In this heart-stirring episode of The Birthing Room, Dr. Lorena Whitehead sits down with Dennis, a man whose life was transformed by the power of relationship with God.
🔥 In this episode, Dennis shares:
His personal journey of encountering God
The search for a true place of worship and spiritual connection
How he overcame doubt, isolation, and spiritual disconnection
The inspiration behind launching his own podcast to encourage others
If you’ve ever felt lost in your walk or unsure where you fit in the body of Christ, this conversation will bless you. Dennis speaks with authenticity, humility, and hope — reminding us all that God is always calling us home.
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00:01:06 --> 00:01:07 didn't tell you this Chef Dennis or I
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00:01:09 --> 00:01:11 book y'all and I think I left it over
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00:01:14 --> 00:01:16 for okay for this year Chef Dennis I
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00:02:01 --> 00:02:03 so original I would love to come and to
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00:02:06 --> 00:02:08 was like look at God this is a destiny
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00:02:12 --> 00:02:15 watch it um he does have a co-host I let
00:02:15 --> 00:02:18 him tell us more about Lady T and um I
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00:02:24 --> 00:02:26 with I'mma get mine that you was
00:02:26 --> 00:02:27 definitely someone I knew that was a
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00:02:50 --> 00:02:53 Chef Dennis d32 you guys can check me
00:02:53 --> 00:02:56 out on Tuesdays and Wednesdays 6:30 p.m.
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00:02:58 --> 00:03:00 know how they say it's black people be
00:03:00 --> 00:03:03 late no this Chef right here I am
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00:03:06 --> 00:03:08 my guest they will if they come late
00:03:08 --> 00:03:11 they come late but I'm on time but uh
00:03:11 --> 00:03:13 it's good uh it's a good content but
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00:03:17 --> 00:03:19 your perspective you know sometimes you
00:03:19 --> 00:03:22 know our parents you know they do the
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00:04:08 --> 00:04:10 that's um a little bit about my podcast
00:04:10 --> 00:04:13 also I do have a um a co-host Lady T yes
00:04:13 --> 00:04:16 um it's interesting um sometimes you
00:04:16 --> 00:04:20 don't do family and business um but Lady
00:04:20 --> 00:04:23 T is my cousin oh you guys are related
00:04:23 --> 00:04:27 yes um okay so how we connected was one
00:04:27 --> 00:04:29 time we was down there I was hanging out
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00:04:31 --> 00:04:33 with us we had an interesting
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00:04:35 --> 00:04:37 what in the back of my mind I was like
00:04:37 --> 00:04:40 oh she could be a good co-host because
00:04:40 --> 00:04:41 she brings something different not only
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00:05:32 --> 00:05:34 her own Lady T the t- show you know what
00:05:34 --> 00:05:36 I'm saying and I I'm okay with that
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00:05:49 --> 00:05:52 I said it's spirit-led so we know that
00:05:52 --> 00:05:55 the deceiver is the author of confusion
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00:06:23 --> 00:06:26 about myself I am a chef um I do have my
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00:06:29 --> 00:06:31 this year has started out great I did a
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00:06:36 --> 00:06:40 great um it was a great success um I do
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00:06:42 --> 00:06:44 Chef Dennis on Facebook you can follow
00:06:44 --> 00:06:47 me there you can see a part of my life
00:06:47 --> 00:06:49 um as well as Instagram you can check me
00:06:49 --> 00:06:52 at Chef Dennis 3235 that's my personal
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00:06:58 --> 00:07:01 well that's the business app aspect of
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00:07:02 --> 00:07:06 show you know the genuine me so I give I
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00:07:34 --> 00:07:36 you know um yes so your catering
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00:07:38 --> 00:07:40 you like do businesses and you said you
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00:08:04 --> 00:08:07 what I do so 100 people is it's easy
00:08:07 --> 00:08:09 it's not hard simple because I do a lot
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00:08:14 --> 00:08:16 great deal so you going to do a cooking
00:08:16 --> 00:08:17 show cuz we need to learn I need some
00:08:17 --> 00:08:19 recipes like I'm a vegetarian but I do
00:08:19 --> 00:08:21 cook meat for my family so you going to
00:08:21 --> 00:08:22 do a cooking show so that we can get
00:08:22 --> 00:08:24 some little tips and tricks I'mma keep
00:08:25 --> 00:08:27 it I'mma keep it real that's a work in
00:08:27 --> 00:08:29 progress for me cuz I'm I'm working to
00:08:29 --> 00:08:33 get a food truck so that's it's just so
00:08:33 --> 00:08:34 I would have to get I'm working somebody
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00:08:36 --> 00:08:39 get a a video guy they can follow you
00:08:39 --> 00:08:41 and do your little thing I you know if
00:08:41 --> 00:08:43 the podcast turned out great because my
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00:08:54 --> 00:08:56 that's my thing like I'm that's why I
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00:09:04 --> 00:09:06 occupation look at my fingers like my
00:09:07 --> 00:09:09 hands like they stay I don't do no dirty
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00:09:10 --> 00:09:11 call me I
00:09:11 --> 00:09:15 don't I don't because I I deal with food
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00:09:18 --> 00:09:20 I don't want my nails dirty because
00:09:20 --> 00:09:21 sometimes I'm G be honest sometimes I
00:09:21 --> 00:09:23 dig my hand in the food I have to have
00:09:23 --> 00:09:26 Clean Hands just like a doctor you a
00:09:26 --> 00:09:27 doctor or a nurse you want them to have
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00:09:43 --> 00:09:44 I I'm a vegetarian so I would make
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00:09:50 --> 00:09:52 you know what I'm GNA do a little little
00:09:52 --> 00:09:54 uh quick it was five what was it five
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00:10:01 --> 00:10:03 these little dishes that I would make
00:10:03 --> 00:10:04 I'm telling you it was hot though you
00:10:04 --> 00:10:06 should really try it like even when
00:10:06 --> 00:10:07 you're home cooking like little meals
00:10:07 --> 00:10:09 like little things you think is not a
00:10:09 --> 00:10:12 big deal or we want to see it okay I'm G
00:10:12 --> 00:10:14 work on it and I say I I receive that I
00:10:14 --> 00:10:16 work on it I
00:10:16 --> 00:10:18 work between your podcast make some
00:10:18 --> 00:10:20 little reals of you cooking we want to
00:10:20 --> 00:10:22 see the chef cook the chef just talking
00:10:22 --> 00:10:25 we want to see the chef in the kitchen
00:10:25 --> 00:10:28 apron on the Shelf say it again we apron
00:10:29 --> 00:10:30 on the Shelf yeah look that's why that's
00:10:30 --> 00:10:33 why I um I throw out my um Instagram
00:10:33 --> 00:10:34 because that's where you see my work at
00:10:35 --> 00:10:36 that's where you see me get down you
00:10:36 --> 00:10:39 know my Instagram is I think for me I
00:10:39 --> 00:10:43 think Instagram is a better platform for
00:10:43 --> 00:10:45 things like that because you could
00:10:45 --> 00:10:48 actually do a real right there live time
00:10:48 --> 00:10:50 so I'm cooking I can fix it up Spruce it
00:10:50 --> 00:10:52 up and then I put it on a real I think
00:10:52 --> 00:10:53 because because that's why I do a lot of
00:10:53 --> 00:10:56 my work on Instagram I do a lot of live
00:10:56 --> 00:10:59 on Instagram how you feel about Tik Tok
00:10:59 --> 00:11:01 uh you know what to me it's like it's
00:11:01 --> 00:11:05 about money so I mean I got Tik Tock but
00:11:05 --> 00:11:08 Tik Tok really don't bring a lot of my
00:11:08 --> 00:11:10 uh viewers so I do a lot of I do a lot
00:11:10 --> 00:11:13 of promotion through Tik Tok um but uh
00:11:13 --> 00:11:16 other than that n because you gotta for
00:11:16 --> 00:11:18 Tik Tok I think you have to have a
00:11:18 --> 00:11:22 thousand uh view thousand uh friends to
00:11:22 --> 00:11:26 to go live on that I think a 100 no I
00:11:26 --> 00:11:28 got a 100 you got a 100 yeah I got more
00:11:28 --> 00:11:31 than I got a more than 100 you sure
00:11:31 --> 00:11:32 I'mma check I think it's 100 I think you
00:11:32 --> 00:11:35 can go live at 100 well I told I was
00:11:35 --> 00:11:36 told I got let me tell you what I got
00:11:36 --> 00:11:38 right in why wait why we I'm still
00:11:38 --> 00:11:41 listening to you go ahead okay so what I
00:11:41 --> 00:11:43 was gonna ask you my next question was
00:11:43 --> 00:11:45 is that our podcast is are really
00:11:45 --> 00:11:47 similar so mine is all about testimonies
00:11:47 --> 00:11:49 people coming and giving their testimony
00:11:49 --> 00:11:51 on their life things they've overcome in
00:11:51 --> 00:11:54 life you know um and like like you said
00:11:54 --> 00:11:55 sometimes there things I haven't been
00:11:55 --> 00:11:58 through you know but I allow them to
00:11:58 --> 00:11:59 have a space where they can come share
00:11:59 --> 00:12:02 their testimony to share with uh with
00:12:02 --> 00:12:05 the world to help somebody else so I got
00:12:06 --> 00:12:07 I I the reason the Lord has given me
00:12:07 --> 00:12:09 this vision is
00:12:09 --> 00:12:11 because if I can show you really quickly
00:12:11 --> 00:12:13 if I have it I wrote a book A couple of
