Ep 303: Improving The Dating Experience feat Konversations with Glo Podcast

[00:00:02] [SPEAKER_02]: A brand new episode starts now. One walkway of it's what another addition of grown folks conversation with some liquor involved

[00:00:11] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm your man Victor Holden down here in Florida and today's episode we got a retirement guest

[00:00:17] [SPEAKER_02]: This guest came on during either season four or season five of liquor talk

[00:00:22] [SPEAKER_02]: It is their birthday weekend and they're coming on the podcast

[00:00:25] [SPEAKER_02]: She's having these amazing conversations. Let's have one where today

[00:00:30] [SPEAKER_02]: You heard me on her podcast a few weeks ago now she's coming back to look at how to continue the conversation

[00:00:38] [SPEAKER_02]: Podcasts out of South Carolina is below from the conversations with Glo Podcast

[00:00:43] [SPEAKER_02]: Hey

[00:00:46] [SPEAKER_00]: I am doing great. I am doing fabulous. God is good. God is amazing

[00:00:52] [SPEAKER_00]: I do want to thank you Victor for having me on so therefore we can have a good old conversation

[00:00:59] [SPEAKER_00]: And you know if anybody want to hit me up make sure that you come follow me on Instagram at conversations dot with dot glow

[00:01:07] [SPEAKER_00]: And that is conversations with a K as I'll see on the screen. Make sure y'all come

[00:01:12] [SPEAKER_00]: Call it me and follow me and if you also want to be a guest on conversations with low podcast

[00:01:19] [SPEAKER_00]: Just be sure to hit me up in my DM or you can go to my email address that is definitely located in my bio on Instagram

[00:01:28] [SPEAKER_02]: Boom yeah, that's real y'all got that they hit up for good time

[00:01:33] [SPEAKER_02]: So how you been doing this last time we spoke which was on your podcast

[00:01:38] [SPEAKER_00]: I've been doing really good like I said. I'm just blessed young measures like I really said

[00:01:48] [SPEAKER_02]: Hey, I don't know web to it. She come back. Oh, don't yell. We'll gonna bring a back. Let's do it. We're gonna bring a back on

[00:01:55] [SPEAKER_02]: I don't know what happened to her

[00:01:58] [SPEAKER_02]: Chaston technical difficulties you know how that goes but ladies and gentlemen

[00:02:01] [SPEAKER_02]: This is like the talk once again

[00:02:05] [SPEAKER_02]: Well, the whole doubt she should be coming back on shot everybody that's checking this out right now

[00:02:11] [SPEAKER_02]: Listen we're going to definitely get into the dating scene because everybody mom

[00:02:16] [SPEAKER_02]: I have been complaining about it. So right now

[00:02:19] [SPEAKER_02]: I will take this minute while I'm waiting for a little to get back home in responses y'all

[00:02:24] [SPEAKER_02]: Hi, Lich boy a issues

[00:02:27] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know what happened. I am so sorry

[00:02:30] [SPEAKER_00]: All right, I hope you got it all right now. I do I do

[00:02:35] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, I know you on the road right now. I saw definitely appreciate you hopping on for you waiting

[00:02:41] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm saying so on road for your birthday weekend

[00:02:43] [SPEAKER_02]: So for the people that didn't listen to this episode beforehand

[00:02:47] [SPEAKER_02]: Tell the people a little bit of conversations with blow podcast because one thing I've learned about podcasts

[00:02:51] [SPEAKER_02]: You got to keep up there everybody on the worst podcast about so let's show the people's podcast about

[00:02:56] [SPEAKER_00]: So okay, so my podcast lead from me interviewing to me having live stream on Facebook

[00:03:05] [SPEAKER_00]: Just talking about many different topics and now I find myself being more about talking about relationships really is just

[00:03:16] [SPEAKER_00]: And you know it's so much that we can talk about relationships these days, especially with these skits that they've become out with

[00:03:22] [SPEAKER_00]: Getting people different perspectives about things about relationships anyway because we are all different. We are all unique

[00:03:29] [SPEAKER_00]: And so therefore that allows for us to actually think differently

[00:03:33] [SPEAKER_00]: So I like having these conversations in regards with relationships just to see what people had is and I'm so like you know a

[00:03:41] [SPEAKER_00]: Like changing people minds like people change my mind about a lot of I said my only got one mind y'all people change my mind about

[00:03:51] [SPEAKER_00]: A lot of things and sometimes I be trying to you know change their mind about stuff

[00:03:57] [SPEAKER_00]: But is that basically what conversations we close about is definitely a relationship podcast right now right now

[00:04:05] [SPEAKER_00]: Because you know it's mine and I can switch it up any time on

[00:04:09] [SPEAKER_02]: Hey, as you got to you know, so what really decide you said hey, I want to really hone down talk about relationships

[00:04:16] [SPEAKER_02]: Because I know some people get tired of hearing the podcast by relationships on it was wrong with people because I enjoy it

[00:04:23] [SPEAKER_00]: And the perspective you know me to basically when I see to be honest with you, they're I don't know where actually

[00:04:31] [SPEAKER_00]: Jumping into just basically focusing on just relationship part. I mean just talking about relationships

[00:04:39] [SPEAKER_00]: But it's a lot that goes on like it's a lot

[00:04:44] [SPEAKER_00]: I feel like it's way more because now we have social media. We have things to actually distract this and things that such

[00:04:53] [SPEAKER_00]: So yeah, that's that's just basically how I feel right now

[00:04:58] [SPEAKER_02]: That's real that's definitely real now

[00:05:00] [SPEAKER_02]: You know what I know in the month of September and and you know before you know be a not so very far you know it will be a 2025

[00:05:08] [SPEAKER_02]: What is some advice we have the people who keep you?

[00:05:11] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm sure about starting the podcast, but I've been seeing that a lot like hey, I'm interested in starting the podcast

[00:05:16] [SPEAKER_02]: What do I need to do so what should advice to those people who say they want to start a podcast?

[00:05:23] [SPEAKER_00]: My advice is that I have an ebook. So if you do want to you know start your podcast

[00:05:29] [SPEAKER_00]: You can definitely hit me up and I can send that ebook to you for a small fee

[00:05:34] [SPEAKER_00]: But if you're going to start up your podcast

[00:05:37] [SPEAKER_00]: Do it how you want to do it. You know

[00:05:41] [SPEAKER_00]: Everybody, you know they feel like that you should have this regimen and regardless so therefore you can get sponsors and this and then the third

[00:05:49] [SPEAKER_00]: But it's just go go at your own pace and don't and don't forget that you matter so that means when I say that you matter

[00:05:57] [SPEAKER_00]: That means that you need to take time for yourself. That means that sometimes you need to put the podcast on the side and actually focus on your life as well

[00:06:06] [SPEAKER_00]: To like me like I took the month of September off from posting on the radio station

[00:06:11] [SPEAKER_00]: So therefore is just like you know, I'm still recording but I gave myself less work because it's my birthday might so I gave myself less less work

[00:06:21] [SPEAKER_00]: Because I'm the one they do the editing that everything people talk me along the way which is a one you definitely have you definitely

[00:06:31] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm gonna say this you definitely have to have those people in your corner that's going that that don't mind seeing you flourish

[00:06:39] [SPEAKER_00]: You got to have those people in your corner that on my providing you with information that you may need or helping you and a time and

[00:06:47] [SPEAKER_00]: And also the people that don't mind coming on to your podcast as well too to actually support you and then not looking for anything because they know that the conversation

[00:06:57] [SPEAKER_00]: It's going to be a dope conversation

[00:06:59] [SPEAKER_00]: So just do it at your own speed if you want to get a regimen if you want sponsorship and all this stuff

[00:07:06] [SPEAKER_00]: You know seek out for but don't allow for it to become a chore

[00:07:10] [SPEAKER_00]: Allow for it to do something that is fun for you to do

[00:07:15] [SPEAKER_02]: Yes, yes, I definitely grew to you on that because when it when I felt like somebody is just doing as a chore

[00:07:21] [SPEAKER_02]: I kicked ass to the curb like for those of you who know I had a close during season two that coast are treating it like a such or

