Episode 16 The birthing Room Chef Dennis 2
The Birthing RoomMarch 21, 2025

Episode 16 The birthing Room Chef Dennis 2

In this heart-stirring episode of The Birthing Room, Dr. Lorena Whitehead sits down with Dennis, a man whose life was transformed by the power of relationship with God.


🔥 In this episode, Dennis shares:


His personal journey of encountering God

The search for a true place of worship and spiritual connection

How he overcame doubt, isolation, and spiritual disconnection

The inspiration behind launching his own podcast to encourage others

If you’ve ever felt lost in your walk or unsure where you fit in the body of Christ, this conversation will bless you. Dennis speaks with authenticity, humility, and hope — reminding us all that God is always calling us home.


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00:00:02 --> 00:00:04 welcome welcome welcome back to the

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00:00:24 --> 00:00:27 way thank you for tuning in I am Lorina

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00:00:44 --> 00:00:47 and never miss an episode so I'm going

00:00:47 --> 00:00:48 to go ahead and put y'all in the order

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00:00:56 --> 00:00:59 it okay so welcome back welcome back I'm

00:00:59 --> 00:01:01 here today with Chef Dennis let me tell

00:01:01 --> 00:01:03 yall how I met him I'm G let him

00:01:03 --> 00:01:06 introduce himself so I have um and I

00:01:06 --> 00:01:07 didn't tell you this Chef Dennis or I

00:01:07 --> 00:01:09 might have told you this but I have this

00:01:09 --> 00:01:11 book y'all and I think I left it over

00:01:11 --> 00:01:13 there but for the beginning of the year

00:01:14 --> 00:01:16 for okay for this year Chef Dennis I

00:01:16 --> 00:01:21 made it um not my New Year's resolution

00:01:21 --> 00:01:23 but just my promise to myself that every

00:01:23 --> 00:01:25 morning I'mma wake up and write down 10

00:01:25 --> 00:01:28 things that I'm grateful for okay 10

00:01:28 --> 00:01:30 things before I pray before I read my

00:01:30 --> 00:01:33 word before I go in everyone knows that

00:01:33 --> 00:01:34 you know I have a prayer line we pray

00:01:34 --> 00:01:35 early in the morning but before

00:01:35 --> 00:01:37 everything I write down 10 things that

00:01:37 --> 00:01:39 I'm giving God thanks for whether I have

00:01:39 --> 00:01:42 them or not I'm already giving God

00:01:42 --> 00:01:45 thanks for and I said Lord I Thank you

00:01:45 --> 00:01:48 for Destiny helpers I thank you for

00:01:48 --> 00:01:51 divine Connections in this season right

00:01:51 --> 00:01:53 every day I've been writing that down

00:01:53 --> 00:01:55 and one day y'all I get this message on

00:01:55 --> 00:01:58 YouTube like hey love your podcast y'all

00:01:58 --> 00:01:59 know I love love love with somebody

00:01:59 --> 00:02:01 confirms me you're doing a good job it's

00:02:01 --> 00:02:03 so original I would love to come and to

00:02:03 --> 00:02:06 collab or you know with you guys and I

00:02:06 --> 00:02:08 was like look at God this is a destiny

00:02:08 --> 00:02:11 helper so I look over on Chef Dennis's

00:02:11 --> 00:02:12 podcast and it's popping y' gotta go

00:02:12 --> 00:02:15 watch it um he does have a co-host I let

00:02:15 --> 00:02:18 him tell us more about Lady T and um I

00:02:18 --> 00:02:20 was like yes like immediately yes yes

00:02:20 --> 00:02:22 yes come on the podcast listen I don't

00:02:22 --> 00:02:24 even know what your testimony is but

00:02:24 --> 00:02:26 with I'mma get mine that you was

00:02:26 --> 00:02:27 definitely someone I knew that was a

00:02:28 --> 00:02:30 Divine connection from the Lord sent to

00:02:30 --> 00:02:33 uh be in my life be a friend my partner

00:02:33 --> 00:02:34 whatever it's going to be in this in

00:02:34 --> 00:02:36 this hour so don't chase away your

00:02:36 --> 00:02:37 destiny helpers y'all so I want to

00:02:38 --> 00:02:39 introduce him on today let him talk a

00:02:39 --> 00:02:41 little bit about his podcast and then we

00:02:41 --> 00:02:43 gonna get right into it how you guys

00:02:43 --> 00:02:47 doing yes I am Chef Dennis uh my podcast

00:02:47 --> 00:02:50 is what's cooking that is on YouTube at

00:02:50 --> 00:02:53 Chef Dennis d32 you guys can check me

00:02:53 --> 00:02:56 out on Tuesdays and Wednesdays 6:30 p.m.

00:02:56 --> 00:02:58 sharp because I do start on time you

00:02:58 --> 00:03:00 know how they say it's black people be

00:03:00 --> 00:03:03 late no this Chef right here I am

00:03:03 --> 00:03:06 punctual no I am punctual I on time so

00:03:06 --> 00:03:08 my guest they will if they come late

00:03:08 --> 00:03:11 they come late but I'm on time but uh

00:03:11 --> 00:03:13 it's good uh it's a good content but

00:03:13 --> 00:03:15 it's um the thing I focus about is

00:03:15 --> 00:03:17 encouraging en liting people to change

00:03:17 --> 00:03:19 your perspective you know sometimes you

00:03:19 --> 00:03:22 know our parents you know they do the

00:03:22 --> 00:03:24 best that they can but at the end of the

00:03:24 --> 00:03:26 day when you start to grow and you start

00:03:26 --> 00:03:28 to you know acknowledge there was some

00:03:28 --> 00:03:31 flaws in their teaching you learn to

00:03:31 --> 00:03:33 change it up so you could be the best

00:03:33 --> 00:03:35 version of yourself so that's what my

00:03:35 --> 00:03:37 podcast is truly about it's real life

00:03:37 --> 00:03:40 topics things that I can relate to uh

00:03:40 --> 00:03:42 and some things I educate myself on so

00:03:42 --> 00:03:44 I'll be able to talk to people on

00:03:44 --> 00:03:46 different levels um you know I've never

00:03:46 --> 00:03:48 done drugs anything like that but still

00:03:48 --> 00:03:50 justtin being that I can't you know uh

00:03:50 --> 00:03:53 communicate with a person who's trying

00:03:53 --> 00:03:55 to recover because I do have had

00:03:55 --> 00:03:58 relationships with people who did have

00:03:58 --> 00:04:01 an addiction that requires love that

00:04:01 --> 00:04:03 requires uh attention and so that's what

00:04:04 --> 00:04:05 I can talk about that's what I can

00:04:05 --> 00:04:08 encourage people to do uh so you know

00:04:08 --> 00:04:10 that's um a little bit about my podcast

00:04:10 --> 00:04:13 also I do have a um a co-host Lady T yes

00:04:13 --> 00:04:16 um it's interesting um sometimes you

00:04:16 --> 00:04:20 don't do family and business um but Lady

00:04:20 --> 00:04:23 T is my cousin oh you guys are related

00:04:23 --> 00:04:27 yes um okay so how we connected was one

00:04:27 --> 00:04:29 time we was down there I was hanging out

00:04:29 --> 00:04:31 with some family members and she was out

00:04:31 --> 00:04:33 with us we had an interesting

00:04:33 --> 00:04:35 conversation and I was like you know

00:04:35 --> 00:04:37 what in the back of my mind I was like

00:04:37 --> 00:04:40 oh she could be a good co-host because

00:04:40 --> 00:04:41 she brings something different not only

00:04:41 --> 00:04:44 because she's a woman but her mindset is

00:04:44 --> 00:04:46 totally different so I said you know

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00:04:49 --> 00:04:52 call and ask her ask her don't tell her

00:04:52 --> 00:04:55 but I but I like I I try to I try to

00:04:55 --> 00:04:57 like convince her but then I was like

00:04:57 --> 00:04:58 genuine I was like you know what God

00:04:58 --> 00:05:00 just told me to do it I'm just going to

00:05:00 --> 00:05:02 be obedient and I called I like yo would

00:05:02 --> 00:05:04 you like to be a cause she's like yeah

00:05:04 --> 00:05:07 just look just said yeah just like that

00:05:07 --> 00:05:10 because she's more into the spiritual

00:05:10 --> 00:05:12 when things happen it's God's allowing

00:05:12 --> 00:05:14 it to happen so he just joined right in

00:05:15 --> 00:05:17 it and up the people love her uh

00:05:17 --> 00:05:19 sometimes they be saying start your own

00:05:19 --> 00:05:22 show start your own show I told her I

00:05:22 --> 00:05:25 said listen whatever come up no no no no

00:05:25 --> 00:05:27 we no but she you know we can still we

00:05:28 --> 00:05:29 gonna still do our show but that's what

00:05:30 --> 00:05:32 people want her because the spin-off or

00:05:32 --> 00:05:34 her own Lady T the t- show you know what

00:05:34 --> 00:05:36 I'm saying and I I'm okay with that

00:05:36 --> 00:05:37 because we we have a close relationship

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00:05:40 --> 00:05:41 that's the great thing about it you know

00:05:41 --> 00:05:44 we respect each other because sometimes

00:05:44 --> 00:05:46 we don't see eye to eye even on the show

00:05:46 --> 00:05:48 but that the great thing it is that like

00:05:49 --> 00:05:52 I said it's spirit-led so we know that

00:05:52 --> 00:05:55 the deceiver is the author of confusion

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00:05:56 --> 00:05:58 the enemy to our soul the enemy to you

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00:06:01 --> 00:06:04 if even if we don't understand and we

00:06:05 --> 00:06:07 don't you know receive what we saying

00:06:07 --> 00:06:09 it's different we still one another and

00:06:09 --> 00:06:12 we stand on the word of God we stand on

00:06:12 --> 00:06:14 you know that the enemy that to our soul

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00:06:17 --> 00:06:19 so we not even letting that happen so