00:12:13 --> 00:12:16 years ago called the birthing room so my
00:12:16 --> 00:12:18 podcast is just really a spin-off from
00:12:18 --> 00:12:20 the book right it's like 10 10
00:12:20 --> 00:12:21 strategies to birth of your new season
00:12:21 --> 00:12:23 so when I got the p and this was all
00:12:23 --> 00:12:25 about my life me birthing into a new
00:12:25 --> 00:12:27 season the Lord had took me from one
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00:12:30 --> 00:12:32 changed my whole life so I'm like you
00:12:32 --> 00:12:34 know what I know I'm not the only one
00:12:34 --> 00:12:37 that God has transformed you know took
00:12:37 --> 00:12:39 me out of the valley experience and
00:12:39 --> 00:12:41 brought me to this place and I'm want to
00:12:41 --> 00:12:43 say Mountaintop but you know out of the
00:12:43 --> 00:12:45 valley right walking from glory to glory
00:12:45 --> 00:12:49 to Victory to Victory um Faith to Faith
00:12:49 --> 00:12:52 so I know why this was such a passion
00:12:52 --> 00:12:54 for me and when I watch your podcast it
00:12:54 --> 00:12:56 was kind of similar I'm like okay it
00:12:56 --> 00:12:58 kind of have the same feel same Vibe
00:12:58 --> 00:13:00 especially could you allow people to
00:13:00 --> 00:13:01 come on and really talk about themselves
00:13:01 --> 00:13:02 and share their stories and their
00:13:02 --> 00:13:04 testimonies so what was it that drove
00:13:04 --> 00:13:08 you to have a podcast and also to have
00:13:08 --> 00:13:13 that type of podcast well I'm okay so um
00:13:13 --> 00:13:15 you know podcast is big now it's it's
00:13:15 --> 00:13:19 growing and you know I'm in the season
00:13:19 --> 00:13:20 right now to try to find the right
00:13:20 --> 00:13:23 Church home so I'm very I'm very excited
00:13:23 --> 00:13:27 about serving God doing his doing his W
00:13:27 --> 00:13:29 the will for my life and so you know I
00:13:29 --> 00:13:31 like talking to people I have a lot of
00:13:31 --> 00:13:33 energy when it comes to me I can go any
00:13:33 --> 00:13:35 atmosphere I'm I'm gonna talk I'm gonna
00:13:35 --> 00:13:38 communicate with and then but you know
00:13:38 --> 00:13:40 having the spirit of discernment I know
00:13:40 --> 00:13:42 who to connect with who not to because
00:13:42 --> 00:13:44 guess what I can see the spirit of that
00:13:44 --> 00:13:46 person and and some people might think
00:13:46 --> 00:13:48 that's crazy but it's really not U so
00:13:49 --> 00:13:50 you know I connect with people that I'm
00:13:50 --> 00:13:52 supposed to connect with and then there
00:13:52 --> 00:13:54 are people that you're not supposed to
00:13:54 --> 00:13:56 connect with but you're just supposed to
00:13:56 --> 00:13:59 drop the seed seow the seed and move on
00:13:59 --> 00:14:01 because some some people are not ready
00:14:01 --> 00:14:03 to receive the word of God so the plat
00:14:03 --> 00:14:06 this platform allows me to speak my
00:14:06 --> 00:14:08 truth but not only speak my truth but
00:14:08 --> 00:14:10 connect with people talk with them and
00:14:10 --> 00:14:13 give them a perspective don't listen we
00:14:13 --> 00:14:16 sometimes we get stuck in our ways and
00:14:16 --> 00:14:19 not not ready to receive a new
00:14:19 --> 00:14:23 learning no not to to be in your old
00:14:23 --> 00:14:25 ways elevate your mind and elevate your
00:14:25 --> 00:14:28 mind not to go above God but just allow
00:14:28 --> 00:14:31 God to to be your mouthpiece direct your
00:14:31 --> 00:14:34 path be your compass and and so so this
00:14:34 --> 00:14:36 this is the opportunity that I'm able to
00:14:36 --> 00:14:38 do that and then also you know getting
00:14:38 --> 00:14:41 on the stage it's different because I do
00:14:41 --> 00:14:42 it live because guess what there is
00:14:42 --> 00:14:45 nothing hitting I don't there is nothing
00:14:45 --> 00:14:47 going to be a hiccup for me it's just
00:14:47 --> 00:14:49 going to be genuine I that's who I am
00:14:49 --> 00:14:51 I'm a genuine person I'm just going
00:14:52 --> 00:14:53 connect I'm just going to love on and so
00:14:53 --> 00:14:56 it gives me a space to love on people
00:14:56 --> 00:14:58 especially the ones who really they know
00:14:58 --> 00:15:01 me and and then again once like me and
00:15:01 --> 00:15:03 you just me and you for an example you
00:15:03 --> 00:15:05 know you I wanted you to get to see me
00:15:05 --> 00:15:07 so when you get to see me you know this
00:15:07 --> 00:15:10 guy is real genuine he not not all this
00:15:10 --> 00:15:12 about this foolishness because I'm not
00:15:12 --> 00:15:14 you know I just want people to
00:15:14 --> 00:15:16 understand that living for God is
00:15:16 --> 00:15:19 difficult but also it's it's a great
00:15:19 --> 00:15:22 reward by just living for him you know
00:15:22 --> 00:15:23 what I'm saying why do you think is
00:15:23 --> 00:15:28 difficult be be the Sin Sin we we are
00:15:28 --> 00:15:31 going to tempted we're going to fall
00:15:31 --> 00:15:34 we're made to fall because of the flesh
00:15:34 --> 00:15:37 so it's difficult because there you have
00:15:37 --> 00:15:39 desires you have wants and and those
00:15:39 --> 00:15:41 wants and those desires can cause you to
00:15:41 --> 00:15:44 fall no when you get upset God that's
00:15:44 --> 00:15:47 why God gave us the word we going to get
00:15:47 --> 00:15:50 upset we're going to react our emotions
00:15:51 --> 00:15:52 sometimes get the best of you and now
00:15:52 --> 00:15:54 you that's why we have to repent that's
00:15:54 --> 00:15:56 why we have to go that's why he say
00:15:56 --> 00:16:00 repent daily because are things that you
00:16:00 --> 00:16:02 do that sometimes you have no control
00:16:02 --> 00:16:05 over it's the Flesh and we fight with
00:16:05 --> 00:16:07 the flesh the principalities of the
00:16:07 --> 00:16:10 spirit and the flesh we fight so it's
00:16:10 --> 00:16:12 that's what makes it difficult and some
00:16:12 --> 00:16:13 people say it's not difficult if you
00:16:13 --> 00:16:15 saying it's difficult you that means
00:16:15 --> 00:16:17 you're not struggling with sin and we
00:16:17 --> 00:16:20 all gonna struggle with sin we all GNA
00:16:20 --> 00:16:22 because there are times where God says
00:16:22 --> 00:16:25 okay I'm allow this to happen to to test
00:16:25 --> 00:16:27 your faith he doesn't test this but he
00:16:27 --> 00:16:29 allows things to happen
00:16:29 --> 00:16:32 so we can be tested so we can be tested
00:16:33 --> 00:16:34 in our faith because guess what if
00:16:34 --> 00:16:36 everything was good then you don't need
00:16:36 --> 00:16:39 God that's right so so that's what makes
00:16:39 --> 00:16:42 it difficult because if it's easy then
00:16:42 --> 00:16:45 we don't need God and how can it how can
00:16:45 --> 00:16:47 it be easy when we need God we have to
00:16:47 --> 00:16:49 depend on Jesus Christ because that's
00:16:49 --> 00:16:52 what he died for so when we fall short
00:16:52 --> 00:16:55 we're able to go to him and see him and
00:16:55 --> 00:16:58 say Lord forgive me I know I was wrong
00:16:58 --> 00:16:59 but please Lord forgive me and that's
00:16:59 --> 00:17:02 the difference of saying it's easy
00:17:02 --> 00:17:04 versus it's when it's hard it's hard
00:17:04 --> 00:17:06 it's difficult because that's and that's
00:17:06 --> 00:17:07 good that's good chef and you said
00:17:07 --> 00:17:09 something you said something I'm going
00:17:09 --> 00:17:11 go back to it CU I know a lot of people
00:17:11 --> 00:17:13 are also in the same place that you are
00:17:13 --> 00:17:15 at you said you're looking for a church
00:17:15 --> 00:17:19 home now did you have one and you say
00:17:19 --> 00:17:20 you know what it's time the Lord say
00:17:20 --> 00:17:21 it's time for you to move and find a new
00:17:21 --> 00:17:23 church home or you just looking for a
00:17:23 --> 00:17:25 church home where you can work are
00:17:25 --> 00:17:27 you're comfortable with the word of God
00:17:27 --> 00:17:29 what uh what has you search ing in this
00:17:29 --> 00:17:32 hour no uh well my wife she's a minister
00:17:33 --> 00:17:36 so okay hey girl being that she's a
00:17:36 --> 00:17:38 minister that church her church and I
00:17:38 --> 00:17:41 say this with loving a loving heart her
00:17:41 --> 00:17:44 church is not for me and her I okay I
00:17:44 --> 00:17:46 say this to her with all love and I can
00:17:46 --> 00:17:49 say this publicly openly and and God
00:17:49 --> 00:17:51 know my heart it's because it's a New
00:17:51 --> 00:17:54 Journey for me and her my had a home
00:17:54 --> 00:17:56 church but that's not and and God put
00:17:56 --> 00:17:59 that in my heart it's not it's I know
00:17:59 --> 00:18:02 already the enemy will try to pull us
00:18:02 --> 00:18:05 apart have us going we don't argue we
00:18:05 --> 00:18:08 don't fight but I know this to be true
00:18:08 --> 00:18:11 that it's a journey for me and her so
00:18:11 --> 00:18:13 when we get when we got together she was
00:18:13 --> 00:18:14 on her own Journey she was in her
00:18:14 --> 00:18:18 singleness she was a minister at her
00:18:18 --> 00:18:21 church I was a member at a church okay
00:18:21 --> 00:18:23 so she was already in ministry as a
00:18:23 --> 00:18:26 leader right oh it's good it's GNA be
00:18:26 --> 00:18:27 good this is right here see the Lord
00:18:27 --> 00:18:28 know how to pull out what we need go
00:18:28 --> 00:18:30 ahead right so so so what happened is is
00:18:31 --> 00:18:34 that but but that church for me her
00:18:34 --> 00:18:37 church is real stagnant there are things
00:18:37 --> 00:18:39 that I want for me and her so because we
00:18:39 --> 00:18:41 live in a different time now we live in
00:18:41 --> 00:18:43 a different world and one thing is a
00:18:43 --> 00:18:46 Men's Ministry okay they do not have one
00:18:46 --> 00:18:49 two a women's ministry they do have one
00:18:49 --> 00:18:52 but it's all so now they have a women's
00:18:52 --> 00:18:54 women's ministry but they don't have a
00:18:54 --> 00:18:56 men so where do that leaves me it starts