[00:07:29] [SPEAKER_02]: I hated said that goes I love you but you gotta go

[00:07:35] [SPEAKER_02]: You don't treat this like a damn short. You don't treat my vision on the shore you got to go

[00:07:39] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm excited also being that you said that you had a co-host. I already knew I stopped it and then I did not want to co-host

[00:07:47] [SPEAKER_00]: Because I didn't want to be on somebody else's timing

[00:07:50] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't want to be on nobody else's timing. I want nobody to be on my timing

[00:07:54] [SPEAKER_00]: So only time it out wanted them to be honest when I have guests that's coming on my show

[00:07:58] [SPEAKER_00]: We all meet up at the same time, just in the third but to have a co-host

[00:08:02] [SPEAKER_00]: I feel like that's hard work. It's a lot of piecasses that's out there doing it

[00:08:07] [SPEAKER_00]: They're making it work just in the third but you know if you feel like that you or anybody yourself then go for it

[00:08:14] [SPEAKER_00]: Because again, I've been doing it by myself for very long time

[00:08:17] [SPEAKER_00]: But I got people in the background that actually helped me but I've been doing it for a long time

[00:08:23] [SPEAKER_00]: Like by myself and no, let nobody press if you feel like you know that you know you on your co-host go hand in hand

[00:08:29] [SPEAKER_00]: And then the third but also you know, it's other things that you got to respect of your co-host like their time

[00:08:36] [SPEAKER_00]: And you know reading their body language making sure that they entered the way they chore in it

[00:08:41] [SPEAKER_00]: It's a lot to go behind it. That's why I tell anybody like, you know, I think it's good to actually start off with yourself

[00:08:47] [SPEAKER_00]: And then try to see if a co-host is needed

[00:08:51] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, I definitely feel you right there because it's like

[00:08:54] [SPEAKER_02]: And if I would have known that I would have just been a one man record from the start because

[00:08:59] [SPEAKER_02]: I don't know what it is about people in wherever you're at but no one wants to show up and support

[00:09:04] [SPEAKER_02]: But there are people that are outside of your city and your hometown

[00:09:09] [SPEAKER_02]: You know, stay that will show up faster for you than the people that are within that right tree from you

[00:09:14] [SPEAKER_00]: And I find that so weird. I'm gonna tell you this

[00:09:17] [SPEAKER_00]: It shouldn't be part in Bayway

[00:09:22] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm getting this dirty, dirty, y'know?

[00:09:26] [SPEAKER_00]: Like everybody that has been on my show

[00:09:29] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm gonna say they have definitely shown it

[00:09:32] [SPEAKER_00]: You know what I'm saying they show up for me and the people that don't make it on

[00:09:36] [SPEAKER_00]: Over there like you know I feel like that's that's their loss

[00:09:40] [SPEAKER_00]: Not my loss is their loss

[00:09:42] [SPEAKER_00]: So you know I feel like that

[00:09:46] [SPEAKER_00]: You know people that actually taste time for you and want to come and support you

[00:09:50] [SPEAKER_00]: Those are the people that you should focus on

[00:09:53] [SPEAKER_02]: Of course, and that's what the energy has been going in

[00:09:57] [SPEAKER_02]: That's where the energy has been going

[00:09:59] [SPEAKER_02]: And that's where we got to keep the energy going

[00:10:01] [SPEAKER_02]: So shout out to all those podcasts to show up for the other podcasts

[00:10:06] [SPEAKER_02]: If you don't you're missing out like we'll say you will are missing out on good conversations

[00:10:10] [SPEAKER_02]: Good vibes, good networking and you never never know so you definitely miss a now

[00:10:15] [SPEAKER_00]: So yeah, just like how I hit you up and you was down to be on it

[00:10:20] [SPEAKER_00]: And like I was down to be on yours. You need to stay connected to those people that don't mind support you

[00:10:25] [SPEAKER_02]: Always always like I already told you if you ever need me to come back on again

[00:10:30] [SPEAKER_02]: Just let me know not got you. Yeah, so I'm here. It's done

[00:10:34] [SPEAKER_02]: So ladies and gentlemen, it's looked so with that heavy heart

[00:10:37] [SPEAKER_02]: I do want to say recipes and prayers go out to the families of rich home with quans

[00:10:42] [SPEAKER_02]: So frankly Beverly and also to James Earl Jones

[00:10:46] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm like those are just three coming to blackmail me to look us in the span of a week

[00:10:51] [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, so how long did there who is James?

[00:10:55] [SPEAKER_02]: James, oh James, you know the guy that did the voice over for

[00:11:01] [SPEAKER_00]: Oh my god, so yeah, I see him and Darth Vader in Star Wars. Yeah. Yeah, yeah

[00:11:08] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I think all the all three of those was just it was I think it's a care by my world

[00:11:14] [SPEAKER_00]: But you know I've always told that it comes in three I'm holding up for

[00:11:21] [SPEAKER_02]: You know you're right. It does come in three and I'm sad

[00:11:24] [SPEAKER_02]: They realized that I'm like wow it's like and the rich home acquired

[00:11:28] [SPEAKER_02]: It kind of struck me for surprise because I'll be I'll be his age if he wants you know

[00:11:33] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm saying and let's get about away happy birthday to you again, you know

[00:11:37] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm sad so thank you. And I'll be I say I'll be for sure

[00:11:40] [SPEAKER_02]: Me quans agent a few months. So I'm kind of hit all because and also his music was okay

[00:11:46] [SPEAKER_02]: Now when he was as peak I always said in the my time in college

[00:11:49] [SPEAKER_02]: So that's why I was like wow

[00:11:52] [SPEAKER_00]: When we told me quans came out for me as you know I'm five years older to you

[00:11:59] [SPEAKER_00]: What get ready to be five years older to you and

[00:12:02] [SPEAKER_00]: Rich on me quans came out and it to me he was really dope like it just you know something that I had done

[00:12:10] [SPEAKER_00]: I was like okay, so I like his music but I did know that he was suffering from drug addiction

[00:12:16] [SPEAKER_00]: I guess because I never just really watched any interviews that had rich on me quanna because

[00:12:21] [SPEAKER_00]: I did not see interviews just really trending like that until

[00:12:26] [SPEAKER_00]: He passed away like I've been on Twitter too much to not know that rich on me quanna been on somebody's podcast

[00:12:33] [SPEAKER_00]: You got me saying it and then for us to know like once he passed away

[00:12:37] [SPEAKER_00]: Then that's when you know I'm saying then that's when we we know like you know

[00:12:42] [SPEAKER_00]: This man was suffering from drug addiction like

[00:12:45] [SPEAKER_00]: He had I was talking about how he had got on my leans stuff like that and then also

[00:12:50] [SPEAKER_00]: I just want to put this out too you know when they come being that we're talking about relationships tonight

[00:12:55] [SPEAKER_00]: I feel like this okay

[00:12:57] [SPEAKER_00]: If you are a side piece I feel like that you should remain one even if that person was the pass away and

[00:13:06] [SPEAKER_00]: You are you know, I'm saying and you're mourning and you're grieving

[00:13:10] [SPEAKER_00]: I also feel like that should be something that should be kept between you and if you have a circle of friends

[00:13:16] [SPEAKER_00]: It should be kept between you and your circle of friends

[00:13:19] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't feel like that everything is actually needed for social media

[00:13:23] [SPEAKER_00]: I feel like a lot of people chase after the cloud when people are dead

[00:13:28] [SPEAKER_00]: Just like Eric Banks and he had many other girls posting on him on a social media

[00:13:35] [SPEAKER_00]: And they know that just do basically pass the way and his girlfriend house

[00:13:40] [SPEAKER_00]: You know and it's just like you know, I went to high she feels in regards with all this being let out like

[00:13:47] [SPEAKER_00]: Dang like I see probably she probably knew that her man was a cheater that probably in him up on the couch or you know anything like that

[00:13:55] [SPEAKER_00]: And matter but again, I feel like that it should like if you know that he has a girlfriend

[00:14:01] [SPEAKER_00]: I feel like that the outside people should actually respect the relationship especially in a time of grieving

[00:14:08] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, that's what I said. I can't even argue with you on that it's like that is well said

[00:14:14] [SPEAKER_02]: You need to know your lane and as a side person you got to know your role and know your right

[00:14:19] [SPEAKER_02]: Don't don't try to take that for your spotlight just to give some cloud because

[00:14:25] [SPEAKER_02]: I don't even be less than that long nowadays

[00:14:27] [SPEAKER_00]: So it's like a couple of days then bloom you don't you get what I'm saying and it's just like so you're doing this only for a couple of days of trying

[00:14:37] [SPEAKER_00]: Like if anything like more into your friends touch your friends tell your friends how you how you felt about this dude

[00:14:44] [SPEAKER_00]: Like or how you felt about this girl like it shouldn't be social media business everybody just jump out and just go to social media about every single thing

[00:14:54] [SPEAKER_00]: And it's just like what do we keep to ourselves now?