00:06:19 --> 00:06:21 that's a little bit about the podcast

00:06:21 --> 00:06:23 now I'm gonna say a little bit you know

00:06:23 --> 00:06:26 about myself I am a chef um I do have my

00:06:26 --> 00:06:29 own business three course catering um I

00:06:29 --> 00:06:31 this year has started out great I did a

00:06:31 --> 00:06:34 family of six or family of five I did a

00:06:34 --> 00:06:36 birthday celebration so it started out

00:06:36 --> 00:06:40 great um it was a great success um I do

00:06:40 --> 00:06:42 have some social media platforms it's

00:06:42 --> 00:06:44 Chef Dennis on Facebook you can follow

00:06:44 --> 00:06:47 me there you can see a part of my life

00:06:47 --> 00:06:49 um as well as Instagram you can check me

00:06:49 --> 00:06:52 at Chef Dennis 3235 that's my personal

00:06:52 --> 00:06:55 life and then you got three course

00:06:55 --> 00:06:58 catering 3235 that's my Instagram as

00:06:58 --> 00:07:01 well that's the business app aspect of

00:07:01 --> 00:07:02 you know my life but I always like to

00:07:02 --> 00:07:06 show you know the genuine me so I give I

00:07:06 --> 00:07:09 give people both sides the business as

00:07:09 --> 00:07:11 and and and a personal life you know

00:07:11 --> 00:07:13 because I want you to know what you're

00:07:13 --> 00:07:16 getting into who you talking to and who

00:07:16 --> 00:07:18 is behind the mask because you know on

00:07:18 --> 00:07:20 my social media it's it's a place of

00:07:20 --> 00:07:23 food a play of it's not me but when you

00:07:23 --> 00:07:25 go into those platforms you'll actually

00:07:25 --> 00:07:28 see me and you know my character my

00:07:28 --> 00:07:30 personality and how I genuinely love

00:07:30 --> 00:07:32 people and how I connect with people and

00:07:32 --> 00:07:34 so that's a little bit about my story

00:07:34 --> 00:07:36 you know um yes so your catering

00:07:36 --> 00:07:38 business so is it private catering or

00:07:38 --> 00:07:40 you like do businesses and you said you

00:07:40 --> 00:07:41 did a family of six and then you did a

00:07:42 --> 00:07:44 birthday party so is it like uh private

00:07:44 --> 00:07:47 private personally yes um I actually did

00:07:47 --> 00:07:49 a wedding last year in the in the middle

00:07:49 --> 00:07:50 like I want to say November I did a

00:07:50 --> 00:07:52 wedding as well for 50

00:07:52 --> 00:07:56 people yeah 50 people because I'm I'm

00:07:56 --> 00:07:57 the only one that does the cooking

00:07:57 --> 00:08:00 sometimes my wife you know she helped

00:08:00 --> 00:08:03 but mostly um I do the cooking okay um

00:08:03 --> 00:08:04 so you know that that because I love

00:08:04 --> 00:08:07 what I do so 100 people is it's easy

00:08:07 --> 00:08:09 it's not hard simple because I do a lot

00:08:09 --> 00:08:12 of preparation so I prep up so it'll be

00:08:12 --> 00:08:14 simple and easy for me so it's not a

00:08:14 --> 00:08:16 great deal so you going to do a cooking

00:08:16 --> 00:08:17 show cuz we need to learn I need some

00:08:17 --> 00:08:19 recipes like I'm a vegetarian but I do

00:08:19 --> 00:08:21 cook meat for my family so you going to

00:08:21 --> 00:08:22 do a cooking show so that we can get

00:08:22 --> 00:08:24 some little tips and tricks I'mma keep

00:08:25 --> 00:08:27 it I'mma keep it real that's a work in

00:08:27 --> 00:08:29 progress for me cuz I'm I'm working to

00:08:29 --> 00:08:33 get a food truck so that's it's just so

00:08:33 --> 00:08:34 I would have to get I'm working somebody

00:08:34 --> 00:08:36 told me somebody encouraged me so like

00:08:36 --> 00:08:39 get a a video guy they can follow you

00:08:39 --> 00:08:41 and do your little thing I you know if

00:08:41 --> 00:08:43 the podcast turned out great because my

00:08:43 --> 00:08:46 focal point is is spreading the message

00:08:46 --> 00:08:49 but also my passion is food so I like I

00:08:49 --> 00:08:51 like to get in there and grind up I'm

00:08:51 --> 00:08:54 very clean I'm very you know I that's

00:08:54 --> 00:08:56 that's my thing like I'm that's why I

00:08:56 --> 00:08:58 don't mind working by myself because

00:08:58 --> 00:09:01 clean this is everything to me seriously

00:09:01 --> 00:09:02 when you're dealing with food like

00:09:02 --> 00:09:04 people I be telling them figure my

00:09:04 --> 00:09:06 occupation look at my fingers like my

00:09:07 --> 00:09:09 hands like they stay I don't do no dirty

00:09:09 --> 00:09:10 work I'm sorry call me what you want to

00:09:10 --> 00:09:11 call me I

00:09:11 --> 00:09:15 don't I don't because I I deal with food

00:09:15 --> 00:09:18 on consistent base every day so you know

00:09:18 --> 00:09:20 I don't want my nails dirty because

00:09:20 --> 00:09:21 sometimes I'm G be honest sometimes I

00:09:21 --> 00:09:23 dig my hand in the food I have to have

00:09:23 --> 00:09:26 Clean Hands just like a doctor you a

00:09:26 --> 00:09:27 doctor or a nurse you want them to have

00:09:27 --> 00:09:30 clean hands because bacteria grows under

00:09:30 --> 00:09:33 your nails so that's important so I my

00:09:33 --> 00:09:35 my hands is my money makers and my legs

00:09:35 --> 00:09:37 so I'm going have to give you one of my

00:09:37 --> 00:09:39 old YouTube pages I used to cook and

00:09:39 --> 00:09:43 like well okay all right so not cook but

00:09:43 --> 00:09:44 I I'm a vegetarian so I would make

00:09:45 --> 00:09:47 little vegetarian dishes everybody

00:09:47 --> 00:09:48 wanted to always ask me like how you

00:09:48 --> 00:09:50 make this what do you make and I'm like

00:09:50 --> 00:09:52 you know what I'm GNA do a little little

00:09:52 --> 00:09:54 uh quick it was five what was it five

00:09:54 --> 00:09:56 minutes with Lina or something it was

00:09:56 --> 00:09:57 something really weird I was just

00:09:57 --> 00:10:00 getting started just having some fun

00:10:00 --> 00:10:01 and I'll make these little videos of

00:10:01 --> 00:10:03 these little dishes that I would make

00:10:03 --> 00:10:04 I'm telling you it was hot though you

00:10:04 --> 00:10:06 should really try it like even when

00:10:06 --> 00:10:07 you're home cooking like little meals

00:10:07 --> 00:10:09 like little things you think is not a

00:10:09 --> 00:10:12 big deal or we want to see it okay I'm G

00:10:12 --> 00:10:14 work on it and I say I I receive that I

00:10:14 --> 00:10:16 work on it I

00:10:16 --> 00:10:18 work between your podcast make some

00:10:18 --> 00:10:20 little reals of you cooking we want to

00:10:20 --> 00:10:22 see the chef cook the chef just talking

00:10:22 --> 00:10:25 we want to see the chef in the kitchen

00:10:25 --> 00:10:28 apron on the Shelf say it again we apron

00:10:29 --> 00:10:30 on the Shelf yeah look that's why that's

00:10:30 --> 00:10:33 why I um I throw out my um Instagram

00:10:33 --> 00:10:34 because that's where you see my work at

00:10:35 --> 00:10:36 that's where you see me get down you

00:10:36 --> 00:10:39 know my Instagram is I think for me I

00:10:39 --> 00:10:43 think Instagram is a better platform for

00:10:43 --> 00:10:45 things like that because you could

00:10:45 --> 00:10:48 actually do a real right there live time

00:10:48 --> 00:10:50 so I'm cooking I can fix it up Spruce it

00:10:50 --> 00:10:52 up and then I put it on a real I think

00:10:52 --> 00:10:53 because because that's why I do a lot of

00:10:53 --> 00:10:56 my work on Instagram I do a lot of live

00:10:56 --> 00:10:59 on Instagram how you feel about Tik Tok

00:10:59 --> 00:11:01 uh you know what to me it's like it's

00:11:01 --> 00:11:05 about money so I mean I got Tik Tock but

00:11:05 --> 00:11:08 Tik Tok really don't bring a lot of my

00:11:08 --> 00:11:10 uh viewers so I do a lot of I do a lot

00:11:10 --> 00:11:13 of promotion through Tik Tok um but uh

00:11:13 --> 00:11:16 other than that n because you gotta for

00:11:16 --> 00:11:18 Tik Tok I think you have to have a

00:11:18 --> 00:11:22 thousand uh view thousand uh friends to

00:11:22 --> 00:11:26 to go live on that I think a 100 no I

00:11:26 --> 00:11:28 got a 100 you got a 100 yeah I got more

00:11:28 --> 00:11:31 than I got a more than 100 you sure

00:11:31 --> 00:11:32 I'mma check I think it's 100 I think you

00:11:32 --> 00:11:35 can go live at 100 well I told I was

