Ep 306: Politics and Submission (Men’s Round)
Liquor TalkOctober 16, 2024

Ep 306: Politics and Submission (Men’s Round)

Message to the men. It’s on us to change the future and to improve things for the next generation of men coming behind us. From voting to being a mentor for younger men we have to make things happen. On October’s Men’s Round edition of Liquor Talk Vic welcomes back the crew from the Outta Left Field Podcast for the first time since the pandemic (Ep 81), artist Alphonso Lays who was on last season (Ep 269) and Juggy from the book of clarity for a men’s round conversation that got real. Topics covered were recapping the first month of football season (10:00), importance of voting (31:00), men wanting submission from women (44:00), men’s impact on future generations (57:00) and so much more. Follow all of the content creators featured on this episode on all their social media platforms and channels.

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[00:00:02] Liquor Talk, another brand new episode of Grown Folks Talk starts right now.

[00:00:08] Welcome and welcome everybody to another edition of the Liquor Talk Podcast.

[00:00:12] I'm your man Victor and today this month is the men's only round and the two fellas

[00:00:17] they're joining me from Philadelphia. They're the hosts of the Outer Left Field Podcast.

[00:00:22] It has been some years since I had these gentlemen on but I welcomed them back. Fellas, how you guys doing?

[00:00:29] And thank you all for coming back. I know it's been a very long time so how y'all been doing?

[00:00:34] Wow man, all good bro. Appreciate you having us on the platform.

[00:00:39] Yeah, I've been good man. I'm not stoked to speak for myself but yeah man, I've been good man.

[00:00:44] And it's good to be back.

[00:00:47] Yeah same here man, definitely appreciate you having us on.

[00:00:50] You know, everything, everything man. You know life won't be life but I'm here so I ain't gonna do it to play.

[00:00:57] Yeah, yeah, we are definitely here. I'm like do y'all realize the last time I had y'all and we were in the middle of the pandemic?

[00:01:05] We were, I think everybody was locked in their houses.

[00:01:10] Mm-hmm. Yep, everybody was stuck in.

[00:01:12] Everybody was doing a lot of collabing.

[00:01:15] It was, that was a wild time.

[00:01:19] That was a wild time that pandemic shit.

[00:01:22] Yes, it was a very wild time and that's when the guest boom for Liquor Talk really started.

[00:01:29] And you guys were at the ground floor of it and now we still booming today.

[00:01:34] I'm sorry it took almost 200 episodes to get y'all back on but hey, it is what it is.

[00:01:40] Congratulations.

[00:01:41] Hey man, you already know all that in the middle.

[00:01:44] Don't even matter.

[00:01:46] Yeah, yeah, that's what's up though.

[00:01:48] So for the people that wasn't listening at that time, tell the people about the Out of Left Hill podcast.

[00:01:55] Um, Out of Left Hill podcast, you know, is a, it's somewhat of a talk show.

[00:02:02] I mean, at times you can laugh with us.

[00:02:05] At times it's very, very serious and intense.

[00:02:09] Uh, we touch a wide range of topics, you know, from sports, politics, a lot.

[00:02:15] Most of the time we talk about our people, but you know, uh, hip hop from the fuckery to the things that goes on in front of y'all.

[00:02:23] All these cases and shit that happen in the nowness.

[00:02:25] We were talking about this stuff from jump street.

[00:02:28] So if you were to go through our archives, we've been saying these things.

[00:02:33] Um, but, uh, yeah, it, it, it, it's entertaining, you know, check it out.

[00:02:40] Out of Left Hill podcast on YouTube and, um, that's O U T T A Out of Left Hill and O L F

[00:02:48] podcast on all other platforms.

[00:02:51] That's real.

[00:02:52] That's real.

[00:02:53] That's real.

[00:02:53] Um, so I, well, so what happened, so what's happened with you guys?

[00:02:57] Cause, um, I said it, it was literally the pandemic.

[00:03:00] Y'all go back to episode 81 of liquor talk.

[00:03:03] Um, if y'all want to find that episode, but I'm like, I didn't realize how long it's been

[00:03:08] until I've really sat down and both preparing.

[00:03:11] I was like, God damn, this has been so long.

[00:03:13] Yeah.

[00:03:14] Yeah.

[00:03:15] I think we up to episode 337.

[00:03:20] If I'm not mistaken, I think that's where we did.

[00:03:23] Yeah.

[00:03:24] That's what's up fellas.

[00:03:25] Well, I appreciate you guys for being on time and for being here.

[00:03:28] Um, I had some other scheduled men to be here, but they, they didn't communicate or

[00:03:34] nothing.

[00:03:35] So hopefully those guys.

[00:03:37] Yeah.

[00:03:38] Hopefully the help of them show up, but, um, even if we still got love for those guys,

[00:03:43] but, um, but fellas, we'll, we'll start with a little sports talk.

[00:03:47] So y'all know the first month of football season is taking place.

[00:03:51] So how y'all feeling right now about your teams?

[00:03:56] Go ahead.

[00:03:56] So you go first.

[00:03:57] Oh, well.

[00:03:59] So it's funny that you, that you had to like, but I just had a conversation with a couple

[00:04:03] of people and they, they scoffed at me, but, um, I don't have 18.

[00:04:08] I have five teams.

[00:04:12] Okay.

[00:04:12] Well, you, well, let's start.

[00:04:14] Which one do you feel the highest on right now?

[00:04:16] Which one got you?

[00:04:18] Uh, would you feeling good right now?

[00:04:21] Um, it's a couple of them.

[00:04:24] Cause, um, I'm my commanders.

[00:04:26] I like the commanders right now.

[00:04:27] We looking real good right now.

[00:04:29] I mean, and, and the Ravens, they're looking pretty good.

[00:04:34] You know what I'm saying?

[00:04:35] So they, they, two of my five teams right now.

[00:04:38] Hey, you know, they were scheduled to play and, um, and week six.

[00:04:42] But NBC is trying to get that game for Sunday night football, but CBS ain't having it.

[00:04:49] I'm like CBS.

[00:04:50] Come on now.

[00:04:51] Nobody want to watch the Bengals and Giants on Sunday night football.

[00:04:55] Come on.

[00:04:55] Come on, CBS.

[00:04:56] Come on around.

[00:04:59] Yeah.

[00:04:59] They, they, they, sometimes they piss me off with the games they choose to give us.

[00:05:02] Like for the solo games when it's just one game on at night or Monday night, early

[00:05:07] night.

[00:05:07] Like y'all gotta do wild games on standalones.

[00:05:11] But why would anybody speak to death?

[00:05:14] That that would be a good matchup on a Sunday night.

[00:05:16] The Giants and the Bengals.

[00:05:17] Like, why would anybody want to watch the Giants?

[00:05:20] We fucking prime sound football.

[00:05:22] Want to watch.

[00:05:23] They want to see my boy.

[00:05:25] Well, but unfortunately.

[00:05:28] Yeah.

[00:05:29] And there was this ball and he just got a trash quarterback, get him the football.

[00:05:32] But my thing is like, um, CBS, why can't y'all and NBC just work something out?

[00:05:40] Because they say flex schedule is supposed to start like after like week five or week six.

[00:05:46] So I don't, I don't know, man.

[00:05:50] Um, but what?

[00:05:52] Well, for me, we might as well get this out the way.

[00:05:55] Then keep back.

[00:05:56] I got nine teams.

[00:05:58] So.

[00:05:59] And they all suck right now.

[00:06:02] It's not.

[00:06:04] You got nine teams and they all suck right now.

[00:06:08] Yo.

[00:06:09] Just about like, it's not looking good for us right now.

[00:06:12] Um, this, this, this multiple teams.

[00:06:16] This is something we got from one of our goals.

[00:06:18] It's called the Sim Effect.

[00:06:20] Shout out to Tim.

[00:06:22] Um, yeah, these, these teams, they trade your players too much.

[00:06:25] Like the games is too rigged.

[00:06:27] Like you got, you're playing fantasy football anyway.

[00:06:30] So like, who really cares what team like that's the way we kind of look at it at this point.

[00:06:35] It's just all entertainment.

[00:06:38] Yeah.

[00:06:39] Yeah.

[00:06:40] I feel that.

[00:06:40] I feel that.

[00:06:41] Which is why I found myself not getting so high or so low on the Buccaneers whenever they,

[00:06:49] because Thursday night football, we balled out, but the defense let us down at the end.

[00:06:55] Yeah.

[00:06:55] I know.

[00:06:57] Yeah.

[00:06:57] I know we're good right now.

[00:06:58] And I know the Falcons have got to come to Tampa and come see us in about a few weeks.

[00:07:02] So I know we're going to get, you know, get back.

[00:07:06] Yeah.

[00:07:06] That's one of my teams.

[00:07:08] Yeah.

[00:07:09] That's what's up then.

[00:07:11] And, um, and I'm, I'm mad all you Falcons fans are some goddamn haters because, um,

[00:07:18] um, we all know in that group chat, they were just going in.

[00:07:21] I'm like, you know what?

[00:07:22] Y'all went one damn game and y'all going off.

[00:07:24] Yeah.

[00:07:25] See, I know they really love their team and shit in there.

[00:07:28] So that's why I don't really get into it with them because I know they love their team

[00:07:30] and I don't be trying to, you know, get into that with, with guys that really love

[00:07:34] their team like that.

[00:07:35] So I let them do it.

[00:07:36] Yeah.

[00:07:37] It's like, I love my team too, but at the same time, I'm also realist and stuff.

[00:07:42] I can say, I can be, I can be a fair man and say, Hey, y'all got it today.

[00:07:46] I'm not gonna, and I'm also not gonna gloat about it as well.

[00:07:50] I'm just gonna be like, shake hand onto the next game.

[00:07:52] Well, you know, I'm not, you know how fans can be.

[00:07:57] Some Eagles fans here, you know what I'm thinking.

[00:08:03] Like you said, but it all kind of started, like you said, it's like these, when I started

[00:08:08] like really just sitting back thinking about it, I'm like, bro, these, these teams

[00:08:12] and these, and we won't call them, only we call them chairman.

[00:08:15] I mean, we won't go up to use the world, the word, you know, that old word.

[00:08:19] But like these chairman, like, they don't have no, like, to like, to the fans for real

[00:08:24] for real, bro.

[00:08:25] Like they do whatever they want, bro.

[00:08:27] They, so it's like, what about, I'm gonna keep having all those, see the one team and

[00:08:32] y'all just keep, I'm gonna get with the, like the, the better players.

[00:08:35] Y'all wanna pick, like, it's just, it's just spandum, bro.

[00:08:39] Like I don't like it.

[00:08:40] And like, it's, it's football is, is really starting to come up.

[00:08:45] Took me, the, my biggest takeaway though, from the biggest month, from the first month

[00:08:51] of the season.

[00:08:52] And I've kind of said it last year, but I'm doubling down on it is the quarterback position

[00:08:58] is the most over height and overrated position in all of professional sports.

[00:09:04] For real.

[00:09:08] And all of the professional.

[00:09:09] I told y'all I kinda mold it.

[00:09:11] And.

[00:09:12] Cause I can see where you coming from with it.

[00:09:15] Alright.

[00:09:15] Again, now when I say that, like, of course you can't, I mean, well, I'm not gonna say

[00:09:19] you can't have no shitty ass quarterback because we've seen but the shitty ass quarterback

[00:09:22] win sometimes.

[00:09:23] So, I mean, yeah, like, you know, the dude has to be okay.

[00:09:27] But.

[00:09:28] Like the thing they get to like, they, they, they get so much credit for and like, oh,

[00:09:33] they have to process this and do this and.

[00:09:36] Well, everybody on the Austin got to process the same exact thing.

[00:09:40] Like when you call an audible, the wide receiver has to know what product I gotta run now.

[00:09:45] The offensive line has to know which way I had to block now.

[00:09:48] So all of this.

[00:09:49] Super natural, smart, all the, the whole offense gotta know this shit because if it don't,

[00:09:54] if I don't know it, then we're going to fall apart.

[00:09:57] If you call in checks and I don't know what the checks are.

[00:10:00] So it's like they, they get all of the credits for, oh, they, they studied the playbook.

[00:10:06] The wide receiver.

[00:10:07] I gotta know the playbook too.

[00:10:08] Cause I might, I'm not going to be in the same.

[00:10:10] I'm not going to line up in the same position every single time.

[00:10:14] So I gotta know the playbook too.

[00:10:15] Right?

[00:10:15] Like the running back.

[00:10:16] Like, so it's like all of these people had to know these things, but the quarterback

[00:10:21] just gets all the damn praise.

[00:10:23] And it's like, I'm going to keep fucking these teams up, paying these quarterbacks $50 million

[00:10:29] and you can't pay nobody else.

[00:10:31] And now the rest of your team shitty, but you got a fucking $50 to a million quarterback.

[00:10:35] I eat the Jaguars.

[00:10:38] Yes.

[00:10:39] You, you read my mind with that one.

[00:10:41] Cause I'm looking at Jacksonville.

[00:10:42] Like why the hell y'all just pay this man?

[00:10:45] You know, got one playoff win.

[00:10:47] Come on now.

[00:10:48] And then y'all set up for failure with the damn coach that don't understand.

[00:10:52] I'm like, bro, I know coach Peterson wants to book for Philly, but I'm like, come on.

[00:10:56] Now you need to be, um, um, get rid of doing something that he can do something that if you

[00:11:04] got to run a college offense or something like that, then so be it run something he's comfortable

[00:11:08] with.

[00:11:08] And I'm like, because everybody was typing up Jacksonville, like, oh, they going to challenge

[00:11:13] Houston.

[00:11:13] I'm like, yeah, they ain't got it.

[00:11:17] And I didn't see that coming.

[00:11:19] That's one of my teams too.

[00:11:20] They horrible.

[00:11:21] But, um, yeah.

[00:11:22] Yeah.

[00:11:24] And another thing I will say is when they will hype up the system, tell it to the quarterback,

[00:11:29] but then when the quarterback gets hurt, the team goes to shit.

[00:11:33] Miami Dolphins.

[00:11:35] Miami, the first day, the first day, the first one to do that though.

[00:11:38] Usually teams just went with the backup.

[00:11:41] Yeah.

[00:11:41] And I'm surprised because Miami is the team you expect to be okay.

[00:11:46] You need NFL.

[00:11:47] It's never what you think.

[00:11:49] Never.

[00:11:50] Yeah.

[00:11:51] Exactly.

[00:11:52] Because we all said, we all looked at what Buffalo did in the off season.

[00:11:56] Like, damn, Buffalo got rid of a lot of their guys.

[00:11:59] And we looked at them and like, okay, they might be the team and we don't know what's

[00:12:03] going to, what's up with the jet because it's all depending on Aaron Rodgers health.

[00:12:07] So, but then when Tua goes down, I'm like Miami y'all, y'all just paid this man too.

[00:12:14] Yeah.

[00:12:15] All that debate and about paying them.

[00:12:17] I wouldn't have paid them.

[00:12:18] I would touch on what you were saying about, you know, the quarterback being overrated.

[00:12:25] I think that it's in my mind, it's three quarterback.

[00:12:28] You got Patrick, you got Lamar, you got Josh out.

[00:12:31] I think those three are type of quarterback.

[00:12:34] You know what I mean?

[00:12:35] Who don't really matter who gets hurt.

[00:12:38] You know, I mean, they all need off of the line.

[00:12:41] I'll say, but they can play with like less weapons, whatever your team still want to be there.

[00:12:47] Like, I think all the other quarterbacks, they need all the support in the world.

[00:12:52] Like whoever you want to say Joe Burrow, whoever, whoever, they all need all the support in the world.

[00:12:57] You stuck them on some of these teams.

[00:13:00] Like they just going to be an average quarterback.

[00:13:02] Like you shouldn't be getting paid that much money.

[00:13:04] And football is like the ultimate team sport to me.

[00:13:07] It's like, I think it's like a chain.

[00:13:10] Everybody's in a link.

[00:13:11] Like, you know what I mean?

[00:13:12] Like you said, when you call the oil builder, the officer lineman got to know the protection.

[00:13:15] When they looking at, when they looking at the defensive end in front of them, they don't,

[00:13:20] what if he drop out?

[00:13:21] They got to see who coming.

[00:13:22] They got, it's a whole lot to football.

[00:13:24] It's just that type of game.

[00:13:25] And then we get to seem like just the quarterback got all this going on.

[00:13:30] It's a lot going on for everybody.

[00:13:32] Like, I mean, if I'm the middle linebacker, I see it's three different routes coming at me.

[00:13:36] And I got to realize which one is which and pick which one is mine if I'm in a zone per se.

[00:13:40] Like, you know what I mean?

[00:13:42] It's a lot of thinking going on in this quick.

[00:13:44] So I didn't think everybody need everybody.

[00:13:47] And even if you was the quarterback that went out there and scored 50 every game,

[00:13:51] your defense give up 51, you still going to lose.

[00:13:54] So now it's everybody need everybody.

[00:13:58] My team.

[00:14:00] Yes, most definitely.

[00:14:01] Everybody.

[00:14:01] I definitely agree with you.

[00:14:02] Everybody needs everybody.

[00:14:03] Right.

[00:14:04] That's why they call it a team sport, because everybody feeds off of one another.

[00:14:10] And sometimes you could have an okay offense with a really good defense.

[00:14:15] And you're out here bowling like like your neighbors to the West in Pittsburgh.

[00:14:20] So because but Pittsburgh has always been like that.

[00:14:24] Yeah, they have the really good defense and then some offense and they'll be all right.

[00:14:31] Yeah.

[00:14:32] Yeah.

[00:14:32] The way they change the rules and stuff now that don't that don't that don't suit Pittsburgh.

[00:14:36] Well, even though they playing good right now, but it they taking away from Pittsburgh a solid game.

[00:14:44] Yeah, that's true.

[00:14:45] They they outlawing that stuff also.

[00:14:47] And because a lot of those guys, they don't retire now, but they still trying to outlaw it out of the game, which don't make no sense.

[00:14:54] But speaking of not making no sense.

[00:14:56] What do I think of the college game?

[00:14:57] Because the college game is just all fucked because you mean, you got Penn State playing USC and that's not a conference game.

[00:15:06] Come on now.

[00:15:08] And then listen, you got Miami playing California.

[00:15:11] That's the conference game.

[00:15:12] Now this shit don't make no damn sense.

[00:15:14] This money cannot be that serious that y'all got a team from Florida.

[00:15:19] I'll go all the way to California and y'all called a conference game.

[00:15:23] Oh, man.

[00:15:25] I would say it's so all over the place.

[00:15:28] Like it's so hard to keep up with.

[00:15:30] Now it's like every year teams transfer every year to play a strength.

[00:15:35] It's just it's wild.

[00:15:37] And I was one of the big advocates for the players.

[00:15:39] You need money.

[00:15:40] I wanted them to sit out one of them do all kinds of shit so they can have the freedom to transfer and all that.

[00:15:46] But I can say that now that I have it and it's here inside of control.

[00:15:51] So it's not a control.

[00:15:54] That's the best.

[00:15:54] Yeah.

[00:15:57] And what what you think, man?

[00:15:59] Liam, I'm about to say, but as somebody that watches like college football,

[00:16:04] like the board tell you like I'm watching every Saturday, like I'm locked in.

[00:16:08] Like I really am a fan of college football.

[00:16:11] And it's all in this could have been avoided.

[00:16:17] And they would have just like either started paying players before or let me like this.

[00:16:23] And I ocean would have been 15, 20 years before.

[00:16:27] Like all of it.

[00:16:28] I think a lot of this shit could have got avoided.

[00:16:31] Um, because it's like you said, like it's they always try to like I get it.

[00:16:37] I always try to say the money grab the money doesn't hurt.

[00:16:40] But again, it they don't they're not thinking about like you said, they're not thinking about these kids.

[00:16:47] They're not thinking about I'm a college student.

[00:16:51] I play football.

[00:16:52] Like you said, I got a travel fucking I like to say that travels 3,000 miles already so far.

[00:16:58] The place of the place.

[00:16:59] Let me forget.

[00:17:01] Like, it's like you play a conference game all the way to fuck across the country.

[00:17:07] Right now you're talking about school.

[00:17:10] Like it's like what?

[00:17:10] Like you can't hear about school, bro.

[00:17:12] Like, no way you got there.

[00:17:13] No way you're not going to tell me.

[00:17:15] I am just in a shitload of classes going on in this traveling.

[00:17:20] Hell yeah.

[00:17:21] And you know what it is?

[00:17:22] I thought they only took the count.

[00:17:24] They probably do online shit.

[00:17:26] Yeah.

[00:17:28] They probably do the online shit.

[00:17:30] And I feel like the only only um, it's what they took the count is football.

[00:17:34] Like what basketball team, you know, is going to want to travel 3,000 miles for a conference

[00:17:39] game.

[00:17:39] You didn't take kind of volleyball or the other sporting teams like why the hell y'all be y'all

[00:17:45] have money like that.

[00:17:46] Or is it just for football because football is the one that making all the money.

[00:17:49] And basketball as well.

[00:17:52] Football and basketball.

[00:17:53] Yeah.

[00:17:55] But y'all not accommodating the other sports.

[00:17:57] I mean, if it's just football, basketball, I understand because they make money, but.

[00:18:02] No, no, no, no.

[00:18:03] But those other sports, um, again, especially the females, you're a female.

[00:18:08] You're a female.

[00:18:09] You're a female.

[00:18:12] You're a female.

[00:18:32] Yeah.

[00:18:33] And the year before that, it was the two twins from Miami hurricanes that played basketball

[00:18:37] and he was getting all the money off of they looks because they're the twin.

[00:18:40] I mean, uh, so sometimes it don't gotta be basketball or football.

[00:18:47] Like I think Sha'Carri Richardson had a nice NIL deal with track.

[00:18:51] Yeah.

[00:18:52] So, um, yeah.

[00:18:54] Uh, if you a star, you'll start.

[00:18:56] You know what I mean?

[00:18:56] If you could be marketed, you're going to get some money.

[00:18:59] Yeah, that's true.

[00:19:00] That's definitely true.

[00:19:01] But I feel bad for these conferences now because now they have to travel cross country

[00:19:07] for a damn conference game.

[00:19:08] I'm like, what the hell were y'all thinking?

[00:19:11] Like y'all couldn't just get the damn TV deals and stuff where y'all were at.

[00:19:19] But it just.

[00:19:20] Yeah.

[00:19:21] I mean, but the, the big conferences, you know, they get bigger checks.

[00:19:25] I mean, they got more investors, more endorsements, more commercial.

[00:19:29] More.

[00:19:30] So it's just more money.

[00:19:32] Like you said, it's about the money.

[00:19:34] It ain't about nothing else.

[00:19:35] It's definitely about the money.

[00:19:37] Yeah.

[00:19:38] But I think we're going to be headed towards one super conference eventually where all

[00:19:43] the big schools are just in one conference together.

[00:19:46] I do like the added playoff game at playoff teams though.

[00:19:49] Y'all like that?

[00:19:51] Yeah.

[00:19:54] Yeah.

[00:19:55] Um, yeah, I'm definitely here for that.

[00:19:58] Um, definitely here for the added playoff games as well.

[00:20:03] So that means Georgia is not really hurt by losing to Alabama.

[00:20:08] Um, now it's like they didn't get that loss out of the way.

[00:20:12] So it's not really hurting them.

[00:20:15] It don't do the end of teasing out.

[00:20:17] And that makes them more intriguing anyway.