00:18:56 --> 00:18:59 a men's a Men's Ministry to start the
00:18:59 --> 00:19:00 Men's Ministry they don't they don't
00:19:00 --> 00:19:03 have that many men okay so you started
00:19:03 --> 00:19:05 and you let me tell you something even
00:19:05 --> 00:19:07 with this short period of time talking
00:19:07 --> 00:19:11 to you you are a powerful man of God you
00:19:11 --> 00:19:13 carry such a weight I heard you say that
00:19:13 --> 00:19:14 your wife is in Ministry but you also
00:19:14 --> 00:19:16 have a powerful call upon your life I'm
00:19:16 --> 00:19:18 sure you know that you didn't need me to
00:19:18 --> 00:19:20 tell you that because God already showed
00:19:20 --> 00:19:22 you and you draw people in they're draw
00:19:22 --> 00:19:24 they're drawn into your light they're
00:19:24 --> 00:19:27 drawn into you are a teacher you are a
00:19:28 --> 00:19:30 listener and you are someone who can
00:19:30 --> 00:19:34 love on other men and men have a hard
00:19:34 --> 00:19:35 time because they haven't really
00:19:35 --> 00:19:37 experienced love from other men when
00:19:37 --> 00:19:41 they find another man a a man a real man
00:19:41 --> 00:19:44 to embrace them as their brother they
00:19:44 --> 00:19:46 stay but if they had a church with a
00:19:46 --> 00:19:48 bunch of women there's no men to embrace
00:19:48 --> 00:19:50 them right right so you usually see the
00:19:50 --> 00:19:53 men stay home the women all have W
00:19:53 --> 00:19:54 husbands and all the women are at church
00:19:54 --> 00:19:56 but all the husbands are at home but if
00:19:56 --> 00:19:58 they know a real man is there to embrace
00:19:58 --> 00:19:59 them and there's a man that calls the
00:20:00 --> 00:20:01 football listen we got football on
00:20:01 --> 00:20:02 Sunday why don't y'all all come out to
00:20:02 --> 00:20:04 the church we going to all get together
00:20:04 --> 00:20:06 have a fellowship oh they coming cuz now
00:20:06 --> 00:20:08 there's a man there that's going to
00:20:08 --> 00:20:10 embrace us and we can do some man stuff
00:20:10 --> 00:20:12 so don't count yourself out don't count
00:20:12 --> 00:20:14 yourself short and I'm GNA tell you why
00:20:14 --> 00:20:15 this was interesting to me because when
00:20:16 --> 00:20:17 I got married to my husband I was
00:20:17 --> 00:20:19 already in Ministry I I'm I am a
00:20:19 --> 00:20:21 propheus I'm I'm a a minister I'm a
00:20:21 --> 00:20:23 preacher I'm a teacher and I was already
00:20:23 --> 00:20:25 traveling and you know preaching and
00:20:25 --> 00:20:27 teaching and my husband is not a
00:20:27 --> 00:20:29 minister
00:20:29 --> 00:20:30 uh like just like you he has a great
00:20:30 --> 00:20:32 calling on his life you know but he goes
00:20:32 --> 00:20:34 to he has a church that he was very
00:20:34 --> 00:20:38 comfortable with um that he enjoys and
00:20:38 --> 00:20:40 um and I was at another church also you
00:20:41 --> 00:20:43 know where um like you said there might
00:20:43 --> 00:20:44 have been some things that was lacking
00:20:44 --> 00:20:46 but what I needed was the teaching part
00:20:47 --> 00:20:49 it was the pouring into sure there were
00:20:49 --> 00:20:51 some things that in my natural I would
00:20:51 --> 00:20:52 have rather I would have liked to have
00:20:52 --> 00:20:55 seen But spiritually I was grounded
00:20:55 --> 00:20:56 there because the Lord had a work for me
00:20:56 --> 00:21:00 to do there right um so I was I'm
00:21:00 --> 00:21:01 interested to hear the rest of the
00:21:01 --> 00:21:05 Dynamics and and how how you all shifted
00:21:05 --> 00:21:07 and how that transition is because when
00:21:07 --> 00:21:09 I left my church that was devastating
00:21:09 --> 00:21:12 for me uh you know because I'm like well
00:21:12 --> 00:21:14 I gotta be to church on Sunday because
00:21:14 --> 00:21:16 when you are when you have a call upon
00:21:16 --> 00:21:18 your life it's not are we going to go
00:21:18 --> 00:21:21 it's when and where we don't have a
00:21:21 --> 00:21:25 option we don't have a choice we have to
00:21:25 --> 00:21:28 be in the presence of the Lord and
00:21:28 --> 00:21:32 fellow ship for us is really a must is
00:21:32 --> 00:21:34 where we draw our energy is where we
00:21:34 --> 00:21:36 receive our connection you know just
00:21:36 --> 00:21:38 like with someone
00:21:38 --> 00:21:40 who enjoyed doing other things they was
00:21:40 --> 00:21:42 to watch football or you know Sports you
00:21:42 --> 00:21:43 know they want to come together at the
00:21:43 --> 00:21:45 sports bar you know it's the same thing
00:21:45 --> 00:21:47 for us we need to be together and
00:21:47 --> 00:21:51 assemble ourselves when we are called to
00:21:51 --> 00:21:52 Ministry so how are y'all dealing with
00:21:52 --> 00:21:56 that oh no we look she like right now
00:21:56 --> 00:21:58 I'm um I'm attending this church it's
00:21:58 --> 00:22:01 very different for me uh the church is
00:22:01 --> 00:22:05 they have church in a movie theater okay
00:22:06 --> 00:22:10 and it is different but they they ran
00:22:10 --> 00:22:13 out the space um it's kind of like a big
00:22:13 --> 00:22:16 church of V1 you ever heard of them I've
00:22:16 --> 00:22:17 seen those I've seen um churches going
00:22:17 --> 00:22:19 to movie theaters I mean that means
00:22:19 --> 00:22:21 that's a really big church that's a lot
00:22:21 --> 00:22:23 of no no no it's the people that's there
00:22:23 --> 00:22:27 no because they um they have churches
00:22:27 --> 00:22:29 all over like Long Island Brooklyn they
00:22:29 --> 00:22:32 just opened one in Manhattan okay they
00:22:32 --> 00:22:34 got Jersey a planner it's a planner
00:22:34 --> 00:22:37 right right so uh they just did one in
00:22:37 --> 00:22:41 Florida um so this one I go to is in
00:22:41 --> 00:22:45 Jersey and um so it's it's different um
00:22:45 --> 00:22:46 but you
00:22:46 --> 00:22:49 know I said you know what let me let me
00:22:49 --> 00:22:51 stay still let me see if this one I like
00:22:51 --> 00:22:54 the connection of the people I like the
00:22:54 --> 00:22:56 atmosphere now I'm Gonna Keep it hunting
00:22:56 --> 00:22:59 with you like I like I I told you I'm
00:22:59 --> 00:23:01 very transparent I love it come on look
00:23:01 --> 00:23:03 the only thing about it and I can't and
00:23:03 --> 00:23:05 so I said all right God I'm I'm gonna
00:23:05 --> 00:23:09 sit still only thing I Pastor no only
00:23:09 --> 00:23:13 thing I don't like about it is the music
00:23:13 --> 00:23:16 you like the music N I can't because
00:23:16 --> 00:23:20 because I I'm because that's where you
00:23:20 --> 00:23:22 know my devotion right there my my
00:23:22 --> 00:23:25 praise my
00:23:25 --> 00:23:28 wor so I'm I'm that that's what I'm
00:23:28 --> 00:23:30 trying with but I'm saying God you know
00:23:30 --> 00:23:32 you know I'm trying so I so right now
00:23:32 --> 00:23:35 I've been going on a c basis so I'm just
00:23:35 --> 00:23:37 the word is good you know what I'm
00:23:37 --> 00:23:39 saying the people got you
00:23:39 --> 00:23:41 know so far it's good you know it's not
00:23:41 --> 00:23:43 about the people but like I said put
00:23:44 --> 00:23:45 like
00:23:45 --> 00:23:48 this if you go to a bad restaurant you
00:23:48 --> 00:23:50 gonna go you gonna go back you gonna
00:23:50 --> 00:23:52 keep going back because it's not the
00:23:52 --> 00:23:53 food is not great all you say you know
00:23:53 --> 00:23:55 what I give him another try you go you
00:23:55 --> 00:23:57 go again the food's not great you gonna
00:23:57 --> 00:23:59 keep going
00:23:59 --> 00:24:01 so that's two different
00:24:01 --> 00:24:04 things no because I'm G tell you why I'm
00:24:04 --> 00:24:06 tell you why two different things it's
00:24:06 --> 00:24:07 two different things because I'm being
00:24:07 --> 00:24:10 fed by the person that's given the given
00:24:10 --> 00:24:12 the meal the person that's prepared the
00:24:12 --> 00:24:15 meal the pastor and the minister the
00:24:15 --> 00:24:16 teacher the preacher that's who's
00:24:17 --> 00:24:19 feeding me right so if they're giving me
00:24:19 --> 00:24:21 a bad meal I'm not gonna keep going back
00:24:21 --> 00:24:24 that's what I'm saying I you I said I I
00:24:24 --> 00:24:26 thought you said the
00:24:26 --> 00:24:28 people no I said
00:24:28 --> 00:24:31 I said if you go to the a restaurant and
00:24:32 --> 00:24:34 they serving you and the first time you
00:24:34 --> 00:24:36 go the food not good you like H I'm not
00:24:36 --> 00:24:38 going you say you know what let me try I
00:24:38 --> 00:24:40 let me try something else right I'm
00:24:40 --> 00:24:42 talking about going to the same
00:24:42 --> 00:24:45 restaurant I'm using it as an analogy
00:24:45 --> 00:24:47 and then now you go back and you like oh
00:24:47 --> 00:24:49 no I'm not I'm not coming no more
00:24:49 --> 00:24:51 basically that's what I'm saying so you
00:24:51 --> 00:24:54 look the word comes forth is good right
00:24:54 --> 00:24:57 but now guess what it's like okay that's
00:24:57 --> 00:25:00 it like what what else it's more than
00:25:00 --> 00:25:02 just the word because guess what when
00:25:02 --> 00:25:05 you sit at a table you gotta your your
00:25:05 --> 00:25:08 table has to be set you got to have
00:25:08 --> 00:25:11 plates you got have a glass right so
00:25:11 --> 00:25:13 what set you up for receiving the word
00:25:13 --> 00:25:15 before you get to the word something has
00:25:15 --> 00:25:17 to get you ready for the word prepare
00:25:17 --> 00:25:18 you for the word so if you don't have
00:25:19 --> 00:25:21 that they don't just jump in the word
00:25:21 --> 00:25:22 you know what I'm saying your your
00:25:23 --> 00:25:25 worship and your praise to get get you
00:25:25 --> 00:25:27 in in the mood to receive the Holy
00:25:27 --> 00:25:29 Spirit but if you don't have that now
00:25:29 --> 00:25:31 what happens when the word comes you
00:25:31 --> 00:25:33 it's like oh the word's good but then
00:25:33 --> 00:25:35 now you just left out with something
00:25:35 --> 00:25:37 something is missing you don't think so
00:25:37 --> 00:25:39 you don't you don't think that I'm G