00:11:35 --> 00:11:36 told I got let me tell you what I got

00:11:36 --> 00:11:38 right in why wait why we I'm still

00:11:38 --> 00:11:41 listening to you go ahead okay so what I

00:11:41 --> 00:11:43 was gonna ask you my next question was

00:11:43 --> 00:11:45 is that our podcast is are really

00:11:45 --> 00:11:47 similar so mine is all about testimonies

00:11:47 --> 00:11:49 people coming and giving their testimony

00:11:49 --> 00:11:51 on their life things they've overcome in

00:11:51 --> 00:11:54 life you know um and like like you said

00:11:54 --> 00:11:55 sometimes there things I haven't been

00:11:55 --> 00:11:58 through you know but I allow them to

00:11:58 --> 00:11:59 have a space where they can come share

00:11:59 --> 00:12:02 their testimony to share with uh with

00:12:02 --> 00:12:05 the world to help somebody else so I got

00:12:06 --> 00:12:07 I I the reason the Lord has given me

00:12:07 --> 00:12:09 this vision is

00:12:09 --> 00:12:11 because if I can show you really quickly

00:12:11 --> 00:12:13 if I have it I wrote a book A couple of

00:12:13 --> 00:12:16 years ago called the birthing room so my

00:12:16 --> 00:12:18 podcast is just really a spin-off from

00:12:18 --> 00:12:20 the book right it's like 10 10

00:12:20 --> 00:12:21 strategies to birth of your new season

00:12:21 --> 00:12:23 so when I got the p and this was all

00:12:23 --> 00:12:25 about my life me birthing into a new

00:12:25 --> 00:12:27 season the Lord had took me from one

00:12:28 --> 00:12:30 state to the other and just really

00:12:30 --> 00:12:32 changed my whole life so I'm like you

00:12:32 --> 00:12:34 know what I know I'm not the only one

00:12:34 --> 00:12:37 that God has transformed you know took

00:12:37 --> 00:12:39 me out of the valley experience and

00:12:39 --> 00:12:41 brought me to this place and I'm want to

00:12:41 --> 00:12:43 say Mountaintop but you know out of the

00:12:43 --> 00:12:45 valley right walking from glory to glory

00:12:45 --> 00:12:49 to Victory to Victory um Faith to Faith

00:12:49 --> 00:12:52 so I know why this was such a passion

00:12:52 --> 00:12:54 for me and when I watch your podcast it

00:12:54 --> 00:12:56 was kind of similar I'm like okay it

00:12:56 --> 00:12:58 kind of have the same feel same Vibe

00:12:58 --> 00:13:00 especially could you allow people to

00:13:00 --> 00:13:01 come on and really talk about themselves

00:13:01 --> 00:13:02 and share their stories and their

00:13:02 --> 00:13:04 testimonies so what was it that drove

00:13:04 --> 00:13:08 you to have a podcast and also to have

00:13:08 --> 00:13:13 that type of podcast well I'm okay so um

00:13:13 --> 00:13:15 you know podcast is big now it's it's

00:13:15 --> 00:13:19 growing and you know I'm in the season

00:13:19 --> 00:13:20 right now to try to find the right

00:13:20 --> 00:13:23 Church home so I'm very I'm very excited

00:13:23 --> 00:13:27 about serving God doing his doing his W

00:13:27 --> 00:13:29 the will for my life and so you know I

00:13:29 --> 00:13:31 like talking to people I have a lot of

00:13:31 --> 00:13:33 energy when it comes to me I can go any

00:13:33 --> 00:13:35 atmosphere I'm I'm gonna talk I'm gonna

00:13:35 --> 00:13:38 communicate with and then but you know

00:13:38 --> 00:13:40 having the spirit of discernment I know

00:13:40 --> 00:13:42 who to connect with who not to because

00:13:42 --> 00:13:44 guess what I can see the spirit of that

00:13:44 --> 00:13:46 person and and some people might think

00:13:46 --> 00:13:48 that's crazy but it's really not U so

00:13:49 --> 00:13:50 you know I connect with people that I'm

00:13:50 --> 00:13:52 supposed to connect with and then there

00:13:52 --> 00:13:54 are people that you're not supposed to

00:13:54 --> 00:13:56 connect with but you're just supposed to

00:13:56 --> 00:13:59 drop the seed seow the seed and move on

00:13:59 --> 00:14:01 because some some people are not ready

00:14:01 --> 00:14:03 to receive the word of God so the plat

00:14:03 --> 00:14:06 this platform allows me to speak my

00:14:06 --> 00:14:08 truth but not only speak my truth but

00:14:08 --> 00:14:10 connect with people talk with them and

00:14:10 --> 00:14:13 give them a perspective don't listen we

00:14:13 --> 00:14:16 sometimes we get stuck in our ways and

00:14:16 --> 00:14:19 not not ready to receive a new

00:14:19 --> 00:14:23 learning no not to to be in your old

00:14:23 --> 00:14:25 ways elevate your mind and elevate your

00:14:25 --> 00:14:28 mind not to go above God but just allow

00:14:28 --> 00:14:31 God to to be your mouthpiece direct your

00:14:31 --> 00:14:34 path be your compass and and so so this

00:14:34 --> 00:14:36 this is the opportunity that I'm able to

00:14:36 --> 00:14:38 do that and then also you know getting

00:14:38 --> 00:14:41 on the stage it's different because I do

00:14:41 --> 00:14:42 it live because guess what there is

00:14:42 --> 00:14:45 nothing hitting I don't there is nothing

00:14:45 --> 00:14:47 going to be a hiccup for me it's just

00:14:47 --> 00:14:49 going to be genuine I that's who I am

00:14:49 --> 00:14:51 I'm a genuine person I'm just going

00:14:52 --> 00:14:53 connect I'm just going to love on and so

00:14:53 --> 00:14:56 it gives me a space to love on people

00:14:56 --> 00:14:58 especially the ones who really they know

00:14:58 --> 00:15:01 me and and then again once like me and

00:15:01 --> 00:15:03 you just me and you for an example you

00:15:03 --> 00:15:05 know you I wanted you to get to see me

00:15:05 --> 00:15:07 so when you get to see me you know this

00:15:07 --> 00:15:10 guy is real genuine he not not all this

00:15:10 --> 00:15:12 about this foolishness because I'm not

00:15:12 --> 00:15:14 you know I just want people to

00:15:14 --> 00:15:16 understand that living for God is

00:15:16 --> 00:15:19 difficult but also it's it's a great

00:15:19 --> 00:15:22 reward by just living for him you know

00:15:22 --> 00:15:23 what I'm saying why do you think is

00:15:23 --> 00:15:28 difficult be be the Sin Sin we we are

00:15:28 --> 00:15:31 going to tempted we're going to fall

00:15:31 --> 00:15:34 we're made to fall because of the flesh

00:15:34 --> 00:15:37 so it's difficult because there you have

00:15:37 --> 00:15:39 desires you have wants and and those

00:15:39 --> 00:15:41 wants and those desires can cause you to

00:15:41 --> 00:15:44 fall no when you get upset God that's

00:15:44 --> 00:15:47 why God gave us the word we going to get

00:15:47 --> 00:15:50 upset we're going to react our emotions

00:15:51 --> 00:15:52 sometimes get the best of you and now

00:15:52 --> 00:15:54 you that's why we have to repent that's

00:15:54 --> 00:15:56 why we have to go that's why he say

00:15:56 --> 00:16:00 repent daily because are things that you

00:16:00 --> 00:16:02 do that sometimes you have no control

00:16:02 --> 00:16:05 over it's the Flesh and we fight with

00:16:05 --> 00:16:07 the flesh the principalities of the

00:16:07 --> 00:16:10 spirit and the flesh we fight so it's

00:16:10 --> 00:16:12 that's what makes it difficult and some

00:16:12 --> 00:16:13 people say it's not difficult if you

00:16:13 --> 00:16:15 saying it's difficult you that means

00:16:15 --> 00:16:17 you're not struggling with sin and we

00:16:17 --> 00:16:20 all gonna struggle with sin we all GNA

00:16:20 --> 00:16:22 because there are times where God says

00:16:22 --> 00:16:25 okay I'm allow this to happen to to test

00:16:25 --> 00:16:27 your faith he doesn't test this but he

00:16:27 --> 00:16:29 allows things to happen

00:16:29 --> 00:16:32 so we can be tested so we can be tested

00:16:33 --> 00:16:34 in our faith because guess what if

00:16:34 --> 00:16:36 everything was good then you don't need

00:16:36 --> 00:16:39 God that's right so so that's what makes

00:16:39 --> 00:16:42 it difficult because if it's easy then

00:16:42 --> 00:16:45 we don't need God and how can it how can

00:16:45 --> 00:16:47 it be easy when we need God we have to

00:16:47 --> 00:16:49 depend on Jesus Christ because that's

00:16:49 --> 00:16:52 what he died for so when we fall short

00:16:52 --> 00:16:55 we're able to go to him and see him and

00:16:55 --> 00:16:58 say Lord forgive me I know I was wrong

00:16:58 --> 00:16:59 but please Lord forgive me and that's