[00:20:20] Cause now, you know, they can wind up to each other in a playoff deal, rematch, SEC

[00:20:24] championship, maybe even, but one loss don't just kill your season now.

[00:20:29] And I think we all like that a little bit better.

[00:20:33] That's way better.

[00:20:35] Now it's like, now it's just about getting into the dance.

[00:20:39] The only thing I don't like, I don't think I don't like about it is the damn little schools,

[00:20:43] the group of five schools, they don't even get an automatic bid in.

[00:20:46] They got to be the highest rank or to get a bid in, but they don't even get an automatic bid in.

[00:20:51] Well, it's kind of hard though.

[00:20:53] Like because of the competition, like that's something that's always going to be a struggle to, to, to, to actually rate it.

[00:21:02] How do you rate it?

[00:21:02] How do you, the quality of the winners, they like to say, if, if you're over there and you're 13 and over and we like, all right.

[00:21:08] And this team over here is 11 and two per se, but they, they lost to LSU, Alabama.

[00:21:17] How do I really rate that over it?

[00:21:19] That's, that's a tough call.

[00:21:22] This thing is in a game right now.

[00:21:24] They, they, they down in the game right now.

[00:21:27] Yeah.

[00:21:27] I saw that.

[00:21:29] Yeah.

[00:21:30] At the time we were recording Alabama was losing.

[00:21:32] I'm like, so they playing Vanderbilt.

[00:21:35] Vanderbilt.

[00:21:36] Vanderbilt.

[00:21:36] Vanderbilt.

[00:21:36] They still down.

[00:21:37] They still down.

[00:21:39] Vanderbilt has always been sorry at football.

[00:21:42] So I will, I will laugh because I'm looking at Georgia.

[00:21:48] Like y'all really lost to Alabama.

[00:21:50] The Alabama goes loose to Vanderbilt.

[00:21:53] Oh yeah.

[00:21:54] They still down with a minute to go.

[00:21:55] They down five 40, 35.

[00:21:58] Yeah.

[00:21:58] Really?

[00:21:59] Got the ball.

[00:22:01] They can write.

[00:22:03] Crazy.

[00:22:04] That number one, that number one team is a curse.

[00:22:07] Once you get that one next to you, man.

[00:22:10] Yeah.

[00:22:12] I'm going to say this about college football though.

[00:22:14] One thing I will say is.

[00:22:18] So I'm going to say, I would, I'm going to say this, man.

[00:22:18] Jeremy Hunter is a different.

[00:22:21] Like that motherfucker is different.

[00:22:23] He is.

[00:22:25] He is.

[00:22:26] He is like, he, he, he one of them.

[00:22:28] Once every 20, 25 year you see type of players, bro.

[00:22:32] Like he, he on that type time, bro.

[00:22:35] Like, like that motherfucker is really, really good, bro.

[00:22:38] I think he's really good.

[00:22:40] I agree.

[00:22:41] At this point, with Hunter, I'm like,

[00:22:45] go ahead and give him

[00:22:46] the Heisman.

[00:22:47] But

[00:22:49] like they said,

[00:22:51] like some pros said,

[00:22:53] I think

[00:22:56] he'll get it though.

[00:22:58] Because no matter with

[00:23:00] Colorado, I need Colorado to be at least

[00:23:02] eligible for him to get it.

[00:23:05] Because if Colorado

[00:23:06] is somewhat relevant, they'll give

[00:23:08] it to him. They win it right now

[00:23:10] so we can't say nothing better about them right now.

[00:23:12] No, listen.

[00:23:13] I totally agree.

[00:23:17] I totally agree

[00:23:18] if they become

[00:23:20] more eligible,

[00:23:22] that

[00:23:24] he's definitely going to get it.

[00:23:25] Like you said.

[00:23:26] Even if they're 8-4?

[00:23:28] Yeah, even if they're 8-4.

[00:23:30] What's the name? The year

[00:23:31] J and Dave won, he lost three games.

[00:23:34] You know what I'm saying?

[00:23:36] To me,

[00:23:37] I hate the fact that

[00:23:39] even the MVP,

[00:23:40] I hate that all of these joints

[00:23:42] are quarterback awards.

[00:23:44] Because

[00:23:44] if you watch college football,

[00:23:48] and like you said again,

[00:23:49] if the season continues to play out

[00:23:50] the way it does,

[00:23:51] even if they don't win or whatever,

[00:23:53] there ain't nobody

[00:23:54] that I'm going to believe

[00:23:57] if you try to tell me

[00:23:58] that somebody's a better player

[00:24:00] in college football than

[00:24:00] Travis.

[00:24:01] Like, I don't give a fuck

[00:24:02] about the quarterback.

[00:24:04] Like, you're not going to tell me

[00:24:06] that.

[00:24:06] Like, the numbers

[00:24:07] could be cool,

[00:24:08] but to be an elite

[00:24:11] corner in an elite,

[00:24:12] like, I'm talking about,

[00:24:13] like, you would probably be,

[00:24:14] you would be a top

[00:24:15] one or two corner

[00:24:16] in the top one or two receiver

[00:24:17] in the country.

[00:24:20] That's elite, man.

[00:24:21] Like, so I don't want to hear

[00:24:22] the quarterback

[00:24:23] do that in the third.

[00:24:23] Like, that's elite, man.

[00:24:26] That is special.

[00:24:27] That is special

[00:24:28] on another level.

[00:24:29] But,

[00:24:30] when he gets to the pros,

[00:24:32] because y'all know

[00:24:32] he going number one.

[00:24:33] Y'all know

[00:24:34] there's no way in hell

[00:24:35] he doesn't go number one.

[00:24:36] I believe he should,

[00:24:38] but you know,

[00:24:40] it depends who gets to pick

[00:24:41] because he's quarterback.

[00:24:43] That's true.

[00:24:43] You know how it is.

[00:24:45] Yeah, but what position

[00:24:46] would you want to see him

[00:24:47] play in the NFL

[00:24:48] is my question

[00:24:48] because

[00:24:49] it's something

[00:24:50] if a lot of pros

[00:24:51] that came out and said

[00:24:52] it's like,

[00:24:53] it'd be tough

[00:24:53] to play both ways.

[00:24:55] But,

[00:24:55] because if it's me,

[00:24:56] I don't see him

[00:24:57] as a corner,

[00:24:58] but I'll give him

[00:24:59] like one or two packages

[00:25:01] in the offense.

[00:25:02] Go ahead, bro.

[00:25:03] I'll let you go first.

[00:25:07] See, like,

[00:25:10] again, man,

[00:25:11] like,

[00:25:11] they,

[00:25:12] I hate when they try

[00:25:13] to put those

[00:25:14] type of managers out there.

[00:25:15] It's like,

[00:25:17] like,

[00:25:17] again,

[00:25:18] because it's,

[00:25:19] we like to hang on things

[00:25:20] that always never been done

[00:25:22] and it's the highest level.

[00:25:24] And I get it.

[00:25:24] I mean,

[00:25:25] I'm not saying

[00:25:25] you ought to go out there

[00:25:26] and play every snap,

[00:25:27] but if somebody is

[00:25:30] elite at something,

[00:25:32] why would you not

[00:25:33] want to put them

[00:25:34] on a field?

[00:25:34] Like,

[00:25:34] you don't,

[00:25:35] it don't got to be

[00:25:35] every play,

[00:25:36] but like third downs

[00:25:37] or certain plays,

[00:25:38] like,

[00:25:39] we'll play him both ways,

[00:25:41] especially early

[00:25:41] in his career.

[00:25:42] Like,

[00:25:42] I would play him both ways

[00:25:43] and see the type of impact

[00:25:45] he would have

[00:25:46] and maybe,

[00:25:47] you know,

[00:25:48] settle into a position.

[00:25:49] But it's like,

[00:25:51] why put him into that box

[00:25:52] and he ain't in that box

[00:25:53] right now.

[00:25:53] Like,

[00:25:54] it's not the box he is.

[00:25:57] Yeah.

[00:25:57] So it's like,

[00:25:59] you know what I'm saying?

[00:26:00] So I feel like

[00:26:00] you will be taken away from,

[00:26:02] taken away from him

[00:26:03] a little bit

[00:26:03] if you don't

[00:26:04] allow him to play

[00:26:05] on both sides

[00:26:07] sometimes.

[00:26:08] Like I said,

[00:26:08] you don't got to be

[00:26:08] every single play

[00:26:09] like on some college shit,

[00:26:10] but more times than not,

[00:26:13] if he's the best player

[00:26:13] on your team,

[00:26:14] you won't be more than still.

[00:26:16] Um,

[00:26:16] yeah.

[00:26:18] For me,

[00:26:19] um,

[00:26:21] I definitely think

[00:26:22] he has to pick a side.

[00:26:24] Um,

[00:26:26] because like,

[00:26:26] even now,

[00:26:27] what he's doing now

[00:26:28] and me and,

[00:26:30] um,

[00:26:30] and Stokes

[00:26:31] talked about this,

[00:26:32] but,

[00:26:32] um,

[00:26:33] even what he's doing now,

[00:26:34] I think

[00:26:35] he's wearing himself down.

[00:26:37] I think they,

[00:26:37] they use him way too much.

[00:26:39] Like,

[00:26:40] you know what I mean?

[00:26:40] Uh,

[00:26:41] his future

[00:26:42] is still in front of him.

[00:26:44] He's beating himself up

[00:26:45] a lot now.

[00:26:45] Like,

[00:26:46] uh,

[00:26:47] to think that he's gonna go

[00:26:48] in the NFL

[00:26:48] and continue to do that,

[00:26:50] I just don't think

[00:26:50] that that health-wise,

[00:26:51] I just don't see it.

[00:26:52] You know what I mean?

[00:26:53] Uh,

[00:26:54] if he would,

[00:26:55] he'd be the first,

[00:26:56] but I just don't see it.

[00:26:57] Um,

[00:27:00] in terms of,

[00:27:01] as far as which one

[00:27:01] do I think he should play,

[00:27:03] I was saying

[00:27:04] a couple weeks ago

[00:27:05] that I thought he could

[00:27:06] play receiver

[00:27:06] because that's where

[00:27:07] the money at.

[00:27:08] They got his receivers

[00:27:08] all his money.

[00:27:09] If you see that right now,

[00:27:12] he should just

[00:27:12] switch over the receiver

[00:27:13] and go that route.

[00:27:15] But then I heard

[00:27:16] Richard Sherman say

[00:27:17] what he said.

[00:27:18] Y'all heard what

[00:27:19] Richard Sherman said about him?

[00:27:21] Yeah.

[00:27:22] Yeah.

[00:27:23] Um,

[00:27:24] when I saw

[00:27:24] Richard Sherman

[00:27:25] said about him,

[00:27:26] right,

[00:27:26] uh,

[00:27:27] and I thought about that

[00:27:28] and I didn't think

[00:27:29] about it like that.

[00:27:30] But when you do,

[00:27:31] if you do put him

[00:27:32] and now you're comparing

[00:27:33] him to the elite

[00:27:35] receiver

[00:27:35] in the NFL,

[00:27:36] he would kind of

[00:27:37] just be like,

[00:27:38] you know,

[00:27:39] even if you compare

[00:27:40] him to Marvin Harrison

[00:27:41] Jr.,

[00:27:41] like,

[00:27:42] he ain't that guy.

[00:27:44] Like,

[00:27:44] you know what I'm

[00:27:45] saying?

[00:27:45] So,

[00:27:47] but at the corner,

[00:27:48] he would be

[00:27:49] right in the upper echelon.

[00:27:51] So,

[00:27:51] I changed my stance

[00:27:53] on that

[00:27:53] to answer the question.

[00:27:54] I think if he,

[00:27:55] when he goes to the league,

[00:27:56] you know,

[00:27:56] when he goes to the league,

[00:27:57] I think he should play corner.

[00:27:59] Yeah,

[00:28:00] I was,

[00:28:00] I was thinking corner

[00:28:01] as well.

[00:28:03] Um,

[00:28:03] but I was saying corner,

[00:28:05] but give him like one or two

[00:28:06] packages on the offense.

[00:28:08] Um,

[00:28:08] just to,

[00:28:09] you know,

[00:28:10] just to,

[00:28:11] you know what I'm saying?

[00:28:11] Just if the offense needs

[00:28:12] to spark.

[00:28:13] But,

[00:28:14] I just got this notification

[00:28:16] on my phone,

[00:28:16] as you're making a point,

[00:28:18] Vanderbilt,

[00:28:19] them beat Alabama.

[00:28:20] I'm like,

[00:28:21] God damn.

[00:28:22] Say it ain't so.

[00:28:24] Say it ain't so,

[00:28:26] man.

[00:28:26] I'm like,

[00:28:27] I got,

[00:28:28] that's what happens.

[00:28:29] That's what happens

[00:28:30] when you sleep while I guess

[00:28:31] you beat Georgia,

[00:28:32] you kill yourself.

[00:28:36] Well,

[00:28:36] Vegas has been done it again.

[00:28:39] Yeah.

[00:28:40] Because,

[00:28:40] I'm not gonna lie to y'all

[00:28:41] because Vanderbilt

[00:28:42] has always been asked

[00:28:44] ever since,

[00:28:44] um,

[00:28:45] James Franklin left.

[00:28:47] Vanderbilt has always been asked

[00:28:49] so,

[00:28:50] for them to win.

[00:28:51] So,

[00:28:51] shout out to Vanderbilt.

[00:28:52] They,

[00:28:52] they done pulled it off.

[00:28:53] I'll have to give it to them.

[00:28:55] Now,

[00:28:55] Texas is about to be

[00:28:56] number one next week.

[00:29:00] Wow.

[00:29:00] But,

[00:29:01] yeah.

[00:29:02] Yeah.

[00:29:03] And they playing

[00:29:04] with two quarterbacks.

[00:29:07] Exactly.

[00:29:09] No,

[00:29:09] they only play with one quarterback.

[00:29:11] I already told you that.

[00:29:12] They play with one quarterback.

[00:29:13] They got,

[00:29:13] they got the best backup

[00:29:14] in the country.

[00:29:17] Yeah,

[00:29:18] I mean.

[00:29:19] Quarterback situation

[00:29:19] in the world,

[00:29:20] In the country right now.

[00:29:22] They do.

[00:29:23] And you know what?

[00:29:24] If I'm Texas,

[00:29:25] you gotta ride who the hot hand is.

[00:29:27] You definitely gotta ride

[00:29:28] whoever the hot hand is.

[00:29:29] You gotta ride with them.

[00:29:31] If the hot hand is Arch,

[00:29:32] stick with them.

[00:29:33] After they can be doing.

[00:29:38] You gotta ride with the guy

[00:29:39] that got you there.

[00:29:41] You know what I mean?

[00:29:44] No,

[00:29:44] even,

[00:29:45] but they even said it though,

[00:29:46] like,

[00:29:46] you know,

[00:29:46] Quinn yours,

[00:29:47] you know,

[00:29:48] that's his team.

[00:29:49] That's his team.

[00:29:50] Like,

[00:29:51] Arch look good.

[00:29:51] He's an older guy.

[00:29:53] You know what I mean?

[00:29:53] But Arch gonna be cool.

[00:29:54] Like,

[00:29:55] his folks already came out

[00:29:56] and said they won't even

[00:29:57] stay for years or whatever.

[00:29:59] Yeah,

[00:29:59] I saw that.

[00:30:00] You know what I mean?

[00:30:01] So,

[00:30:01] it ain't no rush for him to start.

[00:30:04] Of course,

[00:30:05] because the NIL money

[00:30:06] is good now.

[00:30:07] So,

[00:30:07] it's not no rush.

[00:30:08] So,

[00:30:08] I completely understand.

[00:30:10] Yeah,

[00:30:10] he's a man again.

[00:30:10] Look at him.

[00:30:11] He,

[00:30:12] he's one of the highest

[00:30:13] he needs to start.

[00:30:14] He getting paid

[00:30:15] almost $4 million.

[00:30:16] I get paid like

[00:30:17] $3 or $4 million

[00:30:18] they might be able to be

[00:30:19] a backup quarterback.

[00:30:21] For real.

[00:30:22] You know better than that.

[00:30:23] So,

[00:30:24] that's,

[00:30:25] that's one of the things

[00:30:26] I did want to fix.

[00:30:28] I didn't,

[00:30:28] you know,

[00:30:29] necessarily want to see

[00:30:30] it for somebody

[00:30:31] that probably don't need it.

[00:30:33] But,

[00:30:33] hey man,

[00:30:34] it is what it is.

[00:30:35] And you can't make it

[00:30:36] for certain people.

[00:30:39] For real.

[00:30:40] Definitely for real.

[00:30:41] Ladies and gentlemen,

[00:30:42] this is Licor Talk.

[00:30:43] The more you drink,

[00:30:44] the better we sound.

[00:30:45] Hope y'all enjoyed

[00:30:46] that little sports round table.

[00:30:48] We're going to continue.

[00:30:50] We're going to shift

[00:30:50] the gears to some other sports.

[00:30:52] Some guys are on the way

[00:30:54] that'll hit me over there.

[00:30:55] They're saying they're on the way,

[00:30:56] but,

[00:30:56] hey,

[00:30:56] we're going to keep

[00:30:57] the talk going.

[00:30:58] So,

[00:30:59] y'all expecting y'all

[00:31:00] feel as though

[00:31:00] win the World Series this year?

[00:31:03] Yeah.

[00:31:04] Yes.

[00:31:05] Yes.

[00:31:07] I am.

[00:31:08] That's what's up.

[00:31:10] Speaking of

[00:31:10] one of the other guys,

[00:31:12] here's my brother,

[00:31:13] Judge.

[00:31:13] I'm about to bring him up.

[00:31:15] What's good,

[00:31:16] my brother?

[00:31:16] What's going on,

[00:31:18] fellas?

[00:31:18] Apologies for

[00:31:19] my tardiness,

[00:31:21] but hey,

[00:31:21] better late than never.

[00:31:24] Yes.

[00:31:24] Yes.

[00:31:27] Juggie,

[00:31:27] you done missed

[00:31:28] the sports talk.

[00:31:29] We talked about

[00:31:30] how,

[00:31:32] talked about the football

[00:31:33] and stuff,

[00:31:34] but we think

[00:31:35] your Jaguars

[00:31:36] are probably going to get

[00:31:36] Travis Hunter

[00:31:37] the way they're looking

[00:31:38] right about now.

[00:31:43] Exactly.

[00:31:44] See,

[00:31:44] that's exactly,

[00:31:45] that's what I,

[00:31:46] that's what,

[00:31:46] that's why I think

[00:31:47] if a team like that

[00:31:48] or a team like the

[00:31:50] Cleetree

[00:31:50] is getting number one,

[00:31:51] like he has a chance

[00:31:52] to be the number one pick

[00:31:53] because like they have,

[00:31:55] they got quarterbacks,

[00:31:57] you know what I mean?

[00:31:57] They have quarterbacks

[00:31:58] so they don't grab

[00:31:59] the quarterback,

[00:32:00] but,

[00:32:01] you know,

[00:32:01] the Giants

[00:32:01] is number one pick.

[00:32:02] They were trying to knock

[00:32:03] one of the Giants

[00:32:04] is number one pick.

[00:32:05] Like that's just about it.

[00:32:07] You know,

[00:32:08] it's funny,

[00:32:09] you know,

[00:32:09] it's funny because

[00:32:10] you know what I'm saying?

[00:32:11] We're 0-4,

[00:32:12] right?

[00:32:12] And we haven't won a game

[00:32:14] yet this season.

[00:32:15] And yet at the same time,

[00:32:17] like there's so much

[00:32:18] talent on the team.

[00:32:19] I've seen Trevor,

[00:32:21] our quarterback,

[00:32:22] he's led us to the playoffs.

[00:32:23] We were down like four touchdowns

[00:32:26] in a playoff game

[00:32:27] and he brought us

[00:32:28] all the way back

[00:32:29] for a victory

[00:32:30] and we almost beat

[00:32:31] the Chiefs in 2022.

[00:32:33] So,

[00:32:34] I know that he has it in him.

[00:32:35] I think

[00:32:36] the combination of,

[00:32:37] you know,

[00:32:38] him being shell-shocked

[00:32:39] and hit so many times

[00:32:40] and hurt last year,

[00:32:41] I think he caught up with us.

[00:32:42] We didn't invest enough

[00:32:43] in our offensive line

[00:32:44] and,

[00:32:45] you know,

[00:32:45] we're looking terrible

[00:32:46] and I'm not even going to

[00:32:47] talk about USF.

[00:32:48] I mean,

[00:32:49] they just don't got

[00:32:49] no excuse

[00:32:50] for the goose eggs

[00:32:51] that they putting up

[00:32:52] against teams.

[00:32:54] But,

[00:32:55] you know,

[00:32:55] we could get Travis Hunter,

[00:32:57] you know,

[00:32:57] at this point,

[00:32:59] you know,

[00:32:59] Shredor Sanders

[00:33:00] might be on the table.

[00:33:01] I'm not sure.

[00:33:03] There ain't no way in hell.

[00:33:04] There ain't no way in hell

[00:33:06] when Jackson

[00:33:07] wouldn't have paid

[00:33:08] Trevor Lawrence

[00:33:09] all that damn money.

[00:33:10] No.

[00:33:10] Look,

[00:33:11] we made the same state

[00:33:13] with Blake Bortles

[00:33:13] and nobody even remembers

[00:33:14] who that is,

[00:33:15] but he's showing up

[00:33:16] getting a check from us

[00:33:17] so at this point,

[00:33:19] man,

[00:33:19] I'm ready to fire everybody

[00:33:20] from the owner

[00:33:21] all the way down,

[00:33:22] bro,

[00:33:22] because there's no way

[00:33:23] that this should be

[00:33:25] happening to us.

[00:33:26] We should at least

[00:33:26] be two and two,

[00:33:28] you know what I'm saying?

[00:33:29] And we're just

[00:33:30] out here laying goose eggs.

[00:33:31] I got to put on a plastic bag

[00:33:33] every Sunday.

[00:33:34] I got to get my plastic bag ready

[00:33:35] tomorrow,

[00:33:36] reach my head up

[00:33:37] so it don't mess up

[00:33:38] the scout

[00:33:38] because we just suck so bad

[00:33:40] and I go in the bar,

[00:33:41] everybody just start laughing,

[00:33:43] bro.

[00:33:43] So,

[00:33:43] you know,

[00:33:44] they got me out here

[00:33:45] having anxiety and everything,

[00:33:47] but,

[00:33:47] you know,

[00:33:48] it is what it is.

[00:33:49] Duval till I die.

[00:33:50] You know what I'm saying?

[00:33:51] I'm a diehard Jacks fan

[00:33:52] so I got to stick with them

[00:33:54] through the thick and thin.

[00:33:55] I can't be disloyal.

[00:33:58] Amen to that,

[00:34:00] man.

[00:34:00] Hey,

[00:34:01] I appreciate you

[00:34:02] for hopping on,

[00:34:03] but now that you're here,

[00:34:05] I did have one politics question

[00:34:07] I had to ask you.

[00:34:13] of the,

[00:34:14] the,

[00:34:14] um,

[00:34:15] project 25,

[00:34:16] 2025,

[00:34:17] the heritage people,

[00:34:18] whatever,

[00:34:19] they came out

[00:34:19] and endorsed Kamala Harris.

[00:34:21] What are your thoughts

[00:34:22] on that,

[00:34:23] bro?