00:25:39 --> 00:25:41 tell you why go ahead I'm a little
00:25:41 --> 00:25:42 different I'm a little different and I'm
00:25:42 --> 00:25:45 gonna tell you why I don't think so
00:25:45 --> 00:25:47 because I'm look I'm trying to see this
00:25:47 --> 00:25:50 in two perspectives right if I was a new
00:25:50 --> 00:25:53 Christian absolutely you know I want the
00:25:53 --> 00:25:55 whole experience I want the music I want
00:25:55 --> 00:25:57 the the singing because we need to be
00:25:57 --> 00:26:01 pumped up and um and religious folk and
00:26:01 --> 00:26:04 church folk need to be pumped up they
00:26:04 --> 00:26:07 need to be uh uh cheerlead it you know
00:26:07 --> 00:26:09 they need a cheerleader you know where's
00:26:09 --> 00:26:11 the hype man hype us up hype us up and
00:26:11 --> 00:26:13 get us ready we need that music to play
00:26:13 --> 00:26:14 just right so we can jump around and
00:26:14 --> 00:26:16 shout all of our filth all around
00:26:16 --> 00:26:19 because we Le in the same way we came in
00:26:19 --> 00:26:20 um
00:26:20 --> 00:26:25 but people who are uh
00:26:25 --> 00:26:29 disciples disciples they come in already
00:26:29 --> 00:26:30 in worship we've been in worship and
00:26:31 --> 00:26:32 praise all all all week long we brought
00:26:32 --> 00:26:35 our praise and worship with us you know
00:26:35 --> 00:26:37 we already came with fire I didn't come
00:26:37 --> 00:26:40 here to get fire I already came on fire
00:26:40 --> 00:26:42 so I brought my praise with me so if
00:26:42 --> 00:26:44 nobody play any music My Feet going tap
00:26:44 --> 00:26:47 because God been good if don't nobody
00:26:47 --> 00:26:49 make a sound my hand GNA wave because
00:26:49 --> 00:26:51 God been good I don't need a hype man
00:26:51 --> 00:26:53 because I all I am the party I am the
00:26:53 --> 00:26:56 hype man I came I'm a I'm a movement all
00:26:57 --> 00:27:00 by myself so I don't need all the extra
00:27:00 --> 00:27:03 stuff but I used to when I went to the
00:27:03 --> 00:27:04 club on Saturday and came to C Church
00:27:04 --> 00:27:07 drunk on Sunday I did I needed a little
00:27:07 --> 00:27:08 music I needed to get you know in the
00:27:08 --> 00:27:10 groove and now I a hear the word no way
00:27:10 --> 00:27:11 the word was just you know they was
00:27:11 --> 00:27:13 screaming and they was hyping the more
00:27:13 --> 00:27:15 you hooped and holl the better I felt oh
00:27:15 --> 00:27:16 they preached a good word couldn't tell
00:27:16 --> 00:27:19 you what Serv was about couldn't tell
00:27:19 --> 00:27:22 you what service was about couldn't read
00:27:22 --> 00:27:23 it to you in the scripture couldn't find
00:27:23 --> 00:27:26 it in my notes but it was good cuz I
00:27:26 --> 00:27:30 left there feeling good it was a feel so
00:27:30 --> 00:27:32 if I'm looking for a f then yes I want
00:27:32 --> 00:27:33 to go somewhere where it's going to give
00:27:33 --> 00:27:35 me some good music some good dancing
00:27:35 --> 00:27:36 some good yelling and screaming but if
00:27:36 --> 00:27:39 I'm looking to be fed and I need
00:27:39 --> 00:27:40 something that's going to change and
00:27:40 --> 00:27:43 transform my life that's going to hit me
00:27:43 --> 00:27:46 in my belly and I can't leave the same I
00:27:46 --> 00:27:48 need the word of God because the word of
00:27:48 --> 00:27:52 God doesn't need any help no it doesn't
00:27:52 --> 00:27:54 need any help once the word goes out it
00:27:54 --> 00:27:57 never returns void it accomplishes what
00:27:57 --> 00:27:59 it was sent out to do that's why it's
00:27:59 --> 00:28:01 important for me to go to church and to
00:28:01 --> 00:28:05 get a good word so when we say that I go
00:28:05 --> 00:28:07 and I'm not getting a good meal then you
00:28:07 --> 00:28:10 just feeding me some milk and if I go to
00:28:10 --> 00:28:13 the table and I done put my napkin in
00:28:13 --> 00:28:15 here and I'm prepared this my this my
00:28:15 --> 00:28:17 Bonnet talk my Bonnet I done stuck my
00:28:17 --> 00:28:19 napkin in here and I'm prepared with my
00:28:19 --> 00:28:21 knife and my Fork because a knife I
00:28:21 --> 00:28:23 gotta cut meat right but if I come to
00:28:23 --> 00:28:26 get meat that means something had to
00:28:26 --> 00:28:29 die that means somebody had to go before
00:28:29 --> 00:28:32 God and they had to die cuz you can't be
00:28:32 --> 00:28:36 served meat if something didn't die I
00:28:36 --> 00:28:37 can't get a chicken legless the chicken
00:28:37 --> 00:28:40 died so you have to actually suffer for
00:28:40 --> 00:28:42 that word you got to go before the Lord
00:28:42 --> 00:28:45 he has to give you a RMA word so when
00:28:45 --> 00:28:48 you preach the word it convicts the
00:28:48 --> 00:28:50 Bible says the word Cuts deeper than a
00:28:50 --> 00:28:52 two-headed sword when it goes down and
00:28:52 --> 00:28:55 cuts to the marrow so everything that's
00:28:55 --> 00:28:57 in me I'm immediately convicted and it
00:28:57 --> 00:28:59 sends me to the
00:28:59 --> 00:29:02 altar now I need people as the altar
00:29:02 --> 00:29:04 ready to receive me I need a burning
00:29:04 --> 00:29:07 altar I need a church that praise I need
00:29:07 --> 00:29:09 a church that understands how to help me
00:29:09 --> 00:29:10 get free that's what's going to be
00:29:10 --> 00:29:13 important to me now because I eat meat
00:29:13 --> 00:29:16 but if I if I was a milk Drinker then G
00:29:16 --> 00:29:18 I need me a good I need we need a good
00:29:18 --> 00:29:19 band and we need them to be hitting them
00:29:19 --> 00:29:21 keys right that's why that's why I'm
00:29:21 --> 00:29:24 still in cuz you know it's for me it's
00:29:24 --> 00:29:25 like all right God where you want me to
00:29:25 --> 00:29:26 where you want me to go what you want me
00:29:26 --> 00:29:28 to do so here
00:29:28 --> 00:29:31 i' I've been there uh for like uh four
00:29:31 --> 00:29:33 or five weeks now about a month oh okay
00:29:33 --> 00:29:37 so you knew that just yeah started I'm
00:29:37 --> 00:29:39 I'm new there so uh I spoke to the
00:29:39 --> 00:29:41 pastor he said oh love he said yeah so
00:29:41 --> 00:29:44 you know I always get that but then once
00:29:44 --> 00:29:45 I get in there it's
00:29:45 --> 00:29:48 like oh okay where everybody at what's
00:29:48 --> 00:29:50 going on like you woring about everybody
00:29:50 --> 00:29:54 else no I'm talking what Ministry is
00:29:54 --> 00:29:56 your gift what's your gift in
00:29:56 --> 00:29:59 Ministry uh loving on people uh speaking
00:30:00 --> 00:30:02 the word of God encouraging them uh just
00:30:02 --> 00:30:04 letting them know that you know it's
00:30:04 --> 00:30:05 it's
00:30:05 --> 00:30:08 okay yeah God will you know bring you
00:30:08 --> 00:30:12 out of anything um I mean truly uh and
00:30:12 --> 00:30:14 then you know and just talking to people
00:30:14 --> 00:30:15 and letting them know because I've been
00:30:15 --> 00:30:18 through something I don't have no
00:30:18 --> 00:30:20 look tragedy didn't make me come to
00:30:20 --> 00:30:23 Christ a seed was sold in me my
00:30:23 --> 00:30:25 grandparents my grandparents my father
00:30:25 --> 00:30:28 my mom's you know sold the seed than me
00:30:28 --> 00:30:31 now I'm the oldest out of five sibling
00:30:31 --> 00:30:34 okay so and I'm the only one and that's
00:30:34 --> 00:30:35 not the brag that's not the brag but I'm
00:30:35 --> 00:30:37 saying I got five siblings and I'm the
00:30:37 --> 00:30:40 only one who has the Zeal to live for
00:30:40 --> 00:30:42 God and truly live for God I'm not
00:30:42 --> 00:30:45 perfect so you know I I sometimes I say
00:30:45 --> 00:30:48 things they may hurt some feelings but
00:30:48 --> 00:30:50 I'm but that's that's what God want me
00:30:50 --> 00:30:51 to do you know that's what I'm called to
00:30:51 --> 00:30:54 do to tell you the truth uh it may hurt
00:30:54 --> 00:30:56 your feelings and I I'm learning in this
00:30:56 --> 00:30:59 with the podcast I'm Le Lear how to talk
00:30:59 --> 00:31:01 to people on different levels so it
00:31:01 --> 00:31:04 won't be so rough around the edges so
00:31:04 --> 00:31:07 harsh so harsh right they always I was
00:31:07 --> 00:31:09 going to uh no nothing was wrong we just
00:31:09 --> 00:31:10 did something healthy I I want to
00:31:10 --> 00:31:13 encourage people this to just something
00:31:13 --> 00:31:15 healthy we me and my wife was going to
00:31:15 --> 00:31:17 uh marriage counseling oh we just
00:31:17 --> 00:31:19 started too yeah that's healthy that's
00:31:19 --> 00:31:21 it's nothing it wasn't nothing wrong
00:31:21 --> 00:31:23 wasn't we arguing know what saying I
00:31:23 --> 00:31:25 just want to tell people that is that
00:31:25 --> 00:31:27 it's nothing wrong with that um so we
00:31:27 --> 00:31:30 was going and uh the therapist that was
00:31:30 --> 00:31:32 like oh yeah you got to work on your
00:31:32 --> 00:31:35 delivery so that's always stuck in my
00:31:35 --> 00:31:38 mind my delivery so you know in the
00:31:38 --> 00:31:41 podcast is is that I get some people
00:31:41 --> 00:31:42 that don't agree with me and they like
00:31:42 --> 00:31:44 what are you talking about I get upset
00:31:44 --> 00:31:47 but now I'm learning how to navigate
00:31:47 --> 00:31:50 through that and try to deliver it on a
00:31:50 --> 00:31:52 loving way um so they can understand my
00:31:52 --> 00:31:53 perspective and not saying my
00:31:53 --> 00:31:55 perspective is the right way but just
00:31:55 --> 00:31:58 think about let that thought be your
00:31:58 --> 00:32:01 mind and change you know what I'm saying
00:32:01 --> 00:32:03 change how you think change change how
00:32:03 --> 00:32:06 you see things not for me for you you
00:32:06 --> 00:32:08 know what I'm saying for your heart so
00:32:08 --> 00:32:10 you can grow and be a better person a
00:32:10 --> 00:32:14 better version of yourself um so um I
00:32:14 --> 00:32:16 will say just to touch on what you said
00:32:16 --> 00:32:18 I will say that you do have a loving
00:32:18 --> 00:32:20 heart even when we our first