[00:14:58] [SPEAKER_00]: What do we keep to ourselves?

[00:15:01] [SPEAKER_02]: Apparently nothing and it's like and I know you saw people go almost random stuff and it's just like nobody keeps anything to ourselves

[00:15:11] [SPEAKER_02]: And it's sad and that's like and the you need to keep something see yourself because you don't need to be everybody don't need to be business

[00:15:17] [SPEAKER_02]: Those people can use things to get you down the line. Yeah, shit and drop it off again. There you are there

[00:15:28] [SPEAKER_02]: But it's like you can't be you know because once you put on social media that's public record

[00:15:35] [SPEAKER_02]: And anybody can access that down the line so like say if you get caught up in some shit man you're gonna keep it in the case

[00:15:47] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, all right

[00:15:49] [SPEAKER_02]: All right

[00:15:54] [SPEAKER_00]: You're gonna you definitely gonna catch a case behind it because people who that is and we like I don't know

[00:16:00] [SPEAKER_00]: I post nothing that police is not on social media

[00:16:06] [SPEAKER_02]: A no funny is there are some officers there are some jurisdictions down here reported the day will they will not on social media

[00:16:14] [SPEAKER_02]: As well like hey, we're on here just to let you know and then there will be some sheriff

[00:16:19] [SPEAKER_02]: They'll put his big ass post him this track house close by this officer. I'm like

[00:16:28] [SPEAKER_02]: Young game y'all are the total yourselves and now the cops got these big ass flyer say this trip houses with shut down by the so-called chair of softest

[00:16:38] [SPEAKER_02]: school

[00:16:42] [SPEAKER_02]: But

[00:16:44] [SPEAKER_02]: But once again pass away to those three prominent black men as well

[00:16:49] [SPEAKER_02]: Pretty Beverly you know I'm saying that man he's some kids hard out. You know, so it's like we always want to cook out

[00:16:57] [SPEAKER_02]: You know we had a pretty pretty Beverly amazed playing man. It's not what they say you know

[00:17:04] [SPEAKER_00]: It's not it's not when I see now just like all like you know, I just you know I was sad for a couple of seconds because I was like them this man was 89

[00:17:16] 89

[00:17:17] [SPEAKER_00]: years old like I still look at that as being young

[00:17:22] [SPEAKER_00]: That's just me like but at the end of the day I'm pretty much sure that he lived his life

[00:17:28] [SPEAKER_00]: And that you know he did what was pleasing to him and that's pleasing us in regards with giving us music

[00:17:35] [SPEAKER_00]: This man ain't never just really made new music like that, but his old music

[00:17:40] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, his old music stay hidden I guarantee you go to one of our untone because having to cook out somebody got that song blessing

[00:17:50] [SPEAKER_01]: You better know it you better know yes, yes

[00:17:54] [SPEAKER_02]: We want to hear his word and no disrespect me. I say but

[00:17:58] [SPEAKER_02]: You can't you can't mess up a classic you know so

[00:18:02] [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm not a Beyonce hate it

[00:18:05] [SPEAKER_00]: But you know, you know, you know, I like line this

[00:18:09] [SPEAKER_00]: But I'm not like a line like one song that I hate that's lying dancing is wobble baby. Why I hate that song and I don't know why

[00:18:21] [SPEAKER_00]: But when Beyonce what you say

[00:18:24] [SPEAKER_02]: Not you hate that song and what's funny is this a ruffing Atlanta can make that damn song or my damn

[00:18:30] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I don't like you it's just like a big girl

[00:18:34] [SPEAKER_00]: It was just I don't know I guess this is like a yes, I don't know you could call it is a cure of what you know

[00:18:39] [SPEAKER_00]: Doesn't even matter what you call it, but it was just my big girl once you by way like what on the way in the back

[00:18:49] [SPEAKER_02]: But I remember when man I don't know what the young man was thinking but it's like I'm never going to homecoming

[00:18:56] [SPEAKER_02]: Everybody was getting that song came off

[00:18:59] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I never thought to learn the things or anything

[00:19:02] [SPEAKER_00]: I was just like every time that song came on beat the Abby standing in the corner in the club because I ain't doing this

[00:19:10] [SPEAKER_02]: I was as we sit there like whenever that's something on it like homecoming or a certain events

[00:19:17] [SPEAKER_02]: I'll be sitting there just watch the air by out there trying to hit the wall, but even the baby's trying to hit the wall

[00:19:26] [SPEAKER_00]: You're got these little ass kids, you're not saying you know I think she meet will in regards to coming up with a version of the you know

[00:19:39] [SPEAKER_00]: Before I let go but at the end of the day it won't be it won't be the same

[00:19:47] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, it definitely won't be the same you know, so shout those prominent black men

[00:19:53] [SPEAKER_02]: I think it's not going to send without them, but we're going to keep pushing form ladies and gentlemen this is look at talk remember this podcast sounds a whole lot better

[00:20:01] [SPEAKER_02]: When you have some look at some of the musical hand gets me look if you haven't done so already and support this podcast on about that Spotify

[00:20:08] [SPEAKER_02]: I heart radio YouTube wherever you get your podcast that

[00:20:12] [SPEAKER_02]: Did you know that September is take a man on a date, huh?

[00:20:17] [SPEAKER_02]: I want to have one man actually do that though

[00:20:20] [SPEAKER_00]: I do that

[00:20:22] [SPEAKER_02]: I know you do it, but

[00:20:27] [SPEAKER_02]: You you strike with somebody that would actually do that, you know really

[00:20:31] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, you see my that type that you'll probably take man out day and wouldn't have no problems about it

[00:20:37] [SPEAKER_00]: No, I really don't like I like I wish I was a known that this month was taken man out of the date instead of last month because

[00:20:46] [SPEAKER_00]: I mean at the end of the day like I went on two dates and you know it and I was just like that was the price that I had it

[00:20:54] [SPEAKER_00]: And it was just like oh you you doing that was like, yeah, you know, and that no problem. I feel like

[00:21:00] [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, so here's the thing I see something on Snapchat today

[00:21:04] [SPEAKER_00]: And it was like so you know, you know me and I was nagging about how females coming at them because their money from boom boom

[00:21:11] [SPEAKER_00]: And the man was like if I'm an apple male then my place is to provide then I want my my women to come after me for my money

[00:21:21] [SPEAKER_00]: Because I'm supposed to provide and I feel like if a woman is sitting out here making herself to be such an apple woman

[00:21:28] [SPEAKER_00]: Then my thing which I feel like sometimes there's no such thing, but um I feel like sometimes there's no such thing as apple men or apple women

[00:21:37] [SPEAKER_00]: But you know folks do what they do

[00:21:39] [SPEAKER_00]: But if you call yourself an apple woman then I feel like that

[00:21:46] [SPEAKER_00]: A man should get treated sometimes you can always look for a man to always do something for you because

[00:21:54] [SPEAKER_00]: Men like to be shot to just as well as women so I just I don't see anything wrong with the woman taking a man out on the date

[00:22:03] [SPEAKER_00]: You know at the end of the day you're showing that you appreciate him

[00:22:07] [SPEAKER_00]: You showing that you care about him and things that such men you know what the of it that I realized that