[00:34:23] And should we be a little worried

[00:34:24] that maybe Kamala

[00:34:26] might be trying to,

[00:34:28] you know,

[00:34:29] push this project 2025?

[00:34:31] Keyword,

[00:34:32] keyword ignorance.

[00:34:34] They depend,

[00:34:36] most politicians

[00:34:38] that have evil intentions,

[00:34:40] they depend on us

[00:34:41] being ignorant

[00:34:43] and stupid.

[00:34:46] Anybody that has taken

[00:34:48] a critical analysis

[00:34:49] of what's going on

[00:34:50] knows that

[00:34:51] over 60%

[00:34:52] of the employees

[00:34:54] that work

[00:34:55] at project 2025

[00:34:57] via the heritage foundation

[00:34:58] work for the Trump organization.

[00:35:01] There's no way

[00:35:02] to defend that.

[00:35:04] Kamala

[00:35:04] has nothing to do

[00:35:06] with organizations.

[00:35:07] See,

[00:35:07] what's going on is

[00:35:09] they see that Trump

[00:35:10] is self imploding

[00:35:11] in the media.

[00:35:12] He's calling for

[00:35:13] purge.

[00:35:14] He's calling for

[00:35:15] Haitian migrants,

[00:35:17] read,

[00:35:18] black people

[00:35:19] to be taken out.

[00:35:21] Saying we eating

[00:35:21] cats and dog?

[00:35:23] They're eating

[00:35:24] dogs.

[00:35:26] Man,

[00:35:26] y'all made no

[00:35:27] deficit,

[00:35:27] but yeah.

[00:35:28] Representatives

[00:35:29] and senators,

[00:35:30] federal level,

[00:35:32] who are calling us

[00:35:35] slapstick

[00:35:36] gangsters

[00:35:38] and thugs

[00:35:39] that need to be given

[00:35:41] law and order.

[00:35:42] Read,

[00:35:43] police brutality.

[00:35:45] As black people,

[00:35:46] I've been saying this,

[00:35:47] I've been preaching this

[00:35:48] from the top

[00:35:49] of the mountain

[00:35:50] since 2010.

[00:35:53] If we do not make

[00:35:54] educated vote,

[00:35:55] and you can literally

[00:35:56] visit

[00:35:57] voteforjustice.com.

[00:35:58] You let them play

[00:35:59] on your emotions.

[00:36:01] Visit voteforjustice.com.

[00:36:02] Listen,

[00:36:04] this might be

[00:36:05] the last time

[00:36:05] you can vote.

[00:36:06] Trump is on record

[00:36:07] as saying,

[00:36:07] listen,

[00:36:08] if you vote for me

[00:36:09] in this election,

[00:36:10] you won't ever

[00:36:10] have to vote again.

[00:36:11] Do you know

[00:36:11] what that means?

[00:36:12] That means that

[00:36:13] it won't be a democracy.

[00:36:16] Do y'all really want

[00:36:18] these racist

[00:36:19] so-and-sos

[00:36:21] to be in charge

[00:36:22] permanently

[00:36:23] where the rules

[00:36:24] no longer matter?

[00:36:25] Do y'all want that?

[00:36:26] Do y'all want to

[00:36:27] continue being

[00:36:28] in an impoverished state

[00:36:30] in perpetuity?

[00:36:31] Because that's

[00:36:32] what's coming.

[00:36:33] And they're

[00:36:34] saying it out loud.

[00:36:35] How much do

[00:36:36] vote matter now?

[00:36:38] Listen,

[00:36:38] right,

[00:36:39] I feel like

[00:36:42] what you just said,

[00:36:43] I don't,

[00:36:46] that's what it is.

[00:36:47] Like,

[00:36:47] what's going to

[00:36:48] change about it?

[00:36:49] Like,

[00:36:49] I don't feel like,

[00:36:50] you know,

[00:36:50] like,

[00:36:50] that's what,

[00:36:51] that's what they do.

[00:36:53] Like,

[00:36:55] with the politics,

[00:36:57] like,

[00:36:57] that's what they do.

[00:36:58] Like,

[00:36:58] it's not like

[00:36:59] we're going to have,

[00:37:00] we're going to get

[00:37:01] all of these,

[00:37:02] you know,

[00:37:02] people of color

[00:37:03] and these

[00:37:04] positions of power

[00:37:05] and

[00:37:06] kind of these things

[00:37:08] are so,

[00:37:08] so going to change.

[00:37:09] Like,

[00:37:09] they're not going to

[00:37:10] put us in these

[00:37:10] positions of power.

[00:37:11] Like,

[00:37:11] that's the out of our lane.

[00:37:13] Pause.

[00:37:15] My brother,

[00:37:16] I gotta,

[00:37:17] gotta do a complete

[00:37:18] rebuttal on that.

[00:37:20] That's 100%

[00:37:21] false

[00:37:22] disinformation

[00:37:23] that's being put out

[00:37:24] that they're literally

[00:37:25] pumping to our communities.

[00:37:27] All right,

[00:37:27] but hold on,

[00:37:27] bro,

[00:37:28] real fast.

[00:37:31] Hold on,

[00:37:32] hold on,

[00:37:33] hold on,

[00:37:34] hold on,

[00:37:34] hold on,

[00:37:34] hold on,

[00:37:35] hold on,

[00:37:35] How long have people

[00:37:35] been voting,

[00:37:36] bro?

[00:37:37] Huh?

[00:37:37] How long have people

[00:37:38] been voting?

[00:37:39] Black people only

[00:37:40] been voting since the 60s.

[00:37:42] How long is that?

[00:37:43] 50-something years?

[00:37:44] Yeah.

[00:37:45] So,

[00:37:46] when did it help,

[00:37:47] what did it change?

[00:37:49] You,

[00:37:50] you don't know?

[00:37:51] You don't know?

[00:37:51] Black,

[00:37:52] I'm asking you,

[00:37:52] I'm asking a question.

[00:37:54] I ain't asking for no reason

[00:37:55] what did it change?

[00:37:56] I'm about to tell you,

[00:37:58] because of black people,

[00:38:00] because of black people,

[00:38:01] we have the Civil Rights Act

[00:38:03] for the,

[00:38:03] because of black people,

[00:38:05] we have the 14th,

[00:38:07] 15th,

[00:38:08] 16th Amendment.

[00:38:09] Because of black people,

[00:38:10] we have a welfare program.

[00:38:12] Because of black people,

[00:38:14] we have HUD housing

[00:38:15] that many people

[00:38:16] in our community use.

[00:38:17] Because of black people,

[00:38:18] we have preschool care,

[00:38:20] after school care.

[00:38:22] Because of black people,

[00:38:23] we have programs

[00:38:24] that give you money

[00:38:26] when you buy houses.

[00:38:27] Those were black people,

[00:38:28] the Congressional Black Caucus,

[00:38:30] that fought for those things.

[00:38:31] Because of black people,

[00:38:33] we have officers

[00:38:33] getting charged in court

[00:38:35] and being held liable,

[00:38:36] even though they have

[00:38:37] qualified immunity.

[00:38:38] Because of black people,

[00:38:40] we are actually still alive

[00:38:42] and haven't been

[00:38:43] completely eradicated

[00:38:44] off the face of the planet.

[00:38:46] You guys got to take a look

[00:38:47] at what's really going on.

[00:38:49] They literally have

[00:38:50] billions of dollars

[00:38:52] pouring in from other countries,

[00:38:53] their secret services,

[00:38:54] to disinform us.

[00:38:56] We have a lot of things

[00:38:58] and there are actually

[00:38:59] people running for office

[00:39:00] here in Florida

[00:39:01] and across the country

[00:39:02] that wanting to make change.

[00:39:04] But guess what?

[00:39:05] They can't get in office

[00:39:06] if black people

[00:39:07] do not vote.

[00:39:09] If you're completely ignorant

[00:39:10] of what's going on,

[00:39:11] you don't know

[00:39:11] who your representative,

[00:39:12] city council,

[00:39:13] city commissioner,

[00:39:15] judge is.

[00:39:16] You don't know

[00:39:17] who your police chief is.

[00:39:19] You don't know

[00:39:19] who your city administrator is.

[00:39:21] Those meetings are open

[00:39:22] to the public.

[00:39:23] Don't make assumptions.

[00:39:24] Don't make assumptions.

[00:39:26] Don't make assumptions.

[00:39:28] So all these black people,

[00:39:31] right,

[00:39:31] that's running

[00:39:31] all these cities right now,

[00:39:33] right,

[00:39:33] they're doing great jobs,

[00:39:35] you're saying.

[00:39:36] All these cities

[00:39:37] that's being ran

[00:39:38] by these Democrats,

[00:39:38] they're doing great jobs.

[00:39:39] They're flourishing.

[00:39:40] They're doing all this shit

[00:39:41] for black people.

[00:39:43] Like what cities?

[00:39:44] What are you referring to?

[00:39:47] I don't know.

[00:39:49] Like Philadelphia,

[00:39:50] like Chicago,

[00:39:51] like Detroit.

[00:39:54] Chicago is ran

[00:39:55] Chicago is ran

[00:39:56] by the police.

[00:39:57] What are you talking about?

[00:40:00] They got

[00:40:00] Chicago is ran

[00:40:01] by the police.

[00:40:02] It's so bad

[00:40:03] in Chicago right now

[00:40:05] that the,

[00:40:06] uh,

[00:40:07] there's a black female,

[00:40:09] uh,

[00:40:10] mayor there.

[00:40:12] She's,

[00:40:13] the rumor is

[00:40:14] she's getting ready

[00:40:15] to be indicted

[00:40:16] because she's taking

[00:40:17] four months

[00:40:18] running that sentence

[00:40:18] to the fucking ground.

[00:40:20] That's what I'm saying.

[00:40:21] That's why

[00:40:23] to the fucking ground.

[00:40:25] No,

[00:40:26] hold on.

[00:40:27] I have a question,

[00:40:28] but here's the thing.

[00:40:28] Let me say something

[00:40:30] real fast.

[00:40:30] Um,

[00:40:32] again,

[00:40:33] and it's not Chicago,

[00:40:34] but right outside of Chicago.

[00:40:36] even if every

[00:40:38] qualified

[00:40:39] African-American

[00:40:41] went out

[00:40:42] to vote,

[00:40:43] it's not enough

[00:40:44] of us

[00:40:44] to move the needle.

[00:40:46] We're all,

[00:40:46] we only make

[00:40:47] time.

[00:40:48] No,

[00:40:49] hold on,

[00:40:49] hold on.

[00:40:50] See,

[00:40:50] you just listening

[00:40:51] to rebuttal.

[00:40:52] It's not a lot like that.

[00:40:53] I know,

[00:40:53] bro.

[00:40:54] White people

[00:40:55] outnumber us,

[00:40:56] like,

[00:40:56] white people

[00:40:57] outnumber us

[00:40:58] almost five to one.

[00:41:00] Like,

[00:41:00] they are,

[00:41:01] it's way more

[00:41:02] of them

[00:41:03] than us.

[00:41:03] Way more.

[00:41:04] So,

[00:41:05] even if you,

[00:41:06] you might have,

[00:41:07] what,

[00:41:07] you can't,

[00:41:08] you can't count

[00:41:09] smaller children.

[00:41:10] So,

[00:41:10] you probably have

[00:41:12] 10% of black people

[00:41:13] that can actually go,

[00:41:15] that are actually

[00:41:16] allowed to go vote.

[00:41:17] So,

[00:41:17] that 10%

[00:41:19] is not going

[00:41:20] to move the needle.

[00:41:21] It's not,

[00:41:22] you know,

[00:41:22] there's not enough

[00:41:23] black people,

[00:41:25] period,

[00:41:26] for it to move

[00:41:26] the needle.

[00:41:27] So,

[00:41:27] our number is three to one.

[00:41:29] It don't matter

[00:41:29] how much we vote.

[00:41:30] If they vote more,

[00:41:31] if all of them

[00:41:32] went out to vote,

[00:41:33] and all of us

[00:41:34] went out to vote,

[00:41:35] whoever they voted for,

[00:41:36] would still win.

[00:41:37] Because they outnumber us.

[00:41:39] So,

[00:41:39] the voting thing,

[00:41:40] it really doesn't

[00:41:41] make a difference

[00:41:41] because whoever they want

[00:41:43] to,

[00:41:43] whoever they want

[00:41:44] to put in the office

[00:41:45] will be in the office.

[00:41:46] It doesn't matter

[00:41:47] how many votes,

[00:41:49] how many black people

[00:41:50] go out there and vote.

[00:41:51] We don't have the numbers

[00:41:53] to move the needle.

[00:41:54] Everything that you just said

[00:41:56] is completely false.

[00:41:59] Let me show you how.

[00:42:02] Voter suppression laws

[00:42:03] in Georgia,

[00:42:04] Florida,

[00:42:04] South Carolina,

[00:42:06] Mississippi,

[00:42:06] have caused people

[00:42:08] in the black community

[00:42:09] not to be able to vote.

[00:42:10] Do you know that

[00:42:11] less than 20%

[00:42:13] of black adults

[00:42:14] vote in elections,

[00:42:15] national and local?

[00:42:16] If we were to actually

[00:42:18] vote and use our power

[00:42:20] because what voting is,

[00:42:21] is power.

[00:42:22] We haven't been using it.

[00:42:24] We haven't used it properly

[00:42:25] since Obama was in office.

[00:42:27] We are the reason

[00:42:29] why he got elected.

[00:42:30] Not white.

[00:42:30] No, we are not.

[00:42:32] People say that.

[00:42:33] We're not.

[00:42:34] More people vote for him.

[00:42:36] Nothing evil, though.

[00:42:37] More people vote for him, though.

[00:42:40] More people vote for him, though.

[00:42:42] Hold on.

[00:42:42] We are not the reason.

[00:42:43] But we like to say

[00:42:45] where the reason for us

[00:42:46] for our own state.

[00:42:47] But there's no way

[00:42:49] we could be the reason.

[00:42:50] Let me ask one question.

[00:42:52] The world of rainbow, man.

[00:42:55] That's all they want.

[00:42:55] Let me ask his last question

[00:42:56] real fast.

[00:42:57] I'm going to follow up.

[00:43:00] Even if you haven't seen it,

[00:43:01] you can look it up somehow.

[00:43:03] Just tell me the percentage

[00:43:04] of black people

[00:43:06] living in the United States

[00:43:08] of America right now.

[00:43:10] 14%.

[00:43:11] So,

[00:43:13] what you're telling me,

[00:43:15] like I said again,

[00:43:16] we can't count the whole 14%

[00:43:17] because they're kids.

[00:43:19] You're telling me

[00:43:20] that 10%

[00:43:21] is going to move

[00:43:23] an entire deal.

[00:43:25] That's what you're telling me.

[00:43:25] Yeah.

[00:43:26] Because it happens

[00:43:27] every election cycle.

[00:43:29] I mean, you believe that.

[00:43:31] I live this.

[00:43:32] We can't tell you

[00:43:33] if you believe that.

[00:43:35] Huh?

[00:43:36] I said, if you believe that,

[00:43:37] we can't tell you it's not.

[00:43:38] That's what you believe.

[00:43:39] It's not based on my belief.

[00:43:41] I'm telling you

[00:43:42] factual information

[00:43:43] that you could look up

[00:43:44] in Vox,

[00:43:45] the Washington Post,

[00:43:46] the New York Times.

[00:43:47] You can look up

[00:43:48] journalistic information

[00:43:50] based on what I'm saying.

[00:43:51] You can look at attorneys

[00:43:52] You can look up anything.

[00:43:53] You can look up Bernie Bada.

[00:43:54] You can look up

[00:43:55] who can report

[00:43:56] on this information

[00:43:57] and do public information requests.

[00:44:00] Our vote,

[00:44:01] which they are taking away

[00:44:03] on purpose

[00:44:04] to take away our power,

[00:44:05] literally can't decide

[00:44:06] the election.

[00:44:07] If black people

[00:44:08] were to turn out and vote

[00:44:09] like we did with Obama,

[00:44:10] we can elect somebody

[00:44:11] like Kamala Harris

[00:44:12] into office

[00:44:13] that would make

[00:44:14] a huge difference

[00:44:14] because you got people

[00:44:16] like Trump on your face.

[00:44:17] What difference

[00:44:17] he gonna make?

[00:44:18] Make a huge difference.

[00:44:20] What difference

[00:44:20] he gonna make?

[00:44:21] He's been at all different.

[00:44:23] He's a pig.

[00:44:24] Hold on.

[00:44:25] Do you realize

[00:44:25] he's been in office

[00:44:26] for the last three and a half years?

[00:44:28] Hold on.

[00:44:29] Do you realize

[00:44:29] that?

[00:44:30] That ain't something

[00:44:30] that you don't know.

[00:44:31] Let me help you out

[00:44:32] with something

[00:44:32] that you don't know.

[00:44:33] Damn it, man.

[00:44:34] Less than 50%.

[00:44:36] All right, go ahead.

[00:44:36] Help him out.

[00:44:37] Help him out.

[00:44:37] Help him out, I guess.

[00:44:38] Go ahead.

[00:44:39] Go ahead.

[00:44:39] Hold on.

[00:44:40] Less than 50%

[00:44:41] of black people

[00:44:41] take the census

[00:44:43] when it comes out.

[00:44:45] You know what that means?

[00:44:46] That all the black people

[00:44:47] that are living in this country

[00:44:48] aren't being counted.

[00:44:49] And some of the people

[00:44:50] who work in the federal

[00:44:51] government administration

[00:44:52] have heard that, though.

[00:44:54] How we know that's true.

[00:44:55] What that means is

[00:44:56] is it's not just the

[00:44:58] How do we know that, though?

[00:44:59] How do we know that

[00:45:00] less than 50%?

[00:45:01] It's actually more than that

[00:45:03] on these streets.

[00:45:04] And I'm telling y'all right now,

[00:45:06] Hold on.

[00:45:07] If you do not vote

[00:45:08] in these upcoming local

[00:45:10] and national elections,

[00:45:12] I promise you,

[00:45:13] I bet an entire paycheck,

[00:45:15] you will 100% regret it.

[00:45:18] Hold on.

[00:45:18] It's not like it doesn't matter

[00:45:20] who goes into the office.

[00:45:21] I mean, we've been voting

[00:45:22] for a bunch of years

[00:45:23] and I've been regretting it.

[00:45:24] But hold on.

[00:45:24] So you said black people

[00:45:25] have sought out the census.

[00:45:26] So you think that

[00:45:28] the black race,

[00:45:29] only black people

[00:45:30] did sought the census.

[00:45:31] So you think there are

[00:45:31] no white people

[00:45:32] that have sought out the census?

[00:45:33] No age that have sought out the census?

[00:45:35] It's not just black people.

[00:45:36] So again,

[00:45:37] I want to ask you,

[00:45:39] if 10% of people

[00:45:41] go out to vote

[00:45:41] and 40% of people

[00:45:42] go out to vote,

[00:45:44] what number is going to win?

[00:45:45] If 40% of these people

[00:45:46] vote for these people

[00:45:47] and 10% of them,

[00:45:49] what number is going to win?

[00:45:52] What you don't understand

[00:45:53] is that the 30%

[00:45:54] of the population votes.

[00:45:56] A lot of people

[00:45:57] don't use the power

[00:45:58] that they've invested in

[00:45:59] once they turn 18 years old.

[00:46:01] That's our point.

[00:46:01] So if all the white

[00:46:02] went out to vote,

[00:46:03] what would happen?

[00:46:04] If they all went out to vote,

[00:46:05] if all the white people

[00:46:06] went out to vote,

[00:46:06] what would happen?

[00:46:07] But we don't.

[00:46:07] But we don't.

[00:46:08] No,

[00:46:08] I said the white people,

[00:46:10] if they all went out to vote

[00:46:11] and we all went out to vote,

[00:46:12] what would happen?

[00:46:13] If everybody went out to vote,

[00:46:14] what would happen?

[00:46:15] A lot of the percentage

[00:46:16] of the people

[00:46:17] that's registered to vote

[00:46:18] who are white

[00:46:18] go out and vote.

[00:46:21] It's a low percentage.

[00:46:22] I know.

[00:46:22] I asked a very simple question,

[00:46:24] but if all of the,

[00:46:26] if all of the black people

[00:46:27] could go out and vote,

[00:46:28] even the ones

[00:46:29] that just brought the census

[00:46:29] and all of that,

[00:46:30] and all of the white people

[00:46:31] can go vote,

[00:46:32] the ones that brought the census.

[00:46:33] If everybody

[00:46:34] went to go vote,

[00:46:35] who would,

[00:46:36] what number,

[00:46:36] what number would be higher?

[00:46:38] The black people

[00:46:38] or the white people?

[00:46:40] The black people

[00:46:40] would decide the election.

[00:46:42] That's proven fact.

[00:46:43] Oh,

[00:46:43] Lord God,

[00:46:44] bro,

[00:46:44] this is unbelievable.

[00:46:46] I'm asking you

[00:46:46] a very simple,

[00:46:48] so if 10% of people

[00:46:49] go vote

[00:46:50] and 48% of people

[00:46:51] go vote,

[00:46:52] you're telling me

[00:46:52] that 10%

[00:46:53] are going to override

[00:46:54] the 48%

[00:46:55] is what you're telling me.

[00:46:55] You know how

[00:46:56] they're going to vote.

[00:46:57] They use their power

[00:46:58] because we don't show up

[00:46:59] in numbers to vote

[00:47:00] in every election.

[00:47:01] We do not use our power,

[00:47:03] so if we did,

[00:47:04] we have to follow

[00:47:05] It doesn't matter.

[00:47:06] The election goes which way?

[00:47:08] Do you not understand

[00:47:09] the concept of what

[00:47:09] I'm saying to you right now?

[00:47:11] No,

[00:47:11] I understand what you're trying

[00:47:14] to say

[00:47:14] and what they've been saying

[00:47:15] for the last 50 years

[00:47:18] and nothing that,

[00:47:18] like,

[00:47:19] what law do they have

[00:47:19] in place for black people?

[00:47:20] Tell me the law

[00:47:21] they got in place

[00:47:21] for black people.

[00:47:22] I know the Asian laws

[00:47:23] and all that.

[00:47:23] They got a bunch

[00:47:24] of them.

[00:47:25] They got laws

[00:47:27] for transgender

[00:47:27] and all of that.

[00:47:28] Tell me the laws

[00:47:29] that they say

[00:47:29] that you cannot

[00:47:31] harm black people.

[00:47:33] But it's by you

[00:47:34] all these years

[00:47:35] they had it.

[00:47:36] Act of 1964?

[00:47:38] What are you talking about?

[00:47:39] The voting act

[00:47:40] of 1964.

[00:47:41] We haven't seen

[00:47:42] black people

[00:47:43] get in the list.

[00:47:43] B&J.

[00:47:44] We just seen

[00:47:46] George.

[00:47:46] All right, y'all.

[00:47:47] I don't mind

[00:47:48] that if you don't

[00:47:48] have any more years.

[00:47:49] Stop it.

[00:47:50] All right, y'all.

[00:47:51] I've let this go on

[00:47:52] long enough, y'all.

[00:47:53] I'll let y'all

[00:47:54] get it all out.

[00:47:55] I'm set back

[00:47:56] and I'll let y'all

[00:47:57] just get it all out

[00:47:58] because I know

[00:48:00] how my dog gets

[00:48:01] through his politics.

[00:48:02] But ladies and gentlemen,

[00:48:04] I need you all

[00:48:05] listening to this.