00:32:20 --> 00:32:22 conversation the way you just embraced
00:32:22 --> 00:32:25 me and you were discipling me that's the
00:32:25 --> 00:32:27 True Heart of a disciple True Heart of a
00:32:27 --> 00:32:28 pastor and you being Rough Around the
00:32:28 --> 00:32:30 Edges just said that you probably got
00:32:30 --> 00:32:32 some uh probably car the mental of the
00:32:32 --> 00:32:34 Prophet also because we just know how to
00:32:34 --> 00:32:35 give it cut it and listen I mean hurt
00:32:36 --> 00:32:37 your feelings but I had to give it away
00:32:37 --> 00:32:39 God said give it you know and a lot of
00:32:39 --> 00:32:41 people won understand that but no you
00:32:41 --> 00:32:43 were really nice and really um
00:32:43 --> 00:32:46 encouraging and confirming you know
00:32:46 --> 00:32:48 respectfully you know what I mean really
00:32:48 --> 00:32:49 respectfully you were like listen I
00:32:49 --> 00:32:52 watch your podcast it's really good and
00:32:52 --> 00:32:54 you know just really encouraging cuz
00:32:54 --> 00:32:55 that day which you probably didn't know
00:32:55 --> 00:32:57 I was really questioning like I don't
00:32:57 --> 00:32:59 know this looks good I need to really
00:32:59 --> 00:33:00 work on this opening I really need to
00:33:00 --> 00:33:01 work on this light this light ain't
00:33:01 --> 00:33:03 never right like I'm just like really
00:33:03 --> 00:33:05 was having a hard time and the show You'
00:33:05 --> 00:33:08 seen was my worst I was so upset the the
00:33:08 --> 00:33:12 light was blown out I looked gray I look
00:33:12 --> 00:33:14 it was just horrible like gu with the
00:33:14 --> 00:33:18 guy with the guy yes yes I I I was like
00:33:18 --> 00:33:20 maybe because what I was looking on I
00:33:20 --> 00:33:23 was like oh that's good oh man really
00:33:23 --> 00:33:25 yeah I was yeah I was listening to y'all
00:33:25 --> 00:33:26 it was like the worst for me I was like
00:33:26 --> 00:33:28 oh my goodness but said you know what I
00:33:28 --> 00:33:30 didn't want to not post it because he
00:33:30 --> 00:33:32 deserved it to be posted he showed up
00:33:32 --> 00:33:34 and I really wanted to give him his his
00:33:34 --> 00:33:37 hour you know cuz it was a good podcast
00:33:37 --> 00:33:39 um but I just didn't feel like I that
00:33:39 --> 00:33:41 that it looked okay but you were like
00:33:41 --> 00:33:44 listen it was so good I really it was
00:33:44 --> 00:33:46 authentic I watched some of it and it
00:33:46 --> 00:33:47 really really encouraged me so I want
00:33:47 --> 00:33:49 you to know that yes you are truly an
00:33:49 --> 00:33:52 encourager and we need that you know
00:33:52 --> 00:33:54 it's really rare that somebody
00:33:54 --> 00:33:55 especially people doing what you're
00:33:55 --> 00:33:57 already doing to call and confirm you
00:33:57 --> 00:33:59 and encourage you and want to help you
00:33:59 --> 00:34:00 and want to say listen let's come
00:34:00 --> 00:34:02 together let's collaborate cuz we need
00:34:02 --> 00:34:04 each other in this hour this is going to
00:34:04 --> 00:34:06 be the season the Lord told me this was
00:34:06 --> 00:34:09 a season of the Builder it's a in the
00:34:09 --> 00:34:13 Bible uh there is a man named Ephraim
00:34:13 --> 00:34:16 and Ephraim was one of the tribes of
00:34:16 --> 00:34:18 Judah and um I mean one of the tribes of
00:34:18 --> 00:34:20 Israel excuse me and he had a daughter
00:34:20 --> 00:34:24 and her name was Shar right and Sher way
00:34:24 --> 00:34:26 back way back when this is in 1
00:34:26 --> 00:34:28 Chronicles I think 7 24 it's a rule
00:34:28 --> 00:34:30 short sentence and say and Shar his
00:34:30 --> 00:34:32 daughter built three cities and she
00:34:32 --> 00:34:35 bought she built three cities during a
00:34:35 --> 00:34:37 time that women didn't have a voice and
00:34:37 --> 00:34:40 women did not build right so I I was
00:34:40 --> 00:34:42 reading a story and the Lord begin to
00:34:42 --> 00:34:44 show me what it takes to
00:34:44 --> 00:34:47 build and you can't build by yourself
00:34:47 --> 00:34:49 there was no way Shar could build by
00:34:49 --> 00:34:51 herself so she had to have Vision she
00:34:51 --> 00:34:53 had to have strategy and she had to have
00:34:54 --> 00:34:56 help right and she had to understand how
00:34:56 --> 00:34:58 to build this city so that it didn't
00:34:58 --> 00:35:00 just feed them then but it fed for
00:35:00 --> 00:35:02 generations to come and the Bible talks
00:35:02 --> 00:35:04 about how these cities that she built
00:35:04 --> 00:35:05 and the way she built them you had to
00:35:05 --> 00:35:08 walk through these cities and on the
00:35:08 --> 00:35:09 trail through the cities is where you
00:35:09 --> 00:35:11 had to go to the ocean to get the food
00:35:11 --> 00:35:13 and they would fight battles in these
00:35:13 --> 00:35:15 Trails because of the way they fought
00:35:15 --> 00:35:17 back then whoever owned the the uh the
00:35:17 --> 00:35:20 the valley were the ones that were were
00:35:20 --> 00:35:23 were the were the strongest if you can
00:35:23 --> 00:35:24 take the valley you were the strongest
00:35:24 --> 00:35:26 so the Bible goes on to say how later on
00:35:26 --> 00:35:29 Solomon came and he rebuilt one of her
00:35:29 --> 00:35:32 cities because it was so important for
00:35:32 --> 00:35:35 generations to have these cities so Sher
00:35:35 --> 00:35:39 a woman built three cities not just for
00:35:39 --> 00:35:42 her time but for generations to come we
00:35:42 --> 00:35:44 are in a place where we are building not
00:35:44 --> 00:35:46 just for us we having a good time right
00:35:46 --> 00:35:47 now but we don't know what's going to
00:35:47 --> 00:35:49 happen what it's going to turn into even
00:35:49 --> 00:35:51 as you're building your business and as
00:35:51 --> 00:35:52 you're building your podcast we don't
00:35:52 --> 00:35:54 know what's going to come from these
00:35:54 --> 00:35:55 things that the Lord has us building but
00:35:55 --> 00:35:58 we can't build by ourselves so when you
00:35:58 --> 00:36:00 meet people along the way as you're
00:36:00 --> 00:36:02 building these people become a part of
00:36:02 --> 00:36:05 the Legacy that helps you to build and
00:36:05 --> 00:36:06 we need Destiny helpers and Destiny
00:36:06 --> 00:36:08 Partners in this hour so for you to
00:36:08 --> 00:36:11 reach out and be like listen let's come
00:36:11 --> 00:36:14 together and collaborate I I knew then
00:36:14 --> 00:36:16 that this was part of God's plan because
00:36:16 --> 00:36:18 we're in a building season and then you
00:36:18 --> 00:36:20 was like listen I ain't been going doing
00:36:20 --> 00:36:21 it this long this how many followers I'm
00:36:21 --> 00:36:24 like what help me help me you know so
00:36:24 --> 00:36:25 and for you to say you know what I got
00:36:25 --> 00:36:28 you not that I'm going gate it for
00:36:28 --> 00:36:30 myself but you know what I'm going to
00:36:30 --> 00:36:31 give you what I learn and let's go
00:36:31 --> 00:36:34 together and that is the heart first of
00:36:34 --> 00:36:37 all of a pastor and the Heart of a
00:36:37 --> 00:36:40 disciple and it was just really
00:36:40 --> 00:36:43 uplifting for me um that first I knew
00:36:43 --> 00:36:44 the Lord had heard me when I was writing
00:36:44 --> 00:36:46 down my my my thankful and for you to
00:36:46 --> 00:36:49 come and just to see it recognize it and
00:36:49 --> 00:36:51 say let me reach out so I just wanted to
00:36:51 --> 00:36:54 reaffirm you that I appreciated you well
00:36:54 --> 00:36:57 well publicly I want to say this to you
00:36:57 --> 00:37:00 can do you no seriously do you have a
00:37:00 --> 00:37:02 pin and pad I I'm not g I'm gonna be
00:37:02 --> 00:37:06 obedient I told you yeah you got your
00:37:06 --> 00:37:09 phone phone I'm ready okay
00:37:09 --> 00:37:12 listen this is my sister remember I told
00:37:12 --> 00:37:15 you that um I you know we was out this
00:37:15 --> 00:37:17 weekend her and her husband no right now
00:37:17 --> 00:37:21 right it's called I I am free
00:37:21 --> 00:37:25 podcast okay now go to YouTube real
00:37:25 --> 00:37:26 quick and tell me if it pops up because
00:37:26 --> 00:37:29 I want you I she is a person that that
00:37:29 --> 00:37:33 you guys you for the women aspect is
00:37:33 --> 00:37:34 gonna grow to a whole another level
00:37:34 --> 00:37:35 because I you said something to me when
00:37:36 --> 00:37:38 he was on the phone the other day and
00:37:38 --> 00:37:42 yeah yeah yeah I am free yeah it's a
00:37:42 --> 00:37:44 young lady she got like I guess she got
00:37:44 --> 00:37:46 like uh let me see let me see what what
00:37:47 --> 00:37:48 she got in the
00:37:48 --> 00:37:54 face can you see it no I am free podcast
00:37:54 --> 00:37:56 let me see let me put in
00:37:56 --> 00:37:58 podcast podcast
00:37:58 --> 00:38:01 yes let me go I make sure I'm saying
00:38:01 --> 00:38:03 right I want you cuz you you say you say
00:38:03 --> 00:38:07 about connection podcast I got is it
00:38:07 --> 00:38:09 goes straight to your subconscious mind
00:38:09 --> 00:38:11 let me see I'm just calling people out
00:38:11 --> 00:38:13 y'all owe me I called all right so so
00:38:13 --> 00:38:15 look this what it you got to go to it's
00:38:15 --> 00:38:17 at I am free
00:38:17 --> 00:38:20 80 but the podcast is I am free so it's
00:38:20 --> 00:38:25 at I am free all one word
00:38:25 --> 00:38:27 80 the number eight
00:38:27 --> 00:38:35 80 80 oh 80 I saw it too I am free
00:38:35 --> 00:38:38 80 okay hold
00:38:38 --> 00:38:44 on see it ain't coming up from
00:38:44 --> 00:38:47 me okay I think I got
00:38:47 --> 00:38:50 it how the person look how the person
00:38:50 --> 00:38:52 look do she is she like light skinned
00:38:52 --> 00:38:55 got her ha straight straight ha straight
00:38:55 --> 00:38:58 red hair yes
00:38:58 --> 00:39:01 yeah I see
00:39:01 --> 00:39:05 her check a story out I'm I'm not look
00:39:05 --> 00:39:07 just go just go through check her story
00:39:07 --> 00:39:09 out I guarantee you and she's a woman of
00:39:09 --> 00:39:11 God woman of Faith truly she got the