[00:22:15] [SPEAKER_00]: It's a lot of men that don't celebrate their birthdays

[00:22:19] [SPEAKER_00]: They don't get birthday gifts like it's crazy out here and it's just like so why is you giving your penis basically to somebody that really don't give a fuck about you really

[00:22:31] [SPEAKER_02]: That's true. I think a lot of men do that because they just want to enjoy me

[00:22:35] [SPEAKER_02]: But they need to reevaluate their lives and it's like the right there's a lot of men that don't celebrate their birthday

[00:22:40] [SPEAKER_02]: Because there's no way they really celebrate us, you know what I'm saying

[00:22:46] [SPEAKER_02]: It is crazy and it's sometimes it's been just see it as another day. It's like, no, it's like we got to celebrate ourselves if we can celebrate ourselves how we expect others to celebrate us, you know

[00:23:00] [SPEAKER_00]: And it's just like and also and this is what I also feel as well too

[00:23:06] [SPEAKER_00]: You know a lot of women be sitting up here saying how something sad see oh

[00:23:11] [SPEAKER_00]: Like even with techno man, I don't know the date. Oh well he was sassy because he let me pay for the bill

[00:23:18] [SPEAKER_00]: While it but it's just like but if you had a tension on pain why would you want to I mean I get it

[00:23:26] [SPEAKER_00]: You know you know what's cool like in both of our reach for your pocket why I reach for my pocket will reach for as well

[00:23:31] [SPEAKER_00]: And I get out quick enough

[00:23:34] [SPEAKER_00]: I feel like there's nothing wrong with that but I need for females to quit thinking that everything in sassy is well too because everything is not sassy with me

[00:23:43] [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, men at the end of the day we also have to understand that men are human as well too

[00:23:49] [SPEAKER_00]: And then also have feelings as well too and again as I go back to what I just previously said

[00:23:55] [SPEAKER_00]: Men like to be appreciated as well too

[00:23:59] [SPEAKER_00]: So quit thinking that everything is so sassy out here with these men when it's really not which is basically humans and we all have feelings in emotions

[00:24:11] [SPEAKER_02]: But it's so true and so I'm glad one of women on a podcast realize that because I'll be seeing some women on these other podcasts

[00:24:19] [SPEAKER_02]: And no I'm not a pizzer

[00:24:22] [SPEAKER_02]: She know got that pic me all these

[00:24:25] [SPEAKER_02]: That's not everything is true

[00:24:28] [SPEAKER_02]: Well, no you ain't no got to him picking hell no you are real woman. That's how that's how the fucking real woman thinks she knows and you ain't no got to him pick me you know

[00:24:37] [SPEAKER_02]: And the only thing that can't you pick me are the people who they're not gonna do that and those people are gonna be citer single and bitter

[00:24:44] [SPEAKER_02]: And then they're gonna be look up W156 years old come back on and they said I'm single. I want a boyfriend

[00:24:51] [SPEAKER_02]: Man, yep, you're best years of your life talking about oh I ain't gonna do this. I'm gonna do that for man

[00:24:58] [SPEAKER_02]: Now have all the damn seats

[00:25:03] [SPEAKER_02]: And it's like

[00:25:07] [SPEAKER_02]: Right, and it's always the ones that call me sassy them the ones that can't take accountability

[00:25:21] [SPEAKER_00]: Mm-hmm

[00:25:23] [SPEAKER_00]: Are you serious

[00:25:28] [SPEAKER_02]: But let it be a man she really wants you know send or should probably do it if it's a man she really wants and I'm gonna hurt the man she probably really wants

[00:25:37] [SPEAKER_02]: He ain't even looking at how like they he probably looking through his sidepiece

[00:25:40] [SPEAKER_00]: You want to know what I realized it and it's always been a cat in my game

[00:25:48] [SPEAKER_00]: And if you think about it like we always chasing after something that don't want us and what we chasing after is currently chasing after somebody that don't want them

[00:26:00] [SPEAKER_00]: So it's like full circle you give them saying yeah, I realized that yeah, yeah

[00:26:07] [SPEAKER_02]: Because we were you around here covering up man for this for another reason to me you could you guy and he ain't even looking away

[00:26:18] [SPEAKER_00]: You know, so I'm maybe treat you like shit, you know, and you're just looking and looking at way out

[00:26:28] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah or you're probably just you know, I'm just taking a shit because you want them it's like you can be in the health and relationship and not taking a crap

[00:26:37] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't want to let that but I will also say it's well too don't if okay like I just mentioned it's a cat in mouse game

[00:26:45] [SPEAKER_00]: And my thing is don't allow for the cat to chase you or don't allow what a mouse is not going to chase the cat, but I'll get what I'm saying

[00:26:56] [SPEAKER_00]: Don't allow for it to keep going if you find no interest in that person like be straight up like be straight up

[00:27:05] [SPEAKER_00]: Like if you know that this is something that you're not interested in don't I hate ghosting.

[00:27:24] [SPEAKER_00]: I just feel like if you are if you know that you are really not interested in a person it should start right there to begin

[00:27:31] [SPEAKER_00]: Don't try to get that person to chance and then be like well you don't got the goods and then you don't want to no longer talk to that person.

[00:27:39] [SPEAKER_00]: That's rude and that's cruel like quit trying to just get some available places and some in available penis and just really be real and just be like hey

[00:27:47] [SPEAKER_00]: And I don't even understand how anybody can sleep with anybody that they really don't like but they do it and it be majority of men is doing it you get on a sin.

[00:27:57] [SPEAKER_00]: I know really too, no women that's going to open their lives to somebody that they really don't like or really don't focus.

[00:28:03] [SPEAKER_00]: But men is they are not ashamed to give their penis to somebody that they don't like for real because they want some because they want to know it and it's just like well can you just check your date for that.

[00:28:14] [SPEAKER_00]: And then they be like you I can't but it's a different type of feeling but it's just like what find you a cut buddy don't be trying to cut on somebody that you really don't float with right there for you.

[00:28:24] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, yeah also and also I've definitely grew to know that I does to fill that and also believe me that there's been someone that they've admitted that they've given some maybe six I'm like ma'am.

[00:28:34] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm a bit of sex and good no what you just because you're just going to be landed and you ain't even going to be enjoying it.

[00:28:40] [SPEAKER_02]: It's like oh my I brought you just energy that energy would be so dry.

[00:28:47] [SPEAKER_02]: It'd be trash energy for real like yeah, no, like it's like no because if you don't get this penis you got to be in those about a song.

[00:29:03] [SPEAKER_02]: That's probably a lot of people nowadays we all y'all have got here really having a sex and so my last guess so was she was very picky I'm like y'all need to be like hard to be picky motherfuckers.

[00:29:17] [SPEAKER_00]: When they are picky as who they sleep with but sometimes when it can be vulnerable and regardless with I ain't gonna say just leave with anybody but like I said men will leave them lead them on to thinking that hey I like you a lot.

[00:29:35] [SPEAKER_00]: I mean just so different they can get some vaginas and then you know going by that way I've been on both ends.

[00:29:42] [SPEAKER_00]: I can't even sit up in a lot like I don't been on both ends and it's just like it don't feel good when somebody is just using you for sex it really don't.

[00:29:51] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not saying like you know I was trying to look for like a committed relationship.

[00:29:56] [SPEAKER_00]: I was just trying to look for some consistent penis.

[00:29:59] [SPEAKER_00]: Me and only one like give me consistent penis nowadays and it's just like.

[00:30:05] [SPEAKER_02]: Well maybe because some of them in the job world would you know saying they want a new girl because I don't know it's like some day they get more excited for some new pussy than the same old person.

[00:30:16] [SPEAKER_00]: They really do even been I've heard this with when that's that's why I'm meant to sometimes why they're in a relationship because they want something new.

[00:30:25] [SPEAKER_00]: They want the three of like they chasing after it's like they're chasing after a high that they once had before they trying to get that same high and at high is not kicking in to them that same high is not kicking in to them so this is why they keep going and going and going and going into their ready to start.

[00:30:42] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah and you know what and then guess what I thought when people all do the same thing as well because some people be cheating on the side because you don't want me out better.