[00:48:06] Don't go based off

[00:48:07] what we said today.

[00:48:09] Go out,

[00:48:10] do your own research,

[00:48:12] do your homework.

[00:48:13] It's free.

[00:48:14] The internet is free.

[00:48:16] Go out,

[00:48:19] make it an informed decision

[00:48:21] because, hey,

[00:48:22] either make an informed decision

[00:48:24] or get your passport

[00:48:24] and get to getting.

[00:48:26] Ladies and gentlemen,

[00:48:27] this is Look A Talk.

[00:48:28] Ladies and gentlemen,

[00:48:29] the more you drink,

[00:48:30] the better we sound.

[00:48:31] All right, fellas.

[00:48:32] I got two things

[00:48:33] we want to talk about.

[00:48:35] Number one,

[00:48:35] which is submission.

[00:48:37] Like,

[00:48:37] why do y'all feel like

[00:48:39] men are so demanding

[00:48:41] of women to be,

[00:48:42] oh, I need this,

[00:48:43] I need this woman

[00:48:44] to submit to me

[00:48:45] and you're not,

[00:48:47] you're not doing

[00:48:48] the shit you need

[00:48:49] to be doing.

[00:48:50] So why are men

[00:48:51] so demanding of women

[00:48:53] to be submitted,

[00:48:54] to submit to them

[00:48:55] if they're going to be

[00:48:55] in a committed relationship?

[00:48:58] Why are men so demanding?

[00:49:00] That's the question.

[00:49:01] Yeah, because

[00:49:02] that's the thing

[00:49:02] that they'll come right

[00:49:03] and say,

[00:49:04] I need a woman

[00:49:05] that's going to submit to me.

[00:49:06] I need a woman

[00:49:07] that's going to be

[00:49:07] doing this and do that.

[00:49:08] Well, sir,

[00:49:09] what are you doing

[00:49:10] to make this woman

[00:49:11] want to submit to you?

[00:49:13] Which is,

[00:49:14] well,

[00:49:15] oh, that's a loaded question.

[00:49:17] What you're supposed

[00:49:17] to do that like?

[00:49:18] What you're supposed

[00:49:19] to do to make,

[00:49:20] you're supposed

[00:49:20] to make a woman

[00:49:21] submit to you?

[00:49:23] Your actions,

[00:49:24] yeah,

[00:49:25] you're supposed to

[00:49:25] because if you,

[00:49:26] if you carry yourself

[00:49:27] as a leader,

[00:49:28] the right woman

[00:49:29] will follow you.

[00:49:30] If you come out

[00:49:31] and demand it,

[00:49:32] that's not my sub.

[00:49:34] I don't think,

[00:49:35] I don't think

[00:49:37] you're going to make

[00:49:38] anybody do anything

[00:49:39] I'll say that,

[00:49:40] but I think

[00:49:42] once you choose

[00:49:43] somebody

[00:49:43] as your man,

[00:49:45] as a woman,

[00:49:46] I think that

[00:49:47] submission should

[00:49:48] come right after

[00:49:50] because you made

[00:49:51] your choice already.

[00:49:52] You already get,

[00:49:53] you gave me

[00:49:53] the keys already.

[00:49:55] So,

[00:49:56] in terms of that,

[00:49:57] the rest should just go,

[00:49:59] that's the way

[00:50:00] it's supposed to go.

[00:50:01] I don't know,

[00:50:02] you know,

[00:50:03] what people believe

[00:50:04] in and stuff like that,

[00:50:05] but that's just

[00:50:07] the way it's supposed

[00:50:08] to go.

[00:50:08] It's not even

[00:50:09] a big explanation

[00:50:10] for it.

[00:50:11] That's the way

[00:50:11] it's supposed to go.

[00:50:14] Women turn it

[00:50:15] into a dirty word.

[00:50:16] It's not supposed

[00:50:16] to be a dirty word.

[00:50:22] Anybody else

[00:50:23] want to jump in?

[00:50:26] No,

[00:50:26] yeah,

[00:50:26] I don't,

[00:50:27] you know,

[00:50:28] like when I,

[00:50:28] like when I had

[00:50:29] depression,

[00:50:29] I was kind of like,

[00:50:31] like,

[00:50:32] like that,

[00:50:32] like,

[00:50:33] like this is really,

[00:50:34] this is a thing.

[00:50:35] Like,

[00:50:36] yeah,

[00:50:37] they will look at

[00:50:38] their,

[00:50:38] they will look at

[00:50:39] their woman like,

[00:50:40] I need this woman

[00:50:41] to submit to me

[00:50:41] or if I need you,

[00:50:43] I'm like,

[00:50:43] bro,

[00:50:44] I can't make it up.

[00:50:45] That's what

[00:50:46] that's saying.

[00:50:47] Again,

[00:50:48] listen,

[00:50:48] but as a man,

[00:50:50] what,

[00:50:50] if it's your woman,

[00:50:52] then I believe

[00:50:54] she should.

[00:50:54] Why wouldn't she,

[00:50:55] why wouldn't she do that?

[00:50:57] If she's saying

[00:50:57] you're her man,

[00:50:58] why wouldn't she?

[00:51:00] Because at the end

[00:51:01] of the day,

[00:51:02] right,

[00:51:02] if you're in a relationship

[00:51:03] with somebody,

[00:51:04] that's your woman,

[00:51:06] whatever actions

[00:51:07] she make or do,

[00:51:08] it affects you.

[00:51:10] You're going to be

[00:51:10] responsible for it

[00:51:11] in some way.

[00:51:12] You're going to be

[00:51:12] going to have to

[00:51:13] clean it up

[00:51:13] in some way.

[00:51:15] So therefore,

[00:51:16] like,

[00:51:17] you got the authority

[00:51:18] because you got to

[00:51:19] be the one

[00:51:20] to handle

[00:51:21] all the situation.

[00:51:24] whatever I'm,

[00:51:25] whatever I decide

[00:51:26] is the best,

[00:51:27] that's what it's

[00:51:28] supposed to be.

[00:51:29] I don't,

[00:51:29] I don't really

[00:51:30] understand.

[00:51:32] I think I just

[00:51:33] take a stab

[00:51:33] of this question.

[00:51:34] I think I take

[00:51:35] a stab

[00:51:35] of this question.

[00:51:35] I think there's

[00:51:36] a certain,

[00:51:36] you know what I'm

[00:51:37] saying,

[00:51:37] part of the male

[00:51:38] population,

[00:51:39] you know,

[00:51:40] part of the whole

[00:51:40] red pill,

[00:51:41] blue pill,

[00:51:41] social media

[00:51:42] podcast discussion.

[00:51:43] Well,

[00:51:44] yeah,

[00:51:44] I know about that.

[00:51:45] That's a little

[00:51:46] extreme.

[00:51:47] what some

[00:51:48] do with this

[00:51:48] men,

[00:51:49] you know,

[00:51:50] saying that

[00:51:50] women,

[00:51:51] whoever they're

[00:51:52] dating or

[00:51:52] whoever they're

[00:51:53] with,

[00:51:53] they get to

[00:51:54] decide,

[00:51:55] you know,

[00:51:55] that the woman

[00:51:56] needs to do

[00:51:56] this for them,

[00:51:57] do that for

[00:51:57] them.

[00:51:58] It's like an

[00:51:58] ego trip.

[00:51:59] And the thing

[00:51:59] about it is,

[00:52:01] as a man,

[00:52:02] if you're doing

[00:52:02] what you need

[00:52:03] to do,

[00:52:03] then you don't

[00:52:04] need to ask a

[00:52:05] woman to be

[00:52:06] quote unquote

[00:52:06] submissive.

[00:52:07] It's something

[00:52:08] that actually

[00:52:08] comes natural

[00:52:09] when she's in

[00:52:09] a restful state

[00:52:10] of her femininity.

[00:52:11] So actually,

[00:52:13] you know,

[00:52:13] this whole

[00:52:13] discussion,

[00:52:14] it really,

[00:52:16] in a way,

[00:52:16] it makes sense

[00:52:17] because there's

[00:52:18] such a disconnect

[00:52:19] between men and

[00:52:20] women,

[00:52:20] especially on the

[00:52:21] dating scene

[00:52:22] right now.

[00:52:23] But the truth

[00:52:23] of the matter

[00:52:24] is,

[00:52:24] if you have

[00:52:25] to actually

[00:52:25] say that

[00:52:26] you want

[00:52:27] your woman

[00:52:27] to be submissive,

[00:52:28] then that means

[00:52:28] that you just

[00:52:29] aren't being

[00:52:30] masculine enough.

[00:52:32] And really,

[00:52:33] when it comes

[00:52:33] down,

[00:52:33] I don't agree

[00:52:34] with that.

[00:52:35] This is a topic

[00:52:36] that comes up

[00:52:36] again,

[00:52:37] you know,

[00:52:38] the Andrew Tates

[00:52:39] of the world

[00:52:39] and stuff like

[00:52:39] that.

[00:52:40] I know this

[00:52:40] topic comes up

[00:52:41] on those big

[00:52:42] podcasts with a

[00:52:43] lot of influential

[00:52:43] young men all

[00:52:44] the time,

[00:52:45] where they really

[00:52:47] feel like,

[00:52:48] you know,

[00:52:48] just because they're

[00:52:49] in a relationship

[00:52:49] with a woman,

[00:52:50] she should be

[00:52:50] able to do

[00:52:51] everything you

[00:52:51] say.

[00:52:52] And she'll be

[00:52:53] able to,

[00:52:53] you know,

[00:52:53] fix your plate

[00:52:54] and all this

[00:52:54] other type of

[00:52:55] traditional stuff.

[00:52:56] Well,

[00:52:56] that stuff

[00:52:57] comes with

[00:52:57] you being

[00:52:58] in a superior

[00:52:59] position,

[00:53:00] you being a

[00:53:01] provider.

[00:53:01] You gotta be

[00:53:03] superior for a

[00:53:04] woman to fix

[00:53:04] your plate?

[00:53:06] I said a

[00:53:06] superior position.

[00:53:07] Let me explain

[00:53:08] what I mean by

[00:53:08] that.

[00:53:09] If you're in a

[00:53:09] superior position,

[00:53:10] that means you

[00:53:11] have a nice

[00:53:11] place to stay.

[00:53:12] You have your

[00:53:13] own transportation.

[00:53:14] You have a

[00:53:15] decent job where

[00:53:16] she feels comfortable

[00:53:17] enough to do some

[00:53:18] of those things.

[00:53:18] But if you bum

[00:53:20] scraping on the

[00:53:20] streets,

[00:53:21] she's more likely

[00:53:21] not to do that

[00:53:22] kind of thing.

[00:53:23] Now,

[00:53:23] of course,

[00:53:24] you get somebody

[00:53:24] that can be

[00:53:25] ride and die.

[00:53:26] And of course,

[00:53:26] I applaud that,

[00:53:27] you know what I'm

[00:53:28] saying,

[00:53:28] especially when

[00:53:28] you're married.

[00:53:29] But the truth of

[00:53:30] the matter is a

[00:53:31] lot of the dudes

[00:53:31] requiring and

[00:53:32] asking that out of

[00:53:33] women aren't showing

[00:53:34] the character traits

[00:53:35] that's necessary for

[00:53:36] her to do that in

[00:53:37] the first place.

[00:53:40] the only thing

[00:53:42] I kind of agree

[00:53:44] with you,

[00:53:44] right?

[00:53:44] Because,

[00:53:46] but the women

[00:53:47] don't hold that

[00:53:48] same standard.

[00:53:49] Like,

[00:53:49] it'd be one

[00:53:50] thing,

[00:53:50] but these the

[00:53:51] same dudes

[00:53:51] that be right

[00:53:52] in between

[00:53:53] their legs.

[00:53:54] So if he's

[00:53:55] in between

[00:53:55] your legs,

[00:53:57] submit,

[00:53:58] submit.

[00:53:58] What are you

[00:53:59] doing?

[00:54:00] That you

[00:54:01] chose them.

[00:54:03] Because if you

[00:54:04] don't,

[00:54:04] if you don't,

[00:54:05] if you choose not

[00:54:05] to deal with

[00:54:06] certain type of

[00:54:06] dudes and you

[00:54:07] feel like,

[00:54:07] yo,

[00:54:08] my standard is

[00:54:08] this,

[00:54:09] I ain't doing

[00:54:09] that,

[00:54:09] respect that.

[00:54:10] Hold it down

[00:54:11] and get what

[00:54:12] you can get

[00:54:13] if you're

[00:54:14] here and call

[00:54:15] for that,

[00:54:15] you know?

[00:54:16] Your results

[00:54:17] will tell you.

[00:54:18] But at the

[00:54:19] end of the

[00:54:19] day,

[00:54:19] right?

[00:54:20] If you still

[00:54:21] fucking these

[00:54:22] dudes,

[00:54:24] submit to

[00:54:25] them.

[00:54:26] Well,

[00:54:26] I agree.

[00:54:27] I agree with

[00:54:27] that.

[00:54:28] Yeah,

[00:54:28] you know,

[00:54:29] you're right.

[00:54:29] He's definitely

[00:54:30] right on the

[00:54:30] mark.

[00:54:31] I have to

[00:54:31] agree with

[00:54:31] him.

[00:54:31] But so

[00:54:32] ladies,

[00:54:33] y'all need

[00:54:33] to hold

[00:54:34] yourself to

[00:54:35] a higher

[00:54:35] standard.

[00:54:36] And men,

[00:54:36] you can't

[00:54:37] be out

[00:54:37] here demanding

[00:54:38] it.

[00:54:38] You should

[00:54:39] be living

[00:54:40] it.

[00:54:40] Because I

[00:54:40] really feel

[00:54:41] like if

[00:54:41] you're

[00:54:41] living it,

[00:54:42] somebody will

[00:54:43] submit to

[00:54:43] you.

[00:54:44] But my

[00:54:45] thing is like,

[00:54:46] I don't know

[00:54:47] why it's so

[00:54:47] negative.

[00:54:48] But my

[00:54:49] thing is like,

[00:54:50] I had this

[00:54:51] conversation with

[00:54:52] a woman on

[00:54:53] recommendation

[00:54:53] and it's like,

[00:54:55] that's your

[00:54:56] natural disposition

[00:54:57] as a woman.

[00:54:58] It's your

[00:54:59] natural disposition.

[00:55:01] So,

[00:55:03] to me,

[00:55:03] it's like,

[00:55:04] when you don't

[00:55:04] want to submit,

[00:55:05] you're literally

[00:55:05] going against

[00:55:06] your natural

[00:55:07] disposition as

[00:55:09] a woman.

[00:55:10] And again,

[00:55:11] anybody trying

[00:55:11] saying,

[00:55:12] submit to

[00:55:13] every man,

[00:55:13] do that in

[00:55:14] the third.

[00:55:14] Like,

[00:55:14] see,

[00:55:14] again,

[00:55:15] me,

[00:55:15] when I talk

[00:55:15] about these,

[00:55:16] I always speak

[00:55:17] to the

[00:55:17] positive.

[00:55:17] I don't go

[00:55:18] to the ancient

[00:55:19] men and all

[00:55:20] that.

[00:55:20] We all know

[00:55:21] them.

[00:55:21] But like

[00:55:22] you said,

[00:55:23] if it's a

[00:55:23] good dude

[00:55:23] and he

[00:55:24] has good

[00:55:26] character

[00:55:26] with good

[00:55:27] qualities

[00:55:27] and he

[00:55:28] carried

[00:55:28] himself

[00:55:28] like a

[00:55:29] single

[00:55:29] way,

[00:55:29] he might

[00:55:30] not have

[00:55:30] a job

[00:55:30] right now.

[00:55:31] He might

[00:55:31] not have

[00:55:31] a car

[00:55:32] right now.

[00:55:32] But the

[00:55:33] way he

[00:55:33] carries

[00:55:33] himself,

[00:55:34] he's not

[00:55:34] out here

[00:55:34] and he's

[00:55:36] not trying

[00:55:36] to acquire

[00:55:37] those things.

[00:55:38] But because

[00:55:38] he don't

[00:55:38] have those

[00:55:39] things,

[00:55:40] you can't

[00:55:41] submit to

[00:55:41] me,

[00:55:41] but because

[00:55:42] of the

[00:55:42] character

[00:55:42] of the

[00:55:42] man that

[00:55:43] I am,

[00:55:43] that means

[00:55:43] you can't

[00:55:44] submit.

[00:55:45] Because I

[00:55:45] don't have

[00:55:45] my own

[00:55:46] place,

[00:55:46] that means

[00:55:46] you can't

[00:55:47] submit.

[00:55:47] I don't

[00:55:47] have a car,

[00:55:48] that means

[00:55:48] you can't

[00:55:48] submit.

[00:55:50] But like

[00:55:50] I said

[00:55:50] again,

[00:55:51] what about

[00:55:51] my

[00:55:51] character?

[00:55:53] That's what

[00:55:54] I'm saying.

[00:55:54] What about

[00:55:54] my

[00:55:54] character

[00:55:55] and me?

[00:55:57] All right,

[00:55:58] fellas,

[00:55:58] I'm going to

[00:55:59] bring up

[00:55:59] one more

[00:56:00] guy.

[00:56:01] Alfonso

[00:56:02] Lays,

[00:56:02] we got a

[00:56:03] previous

[00:56:03] guest on.

[00:56:04] He's the

[00:56:04] last one to

[00:56:05] show up.

[00:56:06] How you

[00:56:06] doing,

[00:56:06] Mr.

[00:56:07] Alfonso?

[00:56:08] I'm sorry,

[00:56:09] I know it's

[00:56:09] all good.

[00:56:10] Better late

[00:56:10] than never,

[00:56:11] right?

[00:56:11] So,

[00:56:12] we're going to

[00:56:12] keep this thing

[00:56:13] going.

[00:56:13] How you

[00:56:13] doing,

[00:56:13] Mr.

[00:56:14] Alfonso?

[00:56:14] I'm all

[00:56:15] right,

[00:56:15] I'm

[00:56:15] all right,

[00:56:16] man.

[00:56:16] Family duties

[00:56:17] call.

[00:56:17] You know,

[00:56:18] you got to

[00:56:18] do what

[00:56:18] you got

[00:56:18] to do.

[00:56:20] Yeah,

[00:56:21] I definitely

[00:56:22] feel that.

[00:56:22] I definitely

[00:56:23] feel that.

[00:56:23] All right,

[00:56:24] the topic

[00:56:24] I had is

[00:56:25] how do

[00:56:26] you feel

[00:56:26] about

[00:56:26] submission

[00:56:27] and how

[00:56:28] do you

[00:56:28] feel about

[00:56:28] men that

[00:56:29] are really

[00:56:29] out here

[00:56:30] demanding

[00:56:30] the women

[00:56:31] submit to

[00:56:32] them when

[00:56:32] some of

[00:56:33] these dudes

[00:56:33] are not

[00:56:33] the kind

[00:56:34] of dudes

[00:56:34] that are

[00:56:35] carrying

[00:56:35] themselves

[00:56:35] to be

[00:56:37] the kind

[00:56:38] of men

[00:56:38] that one

[00:56:39] would submit

[00:56:39] to?

[00:56:41] So,

[00:56:42] my

[00:56:43] feelings

[00:56:44] on that

[00:56:45] would be

[00:56:46] the

[00:56:46] characteristics

[00:56:47] of the

[00:56:48] woman,

[00:56:49] not just

[00:56:49] the man.

[00:56:50] The reason

[00:56:51] why is

[00:56:51] because

[00:56:51] a man

[00:56:53] can have

[00:56:53] every piece

[00:56:54] that he

[00:56:55] needs

[00:56:55] for a

[00:56:56] woman

[00:56:56] to

[00:56:56] submit

[00:56:57] and she

[00:56:58] would

[00:56:58] rather

[00:56:59] go with

[00:57:00] the guy

[00:57:00] that doesn't

[00:57:01] have nothing

[00:57:01] and submit

[00:57:02] to him

[00:57:04] because,

[00:57:04] hello,

[00:57:05] if you

[00:57:05] look at

[00:57:06] the way

[00:57:06] that women

[00:57:07] and every

[00:57:09] generation

[00:57:09] has transitioned

[00:57:10] since the

[00:57:12] late 90s,

[00:57:13] women have

[00:57:14] shown

[00:57:15] that they

[00:57:16] are

[00:57:16] irresponsible.

[00:57:19] They're

[00:57:19] totally

[00:57:20] irresponsible

[00:57:20] because she

[00:57:21] wants the

[00:57:22] dangerous

[00:57:23] guy.

[00:57:23] She wants

[00:57:24] the guy

[00:57:24] that's

[00:57:24] going to

[00:57:24] whoop on

[00:57:25] her ass

[00:57:25] compared to

[00:57:27] the gentleman

[00:57:27] that's going

[00:57:28] to give her

[00:57:28] direction and

[00:57:29] instruction.

[00:57:31] she knows

[00:57:32] that this

[00:57:33] guy has

[00:57:33] multiple

[00:57:34] women that

[00:57:34] want him

[00:57:35] so it

[00:57:36] looks like

[00:57:37] it's a

[00:57:38] trophy.

[00:57:41] Go ahead.

[00:57:42] Just to

[00:57:43] piggyback off

[00:57:43] what you

[00:57:44] were saying,

[00:57:44] bro,

[00:57:44] I say it

[00:57:46] all the time.

[00:57:47] you'll

[00:57:48] have the

[00:57:49] man who's

[00:57:50] a plumber

[00:57:50] who goes

[00:57:51] to work

[00:57:51] 30 days,

[00:57:52] 5 days a

[00:57:53] week,

[00:57:54] taking it

[00:57:54] with

[00:57:54] responsibility,

[00:57:56] but then

[00:57:56] you got

[00:57:57] the boy

[00:57:57] in the

[00:57:58] hood

[00:57:58] who's fat,

[00:57:59] who do

[00:57:59] all this,

[00:58:00] like you

[00:58:00] said,

[00:58:00] who got

[00:58:00] all the

[00:58:01] women.

[00:58:02] And

[00:58:03] eight out

[00:58:03] of ten

[00:58:03] women are

[00:58:04] running to

[00:58:05] the ball

[00:58:05] that track.

[00:58:06] They're not

[00:58:06] going to

[00:58:07] the plumber

[00:58:09] who's working

[00:58:10] on his

[00:58:10] nine-to-five

[00:58:11] job.

[00:58:15] Well,

[00:58:20] I think

[00:58:20] the reason

[00:58:20] why the

[00:58:21] women run

[00:58:22] to the

[00:58:22] plumber

[00:58:23] the way

[00:58:23] that they

[00:58:23] do is

[00:58:24] instead

[00:58:28] of running

[00:58:29] to the

[00:58:29] guy who's

[00:58:30] the drug

[00:58:30] dealer or

[00:58:31] whatever,

[00:58:31] the reason

[00:58:32] why is

[00:58:32] because

[00:58:34] information.

[00:58:35] Information

[00:58:35] rules everything

[00:58:36] and the

[00:58:36] internet

[00:58:37] has given

[00:58:38] you this

[00:58:39] information

[00:58:39] that's a

[00:58:40] facade.

[00:58:41] Every chick

[00:58:42] is a bad

[00:58:43] bitch.

[00:58:43] Every chick

[00:58:44] got a

[00:58:44] BBL.

[00:58:45] Every chick

[00:58:45] got this.