00:16:59 --> 00:17:02 the difference of saying it's easy

00:17:02 --> 00:17:04 versus it's when it's hard it's hard

00:17:04 --> 00:17:06 it's difficult because that's and that's

00:17:06 --> 00:17:07 good that's good chef and you said

00:17:07 --> 00:17:09 something you said something I'm going

00:17:09 --> 00:17:11 go back to it CU I know a lot of people

00:17:11 --> 00:17:13 are also in the same place that you are

00:17:13 --> 00:17:15 at you said you're looking for a church

00:17:15 --> 00:17:19 home now did you have one and you say

00:17:19 --> 00:17:20 you know what it's time the Lord say

00:17:20 --> 00:17:21 it's time for you to move and find a new

00:17:21 --> 00:17:23 church home or you just looking for a

00:17:23 --> 00:17:25 church home where you can work are

00:17:25 --> 00:17:27 you're comfortable with the word of God

00:17:27 --> 00:17:29 what uh what has you search ing in this

00:17:29 --> 00:17:32 hour no uh well my wife she's a minister

00:17:33 --> 00:17:36 so okay hey girl being that she's a

00:17:36 --> 00:17:38 minister that church her church and I

00:17:38 --> 00:17:41 say this with loving a loving heart her

00:17:41 --> 00:17:44 church is not for me and her I okay I

00:17:44 --> 00:17:46 say this to her with all love and I can

00:17:46 --> 00:17:49 say this publicly openly and and God

00:17:49 --> 00:17:51 know my heart it's because it's a New

00:17:51 --> 00:17:54 Journey for me and her my had a home

00:17:54 --> 00:17:56 church but that's not and and God put

00:17:56 --> 00:17:59 that in my heart it's not it's I know

00:17:59 --> 00:18:02 already the enemy will try to pull us

00:18:02 --> 00:18:05 apart have us going we don't argue we

00:18:05 --> 00:18:08 don't fight but I know this to be true

00:18:08 --> 00:18:11 that it's a journey for me and her so

00:18:11 --> 00:18:13 when we get when we got together she was

00:18:13 --> 00:18:14 on her own Journey she was in her

00:18:14 --> 00:18:18 singleness she was a minister at her

00:18:18 --> 00:18:21 church I was a member at a church okay

00:18:21 --> 00:18:23 so she was already in ministry as a

00:18:23 --> 00:18:26 leader right oh it's good it's GNA be

00:18:26 --> 00:18:27 good this is right here see the Lord

00:18:27 --> 00:18:28 know how to pull out what we need go

00:18:28 --> 00:18:30 ahead right so so so what happened is is

00:18:31 --> 00:18:34 that but but that church for me her

00:18:34 --> 00:18:37 church is real stagnant there are things

00:18:37 --> 00:18:39 that I want for me and her so because we

00:18:39 --> 00:18:41 live in a different time now we live in

00:18:41 --> 00:18:43 a different world and one thing is a

00:18:43 --> 00:18:46 Men's Ministry okay they do not have one

00:18:46 --> 00:18:49 two a women's ministry they do have one

00:18:49 --> 00:18:52 but it's all so now they have a women's

00:18:52 --> 00:18:54 women's ministry but they don't have a

00:18:54 --> 00:18:56 men so where do that leaves me it starts

00:18:56 --> 00:18:59 a men's a Men's Ministry to start the

00:18:59 --> 00:19:00 Men's Ministry they don't they don't

00:19:00 --> 00:19:03 have that many men okay so you started

00:19:03 --> 00:19:05 and you let me tell you something even

00:19:05 --> 00:19:07 with this short period of time talking

00:19:07 --> 00:19:11 to you you are a powerful man of God you

00:19:11 --> 00:19:13 carry such a weight I heard you say that

00:19:13 --> 00:19:14 your wife is in Ministry but you also

00:19:14 --> 00:19:16 have a powerful call upon your life I'm

00:19:16 --> 00:19:18 sure you know that you didn't need me to

00:19:18 --> 00:19:20 tell you that because God already showed

00:19:20 --> 00:19:22 you and you draw people in they're draw

00:19:22 --> 00:19:24 they're drawn into your light they're

00:19:24 --> 00:19:27 drawn into you are a teacher you are a

00:19:28 --> 00:19:30 listener and you are someone who can

00:19:30 --> 00:19:34 love on other men and men have a hard

00:19:34 --> 00:19:35 time because they haven't really

00:19:35 --> 00:19:37 experienced love from other men when

00:19:37 --> 00:19:41 they find another man a a man a real man

00:19:41 --> 00:19:44 to embrace them as their brother they

00:19:44 --> 00:19:46 stay but if they had a church with a

00:19:46 --> 00:19:48 bunch of women there's no men to embrace

00:19:48 --> 00:19:50 them right right so you usually see the

00:19:50 --> 00:19:53 men stay home the women all have W

00:19:53 --> 00:19:54 husbands and all the women are at church

00:19:54 --> 00:19:56 but all the husbands are at home but if

00:19:56 --> 00:19:58 they know a real man is there to embrace

00:19:58 --> 00:19:59 them and there's a man that calls the

00:20:00 --> 00:20:01 football listen we got football on

00:20:01 --> 00:20:02 Sunday why don't y'all all come out to

00:20:02 --> 00:20:04 the church we going to all get together

00:20:04 --> 00:20:06 have a fellowship oh they coming cuz now

00:20:06 --> 00:20:08 there's a man there that's going to

00:20:08 --> 00:20:10 embrace us and we can do some man stuff

00:20:10 --> 00:20:12 so don't count yourself out don't count

00:20:12 --> 00:20:14 yourself short and I'm GNA tell you why

00:20:14 --> 00:20:15 this was interesting to me because when

00:20:16 --> 00:20:17 I got married to my husband I was

00:20:17 --> 00:20:19 already in Ministry I I'm I am a

00:20:19 --> 00:20:21 propheus I'm I'm a a minister I'm a

00:20:21 --> 00:20:23 preacher I'm a teacher and I was already

00:20:23 --> 00:20:25 traveling and you know preaching and

00:20:25 --> 00:20:27 teaching and my husband is not a

00:20:27 --> 00:20:29 minister

00:20:29 --> 00:20:30 uh like just like you he has a great

00:20:30 --> 00:20:32 calling on his life you know but he goes

00:20:32 --> 00:20:34 to he has a church that he was very

00:20:34 --> 00:20:38 comfortable with um that he enjoys and

00:20:38 --> 00:20:40 um and I was at another church also you

00:20:41 --> 00:20:43 know where um like you said there might

00:20:43 --> 00:20:44 have been some things that was lacking

00:20:44 --> 00:20:46 but what I needed was the teaching part

00:20:47 --> 00:20:49 it was the pouring into sure there were

00:20:49 --> 00:20:51 some things that in my natural I would

00:20:51 --> 00:20:52 have rather I would have liked to have

00:20:52 --> 00:20:55 seen But spiritually I was grounded

00:20:55 --> 00:20:56 there because the Lord had a work for me

00:20:56 --> 00:21:00 to do there right um so I was I'm

00:21:00 --> 00:21:01 interested to hear the rest of the

00:21:01 --> 00:21:05 Dynamics and and how how you all shifted

00:21:05 --> 00:21:07 and how that transition is because when

00:21:07 --> 00:21:09 I left my church that was devastating

00:21:09 --> 00:21:12 for me uh you know because I'm like well

00:21:12 --> 00:21:14 I gotta be to church on Sunday because

00:21:14 --> 00:21:16 when you are when you have a call upon

00:21:16 --> 00:21:18 your life it's not are we going to go

00:21:18 --> 00:21:21 it's when and where we don't have a

00:21:21 --> 00:21:25 option we don't have a choice we have to

00:21:25 --> 00:21:28 be in the presence of the Lord and

00:21:28 --> 00:21:32 fellow ship for us is really a must is

00:21:32 --> 00:21:34 where we draw our energy is where we

00:21:34 --> 00:21:36 receive our connection you know just

00:21:36 --> 00:21:38 like with someone

00:21:38 --> 00:21:40 who enjoyed doing other things they was

00:21:40 --> 00:21:42 to watch football or you know Sports you

00:21:42 --> 00:21:43 know they want to come together at the

00:21:43 --> 00:21:45 sports bar you know it's the same thing

00:21:45 --> 00:21:47 for us we need to be together and

00:21:47 --> 00:21:51 assemble ourselves when we are called to

00:21:51 --> 00:21:52 Ministry so how are y'all dealing with

00:21:52 --> 00:21:56 that oh no we look she like right now

00:21:56 --> 00:21:58 I'm um I'm attending this church it's

00:21:58 --> 00:22:01 very different for me uh the church is

00:22:01 --> 00:22:05 they have church in a movie theater okay

00:22:06 --> 00:22:10 and it is different but they they ran

00:22:10 --> 00:22:13 out the space um it's kind of like a big

00:22:13 --> 00:22:16 church of V1 you ever heard of them I've

00:22:16 --> 00:22:17 seen those I've seen um churches going

00:22:17 --> 00:22:19 to movie theaters I mean that means