[00:30:51] [SPEAKER_02]: I had to say I'm saying it's like y'all got to be smiling off days you know saying but then at the end of the show could be like texting the next nigga hey come over here you know more so.

[00:31:03] [SPEAKER_02]: It's just a game you know.

[00:31:06] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, right it could be a game sometimes it just depends on who the female is that's all I'm saying.

[00:31:13] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah so you probably know something else like that did.

[00:31:17] [SPEAKER_00]: I mean I know I know females of every kind to be real with you.

[00:31:23] [SPEAKER_02]: Hey you know saying don't have bad no min of her considered that just run through people like nothing I'm like down though slow down you need to run.

[00:31:32] [SPEAKER_00]: Hey, I don't hit Sarah in the bathroom and then I would call me Felicia then when I live Felicia I would call me he amber like.

[00:31:42] [SPEAKER_02]: I think it has three places in one night there's cream and old funny and old funny is someone that y'all allowed this and also was crazy thing is y'all will.

[00:31:52] [SPEAKER_02]: He'll argue to one of the he fucking he drive the key drive one of the cars.

[00:31:56] [SPEAKER_02]: He's on calm like I don't fuck y'all let this man up and like his wrong with you women.

[00:32:02] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, this man drive shot you like this.

[00:32:05] [SPEAKER_02]: Drop your car drop you up at work me while he brought her fucking everybody else.

[00:32:10] [SPEAKER_02]: What the fuck is wrong with y'all?

[00:32:12] [SPEAKER_00]: Yep, I used to be one of them so.

[00:32:17] [SPEAKER_02]: Listen I've never met a woman just let me borrow her car like it's nothing.

[00:32:22] [SPEAKER_02]: I've never I've never met the all person that let me hold a car.

[00:32:26] [SPEAKER_02]: It's really dull my mom because my mom wanted to drive my car. You know sense of that.

[00:32:32] [SPEAKER_02]: Really that I've never met a woman that was like, hey you just take my coffee if you need to.

[00:32:37] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, that used to be me.

[00:32:40] [SPEAKER_00]: That used to be me.

[00:32:41] [SPEAKER_00]: You got somewhere to go.

[00:32:43] [SPEAKER_00]: One use my car blah blah blah blah.

[00:32:45] [SPEAKER_00]: Right.

[00:32:46] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, they used to be me.

[00:32:49] [SPEAKER_00]: But anymore, like I'm like, I don't mind sitting up here.

[00:32:56] [SPEAKER_00]: Talking about it because I've learned I've learned how like.

[00:33:01] [SPEAKER_02]: Hey, you've learned I've learned to you know saying I've learned the whole way.

[00:33:04] [SPEAKER_02]: Did not ever want me to do you want it down just like no sense.

[00:33:07] [SPEAKER_02]: I used to be that man that will sit there have the conversations with you.

[00:33:12] [SPEAKER_02]: No, I'm saying and don't give it down with the night you have two dollars in your bank account and no,

[00:33:16] [SPEAKER_02]: You just only use it.

[00:33:18] [SPEAKER_02]: You need to be that you know, Sam, but nowadays like,

[00:33:21] [SPEAKER_02]: I don't know, it's all right.

[00:33:23] [SPEAKER_02]: Right.

[00:33:24] [SPEAKER_02]: It's no now speaking about that we're going to pick up the conversation from your podcast.

[00:33:29] [SPEAKER_02]: Do you feel like training dating has become so transactional nowadays?

[00:33:35] [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, so I'm a I'm a I'm a say this from a pot.

[00:33:40] [SPEAKER_00]: I mean from a Facebook post that I see right and the the post has said that.

[00:33:48] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm a member of the community and I'm a member of the community.

[00:33:50] [SPEAKER_00]: And what I said is that men shouldn't act women for pussy.

[00:33:58] [SPEAKER_00]: If they can't give with the woman is at school for right then of course,

[00:34:05] [SPEAKER_00]: I somebody that jumps on my comment and he was like so it's more transactional for you blah blah blah blah blah.

[00:34:12] [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm just like no, I feel like it's a difference in between me wanting to fuck you and you wanting to fuck me.

[00:34:20] [SPEAKER_00]: If you want to fuck me then I feel like that you shouldn't have something that you want to give to me besides penis.

[00:34:27] [SPEAKER_00]: Now if I want to fuck you and you ask him like, you got to pay for this deep did that might not set that's not a desperate thing.

[00:34:34] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm just being real like it might just happen, but at the end of the day, if you think about it,

[00:34:40] [SPEAKER_00]: everything is like really transactional and why I say that is because if you take a woman out on the date, what you're doing, you pin for it right.

[00:34:49] [SPEAKER_00]: So if you take out a day a couple more times that means you're on pay for it then probably like the fourth time you take out a day to decide that she want to sleep with you.

[00:34:58] [SPEAKER_00]: You're really not paid for the pussy for real because you don't took our own needs dates right.

[00:35:02] [SPEAKER_00]: And when I told somebody that that was like, no, that's not I was like, yes, it really is really that for real.

[00:35:10] [SPEAKER_00]: Like you really don't pay for the pussy already for real just because you're not necessarily placing a money in her hand.

[00:35:17] [SPEAKER_00]: You don't pay for the pussy if you don't took out on a couple of dates already you ain't smashed the first date the second date the third date but you smashed that fourth date.

[00:35:25] [SPEAKER_00]: And the pin on how much the guy down the date was whether y'all went out to dinner went, went racing with the four wheelers went through access or anything you buy her drinks and stuff like that that's paying for the pussy.

[00:35:44] [SPEAKER_02]: Pretty much that definitely is this like now why do some women, let this man pay for the pussy knowing damn well I really don't want to fuck this man but they'll entertain the dog.

[00:35:56] [SPEAKER_00]: Somebody had asked me that and I just feel like that every female is different.

[00:36:01] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not the one that's seeking out to see if somebody's going to do for me.

[00:36:06] [SPEAKER_00]: Me personally if I start talking to somebody is because I really like that person.

[00:36:11] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not talking to this person to try to see what this person can actually do for me now of course I'm sitting back and I'm looking at the qualities of this person now.

[00:36:21] [SPEAKER_00]: Okay.

[00:36:22] [SPEAKER_00]: I think I owe it up.

[00:36:24] [SPEAKER_00]: So now you know I'm looking at the qualities back in you know if you got to be thinking I'm you know excuse my language but you know I'm going I'm trying to figure out you know what's going on but now I'm looking at the qualities of this person and try to you know see if they just actually work that really.

[00:36:45] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah I think that's what that's main reason I'm just taking a break from dating because it's like you know it's like it's just pushing really worth it now days and now nowadays it's like the answers nobody's not really worth it.

[00:36:57] [SPEAKER_00]: But don't you think that you are who you attract though.

[00:37:02] [SPEAKER_00]: Who you are is what you attract because okay so let me say this right like you you out in the club.

[00:37:10] [SPEAKER_00]: And you always finding a female's in the club but particularly females you want to stay at home.

[00:37:17] [SPEAKER_00]: They're not going to stay at home especially if they're always in the club it's going to be kind of hard for them to stay at home and then.

[00:37:23] [SPEAKER_00]: You are ready you met this person in the club so why would you want this person to switch up now if you met this person this person was a home body and stuff.

[00:37:33] [SPEAKER_00]: Then therefore you you can switch up to what this person is and I want me to in men and women to understand you are who you attract.

[00:37:43] [SPEAKER_00]: So again if you out in the club of course you're going to get somebody that's always in the club too shit after that you're probably fucked up to the club.

[00:37:51] [SPEAKER_00]: If you like on home body type of person like an introvert like you know me podcast and doing all that good stuff you might find somebody that's actually doing that as well.

[00:38:00] [SPEAKER_00]: But I just come to realize that may not really believe they are who they attract.

[00:38:06] [SPEAKER_02]: Some men don't but it's like sometimes if me guys take a step back and be like is this one really attractive and also you just got to find ways to better yourself you know what I'm saying it's like right you know like what you're tracking better yourself because I'm going to say tell me that like you look you got to.

[00:38:22] [SPEAKER_02]: Just better yourself you know what I'm saying you'll attract better.