[00:58:46] They're not

[00:58:47] competing

[00:58:48] to find

[00:58:49] a man.

[00:58:49] They are

[00:58:50] competing

[00:58:50] against

[00:58:51] themselves

[00:58:52] to be

[00:58:53] favorable.

[00:58:55] I would

[00:58:55] rather be

[00:58:56] favorable

[00:58:57] and make

[00:58:58] myself look

[00:58:59] like I

[00:58:59] got it

[00:58:59] when I'm

[00:59:01] living out

[00:59:01] of a

[00:59:01] hotel.

[00:59:02] But if

[00:59:03] I can

[00:59:03] show you

[00:59:03] trips

[00:59:04] that I've

[00:59:05] taken

[00:59:06] and I

[00:59:07] can show

[00:59:07] you bags

[00:59:08] that I've

[00:59:09] stolen

[00:59:09] or somebody

[00:59:10] done boosted

[00:59:10] it for me

[00:59:11] or their

[00:59:12] knockoffs,

[00:59:12] but if

[00:59:13] I can

[00:59:13] show you

[00:59:14] the

[00:59:14] representation

[00:59:15] of what

[00:59:16] we would

[00:59:16] call

[00:59:17] class,

[00:59:19] now you're

[00:59:19] looking at

[00:59:20] me as if

[00:59:21] I have

[00:59:21] that.

[00:59:22] When in

[00:59:22] actuality,

[00:59:23] it's just

[00:59:24] a facade.

[00:59:25] Let me

[00:59:25] ask a

[00:59:26] question.

[00:59:27] Now,

[00:59:27] to what

[00:59:28] he just

[00:59:28] said,

[00:59:29] right?

[00:59:31] To that

[00:59:32] woman that

[00:59:33] fits that

[00:59:33] archetype,

[00:59:34] right,

[00:59:36] is she

[00:59:37] then entitled

[00:59:38] to say

[00:59:38] that the

[00:59:39] dude who

[00:59:39] don't have

[00:59:39] no car

[00:59:40] or whatever

[00:59:40] the situation

[00:59:41] may be,

[00:59:44] he's not

[00:59:45] worthy of

[00:59:45] permission

[00:59:45] or whatever

[00:59:46] because she's

[00:59:46] making it

[00:59:47] look better?

[00:59:48] No.

[00:59:50] Because I

[00:59:51] mean...

[00:59:51] Because I

[00:59:53] think to

[00:59:54] me,

[00:59:54] right,

[00:59:54] when you

[00:59:55] say like,

[00:59:55] oh,

[00:59:56] my

[00:59:56] ass

[00:59:56] dudes

[00:59:56] and this

[00:59:57] and that,

[00:59:57] right?

[00:59:58] That's cool,

[00:59:59] right?

[01:00:00] I think

[01:00:02] if you're a

[01:00:02] level,

[01:00:03] a dude on

[01:00:03] a level

[01:00:04] two,

[01:00:04] it's a

[01:00:04] bitch down

[01:00:05] there on

[01:00:05] a level

[01:00:05] two for

[01:00:06] you.

[01:00:07] And y'all

[01:00:07] can be on

[01:00:08] level two.

[01:00:11] If you

[01:00:12] look at

[01:00:14] the level

[01:00:15] two chicks,

[01:00:16] go ahead.

[01:00:18] One second,

[01:00:19] Mike,

[01:00:19] if you're

[01:00:19] on level

[01:00:20] two,

[01:00:20] right,

[01:00:21] think about

[01:00:21] it is,

[01:00:22] and this

[01:00:22] is where

[01:00:22] I think

[01:00:23] in the

[01:00:23] black

[01:00:23] community,

[01:00:23] we get

[01:00:24] it fucked

[01:00:24] up,

[01:00:24] right?

[01:00:25] If we

[01:00:26] both

[01:00:26] are

[01:00:26] on level

[01:00:26] two

[01:00:27] and we

[01:00:27] get together

[01:00:27] on a

[01:00:28] level

[01:00:29] two nigga

[01:00:29] or a

[01:00:29] level

[01:00:30] two chick

[01:00:30] who say

[01:00:30] we can't

[01:00:31] get up

[01:00:31] to a level

[01:00:32] seven

[01:00:32] together,

[01:00:33] but we

[01:00:34] don't

[01:00:34] fucking

[01:00:34] do that.

[01:00:35] We be

[01:00:35] a level

[01:00:36] two chick

[01:00:36] talking about

[01:00:37] level

[01:00:38] ten

[01:00:38] niggas,

[01:00:38] we be

[01:00:39] a level

[01:00:39] two

[01:00:39] nigga

[01:00:40] talking about

[01:00:40] level

[01:00:40] ten

[01:00:41] shit.

[01:00:43] Shit shit.

[01:00:44] Wow,

[01:00:45] it's going

[01:00:45] to keep

[01:00:45] being fucked

[01:00:46] up the

[01:00:46] way it

[01:00:46] is until

[01:00:47] motherfuckers

[01:00:47] come to

[01:00:48] reality.

[01:00:50] Yeah,

[01:00:50] I think

[01:00:52] the way

[01:00:52] that it

[01:00:53] is level

[01:00:56] one,

[01:00:56] level two,

[01:00:57] level three,

[01:00:57] I think

[01:00:58] the way

[01:00:58] that it

[01:00:59] is people

[01:01:01] look more

[01:01:04] at the

[01:01:05] fantasy of

[01:01:06] it compared

[01:01:06] to the

[01:01:07] reality.

[01:01:08] If we

[01:01:08] look at

[01:01:09] women now

[01:01:09] today,

[01:01:10] if we

[01:01:10] look at

[01:01:11] women,

[01:01:12] they're

[01:01:12] all

[01:01:14] AI

[01:01:14] generated

[01:01:15] avatars.

[01:01:16] We don't

[01:01:17] get a

[01:01:17] chance to

[01:01:18] meet the

[01:01:18] real chick

[01:01:18] until we

[01:01:19] see them

[01:01:19] in person.

[01:01:22] Think about

[01:01:23] what I'm

[01:01:23] saying,

[01:01:23] fellas.

[01:01:24] They are

[01:01:24] all AI

[01:01:25] generated

[01:01:25] avatars.

[01:01:26] The makeup

[01:01:27] is what

[01:01:27] creates

[01:01:28] the avatar.

[01:01:30] The makeup,

[01:01:31] the filters,

[01:01:33] all of that

[01:01:33] creates

[01:01:34] the avatar.

[01:01:35] Meeting

[01:01:35] her in

[01:01:36] real life

[01:01:37] and actually

[01:01:37] meeting the

[01:01:38] real person,

[01:01:39] you don't

[01:01:39] meet that

[01:01:40] avatar that you

[01:01:41] are used

[01:01:41] to on the

[01:01:42] computer.

[01:01:42] They are

[01:01:43] two different

[01:01:44] facades.

[01:01:45] It's totally

[01:01:46] different.

[01:01:47] They almost

[01:01:50] never

[01:01:50] ever.

[01:01:51] Almost

[01:01:53] never

[01:01:53] ever.

[01:01:55] I ain't

[01:01:56] out here

[01:01:56] like that

[01:01:57] no more.

[01:01:58] On the

[01:01:58] scene or

[01:01:59] whatever.

[01:02:00] One of my

[01:02:01] homies,

[01:02:01] I was

[01:02:02] talking to

[01:02:02] him a

[01:02:03] couple weeks

[01:02:04] ago and

[01:02:04] he was

[01:02:04] telling me,

[01:02:05] man,

[01:02:05] one thing

[01:02:06] about it

[01:02:06] now,

[01:02:07] you go

[01:02:07] out,

[01:02:07] you see

[01:02:08] these

[01:02:08] girls,

[01:02:08] none

[01:02:08] of them

[01:02:09] bitches

[01:02:09] look like

[01:02:12] they

[01:02:12] fuckers.

[01:02:13] Because it's

[01:02:13] all AI

[01:02:13] generated,

[01:02:14] bro.

[01:02:15] Yeah,

[01:02:15] it's

[01:02:15] cat.

[01:02:17] Everybody

[01:02:17] got that

[01:02:17] shit here,

[01:02:18] bro.

[01:02:20] Yo,

[01:02:21] listen,

[01:02:21] to the

[01:02:22] point,

[01:02:22] like,

[01:02:22] so serious,

[01:02:23] right,

[01:02:23] y'all,

[01:02:24] like,

[01:02:24] I was

[01:02:24] on,

[01:02:25] you know,

[01:02:25] I was

[01:02:25] on a

[01:02:26] dating site

[01:02:27] and I

[01:02:28] actually

[01:02:28] came across

[01:02:29] one of

[01:02:29] my

[01:02:29] co-workers,

[01:02:30] right?

[01:02:31] I came

[01:02:31] across

[01:02:31] one of

[01:02:32] my

[01:02:32] co-workers

[01:02:33] and

[01:02:35] when I'm

[01:02:35] looking,

[01:02:36] when I'm

[01:02:36] looking on

[01:02:37] the joint,

[01:02:38] she look

[01:02:38] like,

[01:02:39] like,

[01:02:40] damn,

[01:02:40] like,

[01:02:40] she would

[01:02:41] look like

[01:02:41] something

[01:02:41] that you

[01:02:42] would,

[01:02:42] that you

[01:02:43] would look

[01:02:43] for every

[01:02:43] day.

[01:02:44] I see her

[01:02:44] every day

[01:02:45] and I'm

[01:02:45] like,

[01:02:46] she don't

[01:02:46] look like

[01:02:47] this,

[01:02:47] she don't

[01:02:48] look like

[01:02:48] this,

[01:02:48] but I see

[01:02:49] this lady

[01:02:49] every single

[01:02:50] day,

[01:02:51] yo,

[01:02:51] and it's

[01:02:52] like,

[01:02:53] and it

[01:02:53] blew my

[01:02:54] mind,

[01:02:54] like,

[01:02:54] I just

[01:02:57] the point

[01:02:57] where I

[01:02:57] had to

[01:02:57] screenshot

[01:02:58] the jaws,

[01:02:58] like,

[01:02:58] yo,

[01:02:59] this is

[01:02:59] no fucking

[01:03:00] way.

[01:03:01] So again,

[01:03:03] same question

[01:03:03] to y'all,

[01:03:04] right?

[01:03:05] For the

[01:03:05] women that

[01:03:06] doing that,

[01:03:07] do they

[01:03:08] get to

[01:03:08] say,

[01:03:11] a man

[01:03:11] named

[01:03:11] this or

[01:03:12] that,

[01:03:12] or this

[01:03:12] or that,

[01:03:13] if you're

[01:03:13] cat-ficking

[01:03:14] anyone?

[01:03:15] No,

[01:03:15] hell no.

[01:03:16] No.

[01:03:18] Well,

[01:03:18] as long as

[01:03:18] we establish

[01:03:19] that,

[01:03:19] I'm

[01:03:19] there.

[01:03:21] So there's

[01:03:21] men out

[01:03:22] there,

[01:03:22] so there

[01:03:23] are men

[01:03:23] out there,

[01:03:24] like myself,

[01:03:24] there are men

[01:03:25] out there

[01:03:26] that have

[01:03:27] decided to

[01:03:27] be Mr.

[01:03:28] Build-A-Bitch.

[01:03:29] I'm going to

[01:03:30] tell y'all how

[01:03:30] that works,

[01:03:31] right?

[01:03:31] I'm going to

[01:03:32] tell you how

[01:03:32] Mr.

[01:03:33] Build-A-Bitch

[01:03:33] works.

[01:03:33] I got a song,

[01:03:34] listen,

[01:03:35] listen,

[01:03:35] listen,

[01:03:36] I got a song

[01:03:37] coming out,

[01:03:37] I got a song

[01:03:40] called Mr.

[01:03:41] Build-A-Bitch,

[01:03:42] right?

[01:03:42] Now listen,

[01:03:44] if you take

[01:03:45] a chick

[01:03:46] from a

[01:03:47] fucked up

[01:03:47] situation

[01:03:49] and you,

[01:03:49] you gotta,

[01:03:50] but understand,

[01:03:52] this chick

[01:03:52] has to be

[01:03:53] willing to

[01:03:53] not only

[01:03:54] mentally submit,

[01:03:55] but she

[01:03:56] has to

[01:03:56] be willing

[01:03:56] to take

[01:03:57] instruction

[01:03:57] and grow

[01:03:58] from the

[01:03:58] instruction,

[01:04:00] right?

[01:04:01] If you

[01:04:01] take her

[01:04:02] from that

[01:04:02] and you

[01:04:03] create

[01:04:04] who she

[01:04:04] become,

[01:04:06] she'll be

[01:04:06] grateful.

[01:04:07] I'm going to

[01:04:07] tell you why.

[01:04:09] Because I

[01:04:09] don't want

[01:04:10] the bad

[01:04:10] bitch no

[01:04:10] more.

[01:04:11] Give me

[01:04:12] the fat

[01:04:12] girl.

[01:04:13] I'm going to

[01:04:13] tell you

[01:04:14] why I

[01:04:14] want her.

[01:04:15] She's going

[01:04:15] to listen

[01:04:16] to my

[01:04:16] instruction.

[01:04:17] She's going

[01:04:17] to learn

[01:04:18] and then

[01:04:18] not only

[01:04:19] that,

[01:04:19] if she

[01:04:20] gets gassy

[01:04:20] enough and

[01:04:21] if she gets

[01:04:21] her balls in

[01:04:22] her motherfucking

[01:04:23] back enough,

[01:04:24] she'll go

[01:04:24] get that

[01:04:24] gastric

[01:04:25] bypass and

[01:04:25] change her

[01:04:26] whole life.

[01:04:26] Now you

[01:04:27] got to

[01:04:27] build the

[01:04:27] bitch that

[01:04:28] you wanted.

[01:04:28] You done

[01:04:28] built it.

[01:04:30] You ain't got

[01:04:30] to worry

[01:04:31] about nothing.

[01:04:31] Listen,

[01:04:32] listen,

[01:04:32] you ain't got

[01:04:33] to worry

[01:04:33] about a

[01:04:33] nigga chasing

[01:04:34] her because

[01:04:34] the niggas

[01:04:34] wasn't looking

[01:04:35] for her when

[01:04:35] she was big,

[01:04:36] girl.

[01:04:37] so now when

[01:04:38] she become

[01:04:38] the bad

[01:04:38] bitch that

[01:04:39] you created,

[01:04:41] you not

[01:04:41] only benefit

[01:04:42] from having

[01:04:43] her because

[01:04:44] you helped

[01:04:44] her get

[01:04:44] there,

[01:04:45] but you

[01:04:46] both have

[01:04:46] grown together.

[01:04:48] Bro,

[01:04:49] listen,

[01:04:49] right?

[01:04:51] To the

[01:04:52] point of

[01:04:52] you saying

[01:04:52] that,

[01:04:53] I'm a

[01:04:53] personal

[01:04:54] trainer for

[01:04:54] a lot

[01:04:54] three.

[01:04:55] That's

[01:04:55] what I

[01:04:55] do for

[01:04:56] a

[01:04:56] living.

[01:04:58] Like

[01:04:58] you said,

[01:04:58] I don't

[01:05:00] even look

[01:05:00] at that

[01:05:00] type of

[01:05:01] shit.

[01:05:01] I don't

[01:05:10] try to

[01:05:11] talk to

[01:05:16] you because

[01:05:16] I'm not

[01:05:17] going to

[01:05:18] try to

[01:05:18] uphold your

[01:05:19] lifestyle.

[01:05:20] Even if

[01:05:20] it's a

[01:05:21] facade,

[01:05:22] I'm not

[01:05:22] trying to

[01:05:22] hold up

[01:05:22] your

[01:05:23] facade

[01:05:23] of a

[01:05:23] lifestyle.

[01:05:24] So that's

[01:05:26] why you

[01:05:27] find the

[01:05:27] one that

[01:05:28] you like?

[01:05:29] That's

[01:05:29] why you

[01:05:30] find a

[01:05:30] cool...

[01:05:31] Listen,

[01:05:32] the young

[01:05:33] lady,

[01:05:33] get in

[01:05:34] the gym

[01:05:34] every day

[01:05:35] because I

[01:05:35] don't know

[01:05:36] if y'all

[01:05:36] follow me

[01:05:36] or y'all

[01:05:37] see me,

[01:05:37] but I'm

[01:05:38] on TikTok

[01:05:38] every day.

[01:05:39] I'm in

[01:05:39] the

[01:05:39] motherfucking

[01:05:39] gym.

[01:05:40] Guess

[01:05:40] what?

[01:05:41] When she

[01:05:42] seen me

[01:05:42] do that,

[01:05:43] she said,

[01:05:43] yo,

[01:05:43] bro,

[01:05:44] I know

[01:05:44] I'm

[01:05:45] fucking

[01:05:45] with you.

[01:05:45] Let me

[01:05:46] go with

[01:05:46] you.

[01:05:47] I said,

[01:05:47] well,

[01:05:47] you know,

[01:05:47] I shoot

[01:05:48] for 30

[01:05:48] minutes and

[01:05:49] then I

[01:05:49] get it

[01:05:49] popping.

[01:05:49] She said,

[01:05:50] nah,

[01:05:50] listen,

[01:05:51] while you

[01:05:51] running

[01:05:52] them numbers

[01:05:52] and you

[01:05:52] getting that

[01:05:53] muscle

[01:05:53] memory

[01:05:53] with them

[01:05:54] shots,

[01:05:54] let me

[01:05:54] hit that

[01:05:55] treadmill.

[01:05:55] And when

[01:05:56] you in

[01:05:56] the

[01:05:56] motherfucking

[01:05:57] weights

[01:05:57] and you

[01:05:57] doing that,

[01:05:58] why don't I

[01:05:58] do my

[01:05:58] pull throughs,

[01:05:59] them fives,

[01:06:00] let me get

[01:06:00] with you.

[01:06:01] Bro,

[01:06:02] she built

[01:06:02] like a monster

[01:06:03] now.

[01:06:04] Listen,

[01:06:04] she built

[01:06:05] like a monster

[01:06:05] now,

[01:06:06] bro.

[01:06:06] Built

[01:06:07] like a monster

[01:06:07] now,

[01:06:08] bro.

[01:06:08] So the

[01:06:09] monsters that

[01:06:09] I was

[01:06:10] looking at

[01:06:10] before,

[01:06:10] that was

[01:06:11] a man.

[01:06:12] And I

[01:06:12] knew I

[01:06:12] couldn't

[01:06:12] afford

[01:06:13] them.

[01:06:13] It

[01:06:14] wasn't

[01:06:14] that I

[01:06:14] knew I

[01:06:14] couldn't

[01:06:15] afford

[01:06:15] them.

[01:06:16] All of

[01:06:16] us men

[01:06:19] that have

[01:06:23] another

[01:06:23] tax.

[01:06:25] But this

[01:06:26] tax is

[01:06:26] not

[01:06:27] deductible.

[01:06:27] I can't

[01:06:28] fucking

[01:06:28] claim that

[01:06:29] on my

[01:06:29] tax.

[01:06:30] This

[01:06:30] bitch

[01:06:30] ain't

[01:06:30] deductible

[01:06:31] by taxes.

[01:06:32] So why

[01:06:33] would I

[01:06:34] accept

[01:06:34] another

[01:06:34] bill

[01:06:35] that's

[01:06:35] probably

[01:06:35] another

[01:06:36] $400

[01:06:36] a month

[01:06:37] that's

[01:06:37] not

[01:06:37] tax

[01:06:38] deductible?

[01:06:39] Fuck

[01:06:39] all that.

[01:06:40] Let me

[01:06:40] go get

[01:06:40] mine.

[01:06:41] Hey,

[01:06:41] let me

[01:06:41] jump in

[01:06:45] here for

[01:06:45] a second,

[01:06:46] dog.

[01:06:46] What you

[01:06:46] think,

[01:06:47] man?

[01:06:47] Because I

[01:06:47] know

[01:06:48] you said

[01:06:48] back,

[01:06:48] listen,

[01:06:49] you the

[01:06:49] married

[01:06:49] man,

[01:06:50] so I

[01:06:50] want to

[01:06:50] hear

[01:06:50] from

[01:06:50] you.

[01:06:51] So there's

[01:06:53] this.

[01:06:54] I've been

[01:06:54] on the

[01:06:54] show many

[01:06:55] times and

[01:06:56] I've said

[01:06:57] over and

[01:06:57] over and

[01:06:58] over again,

[01:06:59] I've told

[01:06:59] guys and

[01:07:00] advised them

[01:07:01] get off

[01:07:02] of social

[01:07:03] media.

[01:07:05] Real life

[01:07:06] does not

[01:07:06] happen on

[01:07:07] social media

[01:07:07] and

[01:07:08] furthermore,

[01:07:09] social media

[01:07:09] makes you

[01:07:10] depressed.

[01:07:11] Social media

[01:07:12] takes up your

[01:07:12] valuable creative

[01:07:13] energy.

[01:07:14] Social media

[01:07:15] does a lot

[01:07:15] of things.

[01:07:16] As a matter

[01:07:16] of fact,

[01:07:16] right now,

[01:07:18] Vic knows

[01:07:19] this,

[01:07:19] I'm not on

[01:07:19] social media

[01:07:20] right now.

[01:07:20] I took it

[01:07:21] all off my

[01:07:22] phone except

[01:07:22] for messenger

[01:07:22] to keep

[01:07:24] up with

[01:07:24] close family

[01:07:25] and friends,

[01:07:25] right?

[01:07:26] I took it

[01:07:26] all off.

[01:07:27] Do you

[01:07:27] know why?

[01:07:28] Part of

[01:07:29] the reason

[01:07:29] why is

[01:07:30] because I

[01:07:31] want to

[01:07:31] be the

[01:07:32] person that

[01:07:32] I said

[01:07:33] I wanted

[01:07:33] to be.

[01:07:34] What we

[01:07:35] got to

[01:07:35] do in

[01:07:36] every major

[01:07:37] city,

[01:07:37] small cities

[01:07:38] is different.

[01:07:39] In every

[01:07:40] major city

[01:07:40] there's

[01:07:41] bars,

[01:07:42] there's

[01:07:43] hangout

[01:07:43] spots,

[01:07:44] there's

[01:07:44] mixers,

[01:07:45] you can

[01:07:45] get on

[01:07:46] Eventbrite,

[01:07:47] you can

[01:07:47] go on

[01:07:48] Facebook

[01:07:48] events,

[01:07:48] you can

[01:07:49] meet

[01:07:49] people in

[01:07:49] real life,

[01:07:50] develop

[01:07:50] relationships

[01:07:51] with them,

[01:07:52] sit down,

[01:07:52] talk with

[01:07:53] them,

[01:07:54] actually see

[01:07:54] what people

[01:07:55] like.

[01:07:56] If you're

[01:07:56] in a space

[01:07:57] where you're

[01:07:57] in your

[01:07:58] calling,

[01:07:59] if you're

[01:07:59] in a space

[01:08:00] where you're

[01:08:00] doing what

[01:08:00] you need to

[01:08:01] do,

[01:08:01] you're in

[01:08:02] a healthy

[01:08:02] mental space

[01:08:04] as a black

[01:08:04] man,

[01:08:05] you're in

[01:08:05] a healthy

[01:08:07] financial space

[01:08:07] where you

[01:08:08] have money

[01:08:09] to spend,

[01:08:10] but you're

[01:08:10] also being

[01:08:11] cognizant of

[01:08:11] your bills

[01:08:12] and where

[01:08:13] you're putting

[01:08:13] your money

[01:08:14] at.