00:22:19 --> 00:22:21 that's a really big church that's a lot

00:22:21 --> 00:22:23 of no no no it's the people that's there

00:22:23 --> 00:22:27 no because they um they have churches

00:22:27 --> 00:22:29 all over like Long Island Brooklyn they

00:22:29 --> 00:22:32 just opened one in Manhattan okay they

00:22:32 --> 00:22:34 got Jersey a planner it's a planner

00:22:34 --> 00:22:37 right right so uh they just did one in

00:22:37 --> 00:22:41 Florida um so this one I go to is in

00:22:41 --> 00:22:45 Jersey and um so it's it's different um

00:22:45 --> 00:22:46 but you

00:22:46 --> 00:22:49 know I said you know what let me let me

00:22:49 --> 00:22:51 stay still let me see if this one I like

00:22:51 --> 00:22:54 the connection of the people I like the

00:22:54 --> 00:22:56 atmosphere now I'm Gonna Keep it hunting

00:22:56 --> 00:22:59 with you like I like I I told you I'm

00:22:59 --> 00:23:01 very transparent I love it come on look

00:23:01 --> 00:23:03 the only thing about it and I can't and

00:23:03 --> 00:23:05 so I said all right God I'm I'm gonna

00:23:05 --> 00:23:09 sit still only thing I Pastor no only

00:23:09 --> 00:23:13 thing I don't like about it is the music

00:23:13 --> 00:23:16 you like the music N I can't because

00:23:16 --> 00:23:20 because I I'm because that's where you

00:23:20 --> 00:23:22 know my devotion right there my my

00:23:22 --> 00:23:25 praise my

00:23:25 --> 00:23:28 wor so I'm I'm that that's what I'm

00:23:28 --> 00:23:30 trying with but I'm saying God you know

00:23:30 --> 00:23:32 you know I'm trying so I so right now

00:23:32 --> 00:23:35 I've been going on a c basis so I'm just

00:23:35 --> 00:23:37 the word is good you know what I'm

00:23:37 --> 00:23:39 saying the people got you

00:23:39 --> 00:23:41 know so far it's good you know it's not

00:23:41 --> 00:23:43 about the people but like I said put

00:23:44 --> 00:23:45 like

00:23:45 --> 00:23:48 this if you go to a bad restaurant you

00:23:48 --> 00:23:50 gonna go you gonna go back you gonna

00:23:50 --> 00:23:52 keep going back because it's not the

00:23:52 --> 00:23:53 food is not great all you say you know

00:23:53 --> 00:23:55 what I give him another try you go you

00:23:55 --> 00:23:57 go again the food's not great you gonna

00:23:57 --> 00:23:59 keep going

00:23:59 --> 00:24:01 so that's two different

00:24:01 --> 00:24:04 things no because I'm G tell you why I'm

00:24:04 --> 00:24:06 tell you why two different things it's

00:24:06 --> 00:24:07 two different things because I'm being

00:24:07 --> 00:24:10 fed by the person that's given the given

00:24:10 --> 00:24:12 the meal the person that's prepared the

00:24:12 --> 00:24:15 meal the pastor and the minister the

00:24:15 --> 00:24:16 teacher the preacher that's who's

00:24:17 --> 00:24:19 feeding me right so if they're giving me

00:24:19 --> 00:24:21 a bad meal I'm not gonna keep going back

00:24:21 --> 00:24:24 that's what I'm saying I you I said I I

00:24:24 --> 00:24:26 thought you said the

00:24:26 --> 00:24:28 people no I said

00:24:28 --> 00:24:31 I said if you go to the a restaurant and

00:24:32 --> 00:24:34 they serving you and the first time you

00:24:34 --> 00:24:36 go the food not good you like H I'm not

00:24:36 --> 00:24:38 going you say you know what let me try I

00:24:38 --> 00:24:40 let me try something else right I'm

00:24:40 --> 00:24:42 talking about going to the same

00:24:42 --> 00:24:45 restaurant I'm using it as an analogy

00:24:45 --> 00:24:47 and then now you go back and you like oh

00:24:47 --> 00:24:49 no I'm not I'm not coming no more

00:24:49 --> 00:24:51 basically that's what I'm saying so you

00:24:51 --> 00:24:54 look the word comes forth is good right

00:24:54 --> 00:24:57 but now guess what it's like okay that's

00:24:57 --> 00:25:00 it like what what else it's more than

00:25:00 --> 00:25:02 just the word because guess what when

00:25:02 --> 00:25:05 you sit at a table you gotta your your

00:25:05 --> 00:25:08 table has to be set you got to have

00:25:08 --> 00:25:11 plates you got have a glass right so

00:25:11 --> 00:25:13 what set you up for receiving the word

00:25:13 --> 00:25:15 before you get to the word something has

00:25:15 --> 00:25:17 to get you ready for the word prepare

00:25:17 --> 00:25:18 you for the word so if you don't have

00:25:19 --> 00:25:21 that they don't just jump in the word

00:25:21 --> 00:25:22 you know what I'm saying your your

00:25:23 --> 00:25:25 worship and your praise to get get you

00:25:25 --> 00:25:27 in in the mood to receive the Holy

00:25:27 --> 00:25:29 Spirit but if you don't have that now

00:25:29 --> 00:25:31 what happens when the word comes you

00:25:31 --> 00:25:33 it's like oh the word's good but then

00:25:33 --> 00:25:35 now you just left out with something

00:25:35 --> 00:25:37 something is missing you don't think so

00:25:37 --> 00:25:39 you don't you don't think that I'm G

00:25:39 --> 00:25:41 tell you why go ahead I'm a little

00:25:41 --> 00:25:42 different I'm a little different and I'm

00:25:42 --> 00:25:45 gonna tell you why I don't think so

00:25:45 --> 00:25:47 because I'm look I'm trying to see this

00:25:47 --> 00:25:50 in two perspectives right if I was a new

00:25:50 --> 00:25:53 Christian absolutely you know I want the

00:25:53 --> 00:25:55 whole experience I want the music I want

00:25:55 --> 00:25:57 the the singing because we need to be

00:25:57 --> 00:26:01 pumped up and um and religious folk and

00:26:01 --> 00:26:04 church folk need to be pumped up they

00:26:04 --> 00:26:07 need to be uh uh cheerlead it you know

00:26:07 --> 00:26:09 they need a cheerleader you know where's

00:26:09 --> 00:26:11 the hype man hype us up hype us up and

00:26:11 --> 00:26:13 get us ready we need that music to play

00:26:13 --> 00:26:14 just right so we can jump around and

00:26:14 --> 00:26:16 shout all of our filth all around

00:26:16 --> 00:26:19 because we Le in the same way we came in

00:26:19 --> 00:26:20 um

00:26:20 --> 00:26:25 but people who are uh

00:26:25 --> 00:26:29 disciples disciples they come in already

00:26:29 --> 00:26:30 in worship we've been in worship and

00:26:31 --> 00:26:32 praise all all all week long we brought

00:26:32 --> 00:26:35 our praise and worship with us you know

00:26:35 --> 00:26:37 we already came with fire I didn't come

00:26:37 --> 00:26:40 here to get fire I already came on fire

00:26:40 --> 00:26:42 so I brought my praise with me so if

00:26:42 --> 00:26:44 nobody play any music My Feet going tap

00:26:44 --> 00:26:47 because God been good if don't nobody

00:26:47 --> 00:26:49 make a sound my hand GNA wave because

00:26:49 --> 00:26:51 God been good I don't need a hype man

00:26:51 --> 00:26:53 because I all I am the party I am the

00:26:53 --> 00:26:56 hype man I came I'm a I'm a movement all

00:26:57 --> 00:27:00 by myself so I don't need all the extra

00:27:00 --> 00:27:03 stuff but I used to when I went to the

00:27:03 --> 00:27:04 club on Saturday and came to C Church

00:27:04 --> 00:27:07 drunk on Sunday I did I needed a little

00:27:07 --> 00:27:08 music I needed to get you know in the

00:27:08 --> 00:27:10 groove and now I a hear the word no way

00:27:10 --> 00:27:11 the word was just you know they was

00:27:11 --> 00:27:13 screaming and they was hyping the more

00:27:13 --> 00:27:15 you hooped and holl the better I felt oh

00:27:15 --> 00:27:16 they preached a good word couldn't tell

00:27:16 --> 00:27:19 you what Serv was about couldn't tell

00:27:19 --> 00:27:22 you what service was about couldn't read

00:27:22 --> 00:27:23 it to you in the scripture couldn't find

00:27:23 --> 00:27:26 it in my notes but it was good cuz I

00:27:26 --> 00:27:30 left there feeling good it was a feel so

00:27:30 --> 00:27:32 if I'm looking for a f then yes I want

00:27:32 --> 00:27:33 to go somewhere where it's going to give

00:27:33 --> 00:27:35 me some good music some good dancing

00:27:35 --> 00:27:36 some good yelling and screaming but if

00:27:36 --> 00:27:39 I'm looking to be fed and I need

00:27:39 --> 00:27:40 something that's going to change and

00:27:40 --> 00:27:43 transform my life that's going to hit me

00:27:43 --> 00:27:46 in my belly and I can't leave the same I

00:27:46 --> 00:27:48 need the word of God because the word of