00:39:11 --> 00:39:15 Zeal of God the the the she got the fire
00:39:15 --> 00:39:18 right now the fire and and that and we
00:39:18 --> 00:39:20 talk about me and you that's the
00:39:20 --> 00:39:22 connection God same thing with her well
00:39:22 --> 00:39:24 I see you on there yeah that's the same
00:39:24 --> 00:39:28 thing with her is that you know God want
00:39:28 --> 00:39:31 us to connect so we can share the word
00:39:31 --> 00:39:33 yeah share the word I told her already
00:39:33 --> 00:39:36 share the word but listen it it you a
00:39:36 --> 00:39:39 woman so you connect to the women and
00:39:39 --> 00:39:41 you want the women to go I am for the
00:39:41 --> 00:39:43 men for the men to grow I'm big on
00:39:43 --> 00:39:46 marriage I'm I'm big on that everything
00:39:46 --> 00:39:48 they always talk to me they always say
00:39:48 --> 00:39:49 you always talking about marriage I'm
00:39:49 --> 00:39:50 big on that because guess what how long
00:39:50 --> 00:39:53 you been married Che five years five
00:39:53 --> 00:39:55 years okay but now mind you mind you
00:39:56 --> 00:39:59 I've been married before 12 years oh wow
00:39:59 --> 00:40:02 okay okay but and and and in that
00:40:02 --> 00:40:04 Journey watch this in that journey I
00:40:04 --> 00:40:06 what I did to get my wife now I didn't
00:40:06 --> 00:40:09 do my first wife but I was young I was
00:40:09 --> 00:40:14 27 she was 20 so I still was know on
00:40:14 --> 00:40:18 fire for God but I wasn't taught how to
00:40:18 --> 00:40:21 be that husband I am today humble you
00:40:21 --> 00:40:23 know uh
00:40:23 --> 00:40:26 deserving you're older now too I'm older
00:40:26 --> 00:40:30 now I'm 47 treating her like you 47 yeah
00:40:30 --> 00:40:33 treating Tre treating her like a queen I
00:40:33 --> 00:40:34 didn't do that to my first wife so you
00:40:34 --> 00:40:37 know I take accountability I take my
00:40:37 --> 00:40:39 ownership of the things I didn't do I
00:40:39 --> 00:40:41 regret someone but what can I do it was
00:40:41 --> 00:40:44 a Learning lesson I never say it was a
00:40:44 --> 00:40:46 failure it was a Learning lesson some
00:40:46 --> 00:40:49 people say no because guess what if I
00:40:49 --> 00:40:51 didn't go through that I wouldn't be the
00:40:51 --> 00:40:53 person I am today so there are things I
00:40:53 --> 00:40:56 had to go through it yes divorce is
00:40:56 --> 00:40:58 tough I don't I don't wish that on
00:40:58 --> 00:41:00 nobody well I was so happy I first got
00:41:00 --> 00:41:03 my my first divorce no we had a party
00:41:03 --> 00:41:05 afterwards and everything I was so happy
00:41:05 --> 00:41:06 it was the best day of my life we walked
00:41:06 --> 00:41:08 in there together hand in hand we were
00:41:08 --> 00:41:10 so happy they said we a never had a
00:41:10 --> 00:41:11 couple come together to get divorced we
00:41:11 --> 00:41:12 were so happy I couldn't wait to get rid
00:41:12 --> 00:41:15 of him but but but I guarantee you this
00:41:15 --> 00:41:17 one thing now look at your person you
00:41:17 --> 00:41:19 become now oh my God the lessons you
00:41:19 --> 00:41:21 learn is that you know what God I I
00:41:21 --> 00:41:24 don't want to do that again and so let
00:41:24 --> 00:41:29 me let let me let you be my path to the
00:41:29 --> 00:41:31 man that I'm supposed guide me order my
00:41:31 --> 00:41:34 steps let me be with the man that I'm
00:41:34 --> 00:41:35 supposed to be with you know what I'm
00:41:35 --> 00:41:37 saying and my wife is the woman I'm
00:41:37 --> 00:41:38 supposed to be because guess what he
00:41:38 --> 00:41:42 know guess what God ultimately know what
00:41:42 --> 00:41:44 you need not what you want and people
00:41:44 --> 00:41:46 don't like that they don't like that
00:41:46 --> 00:41:48 it's it's not what you need not what you
00:41:48 --> 00:41:50 want it's what you need and see that's
00:41:50 --> 00:41:53 the hardest part about I think Humanity
00:41:53 --> 00:41:56 everybody want want want want want but
00:41:56 --> 00:41:57 not really what they need because
00:41:57 --> 00:41:59 sometimes the things that you need is
00:41:59 --> 00:42:01 not the things that you want and God
00:42:01 --> 00:42:03 that's how God operate and and just
00:42:03 --> 00:42:06 sometimes and there sometimes the it's
00:42:06 --> 00:42:07 what you want and it's something that
00:42:07 --> 00:42:09 you need that it lines up what God has
00:42:10 --> 00:42:12 for you sometimes not all the times
00:42:12 --> 00:42:14 because guess what there are things that
00:42:14 --> 00:42:17 our parents IND know impart in us and
00:42:17 --> 00:42:19 when they do that guess what now we have
00:42:19 --> 00:42:22 we learn how to do the things that they
00:42:22 --> 00:42:25 did and how they they raised us then we
00:42:26 --> 00:42:27 go raise our kids like that but then
00:42:27 --> 00:42:29 when you start elevating your mind now
00:42:29 --> 00:42:31 you say hold up Mom I love you dad I
00:42:31 --> 00:42:33 love you but I ain't raising my kids
00:42:33 --> 00:42:35 like that I want to raise them in a
00:42:35 --> 00:42:36 different light a different way
00:42:37 --> 00:42:38 different perspective you know have this
00:42:38 --> 00:42:42 communication I got five I call yeah I
00:42:42 --> 00:42:46 have now I don't say my stepchildren or
00:42:46 --> 00:42:50 my stepchildren I say so I got five kids
00:42:50 --> 00:42:54 my my two right I now I have a oldest
00:42:54 --> 00:42:55 one she's married she's
00:42:55 --> 00:42:58 28 she's married she live in California
00:42:58 --> 00:43:00 and my baby when my baby one she's about
00:43:00 --> 00:43:02 to turn 21 now that's my heart right
00:43:02 --> 00:43:04 there the the reason why yeah she my
00:43:04 --> 00:43:05 heart is
00:43:05 --> 00:43:09 because I I seen her from a baby to
00:43:09 --> 00:43:11 young lady um I lived in a house with
00:43:11 --> 00:43:14 her and and you know connect with her
00:43:14 --> 00:43:16 all the time right I was there so my
00:43:16 --> 00:43:18 oldest daughter I really didn't have
00:43:18 --> 00:43:20 that that uh experience but she's still
00:43:20 --> 00:43:22 my baby too but it's a difference when
00:43:22 --> 00:43:25 you live with a child uh and you got two
00:43:25 --> 00:43:27 parents in the home and you raise them
00:43:27 --> 00:43:29 you see everything I never missed
00:43:29 --> 00:43:30 anything because I was blessed to have a
00:43:30 --> 00:43:33 job a career that I have 5: in the
00:43:33 --> 00:43:37 morning noon I'm off so I get yeah I get
00:43:37 --> 00:43:38 a chance to see everything I was I never
00:43:38 --> 00:43:40 missed anything I will support
00:43:40 --> 00:43:42 everything all
00:43:42 --> 00:43:45 sports everything um and now my older
00:43:45 --> 00:43:47 kids now watch this let now I said I
00:43:47 --> 00:43:48 don't call them step because they my
00:43:48 --> 00:43:50 kids now let me let me my dad said this
00:43:50 --> 00:43:52 to me and it made a lot of sense I said
00:43:52 --> 00:43:55 dad my dad said you the right man for
00:43:56 --> 00:43:57 the job because
00:43:57 --> 00:44:00 usually when you get married with
00:44:00 --> 00:44:02 somebody and they have older children
00:44:02 --> 00:44:04 they always
00:44:04 --> 00:44:07 like he my father no it wasn't that the
00:44:07 --> 00:44:10 case I was able to talk with them
00:44:10 --> 00:44:12 connect with them on a level and let
00:44:12 --> 00:44:14 them know yes I'm the man of the house
00:44:14 --> 00:44:17 but yes we go respect it never been a it
00:44:17 --> 00:44:19 never been a problem it's always been I
00:44:19 --> 00:44:21 love you and I'm and I could the oldest
00:44:21 --> 00:44:24 son like you said I could hug him he a
00:44:24 --> 00:44:26 grown man with his own family I can hug
00:44:26 --> 00:44:28 cuz you know what I told him I'm genuine
00:44:28 --> 00:44:30 you could talk to me about anything kids
00:44:30 --> 00:44:33 know because they know yeah like like we
00:44:33 --> 00:44:35 have six you know all together me my
00:44:35 --> 00:44:36 husband and I don't use the word step
00:44:36 --> 00:44:38 either and we have some small ones here
00:44:38 --> 00:44:39 in the house I've been married three
00:44:39 --> 00:44:41 years I'm a little under three years
00:44:41 --> 00:44:45 actually but I have a my biological mind
00:44:45 --> 00:44:48 um is 20 he be 26 um I think he might be
00:44:49 --> 00:44:51 26 he be 26 in March March I'm like
00:44:51 --> 00:44:53 listen how old am I so he be 26th in
00:44:53 --> 00:44:56 March because we 20 years apart and you
00:44:56 --> 00:44:58 would if you see him and my my husband
00:44:58 --> 00:45:00 together you would not know and he has a
00:45:00 --> 00:45:03 he has a a very active father but my
00:45:03 --> 00:45:05 husband loves him as if he's his own
00:45:05 --> 00:45:08 child just like I love you know my my
00:45:08 --> 00:45:10 children here as they're my own children
00:45:10 --> 00:45:13 you wouldn't know who's who um but my
00:45:13 --> 00:45:16 son didn't have to you know embrace the
00:45:16 --> 00:45:17 way he did because he didn't live in the
00:45:17 --> 00:45:18 house he already has own got his own
00:45:18 --> 00:45:21 daughter and we got a grandbaby but my
00:45:21 --> 00:45:22 husband that's his granddaughter like
00:45:22 --> 00:45:23 you know you wouldn't know any
00:45:23 --> 00:45:25 difference and my H my son and my
00:45:25 --> 00:45:27 husband are very close
00:45:27 --> 00:45:28 so I understand what you're saying yes
00:45:28 --> 00:45:30 it Tak let let me just show you how how
00:45:30 --> 00:45:32 how how was a great connection as well
00:45:32 --> 00:45:35 too you know what they did so what they
00:45:35 --> 00:45:37 did was now I know a lot of people
00:45:37 --> 00:45:39 outside of just this I'm doing Now
00:45:39 --> 00:45:41 podcast I because I play basketball so I
00:45:41 --> 00:45:44 know a lot of people from basketball and
00:45:44 --> 00:45:46 so what they did was somebody that live
00:45:46 --> 00:45:48 in the hood they know me and they
00:45:48 --> 00:45:52 popular and so they went to the hood and