[01:08:14] You go out

[01:08:15] there and

[01:08:15] you present

[01:08:16] yourself and

[01:08:16] you know how

[01:08:17] to dress,

[01:08:19] you can

[01:08:20] go out

[01:08:20] there and

[01:08:20] find somebody

[01:08:21] that's a

[01:08:21] good partner.

[01:08:22] There's a

[01:08:22] whole bunch

[01:08:23] of single

[01:08:23] women out

[01:08:23] there that's

[01:08:24] looking for

[01:08:24] men.

[01:08:25] You know

[01:08:26] what I'm

[01:08:26] saying?

[01:08:26] But we're

[01:08:26] not going

[01:08:27] to find

[01:08:27] them.

[01:08:27] first one up.

[01:08:28] Put your

[01:08:28] first one up.

[01:08:29] Scrolling

[01:08:30] IG,

[01:08:30] scrolling

[01:08:31] Facebook,

[01:08:32] scrolling

[01:08:32] fanbase,

[01:08:33] and so on

[01:08:33] and so forth.

[01:08:34] You got to

[01:08:35] actually get

[01:08:35] out there and

[01:08:36] develop

[01:08:36] interpersonal

[01:08:37] communication

[01:08:38] skills because

[01:08:39] if you don't

[01:08:41] because life

[01:08:42] isn't lived

[01:08:43] online,

[01:08:43] you can

[01:08:44] actually make

[01:08:44] your eyes

[01:08:45] wear scrolling

[01:08:45] too much.

[01:08:46] Y'all see I

[01:08:46] got glasses

[01:08:47] on,

[01:08:48] look,

[01:08:49] the whole

[01:08:49] point of

[01:08:50] this is

[01:08:51] if you

[01:08:52] want what

[01:08:52] you say

[01:08:53] you want,

[01:08:53] you say

[01:08:53] you want

[01:08:54] a viable

[01:08:54] partner

[01:08:55] that you

[01:08:55] could build

[01:08:56] long term,

[01:08:57] you get

[01:08:57] somebody that

[01:08:58] could be

[01:08:58] the queen

[01:08:58] to your

[01:08:59] king,

[01:08:59] you got

[01:09:00] to get

[01:09:00] out there

[01:09:00] and find

[01:09:00] it.

[01:09:01] You're

[01:09:01] not going

[01:09:01] to find

[01:09:01] it online.

[01:09:02] And I

[01:09:02] understand

[01:09:03] what y'all

[01:09:03] are saying

[01:09:03] about that.

[01:09:04] I understand

[01:09:05] exactly what

[01:09:05] you're saying

[01:09:06] about the

[01:09:06] IG filters,

[01:09:08] the IG angles

[01:09:09] and everything

[01:09:10] like that.

[01:09:10] I get all

[01:09:11] that.

[01:09:12] I truly get

[01:09:13] all that.

[01:09:13] But if you

[01:09:14] want to get

[01:09:14] out there,

[01:09:15] there's a

[01:09:15] whole world

[01:09:16] out there.

[01:09:17] But

[01:09:18] travel

[01:09:18] is a thing,

[01:09:18] right?

[01:09:21] That's

[01:09:21] definitely

[01:09:21] all.

[01:09:22] And we

[01:09:23] got to get

[01:09:24] it.

[01:09:24] I'm going

[01:09:25] to double

[01:09:25] down even

[01:09:27] more on what

[01:09:28] you're saying

[01:09:28] on why

[01:09:29] that's so

[01:09:30] much more,

[01:09:31] like why

[01:09:31] doing it that

[01:09:32] way is so

[01:09:33] much more

[01:09:33] valuable.

[01:09:34] Because again,

[01:09:35] I say this all

[01:09:36] the time with

[01:09:37] people,

[01:09:37] right?

[01:09:39] And I'm

[01:09:40] thankful that

[01:09:40] I grew up in

[01:09:40] the era that

[01:09:41] I grew up

[01:09:41] in.

[01:09:42] We actually

[01:09:43] had to talk

[01:09:43] to people.

[01:09:45] Right?

[01:09:47] We had to

[01:09:48] physically talk

[01:09:49] to them,

[01:09:49] right?

[01:09:50] But like

[01:09:51] you said,

[01:09:51] when you

[01:09:51] meet people

[01:09:52] anywhere,

[01:09:52] you meet

[01:09:52] somebody at

[01:09:53] the gym,

[01:09:53] you can

[01:09:54] actually get

[01:09:54] a feel for

[01:09:55] that person's

[01:09:56] personality in

[01:09:57] real time and

[01:09:58] in real life.

[01:09:59] I'm not

[01:09:59] guessing how

[01:10:00] your personality

[01:10:01] is because I

[01:10:02] met you online

[01:10:02] or I see you

[01:10:03] online.

[01:10:04] I can actually

[01:10:05] really get a

[01:10:06] real-time

[01:10:07] assessment and

[01:10:08] a real-time

[01:10:09] look at

[01:10:11] your personality,

[01:10:12] which is a

[01:10:13] big thing.

[01:10:13] But people

[01:10:14] hide behind

[01:10:15] these phones

[01:10:16] so much,

[01:10:18] so much,

[01:10:19] that you don't

[01:10:19] know who

[01:10:19] you're talking

[01:10:20] to.

[01:10:20] You don't

[01:10:20] know who

[01:10:21] that person

[01:10:21] is.

[01:10:22] You can't

[01:10:22] even just

[01:10:22] hide behind

[01:10:23] the phone.

[01:10:24] But if you

[01:10:26] take that

[01:10:26] phone out,

[01:10:27] I see it all

[01:10:27] the time.

[01:10:28] I work in

[01:10:29] a school and

[01:10:29] I was just

[01:10:30] telling the

[01:10:30] young boys

[01:10:31] that when I

[01:10:34] wanted to get

[01:10:34] a girl a number

[01:10:35] back in the day,

[01:10:35] I had to ask

[01:10:36] her for her

[01:10:36] number.

[01:10:37] I still

[01:10:38] had to verbally

[01:10:38] ask her for

[01:10:39] her number.

[01:10:40] I'll tell you

[01:10:40] DM and say,

[01:10:41] yo,

[01:10:41] what's your

[01:10:42] number?

[01:10:42] I had to

[01:10:43] verbally have

[01:10:44] the confidence

[01:10:45] to walk up

[01:10:46] to a woman

[01:10:46] and actually

[01:10:47] talk to her

[01:10:48] and ask

[01:10:49] her for

[01:10:49] her phone.

[01:10:49] It takes

[01:10:50] a certain

[01:10:50] level of

[01:10:51] confidence

[01:10:51] to do

[01:10:52] that.

[01:10:56] But it's

[01:10:57] easy for me

[01:10:57] to just sit

[01:10:58] behind his

[01:10:58] phone and

[01:10:59] jump in

[01:10:59] your DM

[01:11:00] and say

[01:11:00] hello.

[01:11:00] And if

[01:11:01] you never

[01:11:01] respond,

[01:11:01] then okay,

[01:11:02] whatever,

[01:11:02] you never

[01:11:03] responded.

[01:11:03] But people

[01:11:05] are so

[01:11:05] fearful of

[01:11:06] rejection.

[01:11:07] It's like,

[01:11:07] oh,

[01:11:07] well,

[01:11:08] yeah,

[01:11:08] I don't

[01:11:08] want to go

[01:11:08] talk to

[01:11:09] this person.

[01:11:10] I always

[01:11:11] look at

[01:11:11] life like,

[01:11:13] you got a

[01:11:14] 50-50 chance,

[01:11:14] my nigga.

[01:11:16] You only

[01:11:17] won't get

[01:11:17] one or two

[01:11:18] in this world.

[01:11:23] That's

[01:11:23] something

[01:11:23] the world

[01:11:24] is like.

[01:11:24] Yes,

[01:11:25] it's terrible.

[01:11:26] But I

[01:11:27] think also

[01:11:27] what we

[01:11:28] did as

[01:11:29] us being

[01:11:30] the adults

[01:11:30] now compared

[01:11:31] to when

[01:11:31] we were

[01:11:32] the younger

[01:11:32] ones,

[01:11:33] is we

[01:11:35] helped

[01:11:36] create this.

[01:11:37] Now we

[01:11:38] did.

[01:11:39] Just

[01:11:39] Pete what

[01:11:40] I'm saying.

[01:11:41] Just Pete

[01:11:41] what I'm

[01:11:41] saying.

[01:11:42] We helped

[01:11:43] create it

[01:11:44] because we

[01:11:45] didn't stick

[01:11:45] to the old

[01:11:46] narrative.

[01:11:47] We got

[01:11:48] into the

[01:11:48] new way.

[01:11:49] We got

[01:11:49] into the

[01:11:50] new way

[01:11:50] and we

[01:11:50] did not

[01:11:51] stick to

[01:11:51] the

[01:11:51] narrative

[01:11:52] that

[01:11:52] we

[01:11:52] were taught.

[01:11:53] If you

[01:11:54] think about

[01:11:54] it,

[01:11:54] when the

[01:11:55] white

[01:11:55] folk,

[01:11:56] we used

[01:11:56] to have

[01:11:56] on TV,

[01:11:57] they used

[01:11:57] to say

[01:11:57] it's 10

[01:11:58] o'clock.

[01:11:58] Where the

[01:11:58] fuck your

[01:11:59] kids at?

[01:12:04] You always

[01:12:06] think you're

[01:12:07] doing some

[01:12:08] new shit.

[01:12:09] But think

[01:12:09] about this.

[01:12:11] At what

[01:12:12] point did

[01:12:13] we lose

[01:12:14] control?

[01:12:15] And I'm

[01:12:16] going to tell

[01:12:16] you when we

[01:12:16] lost control.

[01:12:17] When the

[01:12:19] kids were

[01:12:20] told that

[01:12:20] they can

[01:12:20] call the

[01:12:21] police on

[01:12:21] us,

[01:12:22] that's

[01:12:22] when we

[01:12:22] lost

[01:12:23] control.

[01:12:24] Because now

[01:12:24] look at

[01:12:24] the girls.

[01:12:25] Look at

[01:12:25] the girls.

[01:12:26] Look at

[01:12:26] the girls

[01:12:27] now.

[01:12:28] Girl

[01:12:28] would look

[01:12:28] like she

[01:12:29] got them

[01:12:29] about to

[01:12:29] sell all

[01:12:30] her little

[01:12:30] young ass

[01:12:31] pussy.

[01:12:31] And she

[01:12:32] would call

[01:12:32] on her

[01:12:32] mother,

[01:12:33] call the

[01:12:33] police.

[01:12:35] And she

[01:12:35] telling me

[01:12:36] I can't

[01:12:37] dress like

[01:12:37] this.

[01:12:38] And at

[01:12:38] what point

[01:12:38] did they

[01:12:39] say,

[01:12:39] okay,

[01:12:39] this is

[01:12:40] accessible?

[01:12:40] Because even

[01:12:41] the police

[01:12:43] officers are

[01:12:44] saying,

[01:12:44] you can't

[01:12:44] tell your

[01:12:45] mama like

[01:12:45] that.

[01:12:46] And she

[01:12:46] saying,

[01:12:47] well,

[01:12:47] if she

[01:12:47] touch me,

[01:12:48] she's

[01:12:48] going to

[01:12:48] go to

[01:12:48] jail.

[01:12:49] Look at

[01:12:49] all of us

[01:12:49] that are

[01:12:50] fathers.

[01:12:50] I got a

[01:12:50] 20-year-old

[01:12:51] now.

[01:12:52] You know

[01:12:52] how many

[01:12:52] times I

[01:12:53] don't want

[01:12:53] her to

[01:12:53] pop her

[01:12:53] motherfucking

[01:12:54] ass,

[01:12:54] but I

[01:12:54] can't

[01:12:55] because I

[01:12:55] know they'll

[01:12:56] put me in

[01:12:56] jail for

[01:12:57] doing what

[01:12:57] a man is

[01:12:58] supposed to

[01:12:59] do raising

[01:12:59] his kids.

[01:13:00] So yeah,

[01:13:01] we take

[01:13:02] blame too

[01:13:02] because we

[01:13:03] didn't stick

[01:13:03] to the

[01:13:04] narrative.

[01:13:04] We let the

[01:13:05] narrative stick

[01:13:06] it to us.

[01:13:08] So that's

[01:13:08] why these

[01:13:09] chicks is the

[01:13:09] way they are

[01:13:10] because guess

[01:13:10] what?

[01:13:11] The narrative

[01:13:12] is now you

[01:13:13] got to be a

[01:13:13] botched body,

[01:13:14] fake body,

[01:13:14] filtered,

[01:13:15] big titty,

[01:13:16] blah,

[01:13:16] blah,

[01:13:16] blah.

[01:13:16] And the

[01:13:17] narrative is

[01:13:17] we can't

[01:13:18] touch them.

[01:13:19] We just

[01:13:19] got to

[01:13:20] accept them.

[01:13:21] I mean,

[01:13:22] it's tough

[01:13:23] for the

[01:13:23] girl.

[01:13:23] I think

[01:13:25] I got a

[01:13:26] 20-year-old

[01:13:27] too.

[01:13:28] So,

[01:13:29] and

[01:13:31] it's hard

[01:13:32] for me to

[01:13:33] think about,

[01:13:34] you know,

[01:13:35] with my

[01:13:35] political

[01:13:36] because

[01:13:36] he's my

[01:13:37] daughter.

[01:13:39] He never

[01:13:40] gave me a

[01:13:41] reason to

[01:13:42] anyway,

[01:13:42] thankfully.

[01:13:43] You know what

[01:13:43] I mean?

[01:13:46] But it's

[01:13:47] definitely,

[01:13:47] you know,

[01:13:49] a little

[01:13:50] different with

[01:13:51] girls.

[01:13:51] My son,

[01:13:52] like,

[01:13:52] he know

[01:13:52] I'm on his

[01:13:53] ass.

[01:13:53] You know

[01:13:54] what I

[01:13:54] mean?

[01:13:54] But with

[01:13:56] my girls,

[01:13:56] I just

[01:13:56] stick to

[01:13:57] different

[01:13:57] fruit.

[01:13:58] I mean,

[01:13:58] but at

[01:13:59] the same

[01:14:00] time,

[01:14:00] I'm still,

[01:14:00] I think,

[01:14:01] I'm sure

[01:14:01] they'll say

[01:14:02] I'm hard

[01:14:02] on them

[01:14:02] too.

[01:14:03] I mean,

[01:14:04] they're hard.

[01:14:05] We're still

[01:14:05] hard.

[01:14:06] Well,

[01:14:07] we ain't

[01:14:07] our parents

[01:14:08] hard.

[01:14:09] Yeah,

[01:14:09] exactly.

[01:14:10] We're definitely

[01:14:10] gonna be hard,

[01:14:11] right?

[01:14:12] We're still

[01:14:12] hard.

[01:14:13] But we're

[01:14:15] not old

[01:14:15] school

[01:14:17] grandmama

[01:14:17] old

[01:14:18] Salome

[01:14:19] hard.

[01:14:19] We're not

[01:14:20] Salome

[01:14:20] hard no

[01:14:21] more.

[01:14:21] can't be.

[01:14:22] Because we

[01:14:23] don't have

[01:14:23] Salome.

[01:14:25] You know what

[01:14:25] I mean?

[01:14:25] We don't have

[01:14:26] Salome.

[01:14:27] She's not

[01:14:28] around.

[01:14:29] I mean,

[01:14:29] because at

[01:14:31] the end

[01:14:31] of the day,

[01:14:32] right,

[01:14:32] I will

[01:14:33] say,

[01:14:33] like,

[01:14:34] with my

[01:14:35] oldest

[01:14:35] child,

[01:14:38] that was

[01:14:38] the one

[01:14:39] where I

[01:14:39] was like,

[01:14:40] I ain't

[01:14:40] doing what

[01:14:41] my mom

[01:14:41] did.

[01:14:41] I think,

[01:14:42] I believe

[01:14:42] many of

[01:14:43] us had

[01:14:43] that

[01:14:43] mentality.

[01:14:44] Like,

[01:14:44] I mean,

[01:14:45] I ain't

[01:14:45] doing what

[01:14:45] they did.

[01:14:46] I'm gonna

[01:14:47] do this

[01:14:47] for my

[01:14:48] kid.

[01:14:48] I'm gonna

[01:14:48] give my

[01:14:48] kid this

[01:14:49] and that.

[01:14:49] This

[01:14:49] and that,

[01:14:50] right?

[01:14:50] And that's

[01:14:50] where we

[01:14:51] all fucked

[01:14:51] up.

[01:14:52] Because we

[01:14:52] should have

[01:14:52] stuck to

[01:14:53] the script.

[01:14:54] I agree.

[01:14:56] But then,

[01:14:58] when I

[01:14:59] had my

[01:14:59] We gotta

[01:15:00] make our

[01:15:00] own changes.

[01:15:01] Like,

[01:15:02] we gotta

[01:15:02] make our

[01:15:02] own changes.

[01:15:05] I learned

[01:15:06] from those

[01:15:06] mistakes,

[01:15:07] though.

[01:15:07] And so,

[01:15:09] I may be

[01:15:10] more old

[01:15:11] school with

[01:15:11] it now.

[01:15:12] You know

[01:15:12] what I mean?

[01:15:13] Because I

[01:15:14] grew up with

[01:15:15] both parents

[01:15:15] and I learned

[01:15:16] the stuff I

[01:15:17] was supposed

[01:15:17] to do.

[01:15:18] I just

[01:15:18] rebelled

[01:15:18] against it.

[01:15:19] You know what

[01:15:19] I mean?

[01:15:19] Because of

[01:15:20] certain things

[01:15:21] that I

[01:15:21] thought was

[01:15:22] better or

[01:15:23] whatever

[01:15:23] program got

[01:15:24] to me.

[01:15:25] You know

[01:15:25] what I

[01:15:25] mean?

[01:15:27] I know

[01:15:28] for sure

[01:15:29] that I'm

[01:15:29] sure old

[01:15:29] school.

[01:15:30] Like,

[01:15:32] if you

[01:15:33] give a

[01:15:33] kid an

[01:15:34] inch,

[01:15:34] they're

[01:15:34] gonna

[01:15:34] take a

[01:15:34] mile

[01:15:35] 10

[01:15:35] out

[01:15:35] of

[01:15:35] 10

[01:15:35] times.

[01:15:36] But I

[01:15:36] know

[01:15:36] that.

[01:15:36] You

[01:15:37] know

[01:15:37] that

[01:15:37] because

[01:15:37] we

[01:15:38] did

[01:15:38] when we

[01:15:38] was

[01:15:38] old.

[01:15:39] You

[01:15:40] understand?

[01:15:40] That's a

[01:15:41] fact.

[01:15:41] But,

[01:15:42] like you

[01:15:42] said,

[01:15:43] but as

[01:15:43] far as

[01:15:43] other

[01:15:44] things,

[01:15:45] again,

[01:15:46] man,

[01:15:46] like,

[01:15:47] let me

[01:15:48] ask y'all

[01:15:48] a question.

[01:15:49] And this

[01:15:49] is a

[01:15:50] real serious

[01:15:51] question.

[01:15:52] When is

[01:15:53] the last

[01:15:53] time y'all

[01:15:54] heard the

[01:15:55] phrase,

[01:15:57] I'm not

[01:15:58] your friend

[01:15:59] from a

[01:16:00] parent to

[01:16:01] a child?

[01:16:01] When's

[01:16:01] the last

[01:16:01] time you

[01:16:02] guys

[01:16:02] heard?

[01:16:03] Oh,

[01:16:03] I say

[01:16:03] that shit

[01:16:03] all the

[01:16:04] time because

[01:16:04] they make

[01:16:04] my friends.

[01:16:05] They make

[01:16:05] fucking

[01:16:05] kids.

[01:16:07] And imagine

[01:16:08] on social

[01:16:09] media,

[01:16:09] like,

[01:16:09] you know,

[01:16:10] when do

[01:16:11] you see

[01:16:11] these,

[01:16:11] or even

[01:16:12] me,

[01:16:12] when do

[01:16:13] you see

[01:16:13] these

[01:16:13] things of

[01:16:14] parents

[01:16:15] saying,

[01:16:15] I'm not

[01:16:16] your friend.

[01:16:17] I'm not

[01:16:18] talking

[01:16:18] that shit

[01:16:19] all the

[01:16:19] time.

[01:16:20] No,

[01:16:20] you must

[01:16:21] say that

[01:16:23] because they

[01:16:25] naturalized

[01:16:25] us being

[01:16:26] soft.

[01:16:27] They didn't

[01:16:27] they don't

[01:16:28] want us to

[01:16:28] be parents

[01:16:29] the way

[01:16:29] they do

[01:16:30] because look

[01:16:31] at it.

[01:16:31] Look at all

[01:16:32] them kids

[01:16:32] that's getting

[01:16:33] abducted and

[01:16:33] all of this

[01:16:34] other shit.

[01:16:35] The more

[01:16:35] they rebel,

[01:16:36] the less

[01:16:36] we give a

[01:16:37] fuck.

[01:16:37] And then

[01:16:37] we get to

[01:16:38] a point

[01:16:38] where we

[01:16:38] don't care

[01:16:39] at all.

[01:16:39] And now

[01:16:40] they gone

[01:16:40] and we

[01:16:41] can't get

[01:16:41] to them

[01:16:42] because guess

[01:16:42] what?

[01:16:43] They walk

[01:16:43] off and they

[01:16:43] do what

[01:16:44] they want.

[01:16:44] I think

[01:16:45] we have

[01:16:47] too many

[01:16:47] kids for

[01:16:48] the wrong

[01:16:48] reasons anyway.

[01:16:49] So people

[01:16:50] are not

[01:16:50] dedicated to

[01:16:51] being that

[01:16:52] parent because

[01:16:52] of not,

[01:16:53] you know,

[01:16:54] like when

[01:16:54] you want

[01:16:55] the child,

[01:16:56] you're already

[01:16:57] ready for

[01:16:57] the test.

[01:16:58] Like you're

[01:16:59] rearing up

[01:17:00] for it.

[01:17:00] Like when

[01:17:01] you have

[01:17:01] any kids

[01:17:01] for the

[01:17:02] wrong

[01:17:02] reason,

[01:17:02] you get

[01:17:03] tired of

[01:17:03] it.

[01:17:14] make

[01:17:14] so many

[01:17:15] bad

[01:17:15] decisions

[01:17:16] being

[01:17:16] made.

[01:17:17] So,

[01:17:18] so I

[01:17:19] want to

[01:17:19] say

[01:17:19] something

[01:17:19] here.

[01:17:20] You know

[01:17:20] what I'm

[01:17:20] saying?

[01:17:21] I'm not

[01:17:22] going to

[01:17:22] speak on

[01:17:22] the kids

[01:17:23] thing because

[01:17:24] I'm not

[01:17:24] a parent

[01:17:24] yet.

[01:17:25] I haven't

[01:17:26] been blessed

[01:17:26] with that

[01:17:26] part of life

[01:17:27] just yet.

[01:17:28] Are you

[01:17:28] lucky,

[01:17:29] bro?

[01:17:29] You better

[01:17:29] run for

[01:17:30] the fucking

[01:17:30] hill.