[00:38:26] [SPEAKER_02]: Or people you feel like that's worth your time because sometimes I find that you give people a chance it's like you give me an inch they want to hold my I'm like and it's sometimes only be worth it.

[00:38:37] [SPEAKER_00]: I feel like first impression is everything and I'm also learning that you should believe a person who they show you the first time we got to stop giving chances out here.

[00:38:46] [SPEAKER_00]: Because and we also have to stop living with people is excuses because if you know it's it's a difference between reasoning that it's a difference between a reason and an excuse.

[00:38:58] [SPEAKER_00]: You get you feel what I'm saying so at the end of the day if you talk to somebody I was seeing you with excuses that person is not for you.

[00:39:06] [SPEAKER_00]: But if you talk to somebody and they have a reason and if you feel like that's the reason and then not always always getting you with excuses all the time they're born like.

[00:39:17] [SPEAKER_00]: There you go right there like you know you can you you find a way to actually 100 that person away that you want to 100 that person.

[00:39:24] [SPEAKER_00]: But if a person always sitting up here and they're always giving you you know excuses then that's something that that's the red flag right there.

[00:39:33] [SPEAKER_00]: And then if you get the relationship with that person and they still giving you excuses this is something that you saw from the beginning this is not nobody is kind of hard for everybody to actually just place a mask over the head.

[00:39:46] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, it is kind of hard for everybody just place a mask over the head and also you got to you got to believe people and also people got to read the room you know saying like.

[00:39:54] [SPEAKER_02]: You got to know what you get yourself into and deal with somebody like if you deal with somebody that just come out of a breakup.

[00:40:01] [SPEAKER_02]: Of course they're going to be cut through an of course they're going to be on edge a little bit they look up for your mistakes and stuff because they don't be hurt again, you know.

[00:40:12] [SPEAKER_02]: And I agree.

[00:40:15] [SPEAKER_00]: Like like you said about like I don't know if you like if we were you know to this and regardless, like with the dating pool like everybody say always pissing it shit in it.

[00:40:25] [SPEAKER_00]: I feel like also like with that you know you are who you attract I don't necessarily think that the dating pool got piss and shit in it.

[00:40:34] [SPEAKER_00]: I just think that the dead and pool is what I'm I'm certain in maybe I need to get out of this pool and go into a more cleaner pool.

[00:40:43] [SPEAKER_00]: And that means like surrounding yourself with people that you would you win in mind, dating.

[00:40:50] [SPEAKER_02]: Hmm.

[00:40:51] [SPEAKER_02]: So is that where I, is that why sometimes people can get fed up with the dating pool as well as because because they want to get out that pool they don't want to get up that pool.

[00:41:01] [SPEAKER_00]: They want to stay in that pool so that so therefore they can continue to complain about how new this ain't shit.

[00:41:08] [SPEAKER_00]: They want to stay in that pool so that can continue to keep on complaining how bitches just want to use them for their money excuse me, y'all are not bitches, but this is how I tell.

[00:41:18] [SPEAKER_00]: But they want to you know continue to keep on sending that pool and do like oh yeah, I'll be just ain't shit for a moment and then go out and get the same type of bitch in the same pool you got to get out that pool and go into a different pool.

[00:41:30] [SPEAKER_00]: And so if this is something that you may like you may have to switch up your atmosphere your environment of who you hang around or the places that you may get out it.

[00:41:41] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, because you know I said because if you keep doing this thing shit over and over again expecting a different soap well ladies and gentlemen that is insanity so you know what.

[00:41:50] [SPEAKER_02]: And so it's the right you got to switch up your environment and that's how we get improved the date and seeing right there you people got to switch up their environments and also give the energy to the people that are giving you the energy and I'm saying exactly.

[00:42:04] [SPEAKER_02]: And it's like it is a mouth trap you know saying it's like the damn circle but you know saying people could run in circles if they just embrace who the universe has for them and who do you know and who is giving them the energy because.

[00:42:17] [SPEAKER_02]: And the first thing you like ain't always going to do everything you want them to do but I guarantee the person that likes you a little bit more than go live a harder for you.

[00:42:26] [SPEAKER_01]: Exactly.

[00:42:29] [SPEAKER_02]: And you know what and how really to like that's just how we don't have to improve this date and see because it's like and also social media don't need to know everything ladies and gentlemen.

[00:42:38] [SPEAKER_02]: But then.

[00:42:40] [SPEAKER_02]: I'll tell you a little bit there because I thought it's the story of this man talking about some.

[00:42:51] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, I did read it out but I had so to story this man's on my son.

[00:42:55] [SPEAKER_02]: Hey, I just paid all this money for this shit.

[00:42:57] [SPEAKER_02]: Glor out of change drunk people.

[00:42:58] [SPEAKER_02]: Man, man sir.

[00:43:00] [SPEAKER_02]: So you know what was time with man.

[00:43:05] [SPEAKER_02]: Listen, you know what and if you don't let a figure out how hard it's in job.

[00:43:10] [SPEAKER_02]: That's what that shit, you know.

[00:43:11] [SPEAKER_00]: This is exactly I feel like this is something that should be discussed but you know what.

[00:43:18] [SPEAKER_00]: Female play hard to get and at the end it's just like they can talk that shit over a text message and stuff like that over phone call and things that such.

[00:43:29] [SPEAKER_00]: But once they get there you got a you mean personally I feel like you got to make a person show who they what they talk about for you and you also got to make sure that hey like if I'm sorry you.

[00:43:40] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm sorry for you like hey you already know a sub because I'm spending this money on you and I had seen.

[00:43:48] [SPEAKER_00]: Once get I feel like that was a shit over there.

[00:43:51] [SPEAKER_00]: It was two girls and it was a dude and they threw the dude out and the dude did not want to fuck see the girl wanted to do to fuck her in her friend.

[00:44:03] [SPEAKER_00]: And the dude was like oh hell no like I fucking you in your friend and she was like oh this nigga's he had my life oh this nigga ain't trying to give me no deep blah blah blah blah blah.

[00:44:16] [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm just like what.

[00:44:18] [SPEAKER_00]: Like with you and your friend like was this not discussed before he even got on the plane.

[00:44:25] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm like y'all need this because that's shit you know Sam because and I'm like it's a buddy on my bro what the fuck is you thinking do you know how many men I have begged that woman's with three some of the all the time.

[00:44:38] [SPEAKER_02]: Yes, I heard you.

[00:44:39] [SPEAKER_02]: For a I was a snack that nigga but I'm like you don't say that's probably that what the smack that nigga.

[00:44:46] [SPEAKER_02]: You know Sam I don't care what they look like like you had to.

[00:44:53] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, he had two of them and she was like my friend look good he's she I look good and he don't want to fuck on us.

[00:45:02] [SPEAKER_00]: I was just like you know just looking confused because it's like okay but she's again that should have been discussed before he came because he probably had intentions only fucking you not fucking you in your friend.

[00:45:20] [SPEAKER_00]: Your friend may have been a surprise and you thought that that was going to be something that he was going to be down for and when he you know the rabbit got the gun type shit right I want to do that.

[00:45:30] [SPEAKER_00]: And all you man oh this nigga says yeah, oh he gave cuz he don't want to fuck buff us this and then a third so like you said that it should be discussed to make sure that the intentions are the same.

[00:45:44] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, you know what and I realized that too and dating as well like that's how we as another way we can prove dating like no what you after before you go on out with somebody.

[00:45:53] [SPEAKER_02]: I said it's only like what do you want from this person or you even go out with this person because I hate you to spend 20 or $40 on a day or.

[00:46:02] [SPEAKER_02]: Hell even a hundred dollars on the date and you're not getting what you want Apple like you know because I wouldn't do that because I've been on that and as well, and it's just it's not fun when you're spending.

[00:46:12] [SPEAKER_00]: A book who might money you're not getting what you want out of you know so exactly exactly and especially if you know a person is being an image money like I said you just acts was it's it's they in my more transactional and stuff like that.

[00:46:27] [SPEAKER_00]: It can be it cannot sometimes it can be sometimes you don't have to be but if I'm flying you out nigger and it comes to fly you out and I'm getting this big boy from an audition you already know what the fuck is up you already know.