00:45:52 --> 00:45:55 they was like hold up you know Dennis
00:45:55 --> 00:45:57 that because they said they said yeah
00:45:57 --> 00:45:58 wow what's up can you tell me about him
00:45:58 --> 00:46:00 cuz he dating my mother I want make sure
00:46:00 --> 00:46:03 he not a thug right so I'm like
00:46:03 --> 00:46:05 so yeah they want to check woman they
00:46:05 --> 00:46:09 said I'm no I'm not yo I'm telling you
00:46:09 --> 00:46:10 the truth a little exaggeration they
00:46:10 --> 00:46:14 said nah he don't be hanging out he go
00:46:14 --> 00:46:18 to church nah a good guy he a good guy
00:46:18 --> 00:46:20 he a good dude so look now I didn't know
00:46:20 --> 00:46:24 they did this until after me and her got
00:46:24 --> 00:46:27 married so the guy they told is they and
00:46:27 --> 00:46:31 my sister okay like so he said yo now
00:46:31 --> 00:46:32 they my family called me real he said yo
00:46:32 --> 00:46:35 real why these two people I said who you
00:46:35 --> 00:46:37 talking about come come asking about you
00:46:37 --> 00:46:40 in the hood I'm like what so I was like
00:46:40 --> 00:46:43 that's my wife's um son and
00:46:43 --> 00:46:46 daughter word I was like yeah I said a
00:46:46 --> 00:46:47 mission together they were gonna check
00:46:47 --> 00:46:51 you out was mission they was like yo I
00:46:51 --> 00:46:53 got to make sure that this man is right
00:46:53 --> 00:46:55 for my mom and I and I told him I said
00:46:55 --> 00:46:57 look y'all go I told him though I said
00:46:57 --> 00:46:58 y'all check me out I know a lot of
00:46:58 --> 00:47:01 people it be You' be amazed and they
00:47:01 --> 00:47:03 went down there it's like nah go to
00:47:03 --> 00:47:05 church they that I said yeah that's who
00:47:05 --> 00:47:08 I am I'm I'm just genuine I'm like that
00:47:08 --> 00:47:10 that's you know that's my life right
00:47:10 --> 00:47:11 there you know I've been through some
00:47:11 --> 00:47:12 stuff now I'm Gonna Give You My
00:47:12 --> 00:47:13 Testimony I didn't give my testim like I
00:47:13 --> 00:47:16 said I didn't I don't have no tragedy or
00:47:16 --> 00:47:20 tragic for me to come to Christ okay but
00:47:20 --> 00:47:22 I do have testimony so I'mma tell you
00:47:22 --> 00:47:24 like I tell everybody now I got away so
00:47:24 --> 00:47:27 that's why I was intrigued by your your
00:47:27 --> 00:47:28 because you said testimony I gotta start
00:47:28 --> 00:47:31 sharing it like I used to like I used to
00:47:31 --> 00:47:34 go to uh um you know uh Revival and tell
00:47:34 --> 00:47:36 my testimony I haven't been in a while
00:47:36 --> 00:47:38 so
00:47:38 --> 00:47:42 um I was in a car accident and um I was
00:47:42 --> 00:47:44 taking my daughter and my first wife I
00:47:44 --> 00:47:46 was taking them dropping off for working
00:47:46 --> 00:47:50 school so I was working two jobs and um
00:47:50 --> 00:47:52 I dropped them off and when I dropped
00:47:52 --> 00:47:55 them off I fell as seep behind the
00:47:55 --> 00:47:59 wheel I ran into a dumpster see how my
00:47:59 --> 00:48:03 hand is like this mhm listen I woke up I
00:48:03 --> 00:48:07 couldn't breathe so I called on Jesus
00:48:07 --> 00:48:10 Jesus Jesus Jesus Jesus Jesus I want to
00:48:10 --> 00:48:13 see my thumb the last time I called on
00:48:13 --> 00:48:16 Jesus I was able to breathe there was
00:48:16 --> 00:48:19 people all around my car and they was
00:48:19 --> 00:48:22 asking me are you okay I've gathered
00:48:22 --> 00:48:24 myself then I was able to breathe after
00:48:24 --> 00:48:27 I moved my thumb off my chest everything
00:48:27 --> 00:48:30 was great now mind you I said my my car
00:48:30 --> 00:48:33 was mangled okay inside the dumpster
00:48:33 --> 00:48:35 they got me out the car I only had a
00:48:35 --> 00:48:37 gash in my knee cuz something under the
00:48:37 --> 00:48:39 hood had went to my knee gash in my knee
00:48:39 --> 00:48:43 I'm able to walk I'm able to talk able
00:48:43 --> 00:48:45 to do anything that I want and uh you
00:48:45 --> 00:48:48 know that's truly one of my testimonies
00:48:48 --> 00:48:49 but prior but prior to that I'm me show
00:48:49 --> 00:48:53 you how God works in the whole thing
00:48:53 --> 00:48:55 prior to that I had that was a brand new
00:48:55 --> 00:49:00 car and my dad I wasn't humble my dad
00:49:00 --> 00:49:02 had said I need to use your car I
00:49:02 --> 00:49:04 straight told him nah dad you can't use
00:49:04 --> 00:49:05 my
00:49:05 --> 00:49:08 car got into that accident first person
00:49:08 --> 00:49:11 I called but I my first person I called
00:49:11 --> 00:49:13 was my father he dropped what he was
00:49:13 --> 00:49:14 doing he
00:49:14 --> 00:49:17 came and it showed me in that in that
00:49:17 --> 00:49:19 time that in that season it showed me
00:49:19 --> 00:49:23 that I had to be more humble yeah um I
00:49:23 --> 00:49:26 love my dad you know what I'm saying and
00:49:26 --> 00:49:29 I had to be humble enough to say all
00:49:29 --> 00:49:31 right go ahead Dan and trust him enough
00:49:31 --> 00:49:34 to say I'm GNA let you use my car and um
00:49:34 --> 00:49:37 you know I Grew From That No No Malice
00:49:37 --> 00:49:39 no nothing but I grew from that and how
00:49:39 --> 00:49:42 I grew is I learned how to be humble I
00:49:42 --> 00:49:46 learned how to be uh like they say old
00:49:46 --> 00:49:49 school I learned how to be
00:49:49 --> 00:49:52 Manish you know what I'm saying and not
00:49:52 --> 00:49:56 well not be managed be humble um and
00:49:56 --> 00:49:57 devote
00:49:57 --> 00:49:59 my time where it needs to be devoted you
00:50:00 --> 00:50:02 know what I'm saying so I never worked a
00:50:02 --> 00:50:03 second job again after that that was it
00:50:03 --> 00:50:05 for me I was like you know what this
00:50:05 --> 00:50:07 ain't for me and God provided me with a
00:50:07 --> 00:50:11 a great pay job every time I never had
00:50:11 --> 00:50:13 to work two jobs um I don't plan on
00:50:13 --> 00:50:16 working two jobs ever again well I'm too
00:50:16 --> 00:50:19 old now so that ain't happening um
00:50:19 --> 00:50:20 you're not too
00:50:20 --> 00:50:24 old no to work two jobs to work two jobs
00:50:24 --> 00:50:27 at 47 n nobody you nobody 47 she have to
00:50:27 --> 00:50:30 work two jobs you if if you have to work
00:50:30 --> 00:50:33 two jobs you have to apply yourself to
00:50:33 --> 00:50:35 get something greater it's if it's not
00:50:35 --> 00:50:38 too late for that you can go to back to
00:50:38 --> 00:50:40 school you can get some type of Ed other
00:50:40 --> 00:50:42 education so you don't have to work too
00:50:42 --> 00:50:44 job you gotta apply yourself not working
00:50:44 --> 00:50:46 two jobs I don't recommend somebody at
00:50:46 --> 00:50:49 47 to try go to school work one job it's
00:50:49 --> 00:50:52 gonna be tough go to school get some
00:50:52 --> 00:50:54 some type of trade whatever it is that
00:50:54 --> 00:50:56 you working and and and so you can get
00:50:56 --> 00:50:58 that extra money because you know some
00:50:58 --> 00:51:01 jobs some some people don't look into
00:51:01 --> 00:51:04 look into the resources some jobs are
00:51:04 --> 00:51:07 for schooling working okay so you saying
00:51:07 --> 00:51:10 that but you got two incomes at home so
00:51:10 --> 00:51:12 if you lived alone would you yeah did
00:51:12 --> 00:51:15 your wife work yeah yeah you got two
00:51:15 --> 00:51:17 incomes at home so let's say I was
00:51:17 --> 00:51:22 single and I might need a second
00:51:22 --> 00:51:24 job it's going to be rough but you go to
00:51:24 --> 00:51:26 school and I went to school I went
00:51:26 --> 00:51:28 School keep in mind I got a doctorate
00:51:28 --> 00:51:31 degree huh
00:51:31 --> 00:51:34 yeah so what happens is is that even in
00:51:34 --> 00:51:37 the time and day that we live
00:51:37 --> 00:51:40 in everything is so expensive some
00:51:40 --> 00:51:43 people have to just work a second job
00:51:43 --> 00:51:46 like I mean I I know people I work with
00:51:46 --> 00:51:49 during the day I work in insurance and
00:51:49 --> 00:51:51 um you know if they can't get overtime
00:51:51 --> 00:51:54 at my job yeah one of the girls she just
00:51:54 --> 00:51:55 started working at like a grocery store
00:51:55 --> 00:51:57 and like you work at the grocery store
00:51:57 --> 00:52:00 like what like really like we make good
00:52:00 --> 00:52:02 money she was like listen I only got one
00:52:02 --> 00:52:04 income my husband not working I got one
00:52:04 --> 00:52:07 income she got I got kids I got M to
00:52:07 --> 00:52:09 feed I gotta get this money you know so
00:52:09 --> 00:52:12 think that I'm now now his here gonna be
00:52:12 --> 00:52:15 here's the tough thing yeah what you
00:52:15 --> 00:52:18 ready for this come on give it you ready
00:52:18 --> 00:52:20 for
00:52:20 --> 00:52:22 this
00:52:22 --> 00:52:26 listen now when a person like myself and
00:52:26 --> 00:52:29 yes self right when you doing God's will
00:52:29 --> 00:52:33 God provides and God's not listen if
00:52:33 --> 00:52:35 youbody God's will that's what I'm
00:52:35 --> 00:52:38 saying so if if they not then then I'm
00:52:38 --> 00:52:40 speaking to the people who want to do
00:52:40 --> 00:52:43 God's will now if if you not doing and
00:52:43 --> 00:52:46 it's no knock and I I want to say this
00:52:46 --> 00:52:48 it's no knock to the ones who don't want
00:52:48 --> 00:52:50 to do God's will because it might not be
00:52:50 --> 00:52:52 the time for you so you have to work two
00:52:52 --> 00:52:54 jobs people wrestle with it some people
00:52:54 --> 00:52:56 wrestle with I don't about the cloes but
00:52:56 --> 00:52:59 some people wrestle with um faith I mean
00:52:59 --> 00:53:01 we move from Faith to Faith and and
00:53:01 --> 00:53:03 everyone needs to build up their faith
00:53:03 --> 00:53:04 we all have a mustard seat of Faith
00:53:04 --> 00:53:05 right we have enough Faith to sit in
00:53:05 --> 00:53:07 that chair and pray that and know that
00:53:07 --> 00:53:09 the chair is not gonna break but we may
00:53:09 --> 00:53:11 not have enough Faith to say listen I'm