[01:17:33] The new

[01:17:33] age is

[01:17:35] fucking

[01:17:35] dangerous

[01:17:36] because

[01:17:36] they'll

[01:17:37] kill you

[01:17:37] and get

[01:17:37] away

[01:17:37] with it

[01:17:38] and say

[01:17:38] that they

[01:17:38] had

[01:17:39] mental health

[01:17:39] issues.

[01:17:41] I reject

[01:17:42] that in

[01:17:43] totality.

[01:17:43] my wife

[01:17:45] is going

[01:17:45] to be a

[01:17:45] beautiful

[01:17:46] thing.

[01:17:46] I reject

[01:17:46] all that.

[01:17:47] But I

[01:17:48] will say

[01:17:48] this,

[01:17:48] though.

[01:17:50] Here's

[01:17:51] what I'm

[01:17:52] going to

[01:17:52] say,

[01:17:52] though.

[01:17:54] Y'all

[01:17:55] were saying

[01:17:55] at the

[01:17:55] beginning,

[01:17:56] I think

[01:17:56] Fonzo

[01:17:57] was saying

[01:17:58] where did

[01:17:59] we lose

[01:17:59] where

[01:17:59] grandma

[01:18:00] was at

[01:18:00] and where

[01:18:01] we're at

[01:18:02] now?

[01:18:03] And the

[01:18:03] answer

[01:18:03] is

[01:18:05] specifically

[01:18:05] for black

[01:18:06] men,

[01:18:07] we've lost

[01:18:08] our ability

[01:18:09] to maintain

[01:18:09] a culture.

[01:18:10] We kind

[01:18:11] of gave

[01:18:11] away some

[01:18:12] of our

[01:18:12] rights

[01:18:12] for culture

[01:18:13] with some

[01:18:14] of the

[01:18:14] decisions

[01:18:14] that we

[01:18:15] made.

[01:18:15] Now,

[01:18:16] I'm not

[01:18:16] saying it's

[01:18:16] not a

[01:18:16] two-way

[01:18:17] street

[01:18:17] because

[01:18:17] obviously

[01:18:18] it is,

[01:18:20] but we

[01:18:21] don't come

[01:18:21] together

[01:18:22] as a

[01:18:23] community,

[01:18:24] as a

[01:18:25] group,

[01:18:25] as people

[01:18:25] in the

[01:18:26] neighborhood

[01:18:27] the way

[01:18:27] that we

[01:18:28] used to.

[01:18:28] And there's

[01:18:28] a lot

[01:18:29] of reasons

[01:18:29] for that.

[01:18:30] There's

[01:18:30] not just

[01:18:31] one single

[01:18:32] thing that

[01:18:32] we can

[01:18:33] point to

[01:18:33] and we

[01:18:33] be able

[01:18:34] to do

[01:18:34] that.

[01:18:34] But in

[01:18:35] a lot

[01:18:35] of cases

[01:18:35] we're

[01:18:35] in silos.

[01:18:37] You know,

[01:18:37] I have

[01:18:37] my household

[01:18:38] over here.

[01:18:38] My boy

[01:18:39] got his

[01:18:39] household

[01:18:40] over here.

[01:18:40] We're not

[01:18:41] able to

[01:18:41] watch each

[01:18:42] other's

[01:18:42] kids.

[01:18:43] We're not

[01:18:43] able to

[01:18:44] visit each

[01:18:44] other

[01:18:44] every day

[01:18:45] because we

[01:18:45] got to

[01:18:45] work 16,

[01:18:46] 17 hours,

[01:18:48] you know what I'm

[01:18:48] saying,

[01:18:48] to provide for

[01:18:49] our kids

[01:18:49] or we're not

[01:18:50] making the

[01:18:51] wages,

[01:18:51] in some

[01:18:52] cases.

[01:18:54] And we

[01:18:54] just not

[01:18:56] connected like

[01:18:57] that for

[01:18:57] some reason.

[01:18:58] We don't

[01:18:58] even think

[01:18:59] to be like,

[01:18:59] yo,

[01:18:59] bro,

[01:19:00] can I

[01:19:00] leave the

[01:19:01] kids over

[01:19:01] there?

[01:19:01] We don't

[01:19:01] even think

[01:19:02] like that

[01:19:02] no more.

[01:19:03] Well,

[01:19:03] that's because

[01:19:04] you got to

[01:19:04] think about

[01:19:04] what's

[01:19:05] changed,

[01:19:05] man.

[01:19:06] You got to

[01:19:06] think about

[01:19:06] what's

[01:19:06] changed.

[01:19:07] A lot of

[01:19:07] the things

[01:19:07] that was

[01:19:08] undercover

[01:19:08] are now

[01:19:09] to the

[01:19:09] light.

[01:19:10] Because a lot

[01:19:10] of these

[01:19:11] cats,

[01:19:11] and y'all

[01:19:11] know that

[01:19:12] some of

[01:19:13] these cats

[01:19:13] when we

[01:19:13] were younger,

[01:19:14] we couldn't

[01:19:15] talk about

[01:19:15] it,

[01:19:15] but it was

[01:19:16] one of

[01:19:16] them uncles

[01:19:17] that you

[01:19:17] can't

[01:19:17] leave people

[01:19:18] with.

[01:19:19] That's a

[01:19:19] fact.

[01:19:21] But think

[01:19:22] about it.

[01:19:22] We've got

[01:19:23] that now

[01:19:24] and they're

[01:19:24] more open

[01:19:25] now.

[01:19:28] They're more

[01:19:29] open now.

[01:19:30] People are

[01:19:30] way more

[01:19:31] open to

[01:19:32] their sexualities

[01:19:32] now.

[01:19:37] I've never

[01:19:37] seen

[01:19:37] that shit

[01:19:38] ever.

[01:19:39] Not no

[01:19:40] friends,

[01:19:41] nobody I

[01:19:41] went to

[01:19:42] school with.

[01:19:43] Never.

[01:19:44] Ever heard

[01:19:45] it.

[01:19:46] You know

[01:19:47] what I'm

[01:19:47] saying?

[01:19:47] To the

[01:19:48] men that

[01:19:48] listen to

[01:19:49] the show,

[01:19:49] this man's

[01:19:49] only great.

[01:19:50] You know

[01:19:51] what I'm

[01:19:51] saying?

[01:19:51] It's a

[01:19:51] form of

[01:19:52] therapy for

[01:19:52] us.

[01:19:54] So what

[01:19:54] I would

[01:19:54] say to

[01:19:55] y'all and

[01:19:55] to the

[01:19:55] men that's

[01:19:56] listening to

[01:19:56] us,

[01:19:57] we have to

[01:19:58] make an

[01:19:58] effort to

[01:19:59] reach out.

[01:19:59] You know

[01:20:00] what I'm

[01:20:00] saying?

[01:20:00] I work

[01:20:01] seven days

[01:20:01] a week.

[01:20:02] Sometimes I

[01:20:02] reach out to

[01:20:03] Vic.

[01:20:03] I'm like,

[01:20:04] hey Vic,

[01:20:04] you all

[01:20:04] right?

[01:20:04] You straight?

[01:20:05] What's up?

[01:20:06] Just to see

[01:20:06] what's popping.

[01:20:08] That's a

[01:20:08] small thing,

[01:20:09] but it

[01:20:10] actually means

[01:20:11] a lot because

[01:20:11] a lot of

[01:20:12] us, we

[01:20:12] might be the

[01:20:13] only black

[01:20:13] person at

[01:20:14] our job.

[01:20:15] We might

[01:20:15] not get to

[01:20:16] talk to

[01:20:16] nobody that

[01:20:16] actually care

[01:20:17] about us,

[01:20:18] but only we

[01:20:19] know the

[01:20:20] struggle that

[01:20:20] we go

[01:20:21] through.

[01:20:21] So I'm

[01:20:22] saying we

[01:20:23] got to be

[01:20:23] able to reach

[01:20:24] out.

[01:20:24] We got to be

[01:20:24] able to take

[01:20:25] that first step

[01:20:26] and try to

[01:20:26] have a sit

[01:20:27] down and

[01:20:28] come up

[01:20:28] with rules

[01:20:29] for everybody

[01:20:30] that's in

[01:20:30] our area

[01:20:31] because if

[01:20:31] we don't

[01:20:32] do that,

[01:20:32] that means

[01:20:33] somebody else

[01:20:33] is making

[01:20:34] rules for

[01:20:34] us.

[01:20:35] Like the

[01:20:35] police,

[01:20:36] for example.

[01:20:37] We still need

[01:20:39] our women

[01:20:40] though, bro.

[01:20:41] We do.

[01:20:41] But what

[01:20:42] happened with

[01:20:44] that is the

[01:20:45] women have

[01:20:45] involved

[01:20:46] themselves.

[01:20:48] Because

[01:20:49] whatever rules

[01:20:51] we come up

[01:20:52] with,

[01:20:53] whatever we

[01:20:53] do at

[01:20:54] that sit

[01:20:54] down and

[01:20:55] we say,

[01:20:55] this is how

[01:20:55] we rockin',

[01:20:57] they're the

[01:20:57] real enforcers

[01:20:58] because we

[01:20:58] got to be

[01:20:59] out doing

[01:20:59] what we

[01:21:00] got to

[01:21:00] do,

[01:21:00] like you

[01:21:01] said.

[01:21:01] So why

[01:21:02] are we

[01:21:02] doing that?

[01:21:02] They're

[01:21:03] enforcing

[01:21:03] them rules.

[01:21:04] Now,

[01:21:05] and they're

[01:21:05] also keeping

[01:21:06] the thing

[01:21:07] tight because

[01:21:07] they're cool

[01:21:08] with the

[01:21:08] other women

[01:21:08] and they're

[01:21:09] cool with

[01:21:09] the other

[01:21:09] woman.

[01:21:10] And that's

[01:21:10] what keeps

[01:21:11] the kids

[01:21:12] coming over

[01:21:12] and all

[01:21:13] that.

[01:21:13] But all

[01:21:14] that shit

[01:21:14] is lost.

[01:21:17] No, it's

[01:21:18] not.

[01:21:18] And let me

[01:21:19] say this.

[01:21:20] Have y'all

[01:21:21] heard the

[01:21:21] new era

[01:21:21] Detroit?

[01:21:23] Have y'all

[01:21:23] heard the

[01:21:23] new era

[01:21:24] Detroit?

[01:21:25] No.

[01:21:26] FaceTime

[01:21:27] father.

[01:21:28] What I want

[01:21:29] y'all to do,

[01:21:29] everybody make

[01:21:30] something.

[01:21:33] Look up

[01:21:34] new era

[01:21:34] Detroit

[01:21:35] with Ned

[01:21:35] Z.

[01:21:37] Because that's

[01:21:38] what we need

[01:21:39] to be doing

[01:21:40] in every

[01:21:41] community

[01:21:41] across this

[01:21:42] country.

[01:21:44] That's what

[01:21:44] I'm trying

[01:21:45] to do

[01:21:45] here in

[01:21:46] St.

[01:21:46] Pete.

[01:21:47] You know

[01:21:48] what else

[01:21:48] we need

[01:21:49] to do?

[01:21:49] We need

[01:21:50] to sit

[01:21:50] down with

[01:21:51] our sisters

[01:21:51] and say,

[01:21:52] look,

[01:21:53] we know

[01:21:53] that that

[01:21:53] hurt is

[01:21:54] there,

[01:21:54] but you

[01:21:55] can't be

[01:21:55] vindictive

[01:21:56] when these

[01:21:57] men are

[01:21:57] really trying

[01:21:57] to be

[01:21:58] fathers.

[01:21:59] You have

[01:21:59] to give

[01:22:00] them an

[01:22:00] opportunity

[01:22:00] because a

[01:22:02] lot of

[01:22:02] our boys,

[01:22:04] I hate

[01:22:04] to say it

[01:22:05] this way,

[01:22:06] a lot

[01:22:06] of our

[01:22:06] young

[01:22:07] boys,

[01:22:08] they're

[01:22:09] going to be

[01:22:09] somebody's

[01:22:09] bitch soon

[01:22:10] because they

[01:22:10] can't handle

[01:22:11] themselves being

[01:22:12] a man.

[01:22:13] They don't

[01:22:14] know what

[01:22:14] being a

[01:22:15] man is.

[01:22:16] Now,

[01:22:16] a lot of

[01:22:17] the difficulties

[01:22:20] that we've

[01:22:21] all went

[01:22:21] through and

[01:22:22] we've tried

[01:22:23] to reach out

[01:22:23] and we've

[01:22:24] tried to

[01:22:24] fight,

[01:22:25] the mother

[01:22:25] is literally

[01:22:26] coddling

[01:22:26] and pulling

[01:22:27] them back

[01:22:27] because of

[01:22:28] her vindictive

[01:22:28] way against

[01:22:29] you.

[01:22:30] When instead

[01:22:30] of having

[01:22:31] that grown

[01:22:31] folk

[01:22:31] conversation

[01:22:32] to say,

[01:22:33] look,

[01:22:33] I know

[01:22:33] that that's

[01:22:33] a boy

[01:22:34] and by

[01:22:34] a certain

[01:22:35] age,

[01:22:35] he needs

[01:22:35] to be

[01:22:36] taught how

[01:22:36] to be

[01:22:36] a man,

[01:22:37] she's still

[01:22:37] coddling

[01:22:38] to keep

[01:22:38] him safe.

[01:22:39] That's

[01:22:40] literally

[01:22:40] going to

[01:22:41] cripple

[01:22:41] him because

[01:22:42] this world

[01:22:42] ain't soft

[01:22:43] for no

[01:22:43] man.

[01:22:45] It's soft

[01:22:45] for these

[01:22:46] women,

[01:22:46] but it

[01:22:47] ain't soft.

[01:22:47] right?

[01:22:48] So,

[01:22:48] bro,

[01:22:49] so listen,

[01:22:50] right?

[01:22:50] I'm being

[01:22:50] all the way

[01:22:51] honest.

[01:22:52] I deal

[01:22:53] with that

[01:22:53] on an

[01:22:54] every single

[01:22:55] day basis

[01:22:56] working at

[01:22:57] the school.

[01:22:58] Every single

[01:22:58] day.

[01:22:59] Respect.

[01:23:01] And a lot

[01:23:02] of these

[01:23:02] young boys,

[01:23:03] they look

[01:23:04] at me

[01:23:04] as a

[01:23:06] father figure,

[01:23:07] like you

[01:23:07] said,

[01:23:08] because a

[01:23:09] lot of

[01:23:09] these young

[01:23:10] boys,

[01:23:10] bro,

[01:23:11] I've taught

[01:23:12] and said

[01:23:12] so many

[01:23:13] things in

[01:23:14] these young

[01:23:14] boys that

[01:23:14] nobody has

[01:23:15] never said

[01:23:16] to them

[01:23:16] before.

[01:23:17] I know

[01:23:17] some of

[01:23:18] the young

[01:23:18] boys,

[01:23:18] for example,

[01:23:19] right?

[01:23:19] As men,

[01:23:20] we go to

[01:23:21] the bathroom,

[01:23:21] we don't

[01:23:21] talk in

[01:23:22] the bathroom.

[01:23:22] We go to

[01:23:23] the bathroom,

[01:23:23] do what we

[01:23:23] do,

[01:23:24] and we

[01:23:24] go out.

[01:23:25] We don't

[01:23:26] converse.

[01:23:27] We don't

[01:23:28] converse.

[01:23:28] You're not

[01:23:29] sitting here

[01:23:29] holding a

[01:23:30] ranting,

[01:23:30] and you're

[01:23:31] sitting here

[01:23:31] busting it

[01:23:31] up.

[01:23:32] That's

[01:23:32] what women

[01:23:33] do,

[01:23:33] bro.

[01:23:34] But these

[01:23:35] young boys

[01:23:35] in the

[01:23:36] sixth grade

[01:23:36] that nobody

[01:23:37] has taught

[01:23:38] them that.

[01:23:38] They don't

[01:23:38] know this.

[01:23:39] In the

[01:23:39] sixth grade

[01:23:40] and nobody

[01:23:41] has taught

[01:23:42] them that

[01:23:42] this is not

[01:23:43] what men

[01:23:44] do.

[01:23:44] Men don't

[01:23:45] do this.

[01:23:46] Gotta keep

[01:23:47] teaching the

[01:23:47] young boys.

[01:23:48] They're like,

[01:23:49] oh,

[01:23:50] they're hitting

[01:23:50] each other.

[01:23:51] She hit me

[01:23:51] first.

[01:23:52] I said,

[01:23:52] bro,

[01:23:52] I don't

[01:23:52] care if she

[01:23:53] hit you

[01:23:53] ten times.

[01:23:54] You can't

[01:23:55] put your

[01:23:55] hands on

[01:23:55] a woman.

[01:23:56] You gotta

[01:23:56] go tell

[01:23:57] me,

[01:23:57] tell the

[01:23:57] authority.

[01:23:58] I said,

[01:23:59] but I

[01:23:59] want to

[01:24:00] always look at

[01:24:01] you crazy

[01:24:02] because you're

[01:24:02] a black

[01:24:03] man.

[01:24:03] You put

[01:24:03] your hands

[01:24:04] on a woman.

[01:24:05] They're never

[01:24:05] going to

[01:24:06] look at

[01:24:06] you in a

[01:24:06] favorable

[01:24:06] life.

[01:24:07] No matter

[01:24:07] what she

[01:24:08] did,

[01:24:09] you're not

[01:24:09] going to

[01:24:10] get a

[01:24:10] favorable

[01:24:10] life.

[01:24:11] So you

[01:24:12] gotta try

[01:24:12] to stop.

[01:24:13] But again,

[01:24:15] all of that

[01:24:16] stuff starts

[01:24:16] at home.

[01:24:17] Like you

[01:24:17] said,

[01:24:17] I'm raised

[01:24:18] at home

[01:24:18] with a single

[01:24:19] mom.

[01:24:19] There's no

[01:24:20] dad in the

[01:24:20] house.

[01:24:21] There's no

[01:24:21] structure.

[01:24:22] He's my

[01:24:23] king.

[01:24:23] This is my

[01:24:24] king and all

[01:24:24] that.

[01:24:24] So that's how

[01:24:25] I'm going to

[01:24:25] treat him.

[01:24:29] But I'm not

[01:24:31] daughters and

[01:24:32] my son.

[01:24:32] My son is

[01:24:33] 16.

[01:24:34] He'll be

[01:24:34] 16 this

[01:24:35] year.

[01:24:36] And I've

[01:24:37] decided that

[01:24:38] there was no

[01:24:39] more games.

[01:24:40] No more.

[01:24:41] I don't care

[01:24:41] what she

[01:24:42] does.

[01:24:42] Me and

[01:24:43] him, we

[01:24:44] talk on the

[01:24:44] phone.

[01:24:45] We have

[01:24:45] grown-man

[01:24:45] conversations.

[01:24:46] I go pick

[01:24:47] them up and

[01:24:47] we'll have a

[01:24:48] father-son lunch

[01:24:49] in.

[01:24:49] We'll sit

[01:24:49] down and

[01:24:50] I'll explain

[01:24:51] to him,

[01:24:51] listen, the

[01:24:52] structure of

[01:24:53] how you move

[01:24:53] in the next

[01:24:54] two years is

[01:24:55] going to be

[01:24:55] detrimental.

[01:24:56] So I start

[01:24:57] teaching him

[01:24:58] the thing

[01:24:58] slowly but

[01:24:59] surely.

[01:24:59] I'm trying to

[01:25:00] make sure that

[01:25:01] the mold happens

[01:25:02] before the

[01:25:04] world happens

[01:25:05] because once the

[01:25:05] world happens,

[01:25:06] you're going to

[01:25:07] be fighting.

[01:25:08] So I'm trying to

[01:25:09] mold that in.

[01:25:10] But I've seen

[01:25:11] other young men

[01:25:12] where the mother

[01:25:13] is, you can't

[01:25:14] have him.

[01:25:15] You can't make

[01:25:16] him like you.

[01:25:17] It's not about

[01:25:18] making a young

[01:25:18] man like his

[01:25:19] father.

[01:25:19] It's not the

[01:25:20] replica syndrome.

[01:25:21] That's what they

[01:25:22] call it.

[01:25:22] It's a replica

[01:25:23] syndrome.

[01:25:23] They think we

[01:25:24] want to make a

[01:25:24] replica of

[01:25:25] ourselves.

[01:25:26] Instead, we're

[01:25:27] trying to give

[01:25:28] him the

[01:25:28] instruction because

[01:25:29] once that one

[01:25:30] in that eight

[01:25:31] hits, he can go

[01:25:32] to jail for

[01:25:33] life.

[01:25:34] Yeah.

[01:25:34] One mistake.

[01:25:36] One mistake.

[01:25:36] In two minutes

[01:25:37] of one mistake,

[01:25:38] he can be gone

[01:25:39] for the rest of

[01:25:39] his life or

[01:25:40] somebody can

[01:25:41] end up taking

[01:25:41] his life.

[01:25:42] So we're

[01:25:42] sitting there

[01:25:43] trying to give

[01:25:44] him that

[01:25:44] guidance to help

[01:25:45] him through

[01:25:46] because it's

[01:25:47] storming out

[01:25:47] here.

[01:25:48] You know what

[01:25:49] I'm saying?

[01:25:49] It's storming

[01:25:50] out here and

[01:25:50] they ain't got no

[01:25:51] love for a young

[01:25:52] black man with

[01:25:54] not a drop of

[01:25:55] structural lying

[01:25:56] to him.

[01:25:57] You feel me?

[01:25:58] And I feel like,

[01:26:00] you know what I'm

[01:26:00] saying?

[01:26:01] I know we had a

[01:26:01] disagreement earlier,

[01:26:03] you know what I'm

[01:26:03] saying, about

[01:26:04] politics.

[01:26:05] But one of the

[01:26:06] important things

[01:26:06] about politics is

[01:26:08] when we put people

[01:26:09] that look like

[01:26:09] ourselves in office

[01:26:10] that have more

[01:26:11] principles, we

[01:26:12] could create the

[01:26:13] change that we

[01:26:14] really want to see

[01:26:14] in our community.

[01:26:15] It's really

[01:26:16] important.

[01:26:17] And I actually

[01:26:18] think that,

[01:26:19] you know, I have

[01:26:20] young boys in my

[01:26:20] job.

[01:26:21] There's one of them

[01:26:21] right now.

[01:26:22] He's in juvie

[01:26:23] right now because

[01:26:25] he was handling

[01:26:26] a weapon, a

[01:26:27] firearm, while he

[01:26:28] was skipping

[01:26:28] school.

[01:26:30] And this is a

[01:26:32] cat that basically

[01:26:33] asked him to

[01:26:34] write his name out.

[01:26:35] He can't even

[01:26:35] write his name

[01:26:36] on the paper

[01:26:36] without help.

[01:26:38] And so what

[01:26:39] happens is I

[01:26:41] think that there's

[01:26:43] been a study done

[01:26:44] that talked about

[01:26:46] the effect that

[01:26:48] black men,

[01:26:49] younger black

[01:26:49] men, right, have

[01:26:51] like what I

[01:26:52] was saying, right,

[01:26:54] you work at the

[01:26:54] school, that we

[01:26:56] have on the kids

[01:26:57] in the classroom

[01:26:58] that's missing

[01:27:00] because there's

[01:27:00] not black men in

[01:27:01] the classroom.

[01:27:01] We need structure

[01:27:03] like that in order

[01:27:04] to get to where we

[01:27:05] need to be.