00:27:48 --> 00:27:52 God doesn't need any help no it doesn't

00:27:52 --> 00:27:54 need any help once the word goes out it

00:27:54 --> 00:27:57 never returns void it accomplishes what

00:27:57 --> 00:27:59 it was sent out to do that's why it's

00:27:59 --> 00:28:01 important for me to go to church and to

00:28:01 --> 00:28:05 get a good word so when we say that I go

00:28:05 --> 00:28:07 and I'm not getting a good meal then you

00:28:07 --> 00:28:10 just feeding me some milk and if I go to

00:28:10 --> 00:28:13 the table and I done put my napkin in

00:28:13 --> 00:28:15 here and I'm prepared this my this my

00:28:15 --> 00:28:17 Bonnet talk my Bonnet I done stuck my

00:28:17 --> 00:28:19 napkin in here and I'm prepared with my

00:28:19 --> 00:28:21 knife and my Fork because a knife I

00:28:21 --> 00:28:23 gotta cut meat right but if I come to

00:28:23 --> 00:28:26 get meat that means something had to

00:28:26 --> 00:28:29 die that means somebody had to go before

00:28:29 --> 00:28:32 God and they had to die cuz you can't be

00:28:32 --> 00:28:36 served meat if something didn't die I

00:28:36 --> 00:28:37 can't get a chicken legless the chicken

00:28:37 --> 00:28:40 died so you have to actually suffer for

00:28:40 --> 00:28:42 that word you got to go before the Lord

00:28:42 --> 00:28:45 he has to give you a RMA word so when

00:28:45 --> 00:28:48 you preach the word it convicts the

00:28:48 --> 00:28:50 Bible says the word Cuts deeper than a

00:28:50 --> 00:28:52 two-headed sword when it goes down and

00:28:52 --> 00:28:55 cuts to the marrow so everything that's

00:28:55 --> 00:28:57 in me I'm immediately convicted and it

00:28:57 --> 00:28:59 sends me to the

00:28:59 --> 00:29:02 altar now I need people as the altar

00:29:02 --> 00:29:04 ready to receive me I need a burning

00:29:04 --> 00:29:07 altar I need a church that praise I need

00:29:07 --> 00:29:09 a church that understands how to help me

00:29:09 --> 00:29:10 get free that's what's going to be

00:29:10 --> 00:29:13 important to me now because I eat meat

00:29:13 --> 00:29:16 but if I if I was a milk Drinker then G

00:29:16 --> 00:29:18 I need me a good I need we need a good

00:29:18 --> 00:29:19 band and we need them to be hitting them

00:29:19 --> 00:29:21 keys right that's why that's why I'm

00:29:21 --> 00:29:24 still in cuz you know it's for me it's

00:29:24 --> 00:29:25 like all right God where you want me to

00:29:25 --> 00:29:26 where you want me to go what you want me

00:29:26 --> 00:29:28 to do so here

00:29:28 --> 00:29:31 i' I've been there uh for like uh four

00:29:31 --> 00:29:33 or five weeks now about a month oh okay

00:29:33 --> 00:29:37 so you knew that just yeah started I'm

00:29:37 --> 00:29:39 I'm new there so uh I spoke to the

00:29:39 --> 00:29:41 pastor he said oh love he said yeah so

00:29:41 --> 00:29:44 you know I always get that but then once

00:29:44 --> 00:29:45 I get in there it's

00:29:45 --> 00:29:48 like oh okay where everybody at what's

00:29:48 --> 00:29:50 going on like you woring about everybody

00:29:50 --> 00:29:54 else no I'm talking what Ministry is

00:29:54 --> 00:29:56 your gift what's your gift in

00:29:56 --> 00:29:59 Ministry uh loving on people uh speaking

00:30:00 --> 00:30:02 the word of God encouraging them uh just

00:30:02 --> 00:30:04 letting them know that you know it's

00:30:04 --> 00:30:05 it's

00:30:05 --> 00:30:08 okay yeah God will you know bring you

00:30:08 --> 00:30:12 out of anything um I mean truly uh and

00:30:12 --> 00:30:14 then you know and just talking to people

00:30:14 --> 00:30:15 and letting them know because I've been

00:30:15 --> 00:30:18 through something I don't have no

00:30:18 --> 00:30:20 look tragedy didn't make me come to

00:30:20 --> 00:30:23 Christ a seed was sold in me my

00:30:23 --> 00:30:25 grandparents my grandparents my father

00:30:25 --> 00:30:28 my mom's you know sold the seed than me

00:30:28 --> 00:30:31 now I'm the oldest out of five sibling

00:30:31 --> 00:30:34 okay so and I'm the only one and that's

00:30:34 --> 00:30:35 not the brag that's not the brag but I'm

00:30:35 --> 00:30:37 saying I got five siblings and I'm the

00:30:37 --> 00:30:40 only one who has the Zeal to live for

00:30:40 --> 00:30:42 God and truly live for God I'm not

00:30:42 --> 00:30:45 perfect so you know I I sometimes I say

00:30:45 --> 00:30:48 things they may hurt some feelings but

00:30:48 --> 00:30:50 I'm but that's that's what God want me

00:30:50 --> 00:30:51 to do you know that's what I'm called to

00:30:51 --> 00:30:54 do to tell you the truth uh it may hurt

00:30:54 --> 00:30:56 your feelings and I I'm learning in this

00:30:56 --> 00:30:59 with the podcast I'm Le Lear how to talk

00:30:59 --> 00:31:01 to people on different levels so it

00:31:01 --> 00:31:04 won't be so rough around the edges so

00:31:04 --> 00:31:07 harsh so harsh right they always I was

00:31:07 --> 00:31:09 going to uh no nothing was wrong we just

00:31:09 --> 00:31:10 did something healthy I I want to

00:31:10 --> 00:31:13 encourage people this to just something

00:31:13 --> 00:31:15 healthy we me and my wife was going to

00:31:15 --> 00:31:17 uh marriage counseling oh we just

00:31:17 --> 00:31:19 started too yeah that's healthy that's

00:31:19 --> 00:31:21 it's nothing it wasn't nothing wrong

00:31:21 --> 00:31:23 wasn't we arguing know what saying I

00:31:23 --> 00:31:25 just want to tell people that is that

00:31:25 --> 00:31:27 it's nothing wrong with that um so we

00:31:27 --> 00:31:30 was going and uh the therapist that was

00:31:30 --> 00:31:32 like oh yeah you got to work on your

00:31:32 --> 00:31:35 delivery so that's always stuck in my

00:31:35 --> 00:31:38 mind my delivery so you know in the

00:31:38 --> 00:31:41 podcast is is that I get some people

00:31:41 --> 00:31:42 that don't agree with me and they like

00:31:42 --> 00:31:44 what are you talking about I get upset

00:31:44 --> 00:31:47 but now I'm learning how to navigate

00:31:47 --> 00:31:50 through that and try to deliver it on a

00:31:50 --> 00:31:52 loving way um so they can understand my

00:31:52 --> 00:31:53 perspective and not saying my

00:31:53 --> 00:31:55 perspective is the right way but just

00:31:55 --> 00:31:58 think about let that thought be your

00:31:58 --> 00:32:01 mind and change you know what I'm saying

00:32:01 --> 00:32:03 change how you think change change how

00:32:03 --> 00:32:06 you see things not for me for you you

00:32:06 --> 00:32:08 know what I'm saying for your heart so

00:32:08 --> 00:32:10 you can grow and be a better person a

00:32:10 --> 00:32:14 better version of yourself um so um I

00:32:14 --> 00:32:16 will say just to touch on what you said

00:32:16 --> 00:32:18 I will say that you do have a loving

00:32:18 --> 00:32:20 heart even when we our first

00:32:20 --> 00:32:22 conversation the way you just embraced

00:32:22 --> 00:32:25 me and you were discipling me that's the

00:32:25 --> 00:32:27 True Heart of a disciple True Heart of a

00:32:27 --> 00:32:28 pastor and you being Rough Around the

00:32:28 --> 00:32:30 Edges just said that you probably got

00:32:30 --> 00:32:32 some uh probably car the mental of the

00:32:32 --> 00:32:34 Prophet also because we just know how to

00:32:34 --> 00:32:35 give it cut it and listen I mean hurt

00:32:36 --> 00:32:37 your feelings but I had to give it away

00:32:37 --> 00:32:39 God said give it you know and a lot of

00:32:39 --> 00:32:41 people won understand that but no you

00:32:41 --> 00:32:43 were really nice and really um

00:32:43 --> 00:32:46 encouraging and confirming you know

00:32:46 --> 00:32:48 respectfully you know what I mean really

00:32:48 --> 00:32:49 respectfully you were like listen I

00:32:49 --> 00:32:52 watch your podcast it's really good and

00:32:52 --> 00:32:54 you know just really encouraging cuz

00:32:54 --> 00:32:55 that day which you probably didn't know

00:32:55 --> 00:32:57 I was really questioning like I don't

00:32:57 --> 00:32:59 know this looks good I need to really

00:32:59 --> 00:33:00 work on this opening I really need to

00:33:00 --> 00:33:01 work on this light this light ain't

00:33:01 --> 00:33:03 never right like I'm just like really

00:33:03 --> 00:33:05 was having a hard time and the show You'