00:53:11 --> 00:53:16 G to go back to school at 47 or 48 and
00:53:16 --> 00:53:18 I'm gon work this job but I'm GNA go
00:53:18 --> 00:53:21 back to school and rack up student loans
00:53:21 --> 00:53:23 at that so I'm gonna get more money on
00:53:23 --> 00:53:25 top of that I already owe and God for
00:53:25 --> 00:53:26 you got kids in college you got their
00:53:26 --> 00:53:28 student loans too and this light bu bill
00:53:29 --> 00:53:30 is coming in and that mortgage got to be
00:53:30 --> 00:53:32 paid cuz you know we in a time and you
00:53:32 --> 00:53:34 can't afford to be behind because we
00:53:34 --> 00:53:35 only one paycheck away even a half a
00:53:35 --> 00:53:39 paycheck away from being hungry so um
00:53:39 --> 00:53:41 everyone's Faith isn't there so I and I
00:53:41 --> 00:53:43 and I'm with you listen I'm gon go C I'm
00:53:43 --> 00:53:45 gonna go down on I'm gonna go pray and
00:53:45 --> 00:53:47 God's Gonna I mean the blessing of the
00:53:47 --> 00:53:49 Lord gonna chase me down but everyone's
00:53:49 --> 00:53:53 Faith isn't there and we live in a world
00:53:53 --> 00:53:57 right now where people can't eat
00:53:57 --> 00:53:59 you know like go to church every single
00:53:59 --> 00:54:01 Sunday go every Sunday pay their tie and
00:54:01 --> 00:54:03 give their offering and still every week
00:54:03 --> 00:54:05 wake up in a panic wonder if their car
00:54:05 --> 00:54:08 is sitting outside but hold on hold on I
00:54:08 --> 00:54:10 got a problem with that see I got a
00:54:10 --> 00:54:12 problem with it too but it's real but
00:54:12 --> 00:54:14 but people see and I'mma tell you
00:54:14 --> 00:54:17 something people that pay ties and they
00:54:17 --> 00:54:18 go through that there's something that
00:54:19 --> 00:54:21 they missing they missing something
00:54:21 --> 00:54:24 because not you can God said he'll pull
00:54:24 --> 00:54:25 out a
00:54:25 --> 00:54:28 blessing M that you that overflow that
00:54:28 --> 00:54:33 you can't even receive it so paying ties
00:54:33 --> 00:54:37 is not just to to benefit your Finance
00:54:37 --> 00:54:40 it's other things that people Miss in
00:54:40 --> 00:54:43 paying ties that they're missing so
00:54:43 --> 00:54:45 they're looking for a financial blessing
00:54:45 --> 00:54:47 no it's something else that they missing
00:54:47 --> 00:54:50 that's a sacrifice that they doing but
00:54:50 --> 00:54:53 teaching on it there's a teaching that's
00:54:53 --> 00:54:57 being missed for the understanding of
00:54:57 --> 00:55:00 pay ties I all of pay ties there's
00:55:00 --> 00:55:04 there's a a and also
00:55:04 --> 00:55:09 fear will bring upon destruction and if
00:55:09 --> 00:55:12 we are already living in fear and we're
00:55:12 --> 00:55:14 already living lacking Faith that's why
00:55:14 --> 00:55:17 the Bible says father listen I help my
00:55:17 --> 00:55:20 unbelief help my unbelief because job
00:55:20 --> 00:55:22 told us that thing that he feared the
00:55:22 --> 00:55:25 most Came Upon him so if I'm fearing
00:55:25 --> 00:55:26 being let put out I'm fearing feing
00:55:26 --> 00:55:28 being hungry I'm fearing not having a
00:55:28 --> 00:55:30 roof over my head the thing that the
00:55:30 --> 00:55:32 Bible said the thing Joel feared the
00:55:32 --> 00:55:34 most Came Upon him so when you begin to
00:55:34 --> 00:55:37 fear something it begins to draw you all
00:55:37 --> 00:55:40 you do is call it to you yeah call it to
00:55:40 --> 00:55:42 you so we have to be so careful because
00:55:42 --> 00:55:45 everyone doesn't have the knowledge or
00:55:45 --> 00:55:47 the teaching to understand how to be
00:55:47 --> 00:55:50 successful when they utilize these tools
00:55:50 --> 00:55:52 and they utilize these laws that are
00:55:53 --> 00:55:54 given to us for us to be
00:55:55 --> 00:55:56 successful abely
00:55:56 --> 00:55:58 absolutely might need second job but I
00:55:58 --> 00:56:00 just said that because I want my
00:56:00 --> 00:56:01 watching saying you know what I'mma quit
00:56:01 --> 00:56:03 my job I shouldn't be working my second
00:56:03 --> 00:56:05 you better work that job until the Lord
00:56:05 --> 00:56:08 bless you don't you not feed those kids
00:56:08 --> 00:56:11 now listen you got to go down into to
00:56:11 --> 00:56:14 MCD you better feed those kids go go get
00:56:14 --> 00:56:16 that job yeah got you gotta do what you
00:56:16 --> 00:56:19 gotta do until like until it's time to
00:56:19 --> 00:56:22 move so I appreciate you I I had I know
00:56:22 --> 00:56:23 we my podcast is a little shorter than
00:56:23 --> 00:56:26 yours it's like only hour but I I want
00:56:26 --> 00:56:28 you we G well I'm coming actually
00:56:28 --> 00:56:31 everyone I'm going to be uh coming on to
00:56:31 --> 00:56:33 uh Chef Dennis's podcast if he's if he
00:56:33 --> 00:56:34 gonna still have me after this podcast
00:56:34 --> 00:56:38 here but um we G let him I'm gonna make
00:56:38 --> 00:56:40 sure that he have all of his information
00:56:40 --> 00:56:43 in the comments and just before I close
00:56:43 --> 00:56:45 uh Chef Dennis I love to go live let me
00:56:45 --> 00:56:46 tell you why I stopped going live and I
00:56:47 --> 00:56:48 thought about going live with you today
00:56:48 --> 00:56:50 I said I can go live with him no problem
00:56:50 --> 00:56:52 because Black
00:56:52 --> 00:56:54 Folk you know I'm gonna tell you why
00:56:54 --> 00:56:57 because Black Folk so I would schedule
00:56:57 --> 00:56:59 podcast and because I'm now part of a
00:56:59 --> 00:57:01 network I will schedule podcast and
00:57:01 --> 00:57:03 people will call like a half an hour
00:57:03 --> 00:57:05 before the show or 10 minutes oh I'm
00:57:05 --> 00:57:07 sorry I'm not home yet you think we can
00:57:07 --> 00:57:10 reschedule no we cannot we are going
00:57:10 --> 00:57:13 live in five like I booked you a week
00:57:13 --> 00:57:15 ago or two months ago or you knew about
00:57:15 --> 00:57:17 this I've sent you emails to follow up
00:57:17 --> 00:57:18 you already knew and they will leave me
00:57:18 --> 00:57:21 high and dry Chef den and I said no I
00:57:21 --> 00:57:23 said I'mma pre-record that way I have
00:57:23 --> 00:57:26 some podcast already ready and so I love
00:57:26 --> 00:57:28 to go live I think it's more authentic
00:57:28 --> 00:57:31 let people be able to comment in real
00:57:31 --> 00:57:32 time and we can answer questions and
00:57:32 --> 00:57:34 things like that so next time I have you
00:57:34 --> 00:57:35 on you gonna have to come on once a
00:57:35 --> 00:57:37 month we're gonna do just a live just
00:57:37 --> 00:57:40 you of course I'm you know listen I'm
00:57:40 --> 00:57:43 all for it you Lady T I want think I'm
00:57:43 --> 00:57:46 stealing you nah n look lady T see look
00:57:46 --> 00:57:50 I could do I me I yes I am the host she
00:57:50 --> 00:57:53 gives me only two days like we now we
00:57:53 --> 00:57:56 getting ready to go live in the studio
00:57:56 --> 00:57:59 I know said that so so we actually got a
00:57:59 --> 00:58:03 a calendar ready where I have to travel
00:58:03 --> 00:58:05 she has to travel and we're going in
00:58:05 --> 00:58:07 that state to to know to record not it's
00:58:07 --> 00:58:10 not even record it's going live
00:58:10 --> 00:58:13 okay once we once we listen once we you
00:58:13 --> 00:58:16 stop the recording stay on because I
00:58:16 --> 00:58:17 want to tell you some stuff because you
00:58:17 --> 00:58:18 need to you know you say when me show
00:58:18 --> 00:58:20 you some stuff absolutely okay
00:58:20 --> 00:58:23 absolutely so we G close out now and I
00:58:23 --> 00:58:25 always ask my guests just just to pray
00:58:25 --> 00:58:29 us out do you mind of course father God
00:58:29 --> 00:58:32 thank you for this re this Union thank
00:58:32 --> 00:58:34 you for how you allow us to connect Lord
00:58:34 --> 00:58:36 I ask you right now to cover us right
00:58:36 --> 00:58:38 now Lord if we have to do any traveling
00:58:38 --> 00:58:40 Lord I ask you for traveling mer mercy
00:58:40 --> 00:58:43 and Grace Lord I ask you right now to
00:58:43 --> 00:58:46 strengthen our hearts our minds and
00:58:46 --> 00:58:48 allow us to receive your word not our
00:58:48 --> 00:58:50 own understanding but your understanding
00:58:50 --> 00:58:52 right now Lord what you have for our
00:58:52 --> 00:58:54 lives so I ask you right now Lord to
00:58:54 --> 00:58:56 govern our thoughts order our steps
00:58:56 --> 00:58:58 right now Lord be continues to be our
00:58:58 --> 00:59:00 mouthpiece and Lord strengthen us so
00:59:00 --> 00:59:03 we'll bring forth the word that you see
00:59:03 --> 00:59:06 fit right now not us not our words your
00:59:06 --> 00:59:08 words right now Lord let your words
00:59:08 --> 00:59:11 minister to our minds and our hearts in
00:59:11 --> 00:59:15 Jesus name I pray amen amen amen amen
00:59:15 --> 00:59:17 thank you so much for coming on I
00:59:17 --> 00:59:19 enjoyed you it was a f conversation I
00:59:19 --> 00:59:21 got be myself with you everyone that's
00:59:21 --> 00:59:24 watching be encouraged go and watch Chef
00:59:24 --> 00:59:27 Dennis's podcast go And subscribe to his
00:59:27 --> 00:59:29 podcast I want you to go over not just
00:59:29 --> 00:59:30 watch it I want you to go and subscribe
00:59:30 --> 00:59:32 and watch about five of his podcast and
00:59:32 --> 00:59:35 leave a message okay we want it to go VI
00:59:35 --> 00:59:36 want to send it and move it through the
00:59:36 --> 00:59:37 algorithm the Lord's going to do what
00:59:37 --> 00:59:39 he's going to do but you know what
00:59:39 --> 00:59:41 Destiny helpers many hands makes light
00:59:41 --> 00:59:42 work so let's go ahead and be a blessing
00:59:42 --> 00:59:44 to one another and while you're there
00:59:44 --> 00:59:46 don't y'all forget to subscribe to mine
00:59:46 --> 00:59:49 amen yes so as I always say little
00:59:49 --> 00:59:50 prayer little power a lot of prayer a
00:59:50 --> 00:59:52 lot of power I will see you all on the
00:59:52 --> 00:59:55 next podcast of the birthing room I'm G
00:59:55 --> 00:59:56 put y'all in the order
00:59:56 --> 01:00:00 [Applause]