[01:27:06] The truth of the

[01:27:06] matter is if you

[01:27:07] don't have those

[01:27:10] tough black male

[01:27:11] figures early on in

[01:27:13] your life, it's

[01:27:14] not that you can't

[01:27:15] make it because how

[01:27:15] many of us have

[01:27:16] been forced to

[01:27:17] make it, right?

[01:27:17] Now I come out of

[01:27:18] a two-parent

[01:27:19] household.

[01:27:20] So I was blessed

[01:27:21] and lucky enough

[01:27:22] to have that.

[01:27:23] And I'll always be

[01:27:24] grateful.

[01:27:24] But I understand

[01:27:25] there's men out

[01:27:26] there that are

[01:27:26] being the role

[01:27:27] model for these

[01:27:28] kids.

[01:27:29] They didn't have

[01:27:30] parental structure.

[01:27:31] They had their

[01:27:31] grandma and auntie

[01:27:32] raising them

[01:27:33] growing up.

[01:27:34] But what I'm

[01:27:34] trying to say is

[01:27:35] this.

[01:27:36] What I was saying

[01:27:36] earlier is this is

[01:27:37] what I'm trying

[01:27:38] to say.

[01:27:40] We can protect

[01:27:41] our own communities.

[01:27:42] We don't need

[01:27:42] the police.

[01:27:44] We don't need

[01:27:45] other people telling

[01:27:45] us what to do.

[01:27:46] We definitely

[01:27:47] don't need to run

[01:27:48] the social media

[01:27:49] to tell our

[01:27:49] we need to have

[01:27:51] community healing

[01:27:51] sessions at the

[01:27:53] community center.

[01:27:54] Maybe we can

[01:27:55] fire one.

[01:27:55] We can host one.

[01:27:56] We put some

[01:27:57] money together,

[01:27:58] have some, you

[01:27:58] know what I'm

[01:27:58] saying, some

[01:27:59] refreshments or

[01:27:59] something like

[01:28:00] that.

[01:28:00] But we're in a

[01:28:01] crisis.

[01:28:03] Yes, we are.

[01:28:04] The community is

[01:28:05] in a crisis that

[01:28:06] no other group of

[01:28:08] people on the

[01:28:09] earth is going

[01:28:09] through.

[01:28:10] And us as men,

[01:28:12] we're the only

[01:28:13] ones, the only

[01:28:15] ones who could

[01:28:15] change that.

[01:28:16] We're the only

[01:28:17] ones that can

[01:28:17] change that real

[01:28:18] quick, fellas.

[01:28:19] I'm sorry about

[01:28:20] that.

[01:28:20] My freaking

[01:28:20] computer died on

[01:28:22] me at the last

[01:28:22] second, but we're

[01:28:23] all good now.

[01:28:25] We're going to keep

[01:28:26] this thing going,

[01:28:27] but I want to

[01:28:27] thank you, fellas.

[01:28:29] This has been our

[01:28:30] Mays Conversation.

[01:28:31] Shout out to

[01:28:31] Kenya's Keepsake,

[01:28:32] by the way.

[01:28:34] They're definitely

[01:28:34] checking in.

[01:28:36] But I definitely

[01:28:36] agree with everything

[01:28:37] that was said.

[01:28:38] We are the

[01:28:39] community, and it

[01:28:39] starts with us at

[01:28:40] the end of the

[01:28:41] day, fellas.

[01:28:42] Fuck the

[01:28:42] narratives.

[01:28:43] Fuck the bullshit.

[01:28:44] We got to get

[01:28:45] back to it.

[01:28:45] It starts with us.

[01:28:46] We got to be the

[01:28:47] leaders in our

[01:28:48] communities.

[01:28:49] We got to step up

[01:28:50] and be the leaders

[01:28:50] for our grown men.

[01:28:52] We got to be the

[01:28:53] captains because they

[01:28:55] following our lead

[01:28:57] subconsciously.

[01:28:58] No matter what,

[01:28:59] they're following our

[01:29:00] lead no matter what,

[01:29:00] fellas.

[01:29:04] I just want to say,

[01:29:05] you know, if we are

[01:29:07] to attempt to put

[01:29:09] ourselves back in a

[01:29:10] position to start

[01:29:11] shaping our communities,

[01:29:13] we have to have

[01:29:14] these sisters that

[01:29:15] are actually sisters

[01:29:15] that are really

[01:29:16] trying to help

[01:29:18] their sons be

[01:29:19] better men.

[01:29:19] We got to get

[01:29:20] them involved because

[01:29:21] until we can get

[01:29:22] them involved, the

[01:29:23] boys ain't moving.

[01:29:25] That's the thing.

[01:29:26] Think about it.

[01:29:27] These boys are so

[01:29:29] coddled in this time

[01:29:30] and era that a

[01:29:31] mother's boy ain't

[01:29:32] moving without his

[01:29:33] mama saying, look,

[01:29:35] I need to step in.

[01:29:37] You said it yourself.

[01:29:38] You said it yourself.

[01:29:39] The young boy,

[01:29:40] the young boy,

[01:29:41] he been to go to

[01:29:42] Juvie for carrying

[01:29:43] a gun.

[01:29:44] A gun.

[01:29:45] He's like, what,

[01:29:46] sixth grade?

[01:29:48] Yeah.

[01:29:49] He ain't even got

[01:29:50] pubic hairs yet, bro,

[01:29:51] and he carrying a

[01:29:52] weapon?

[01:29:53] That's ridiculous.

[01:29:54] He needs a young

[01:29:56] man to get in there

[01:29:57] and be like, son,

[01:29:58] why do you have

[01:29:58] But this is the

[01:30:00] thing.

[01:30:00] Even with him

[01:30:01] having a man in

[01:30:02] there, is the

[01:30:03] mother going to

[01:30:03] step back and let

[01:30:05] that man help that

[01:30:06] young man become a

[01:30:07] man?

[01:30:09] They have to let go

[01:30:10] of those reins,

[01:30:11] man, because think

[01:30:12] of the control.

[01:30:14] That's what this

[01:30:14] whole system is

[01:30:15] about.

[01:30:16] They've been given

[01:30:16] so much control

[01:30:18] that they've taken

[01:30:19] our control.

[01:30:22] And if we step in

[01:30:23] in any way, if we

[01:30:25] step in in any form

[01:30:26] fashion, we know

[01:30:27] that we are close

[01:30:29] to going back in

[01:30:31] that place we

[01:30:31] don't want to go.

[01:30:32] So we have to not

[01:30:33] only be fearful,

[01:30:35] but smart.

[01:30:37] from one of our

[01:30:38] listeners right now,

[01:30:39] and we'll wrap this

[01:30:40] up.

[01:30:40] This will be the

[01:30:41] last question.

[01:30:42] Question that comes

[01:30:43] up on my show

[01:30:43] from a single

[01:30:44] mother is where

[01:30:45] can she find a

[01:30:47] male figure if she

[01:30:48] doesn't have the

[01:30:48] family members?

[01:30:50] Junkie just said

[01:30:51] big brother, big

[01:30:52] sister is an

[01:30:52] option.

[01:30:53] My thing is, are

[01:30:55] you getting them

[01:30:55] involved in football

[01:30:56] or after school

[01:30:57] at 10 feet?

[01:30:58] Yeah, that's my

[01:31:00] question to you.

[01:31:01] That's where you

[01:31:02] need to go if you

[01:31:03] can't find the male

[01:31:04] figures.

[01:31:05] You need to get

[01:31:05] them involved in

[01:31:07] after school

[01:31:07] activities or you

[01:31:09] need to be at

[01:31:10] networking events

[01:31:11] or you just need

[01:31:12] to be involved

[01:31:12] with your community.

[01:31:14] So fellas,

[01:31:15] what y'all would

[01:31:15] add in to that?

[01:31:17] I would say

[01:31:17] find something

[01:31:18] that he's into.

[01:31:20] Find something

[01:31:21] that he's genuinely

[01:31:22] into that other

[01:31:23] men are around

[01:31:24] and let them grow

[01:31:26] in that.

[01:31:27] Because if you

[01:31:28] can find something

[01:31:29] that that kid's

[01:31:29] interested in and

[01:31:30] there's a grown man

[01:31:31] that can give him

[01:31:32] some type of game

[01:31:33] while they're

[01:31:33] interested in this

[01:31:34] kind of aligning,

[01:31:35] it'll help him too.

[01:31:36] Go ahead, bro.

[01:31:37] I apologize for

[01:31:38] cutting you off.

[01:31:38] No, you're good, bro.

[01:31:39] Honestly, like,

[01:31:41] I'm glad you asked

[01:31:42] that question because

[01:31:44] me and my bro are

[01:31:45] literally just talking

[01:31:47] and inshallah,

[01:31:48] we're about to

[01:31:48] start something

[01:31:51] that we're about

[01:31:52] to start like a

[01:31:53] mentorship program

[01:31:55] in our community.

[01:31:57] but that's also

[01:31:58] a good way because

[01:31:59] like I said again,

[01:32:00] there are a lot of

[01:32:02] positive black men

[01:32:03] doing good things,

[01:32:05] like, you know

[01:32:06] what I'm saying?

[01:32:06] Like you said,

[01:32:07] but I would always

[01:32:08] go with sports.

[01:32:09] Like I said again,

[01:32:09] I always say like

[01:32:10] I didn't grow

[01:32:11] with my father, right?

[01:32:12] I didn't grow

[01:32:13] with my birth father.

[01:32:14] I did.

[01:32:15] But I always had

[01:32:16] a big brother,

[01:32:17] right?

[01:32:18] But I always had

[01:32:19] coaches around me

[01:32:21] that literally

[01:32:22] like that helped

[01:32:24] shape the man

[01:32:25] that I am today.

[01:32:26] And I still talk

[01:32:27] to them coaches

[01:32:27] to this day

[01:32:29] almost 40 years later

[01:32:30] because like

[01:32:31] without them,

[01:32:33] I would not,

[01:32:34] I know for a fact,

[01:32:35] I would not be

[01:32:36] the man that I am

[01:32:37] today.

[01:32:39] But my last thing

[01:32:41] I want to say

[01:32:41] to this is,

[01:32:42] again,

[01:32:43] this is why

[01:32:43] part of what we

[01:32:44] just was saying

[01:32:44] is why we as men

[01:32:47] had to come back

[01:32:48] as a community,

[01:32:49] as a community

[01:32:51] and as a community.

[01:32:52] So these women

[01:32:55] that are single

[01:32:55] mother,

[01:32:56] they do have

[01:32:58] men,

[01:32:58] positive men

[01:32:59] that they can

[01:32:59] send their son

[01:33:00] to a recovery

[01:33:01] because we know

[01:33:02] a woman can't

[01:33:03] raise a man.

[01:33:04] We know this.

[01:33:06] She can't.

[01:33:07] Unless they try

[01:33:08] to respect

[01:33:08] and they try,

[01:33:10] they cannot do it.

[01:33:11] So if we as men

[01:33:13] had to step in

[01:33:13] and take more leadership

[01:33:14] and more ownership

[01:33:15] on mentoring

[01:33:17] these young men

[01:33:19] and try to get

[01:33:20] them to do

[01:33:20] some of the things

[01:33:21] that we did.

[01:33:24] You know,

[01:33:25] and I really,

[01:33:26] this is one thing,

[01:33:27] something that I'm

[01:33:28] deeply passionate about.

[01:33:30] One thing that I

[01:33:31] really want to do

[01:33:32] and one thing

[01:33:32] I really want to see

[01:33:33] is,

[01:33:34] you know,

[01:33:35] we have Saturdays

[01:33:36] and we actually

[01:33:37] mentioned this earlier

[01:33:38] just in a different

[01:33:40] context.

[01:33:41] Well,

[01:33:41] we have Saturdays,

[01:33:42] right?

[01:33:43] We put down

[01:33:43] the phone.

[01:33:45] We have Saturdays,

[01:33:46] we put down

[01:33:49] Hey,

[01:33:49] let's talk.

[01:33:51] Let's just talk.

[01:33:53] Let's heal.

[01:33:56] Let's talk about

[01:33:56] the stuff that we like.

[01:33:58] Let's talk about

[01:33:59] the stuff that we

[01:33:59] don't like.

[01:34:01] And in each community,

[01:34:03] we got to have

[01:34:03] somebody,

[01:34:04] a man,

[01:34:05] step up,

[01:34:06] you know what I'm saying,

[01:34:06] and have the balls

[01:34:07] and say,

[01:34:07] you know what?

[01:34:09] I don't like the way

[01:34:10] my neighborhood look.

[01:34:12] I don't like

[01:34:13] what's going on here.

[01:34:15] And we got to be able

[01:34:16] to do something about it.

[01:34:17] We have to be able

[01:34:18] to sacrifice

[01:34:19] our valuable time.

[01:34:20] And I know

[01:34:21] our time is so precious

[01:34:22] because all we,

[01:34:24] it feels like

[01:34:25] all we have time

[01:34:26] to do is work.

[01:34:26] I'm thinking about

[01:34:27] me personally.

[01:34:29] We're trying to

[01:34:31] provide

[01:34:31] for ourselves,

[01:34:33] for our families,

[01:34:34] you know what I'm saying,

[01:34:35] for our kids,

[01:34:36] collectively.

[01:34:38] But we got to

[01:34:39] set aside time

[01:34:39] for our families

[01:34:41] because guess what?

[01:34:43] Once the kids

[01:34:44] are grown,

[01:34:44] they're grown.

[01:34:45] We don't have

[01:34:46] a chance to go back

[01:34:47] and replace

[01:34:48] that time with them.

[01:34:49] So we get in

[01:34:50] these forums now,

[01:34:51] we all get on

[01:34:51] one accord now.

[01:34:53] Yeah,

[01:34:54] we got a lot

[01:34:54] of hurt,

[01:34:55] a lot of pain,

[01:34:56] a lot of toxicity,

[01:34:58] a lot of things

[01:34:59] to figure out.

[01:35:00] But if we don't

[01:35:01] start doing it,

[01:35:03] if we don't start

[01:35:04] consolidating our power

[01:35:05] in the voting bloc,

[01:35:07] if we don't start

[01:35:08] getting on one accord

[01:35:09] with community tenants

[01:35:10] of rules

[01:35:11] and regulations

[01:35:12] that we all follow,

[01:35:14] if we don't do that now,

[01:35:16] you know what I'm saying,

[01:35:17] destruction is down the road.

[01:35:21] It doesn't take much.

[01:35:22] We're not thought of well

[01:35:24] on the international scale.

[01:35:26] That's just the truth.

[01:35:28] We spend $5 trillion.

[01:35:31] We spend $5 trillion

[01:35:33] as a group.

[01:35:35] That's more than

[01:35:36] 40 countries

[01:35:37] around the world.

[01:35:40] We are powerful,

[01:35:42] but we have to get

[01:35:43] on one accord.

[01:35:45] And it starts with

[01:35:46] talking to

[01:35:47] the people that's next to us,

[01:35:48] talking to our homeboys

[01:35:49] that we haven't had a chance

[01:35:51] to talk to in a long time

[01:35:54] and making that

[01:35:54] a regular thing.

[01:35:56] We got to do that.

[01:35:58] The hardest part

[01:35:59] about that is

[01:35:59] I'll tell y'all,

[01:36:00] I'm a military guy

[01:36:01] because I did

[01:36:02] 11 years

[01:36:03] in the military.

[01:36:04] And

[01:36:06] to say that

[01:36:07] those are my brothers

[01:36:09] is not a bullcrap lie.

[01:36:11] Those are my brothers.

[01:36:12] I've spent war time

[01:36:14] real war time

[01:36:15] with them.

[01:36:16] And each one of them

[01:36:17] that have had kids,

[01:36:19] we keep our community

[01:36:20] close with our kids.

[01:36:21] All his kids

[01:36:22] know my kids.

[01:36:23] My kids know his kids.

[01:36:24] We're damn near family.

[01:36:26] But it came

[01:36:27] from going through

[01:36:28] something as men

[01:36:29] together

[01:36:30] for us to all

[01:36:31] keep it together.

[01:36:33] We have to learn that.

[01:36:35] You get what I'm saying?

[01:36:36] We have to learn that.

[01:36:37] These kids

[01:36:38] ain't going to war

[01:36:39] and actually

[01:36:40] fighting for something.

[01:36:42] They doing it

[01:36:43] for a block.

[01:36:44] So until the OGs

[01:36:46] aren't getting killed

[01:36:47] by these young niggas

[01:36:48] or strung out

[01:36:48] on these drugs

[01:36:49] and the OGs

[01:36:50] that are real OGs

[01:36:51] step in

[01:36:52] and say,

[01:36:52] hey man,

[01:36:53] look bro,

[01:36:54] I used to do that crazy.

[01:36:55] Let me show you

[01:36:56] another way

[01:36:57] that probably

[01:36:58] is going to help you

[01:36:58] down the road.

[01:37:00] Until we get that back,

[01:37:02] it's going to continue

[01:37:03] to just cook itself.

[01:37:05] That's why they always

[01:37:06] talking about

[01:37:06] something they crashing out.

[01:37:07] You know why they crashing out?

[01:37:08] Because they don't have

[01:37:09] any instruction

[01:37:09] and the fuck

[01:37:10] they behind the wheel

[01:37:11] little car,

[01:37:11] they don't even know

[01:37:12] how to drive.

[01:37:14] That's true.

[01:37:15] That is definitely

[01:37:18] a fact.

[01:37:20] Fellas,

[01:37:21] I want to thank you all

[01:37:22] for this wonderful

[01:37:23] men's round conversation.

[01:37:25] This is what we're going

[01:37:27] to be getting back

[01:37:28] to doing

[01:37:28] once a month

[01:37:29] ladies and gentlemen

[01:37:30] right here on Liquor Talk.

[01:37:32] But ladies and gentlemen,

[01:37:34] I know we've said a lot

[01:37:35] but you got to take

[01:37:36] what you listened to today

[01:37:38] and we got to apply it.

[01:37:39] You know,

[01:37:40] we got to definitely

[01:37:41] apply it no matter

[01:37:42] where you're at.

[01:37:43] Whether you're in LA,

[01:37:45] whether you're in Philly,

[01:37:46] whether you're holding

[01:37:46] it down in Florida,

[01:37:48] you got to take something

[01:37:49] today and you got

[01:37:50] to apply it.

[01:37:51] It starts with you.

[01:37:52] Yeah,

[01:37:53] we're having the

[01:37:53] conversations

[01:37:54] but we got to use it

[01:37:56] as a stepping stone.

[01:37:57] We didn't give you

[01:37:58] the keys.

[01:37:58] It's up to you

[01:37:59] to go do it fellas

[01:38:00] because it's up to us.

[01:38:02] So we got to step in

[01:38:04] and start building

[01:38:05] this thing up

[01:38:06] because if not,

[01:38:07] we're just going to be

[01:38:08] seeing the same old shit

[01:38:10] and it's going to be

[01:38:10] like insanity.

[01:38:11] So we need to start

[01:38:13] building it up

[01:38:14] and we need to start

[01:38:15] doing right

[01:38:15] and we're going to be

[01:38:16] mentoring.

[01:38:17] We're going to be

[01:38:17] setting up all these

[01:38:18] programs.

[01:38:19] Me and Joey will get

[01:38:20] together to talk about

[01:38:21] what we're going to do

[01:38:22] in St. Pete

[01:38:23] and in Tampa

[01:38:24] and also if y'all fellas

[01:38:25] y'all ever y'all down

[01:38:26] we'll make trips up to Philly.

[01:38:28] We'll make trips

[01:38:29] to wherever.

[01:38:30] So we will make trips

[01:38:31] wherever.

[01:38:32] All right fellas,

[01:38:33] tell everybody

[01:38:34] we can follow that.

[01:38:35] I'm starting with

[01:38:36] my guys from the

[01:38:36] OLL out of left field

[01:38:37] podcast.

[01:38:38] Where can they

[01:38:39] follow y'all at?

[01:38:41] You can follow us

[01:38:42] on YouTube

[01:38:43] at out of left field

[01:38:44] podcast.

[01:38:45] Like I said

[01:38:45] that's O-U-T-T-A

[01:38:47] left field podcast

[01:38:48] all our other platforms

[01:38:50] at O-L-F podcast.

[01:38:53] All right.

[01:38:54] Mr. Alfonzo

[01:38:55] where can the people

[01:38:55] follow you at?

[01:38:57] They can go to

[01:38:58] Twitter and follow

[01:38:59] me at

[01:38:59] Alfonzo Lays.

[01:39:01] They can also

[01:39:01] go to YouTube

[01:39:03] and follow me

[01:39:04] at O-W-33

[01:39:06] that is

[01:39:07] O-D-U-B-B-Y-33

[01:39:10] and pretty much

[01:39:11] www.pornbread

[01:39:13] all one word

[01:39:14] I-N-C dot com.

[01:39:16] That's the fact.

[01:39:17] And Juggie

[01:39:18] lastly

[01:39:18] where can the people

[01:39:19] follow you at?

[01:39:19] I know you're not

[01:39:20] really on social media

[01:39:21] right now

[01:39:21] and I don't

[01:39:22] I trust me

[01:39:23] and trust and believe

[01:39:23] I don't blame you

[01:39:24] but if somebody

[01:39:25] need to connect

[01:39:26] with you

[01:39:26] how can they

[01:39:27] get in touch with you?

[01:39:28] Yeah, send me

[01:39:29] a message on YouTube

[01:39:30] send a message

[01:39:31] on YouTube

[01:39:31] you follow me

[01:39:32] at Book of Clarity

[01:39:33] I have a lot of videos

[01:39:35] on what's going on

[01:39:36] politically in Florida

[01:39:37] that we need to be

[01:39:38] paid attention to

[01:39:39] a lot of very important

[01:39:41] races coming up

[01:39:43] that we can affect

[01:39:44] with our vote

[01:39:45] do not lose

[01:39:46] your power to vote

[01:39:47] get intoxicated

[01:39:48] with the power

[01:39:48] to get out of vote

[01:39:49] follow me also

[01:39:50] on TikTok

[01:39:51] also Book of Clarity

[01:39:53] and I will message

[01:39:54] you all there

[01:39:55] so shoot me a message

[01:39:57] on YouTube

[01:39:58] and I will get back

[01:39:59] with you

[01:39:59] appreciate you Vic

[01:40:00] no problem guys

[01:40:02] let's everybody

[01:40:03] connect with each other

[01:40:04] shout out to Kenya's

[01:40:06] Keepsake for engaging

[01:40:07] real shout out to you

[01:40:09] if you are a content creator

[01:40:10] we'll definitely link up

[01:40:12] once again

[01:40:13] it's Ruby Jones

[01:40:14] everywhere

[01:40:15] Twitter threads

[01:40:16] all that

[01:40:17] Liquor Talk podcast

[01:40:18] on Instagram

[01:40:19] and TikTok

[01:40:20] we're taking over

[01:40:22] for the 23

[01:40:22] for the 24

[01:40:24] and the 25

[01:40:25] fuck what you heard

[01:40:26] this has been

[01:40:27] the men's round

[01:40:28] we do this every month

[01:40:29] we're gonna have

[01:40:29] these conversations

[01:40:30] and we're gonna continue

[01:40:31] to have these conversations

[01:40:33] until the cows come home

[01:40:34] until the next time

[01:40:36] ladies and gentlemen

[01:40:36] keep pouring up

[01:40:38] and remember

[01:40:39] everything in life

[01:40:39] is temporary

[01:40:40] we're out of this thing

[01:40:41] y'all peace

[01:40:43] peace