00:33:05 --> 00:33:08 seen was my worst I was so upset the the

00:33:08 --> 00:33:12 light was blown out I looked gray I look

00:33:12 --> 00:33:14 it was just horrible like gu with the

00:33:14 --> 00:33:18 guy with the guy yes yes I I I was like

00:33:18 --> 00:33:20 maybe because what I was looking on I

00:33:20 --> 00:33:23 was like oh that's good oh man really

00:33:23 --> 00:33:25 yeah I was yeah I was listening to y'all

00:33:25 --> 00:33:26 it was like the worst for me I was like

00:33:26 --> 00:33:28 oh my goodness but said you know what I

00:33:28 --> 00:33:30 didn't want to not post it because he

00:33:30 --> 00:33:32 deserved it to be posted he showed up

00:33:32 --> 00:33:34 and I really wanted to give him his his

00:33:34 --> 00:33:37 hour you know cuz it was a good podcast

00:33:37 --> 00:33:39 um but I just didn't feel like I that

00:33:39 --> 00:33:41 that it looked okay but you were like

00:33:41 --> 00:33:44 listen it was so good I really it was

00:33:44 --> 00:33:46 authentic I watched some of it and it

00:33:46 --> 00:33:47 really really encouraged me so I want

00:33:47 --> 00:33:49 you to know that yes you are truly an

00:33:49 --> 00:33:52 encourager and we need that you know

00:33:52 --> 00:33:54 it's really rare that somebody

00:33:54 --> 00:33:55 especially people doing what you're

00:33:55 --> 00:33:57 already doing to call and confirm you

00:33:57 --> 00:33:59 and encourage you and want to help you

00:33:59 --> 00:34:00 and want to say listen let's come

00:34:00 --> 00:34:02 together let's collaborate cuz we need

00:34:02 --> 00:34:04 each other in this hour this is going to

00:34:04 --> 00:34:06 be the season the Lord told me this was

00:34:06 --> 00:34:09 a season of the Builder it's a in the

00:34:09 --> 00:34:13 Bible uh there is a man named Ephraim

00:34:13 --> 00:34:16 and Ephraim was one of the tribes of

00:34:16 --> 00:34:18 Judah and um I mean one of the tribes of

00:34:18 --> 00:34:20 Israel excuse me and he had a daughter

00:34:20 --> 00:34:24 and her name was Shar right and Sher way

00:34:24 --> 00:34:26 back way back when this is in 1

00:34:26 --> 00:34:28 Chronicles I think 7 24 it's a rule

00:34:28 --> 00:34:30 short sentence and say and Shar his

00:34:30 --> 00:34:32 daughter built three cities and she

00:34:32 --> 00:34:35 bought she built three cities during a

00:34:35 --> 00:34:37 time that women didn't have a voice and

00:34:37 --> 00:34:40 women did not build right so I I was

00:34:40 --> 00:34:42 reading a story and the Lord begin to

00:34:42 --> 00:34:44 show me what it takes to

00:34:44 --> 00:34:47 build and you can't build by yourself

00:34:47 --> 00:34:49 there was no way Shar could build by

00:34:49 --> 00:34:51 herself so she had to have Vision she

00:34:51 --> 00:34:53 had to have strategy and she had to have

00:34:54 --> 00:34:56 help right and she had to understand how

00:34:56 --> 00:34:58 to build this city so that it didn't

00:34:58 --> 00:35:00 just feed them then but it fed for

00:35:00 --> 00:35:02 generations to come and the Bible talks

00:35:02 --> 00:35:04 about how these cities that she built

00:35:04 --> 00:35:05 and the way she built them you had to

00:35:05 --> 00:35:08 walk through these cities and on the

00:35:08 --> 00:35:09 trail through the cities is where you

00:35:09 --> 00:35:11 had to go to the ocean to get the food

00:35:11 --> 00:35:13 and they would fight battles in these

00:35:13 --> 00:35:15 Trails because of the way they fought

00:35:15 --> 00:35:17 back then whoever owned the the uh the

00:35:17 --> 00:35:20 the valley were the ones that were were

00:35:20 --> 00:35:23 were the were the strongest if you can

00:35:23 --> 00:35:24 take the valley you were the strongest

00:35:24 --> 00:35:26 so the Bible goes on to say how later on

00:35:26 --> 00:35:29 Solomon came and he rebuilt one of her

00:35:29 --> 00:35:32 cities because it was so important for

00:35:32 --> 00:35:35 generations to have these cities so Sher

00:35:35 --> 00:35:39 a woman built three cities not just for

00:35:39 --> 00:35:42 her time but for generations to come we

00:35:42 --> 00:35:44 are in a place where we are building not

00:35:44 --> 00:35:46 just for us we having a good time right

00:35:46 --> 00:35:47 now but we don't know what's going to

00:35:47 --> 00:35:49 happen what it's going to turn into even

00:35:49 --> 00:35:51 as you're building your business and as

00:35:51 --> 00:35:52 you're building your podcast we don't

00:35:52 --> 00:35:54 know what's going to come from these

00:35:54 --> 00:35:55 things that the Lord has us building but

00:35:55 --> 00:35:58 we can't build by ourselves so when you

00:35:58 --> 00:36:00 meet people along the way as you're

00:36:00 --> 00:36:02 building these people become a part of

00:36:02 --> 00:36:05 the Legacy that helps you to build and

00:36:05 --> 00:36:06 we need Destiny helpers and Destiny

00:36:06 --> 00:36:08 Partners in this hour so for you to

00:36:08 --> 00:36:11 reach out and be like listen let's come

00:36:11 --> 00:36:14 together and collaborate I I knew then

00:36:14 --> 00:36:16 that this was part of God's plan because

00:36:16 --> 00:36:18 we're in a building season and then you

00:36:18 --> 00:36:20 was like listen I ain't been going doing

00:36:20 --> 00:36:21 it this long this how many followers I'm

00:36:21 --> 00:36:24 like what help me help me you know so

00:36:24 --> 00:36:25 and for you to say you know what I got

00:36:25 --> 00:36:28 you not that I'm going gate it for

00:36:28 --> 00:36:30 myself but you know what I'm going to

00:36:30 --> 00:36:31 give you what I learn and let's go

00:36:31 --> 00:36:34 together and that is the heart first of

00:36:34 --> 00:36:37 all of a pastor and the Heart of a

00:36:37 --> 00:36:40 disciple and it was just really

00:36:40 --> 00:36:43 uplifting for me um that first I knew

00:36:43 --> 00:36:44 the Lord had heard me when I was writing

00:36:44 --> 00:36:46 down my my my thankful and for you to

00:36:46 --> 00:36:49 come and just to see it recognize it and

00:36:49 --> 00:36:51 say let me reach out so I just wanted to

00:36:51 --> 00:36:54 reaffirm you that I appreciated you well

00:36:54 --> 00:36:57 well publicly I want to say this to you

00:36:57 --> 00:37:00 can do you no seriously do you have a

00:37:00 --> 00:37:02 pin and pad I I'm not g I'm gonna be

00:37:02 --> 00:37:06 obedient I told you yeah you got your

00:37:06 --> 00:37:09 phone phone I'm ready okay

00:37:09 --> 00:37:12 listen this is my sister remember I told

00:37:12 --> 00:37:15 you that um I you know we was out this

00:37:15 --> 00:37:17 weekend her and her husband no right now

00:37:17 --> 00:37:21 right it's called I I am free

00:37:21 --> 00:37:25 podcast okay now go to YouTube real

00:37:25 --> 00:37:26 quick and tell me if it pops up because

00:37:26 --> 00:37:29 I want you I she is a person that that

00:37:29 --> 00:37:33 you guys you for the women aspect is

00:37:33 --> 00:37:34 gonna grow to a whole another level

00:37:34 --> 00:37:35 because I you said something to me when

00:37:36 --> 00:37:38 he was on the phone the other day and

00:37:38 --> 00:37:42 yeah yeah yeah I am free yeah it's a

00:37:42 --> 00:37:44 young lady she got like I guess she got

00:37:44 --> 00:37:46 like uh let me see let me see what what

00:37:47 --> 00:37:48 she got in the

00:37:48 --> 00:37:54 face can you see it no I am free podcast

00:37:54 --> 00:37:56 let me see let me put in

00:37:56 --> 00:37:58 podcast podcast

00:37:58 --> 00:38:01 yes let me go I make sure I'm saying

00:38:01 --> 00:38:03 right I want you cuz you you say you say

00:38:03 --> 00:38:07 about connection podcast I got is it

00:38:07 --> 00:38:09 goes straight to your subconscious mind

00:38:09 --> 00:38:11 let me see I'm just calling people out

00:38:11 --> 00:38:13 y'all owe me I called all right so so

00:38:13 --> 00:38:15 look this what it you got to go to it's

00:38:15 --> 00:38:17 at I am free

00:38:17 --> 00:38:20 80 but the podcast is I am free so it's

00:38:20 --> 00:38:25 at I am free all one word

00:38:25 --> 00:38:27 80 the number eight

00:38:27 --> 00:38:35 80 80 oh 80 I saw it too I am free

00:38:35 --> 00:38:38 80 okay hold

00:38:38 --> 00:38:44 on see it ain't coming up from

00:38:44 --> 00:38:47 me okay I think I got

00:38:47 --> 00:38:50 it how the person look how the person

00:38:50 --> 00:38:52 look do she is she like light skinned

00:38:52 --> 00:38:55 got her ha straight straight ha straight

00:38:55 --> 00:38:58 red hair yes

00:38:58 --> 00:39:01 yeah I see

00:39:01 --> 00:39:05 her check a story out I'm I'm not look

00:39:05 --> 00:39:07 just go just go through check her story

00:39:07 --> 00:39:09 out I guarantee you and she's a woman of

00:39:09 --> 00:39:11 God woman of Faith truly she got the

00:39:11 --> 00:39:15 Zeal of God the the the she got the fire

00:39:15 --> 00:39:18 right now the fire and and that and we

00:39:18 --> 00:39:20 talk about me and you that's the

00:39:20 --> 00:39:22 connection God same thing with her well

00:39:22 --> 00:39:24 I see you on there yeah that's the same

00:39:24 --> 00:39:28 thing with her is that you know God want

00:39:28 --> 00:39:31 us to connect so we can share the word

00:39:31 --> 00:39:33 yeah share the word I told her already

00:39:33 --> 00:39:36 share the word but listen it it you a

00:39:36 --> 00:39:39 woman so you connect to the women and

00:39:39 --> 00:39:41 you want the women to go I am for the

00:39:41 --> 00:39:43 men for the men to grow I'm big on

00:39:43 --> 00:39:46 marriage I'm I'm big on that everything

00:39:46 --> 00:39:48 they always talk to me they always say

00:39:48 --> 00:39:49 you always talking about marriage I'm

00:39:49 --> 00:39:50 big on that because guess what how long

00:39:50 --> 00:39:53 you been married Che five years five

00:39:53 --> 00:39:55 years okay but now mind you mind you

00:39:56 --> 00:39:59 I've been married before 12 years oh wow

00:39:59 --> 00:40:02 okay okay but and and and in that

00:40:02 --> 00:40:04 Journey watch this in that journey I

00:40:04 --> 00:40:06 what I did to get my wife now I didn't

00:40:06 --> 00:40:09 do my first wife but I was young I was

00:40:09 --> 00:40:14 27 she was 20 so I still was know on

00:40:14 --> 00:40:18 fire for God but I wasn't taught how to

00:40:18 --> 00:40:21 be that husband I am today humble you

00:40:21 --> 00:40:23 know uh

00:40:23 --> 00:40:26 deserving you're older now too I'm older

00:40:26 --> 00:40:30 now I'm 47 treating her like you 47 yeah

00:40:30 --> 00:40:33 treating Tre treating her like a queen I

00:40:33 --> 00:40:34 didn't do that to my first wife so you

00:40:34 --> 00:40:37 know I take accountability I take my

00:40:37 --> 00:40:39 ownership of the things I didn't do I

00:40:39 --> 00:40:41 regret someone but what can I do it was

00:40:41 --> 00:40:44 a Learning lesson I never say it was a

00:40:44 --> 00:40:46 failure it was a Learning lesson some

00:40:46 --> 00:40:49 people say no because guess what if I

00:40:49 --> 00:40:51 didn't go through that I wouldn't be the

00:40:51 --> 00:40:53 person I am today so there are things I

00:40:53 --> 00:40:56 had to go through it yes divorce is