[00:46:41] [SPEAKER_00]: You already know this is something that's good because if I if I fly you out and you like all me then I'm not going on social media.

[00:46:49] [SPEAKER_00]: Nigger.

[00:46:51] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not going to say I'm going to take the pain to see the but nigger.

[00:46:59] [SPEAKER_02]: And then I'll see and that's why I've been hesitant to fly women out myself because Mike I love flying them down a flow with you on the beach or stuff you might maim.

[00:47:07] [SPEAKER_02]: But you got to know what time this because maim if I get so toned as beach you already know what time of this man you already know what time it is quit at the slow.

[00:47:15] [SPEAKER_02]: Yes, quit acting slow because I even have one trick years ago she like hey you need to pay for my flight and my hotel like okay you know that's a lot right but.

[00:47:25] [SPEAKER_02]: You know Sam.

[00:47:26] [SPEAKER_02]: But now that it's like hey if it happens it happens you know like shit let me tell me how I want to fly you just sit this place like when the weather let's go.

[00:47:37] [SPEAKER_00]: Let's go for real.

[00:47:40] [SPEAKER_00]: Hell yeah, let's go.

[00:47:41] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't understand it.

[00:47:42] [SPEAKER_00]: Also with the women that's alone for me to fly them out too like you selfish is folks too.

[00:47:48] [SPEAKER_00]: Don't use that man money just to keep flowing out and get you know go to a space of restaurants and shit and don't get that man shit.

[00:47:56] [SPEAKER_00]: Fuck you bitch.

[00:47:58] [SPEAKER_00]: Hell yeah.

[00:47:59] [SPEAKER_02]: And fuck all you want to complain about the cheap spots you know I'm saying because I'm like that's what that's what the man thinks you know I'm saying hey.

[00:48:07] [SPEAKER_00]: You can't be to the walk out.

[00:48:09] [SPEAKER_00]: Tell me to make I don't even don't know but if you want to pull up to somebody's drive through and if you want to back up in the parking lot so therefore we can sit right there.

[00:48:19] [SPEAKER_00]: You take a race it's like about us.

[00:48:21] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm so down with that.

[00:48:24] [SPEAKER_02]: See and a lot of women you draw my set because because a lot of these women are there they want they want the roof Chris they want the experience they want the experience.

[00:48:33] [SPEAKER_02]: And this is the property trash because I'm crazy.

[00:48:36] [SPEAKER_00]: Don't even hit like that that's what I understand it's just sometimes I don't even understand why they fool as much as it is because it's not it don't hit right there.

[00:48:47] [SPEAKER_00]: That's just my opinion, you know that's my opinion go out there and eat it for yourself if you want to play.

[00:48:53] [SPEAKER_02]: I started prices I'm like look.

[00:48:56] [SPEAKER_02]: Hell no.

[00:48:56] [SPEAKER_02]: Because if I keep this in it's trash I'll be mad with somebody.

[00:49:00] [SPEAKER_02]: Hey, oh no.

[00:49:01] [SPEAKER_00]: Exactly exactly.

[00:49:02] [SPEAKER_02]: I would not take that risk.

[00:49:04] [SPEAKER_02]: On the time I was spending that much is if it's so at the first one I know I can't get a flooring you know what's in it.

[00:49:09] [SPEAKER_02]: Then I might go ahead and spend it you know what I'm saying.

[00:49:11] [SPEAKER_02]: Exactly the experience but if there's something I know I can get wherever I'm not trying to spend that money.

[00:49:18] [SPEAKER_02]: And also if somebody's really impressed about like roof prison problem, somebody that that should tell you about their character you know saying that should tell you right there because a room and ankle give a day on where they just going to be happy to see you is concerned wherever.

[00:49:32] [SPEAKER_00]: Wherever do you understand me wherever we don't have to we can go and target.

[00:49:39] [SPEAKER_00]: And just push the buggy and just look at something just have a conversation with each other.

[00:49:44] [SPEAKER_00]: That's who I am that's who I always been.

[00:49:47] [SPEAKER_00]: I always been a lover girl like I never been to want to go out to Memphis money.

[00:49:51] [SPEAKER_00]: What's up a car he drives or anything like that in a matter.

[00:49:55] [SPEAKER_00]: It's always been like what the personality is hitting like.

[00:49:58] [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, there and I get sometimes that's why I probably got you know done over whatever in my life but I know where I was doing it.

[00:50:06] [SPEAKER_00]: I know that my intentions are always pure.

[00:50:09] [SPEAKER_02]: I waste and I thought that you know, saying because this like and I've always been that nice guy but now I'm super where I just I just want to live I'm saying I'm not going I've always told myself I'm not going to let one person how a person treat me.

[00:50:22] [SPEAKER_02]: They take how the new person is going to be because the new person did this show him said the new person is innocent in this my view I'm saying it's I'm not how to sit here and make them pay for what this one Jack has did to me you know saying.

[00:50:33] [SPEAKER_02]: I say like a lot of people that's why that's why they who get fucked up now because a lot of people they just trying to get their get back or they're trying to get somebody what they get got you know saying and it's crazy out here.

[00:50:47] [SPEAKER_01]: I agree.

[00:50:49] [SPEAKER_02]: It's like I don't say you get you get back you know, but you gotta take some time don't send them while I got to do something to get there if you might you know saying and just move for call you know.

[00:51:01] [SPEAKER_02]: Sometimes you'll get back to know saying you never know you might need to get back you need to and that give that could be you elevate in life because.

[00:51:09] [SPEAKER_02]: I literally have me earlier to share a business to shake I thought she could have been the one but she goes to me and then after she goes to me ships are falling into place and like and that's the shit, you know.

[00:51:19] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, that's sometimes it happens like that life happens.

[00:51:24] [SPEAKER_02]: Yes life does it's really good happen you know and so it's like and also to my legs up there if you're going to take somebody out this month do a legit win of attention.

[00:51:35] [SPEAKER_02]: No, what you want and I'm saying and express your intentions don't be said the way some people time now days.

[00:51:41] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, that was your time because.

[00:51:44] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I don't do it because you know that it's going to be something that's going to be given back to you return do it because you want to do it.

[00:51:54] [SPEAKER_02]: And don't do it as no goddamn publicity sun either you know I'm saying just for oh the cram or.

[00:51:59] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to make content and play on teat out like no just go out and just vibe I just really don't believe that people being having the time of their lives.

[00:52:09] [SPEAKER_02]: If they have time to post everything that's just my understanding you know what you know right because the real is Tom's they weren't post on social media.

[00:52:18] [SPEAKER_02]: They wasn't posting on social media and I remember back when I said, we weren't even thought of but the 70s and the 80s and stuff.

[00:52:27] [SPEAKER_02]: And then when that trip that cocaine was pure and stuff. And shit was just a lit.

[00:52:32] [SPEAKER_02]: And then I thought of those initials.

[00:52:34] [SPEAKER_00]: What they going down the salt.

[00:52:37] [SPEAKER_00]: I just A happy as they want to be this this and yes.

[00:52:41] [SPEAKER_02]: They just have a good time.

[00:52:45] [SPEAKER_02]: But I like that damn you know, I don't know, maybe maybe we grew up in the wrong girl you know, say because I like she I want to was like before hand you know I'm saying like before.

[00:52:56] [SPEAKER_02]: And everybody's business is without there you know, because I mean I grew up in it.

[00:53:02] [SPEAKER_00]: If we I'm so I mean we had black planning but people wasn't on black planning like I had a real check.

[00:53:10] [SPEAKER_00]: But you know we didn't see till then you had you had time to realize it's the but now I'm like it's just my social media is nothing but a facade.

[00:53:20] [SPEAKER_02]: So yes, if nothing but a facade in Lazy German nothing but scouting people to date it's like you got to know who's in it for real nowadays because people just be on the show and it's crazy.

[00:53:34] [SPEAKER_02]: I don't I'm a content pretty as we but you'll never see me out here posting or who I'm dating or who I'm being with and no I'm not about to go live while I'm fucking somebody either you know, so.

[00:53:49] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm on my head to you know said because that little on my like.

