt plug do I start with?

[01:02:27] And it's like, I'm happy to answer them, like, seriously at any point in time.

[01:02:32] Just don't be creepy about it.

[01:02:35] Yes.

[01:02:36] Please don't be creepy about it.

[01:02:37] But what's your plans for the podcast for 2024 and going beyond?

[01:02:42] So this year, I actually spoke at a conference as well, which was really life-changing.

[01:02:49] And so hopefully I get to do the same thing next year.

[01:02:52] It was for Sex Down South, which if you're Black or a person of color and you're looking to learn about anything related to sexuality,

[01:02:59] from how to wear a condom properly to BDSM, like, everything you want to know and learn is at that conference.

[01:03:07] It is hosted by two Black women.

[01:03:10] It is in Atlanta every single year.

[01:03:13] Every year it's gotten bigger and bigger.

[01:03:15] So check out Sex Down South.

[01:03:17] And next year, yeah, I just hope to continue doing some more brand deals, which I've been getting.

[01:03:23] I'm so grateful.

[01:03:25] I'm constantly getting sent things to review.

[01:03:29] I am on YouTube now, which I really didn't want to do video because I like that podcast started off as audio.

[01:03:37] But I've kind of transitioned into video.

[01:03:39] So if you look at my content on, like, TikTok, I'm more focused on, like, the comedy side, like, comedic education, because I think it should be fun.

[01:03:48] I think it should be lighthearted when I'm educating people.

[01:03:51] So, yeah, for the podcast, I just hope to keep recording and to really just keep growing.

[01:03:57] That's real.

[01:03:58] And lastly, watch your people tap in and subscribe to the Hoology podcast.

[01:04:04] Hoology is a brand.

[01:04:05] And so, you know, if you are interested in learning, if you want to make a new friend, if you just want to find out some really cool things that you really normally wouldn't see in your day-to-day life, listen to Hoology.

[01:04:17] We have every type of episode, you can imagine.

[01:04:21] I've had strippers on to talk about their experience.

[01:04:24] I've had pro-female dominatrix on.

[01:04:27] I've had male sex workers on my podcast.

[01:04:31] I really, really love what I do, and I love the people that I get to talk to and interview.

[01:04:36] So if you're looking for something new, check me out.

[01:04:40] That's real.

[01:04:42] I want to thank you for blessing the liquor talk with your presence.

[01:04:45] And listen, we're in the same goddamn city.

[01:04:47] So if you need me to come on your podcast, you let me know.

[01:04:50] I know I'm not a sex worker or anything like that.

[01:04:53] But fuck, I can give you a goddamn male perspective, a single male perspective at that.

[01:04:57] We're in the same goddamn city.

[01:04:59] There is no reason why we can't be working together.

[01:05:02] So you just let me know when.

[01:05:04] And also, I'll definitely bring you back on if I hear some crazy sex shit that I need to be spelled.

[01:05:10] Well, did you know that every year in St. Pete, they host FetishCon?

[01:05:15] Have you heard of that?

[01:05:16] Ooh.

[01:05:17] I think I've heard of that, but I didn't really do the research on it.

[01:05:21] I might need to pull up and do some interviews while I'm there.

[01:05:25] But hey, see, that's why we got a network.

[01:05:27] We got to connect as well because we're in the same goddamn city.

[01:05:30] There's no excuse of why we can't network and mingle in person, make some shit happen.

[01:05:35] I agree.

[01:05:37] But listen, overall, I want to thank you for blessing the liquor talk with your presence.

[01:05:43] I want to thank everybody that tuned in to the liquor talk, that poured in for this grown folks conversation.

[01:05:49] Really, I hope y'all really tap in there.

[01:05:51] Get something from it.

[01:05:52] Shout out to everybody that's listening to us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio.

[01:05:55] And what kind of people find you if they need to get in touch with you?

[01:05:59] You can find me on Instagram at HoologyPod.

[01:06:03] I'm on TikTok at HoologyPodcast.

[01:06:05] And pretty much everywhere that you get your podcast, you can also say, Alexa, play Hoology Podcast.

[01:06:12] And she will play me.

[01:06:15] Yes.

[01:06:16] Alexa will definitely say, play liquor talk.

[01:06:18] But Alexa might be fucked up after she'll play that.

[01:06:23] But listen, I want to thank you for blessing the liquor talk.

[01:06:26] I want to thank you, the listeners, for checking out liquor talk.

[01:06:28] Keep going, everything.

[01:06:30] Everybody, everything in life is temporary.

[01:06:32] So just take a shot and look at it and keep it pushing.

[01:06:34] Until the next episode, we out this thing, y'all.

[01:06:36] Peace.

[01:06:38] Bye.