[00:53:53] [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, hell you don't say that's either on my mind like some minutes ago when you was talking about something and I was just like yeah, like I'm thinking of her like yeah fucking on social media.

[00:54:04] [SPEAKER_00]: Like it's just like like with Spanish start like I get it you didn't want to you got tired of this.

[00:54:11] [SPEAKER_00]: The application so you want us to know that you can simply see for real.

[00:54:15] [SPEAKER_00]: Then if you see the one with camera and it's just like why was you like me.

[00:54:21] [SPEAKER_02]: And all funny is not everybody talking about it you know saying us like yeah, it came up as topic but it's like now all the big punishments talked about it.

[00:54:30] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm like come on now.

[00:54:33] [SPEAKER_00]: The managers got some pussy and he was in a pussy so I think he saw like you started to get a flat.

[00:54:43] [SPEAKER_02]: I guess that's why on all his rebuttal he was promote the hell I did damn damn dear fire girl whatever.

[00:54:53] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm like well fellas if you're a better food it take better care of yourself and got the right visuals fruits and vegetables you'll let me them got them pills man.

[00:55:05] [SPEAKER_02]: And I was like I swear it takes up in on social media they can really shut down the whole medical and she because it'll be plant based you know say because it'll help you and then we know hard side effects exactly.

[00:55:23] [SPEAKER_02]: I agree.

[00:55:26] [SPEAKER_00]: But that that shit was just it was just but don't fuck on don't get there even I fucking like.

[00:55:35] [SPEAKER_02]: Hell no listen only that's what happens if somebody cut me a check if if only fans can be with check them maybe but we'll know yes just somewhere alive when it's just free hell no.

[00:55:49] [SPEAKER_00]: Right.

[00:55:53] [SPEAKER_02]: You cannot finish it either.

[00:55:56] [SPEAKER_00]: No, no, it's too many but it's the press to get the live I'm good.

[00:56:00] [SPEAKER_02]: Listen we don't see I don't see those that day you know said you better be on stage fucking live easy don't say.

[00:56:12] [SPEAKER_02]: I know it's your birthday we can get all those.

[00:56:15] [SPEAKER_02]: I know I know it's your birthday we can get some birthday love and get something to you know I'm saying so hey.

[00:56:21] [SPEAKER_00]: I got you.

[00:56:26] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm gonna matter if it's for December you know Sam.

[00:56:29] [SPEAKER_00]: Hey, I'm at a place I want to place the other life but he's still good.

[00:56:34] [SPEAKER_02]: Hell yeah, but because more there are some things that just need to be proud you know Sam because.

[00:56:41] [SPEAKER_02]: Because I don't need that leaking out because now people are who judge in it head of course they trying to figure out will you fucking my.

[00:56:47] [SPEAKER_00]: She they found out who it was fucking somebody I have reposted it like somebody went to go on his followers on Instagram found the girl and posted the picture of the girl.

[00:57:01] [SPEAKER_00]: You know, you know, most of the time she quit like this is all he does is just take a snap off finger boom boom day and if you you got the head this on this motherfucker okay.

[00:57:13] [SPEAKER_02]: I swear they need to be work for the FBI.

[00:57:16] [SPEAKER_00]: I might be doing something because sitting at a constant is not they is not that career.

[00:57:24] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm like if you don't need to be on something.

[00:57:27] [SPEAKER_02]: You know, I don't know what you're doing and you're gonna like like you're got these damn detective skills and stuff you're gonna need to be a private investigator or somebody.

[00:57:35] [SPEAKER_02]: You know, because you're sitting here wasting talent because I've also passed out as the calendar damn grum like.

[00:57:44] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, but what if I'm coming out to know that.

[00:57:50] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, he's a nice mini-times.

[00:57:53] [SPEAKER_00]: Hey, thank my business.

[00:57:55] [SPEAKER_02]: It was funny it's all the other chicks name Michelle was coming out saying it wasn't me.

[00:58:00] [SPEAKER_00]: Right, I don't care if it was you or not.

[00:58:05] [SPEAKER_00]: I like it.

[00:58:05] [SPEAKER_02]: It was a damn for us and hey just get that nut for us you know I'm saying.

[00:58:09] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm telling you.

[00:58:15] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, yeah, hey just enjoy you know I'm saying it but hey.

[00:58:19] [SPEAKER_02]: I don't know what's wrong with these people you know so so tell the people what you got planned for the remaining year with your on podcast.

[00:58:28] [SPEAKER_00]: Just basically recorded and releasing it again you know I recorded books so whatever and just recording and just getting you know the conversation out about these relationships and people that's being married got their own perspective.

[00:58:42] [SPEAKER_00]: People that single got their own perspective and people that got you know in a relationship with their boyfriend girlfriend got different perspective so.

[00:58:50] [SPEAKER_00]: Just make sure you come and just I let me y'all see the name on the screen as conversations with glow I am a really dope vibrant person for real like I just want to get to know you and get to know what you think about a lot of stuff so.

[00:59:04] [SPEAKER_00]: It's just it's really just conversations really.

[00:59:09] [SPEAKER_02]: Yes, yes and the last thing I will say this because I've got to say this on as well respect people's perspective you know I'm saying if you are somebody that if you hear somebody's perspective you're on.

[00:59:20] [SPEAKER_02]: Come up there and bash them just shut the fuck up don't even listen to what you got say respect their perspectives because even people everybody has perspective because single people aren't always you know saying people are single we've had our relationship experiences as well you know saying.

[00:59:35] [SPEAKER_00]: We just why we're thinking you know how to respect that though it's easy to say to them because I'm wondering I'm going to say that I don't respect people for specters because again this is what I do I try you know I get other people perspective but like I said I also try to do things to turn that perspective around and see my point of view.

[00:59:56] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah and I know I know it could be hard but it's like hey there wasn't point of time that we were all in relationship you know and it was a point of time and also you got to take it for sometimes we might give you our perspective because.

[01:00:08] [SPEAKER_02]: We love you and we want the best for you so we want better for you to want for ourselves you know,

[01:00:12] [SPEAKER_02]: and also to the family members that there's some y'all need shit.

[01:00:20] [SPEAKER_02]: You know Sam.

[01:00:22] [SPEAKER_00]: I'll family members need to shut the fuck up but hey that's a different story for a different time.

[01:00:28] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah we might have to talk about that you know you talk because that's coming my family they love to hear my podcast name when they see me in person they love to talk shit about it.

[01:00:39] [SPEAKER_02]: If you if you think in the most productive thing you can do for me is do is support and share your people you must.

[01:00:47] [SPEAKER_00]: The core is share support is share.

[01:00:50] [SPEAKER_02]: You come with me telling me trying to downplay my experiences all that's going to do is making me not want to talk to you on the long way that's how that's.

[01:00:58] [SPEAKER_02]: It's hard and period it is it really is so some of cousins that they're y'all know who y'all are y'all.

[01:01:05] [SPEAKER_02]: You all take a talk of us shit.

[01:01:06] [SPEAKER_02]: You don't need a lot of hands up and also if anybody here on you know Sam, hey you know what what's getting low I want thank you for coming on look at the lesson the looks up.

[01:01:16] [SPEAKER_02]: No no no no no shit birthday we get you took time out your blessed with us.

[01:01:22] [SPEAKER_02]: I hope you turn up this weekend and whenever you need me for the conversations with low need me to come on having another conversation you already know why Matt.

[01:01:30] [SPEAKER_02]: If it was you don't know that I might be a flood but I'm always now to have a conversation if you try to come on look at us out y'all let me know let's keep this look up and we'll keep moving.

[01:01:41] [SPEAKER_02]: Thank you, glow.

[01:01:42] [SPEAKER_00]: You welcome baby you have a good weekend.

[01:01:45] [SPEAKER_02]: I definitely will and thank you to all the listeners out there.

[01:01:48] [SPEAKER_02]: Thank you to everybody that's been checking in with us.

[01:01:51] [SPEAKER_02]: Tell us what you think ladies and gentlemen we're here for the people this has been look at how this has been grown folks conversation with some look up until next time y'all.

[01:02:02] [SPEAKER_00]: Peace out.