00:40:56 --> 00:40:58 tough I don't I don't wish that on

00:40:58 --> 00:41:00 nobody well I was so happy I first got

00:41:00 --> 00:41:03 my my first divorce no we had a party

00:41:03 --> 00:41:05 afterwards and everything I was so happy

00:41:05 --> 00:41:06 it was the best day of my life we walked

00:41:06 --> 00:41:08 in there together hand in hand we were

00:41:08 --> 00:41:10 so happy they said we a never had a

00:41:10 --> 00:41:11 couple come together to get divorced we

00:41:11 --> 00:41:12 were so happy I couldn't wait to get rid

00:41:12 --> 00:41:15 of him but but but I guarantee you this

00:41:15 --> 00:41:17 one thing now look at your person you

00:41:17 --> 00:41:19 become now oh my God the lessons you

00:41:19 --> 00:41:21 learn is that you know what God I I

00:41:21 --> 00:41:24 don't want to do that again and so let

00:41:24 --> 00:41:29 me let let me let you be my path to the

00:41:29 --> 00:41:31 man that I'm supposed guide me order my

00:41:31 --> 00:41:34 steps let me be with the man that I'm

00:41:34 --> 00:41:35 supposed to be with you know what I'm

00:41:35 --> 00:41:37 saying and my wife is the woman I'm

00:41:37 --> 00:41:38 supposed to be because guess what he

00:41:38 --> 00:41:42 know guess what God ultimately know what

00:41:42 --> 00:41:44 you need not what you want and people

00:41:44 --> 00:41:46 don't like that they don't like that

00:41:46 --> 00:41:48 it's it's not what you need not what you

00:41:48 --> 00:41:50 want it's what you need and see that's

00:41:50 --> 00:41:53 the hardest part about I think Humanity

00:41:53 --> 00:41:56 everybody want want want want want but

00:41:56 --> 00:41:57 not really what they need because

00:41:57 --> 00:41:59 sometimes the things that you need is

00:41:59 --> 00:42:01 not the things that you want and God

00:42:01 --> 00:42:03 that's how God operate and and just

00:42:03 --> 00:42:06 sometimes and there sometimes the it's

00:42:06 --> 00:42:07 what you want and it's something that

00:42:07 --> 00:42:09 you need that it lines up what God has

00:42:10 --> 00:42:12 for you sometimes not all the times

00:42:12 --> 00:42:14 because guess what there are things that

00:42:14 --> 00:42:17 our parents IND know impart in us and

00:42:17 --> 00:42:19 when they do that guess what now we have

00:42:19 --> 00:42:22 we learn how to do the things that they

00:42:22 --> 00:42:25 did and how they they raised us then we

00:42:26 --> 00:42:27 go raise our kids like that but then

00:42:27 --> 00:42:29 when you start elevating your mind now

00:42:29 --> 00:42:31 you say hold up Mom I love you dad I

00:42:31 --> 00:42:33 love you but I ain't raising my kids

00:42:33 --> 00:42:35 like that I want to raise them in a

00:42:35 --> 00:42:36 different light a different way

00:42:37 --> 00:42:38 different perspective you know have this

00:42:38 --> 00:42:42 communication I got five I call yeah I

00:42:42 --> 00:42:46 have now I don't say my stepchildren or

00:42:46 --> 00:42:50 my stepchildren I say so I got five kids

00:42:50 --> 00:42:54 my my two right I now I have a oldest

00:42:54 --> 00:42:55 one she's married she's

00:42:55 --> 00:42:58 28 she's married she live in California

00:42:58 --> 00:43:00 and my baby when my baby one she's about

00:43:00 --> 00:43:02 to turn 21 now that's my heart right

00:43:02 --> 00:43:04 there the the reason why yeah she my

00:43:04 --> 00:43:05 heart is

00:43:05 --> 00:43:09 because I I seen her from a baby to

00:43:09 --> 00:43:11 young lady um I lived in a house with

00:43:11 --> 00:43:14 her and and you know connect with her

00:43:14 --> 00:43:16 all the time right I was there so my

00:43:16 --> 00:43:18 oldest daughter I really didn't have

00:43:18 --> 00:43:20 that that uh experience but she's still

00:43:20 --> 00:43:22 my baby too but it's a difference when

00:43:22 --> 00:43:25 you live with a child uh and you got two

00:43:25 --> 00:43:27 parents in the home and you raise them

00:43:27 --> 00:43:29 you see everything I never missed

00:43:29 --> 00:43:30 anything because I was blessed to have a

00:43:30 --> 00:43:33 job a career that I have 5: in the

00:43:33 --> 00:43:37 morning noon I'm off so I get yeah I get

00:43:37 --> 00:43:38 a chance to see everything I was I never

00:43:38 --> 00:43:40 missed anything I will support

00:43:40 --> 00:43:42 everything all

00:43:42 --> 00:43:45 sports everything um and now my older

00:43:45 --> 00:43:47 kids now watch this let now I said I

00:43:47 --> 00:43:48 don't call them step because they my

00:43:48 --> 00:43:50 kids now let me let me my dad said this

00:43:50 --> 00:43:52 to me and it made a lot of sense I said

00:43:52 --> 00:43:55 dad my dad said you the right man for

00:43:56 --> 00:43:57 the job because

00:43:57 --> 00:44:00 usually when you get married with

00:44:00 --> 00:44:02 somebody and they have older children

00:44:02 --> 00:44:04 they always

00:44:04 --> 00:44:07 like he my father no it wasn't that the

00:44:07 --> 00:44:10 case I was able to talk with them

00:44:10 --> 00:44:12 connect with them on a level and let

00:44:12 --> 00:44:14 them know yes I'm the man of the house

00:44:14 --> 00:44:17 but yes we go respect it never been a it

00:44:17 --> 00:44:19 never been a problem it's always been I

00:44:19 --> 00:44:21 love you and I'm and I could the oldest

00:44:21 --> 00:44:24 son like you said I could hug him he a

00:44:24 --> 00:44:26 grown man with his own family I can hug

00:44:26 --> 00:44:28 cuz you know what I told him I'm genuine

00:44:28 --> 00:44:30 you could talk to me about anything kids

00:44:30 --> 00:44:33 know because they know yeah like like we

00:44:33 --> 00:44:35 have six you know all together me my

00:44:35 --> 00:44:36 husband and I don't use the word step

00:44:36 --> 00:44:38 either and we have some small ones here

00:44:38 --> 00:44:39 in the house I've been married three

00:44:39 --> 00:44:41 years I'm a little under three years

00:44:41 --> 00:44:45 actually but I have a my biological mind

00:44:45 --> 00:44:48 um is 20 he be 26 um I think he might be

00:44:49 --> 00:44:51 26 he be 26 in March March I'm like

00:44:51 --> 00:44:53 listen how old am I so he be 26th in

00:44:53 --> 00:44:56 March because we 20 years apart and you

00:44:56 --> 00:44:58 would if you see him and my my husband

00:44:58 --> 00:45:00 together you would not know and he has a

00:45:00 --> 00:45:03 he has a a very active father but my

00:45:03 --> 00:45:05 husband loves him as if he's his own

00:45:05 --> 00:45:08 child just like I love you know my my

00:45:08 --> 00:45:10 children here as they're my own children

00:45:10 --> 00:45:13 you wouldn't know who's who um but my

00:45:13 --> 00:45:16 son didn't have to you know embrace the

00:45:16 --> 00:45:17 way he did because he didn't live in the

00:45:17 --> 00:45:18 house he already has own got his own

00:45:18 --> 00:45:21 daughter and we got a grandbaby but my

00:45:21 --> 00:45:22 husband that's his granddaughter like

00:45:22 --> 00:45:23 you know you wouldn't know any

00:45:23 --> 00:45:25 difference and my H my son and my

00:45:25 --> 00:45:27 husband are very close

00:45:27 --> 00:45:28 so I understand what you're saying yes

00:45:28 --> 00:45:30 it Tak let let me just show you how how

00:45:30 --> 00:45:32 how how was a great connection as well

00:45:32 --> 00:45:35 too you know what they did so what they

00:45:35 --> 00:45:37 did was now I know a lot of people

00:45:37 --> 00:45:39 outside of just this I'm doing Now

00:45:39 --> 00:45:41 podcast I because I play basketball so I

00:45:41 --> 00:45:44 know a lot of people from basketball and

00:45:44 --> 00:45:46 so what they did was somebody that live

00:45:46 --> 00:45:48 in the hood they know me and they

00:45:48 --> 00:45:52 popular and so they went to the hood and

00:45:52 --> 00:45:55 they was like hold up you know Dennis

00:45:55 --> 00:45:57 that because they said they said yeah

00:45:57 --> 00:45:58 wow what's up can you tell me about him

00:45:58 --> 00:46:00 cuz he dating my mother I want make sure

00:46:00 --> 00:46:03 he not a thug right so I'm like

00:46:03 --> 00:46:05 so yeah they want to check woman they

00:46:05 --> 00:46:09 said I'm no I'm not yo I'm telling you

00:46:09 --> 00:46:10 the truth a little exaggeration they

00:46:10 --> 00:46:14 said nah he don't be hanging out he go

00:46:14 --> 00:46:18 to church nah a good guy he a good guy

00:46:18 --> 00:46:20 he a good dude so look now I didn't know

00:46:20 --> 00:46:24 they did this until after me and her got

00:46:24 --> 00:46:27 married so the guy they told is they and

00:46:27 --> 00:46:31 my sister okay like so he said yo now

00:46:31 --> 00:46:32 they my family called me real he said yo

00:46:32 --> 00:46:35 real why these two people I said who you

00:46:35 --> 00:46:37 talking about come come asking about you

00:46:37 --> 00:46:40 in the hood I'm like what so I was like

00:46:40 --> 00:46:43 that's my wife's um son and

00:46:43 --> 00:46:46 daughter word I was like yeah I said a

00:46:46 --> 00:46:47 mission together they were gonna check

00:46:47 --> 00:46:51 you out was mission they was like yo I

00:46:51 --> 00:46:53 got to make sure that this man is right

00:46:53 --> 00:46:55 for my mom and I and I told him I said

00:46:55 --> 00:46:57 look y'all go I told him though I said

00:46:57 --> 00:46:58 y'all check me out I know a lot of

00:46:58 --> 00:47:01 people it be You' be amazed and they

00:47:01 --> 00:47:03 went down there it's like nah go to

00:47:03 --> 00:47:05 church they that I said yeah that's who

00:47:05 --> 00:47:08 I am I'm I'm just genuine I'm like that

00:47:08 --> 00:47:10 that's you know that's my life right

00:47:10 --> 00:47:11 there you know I've been through some

00:47:11 --> 00:47:12 stuff now I'm Gonna Give You My

00:47:12 --> 00:47:13 Testimony I didn't give my testim like I

00:47:13 --> 00:47:16 said I didn't I don't have no tragedy or

00:47:16 --> 00:47:20 tragic for me to come to Christ okay but

00:47:20 --> 00:47:22 I do have testimony so I'mma tell you

00:47:22 --> 00:47:24 like I tell everybody now I got away so

00:47:24 --> 00:47:27 that's why I was intrigued by your your

00:47:27 --> 00:47:28 because you said testimony I gotta start

00:47:28 --> 00:47:31 sharing it like I used to like I used to

00:47:31 --> 00:47:34 go to uh um you know uh Revival and tell

00:47:34 --> 00:47:36 my testimony I haven't been in a while

00:47:36 --> 00:47:38 so

00:47:38 --> 00:47:42 um I was in a car accident and um I was

00:47:42 --> 00:47:44 taking my daughter and my first wife I

00:47:44 --> 00:47:46 was taking them dropping off for working

00:47:46 --> 00:47:50 school so I was working two jobs and um

00:47:50 --> 00:47:52 I dropped them off and when I dropped

00:47:52 --> 00:47:55 them off I fell as seep behind the

00:47:55 --> 00:47:59 wheel I ran into a dumpster see how my

00:47:59 --> 00:48:03 hand is like this mhm listen I woke up I

00:48:03 --> 00:48:07 couldn't breathe so I called on Jesus

00:48:07 --> 00:48:10 Jesus Jesus Jesus Jesus Jesus I want to

00:48:10 --> 00:48:13 see my thumb the last time I called on

00:48:13 --> 00:48:16 Jesus I was able to breathe there was

00:48:16 --> 00:48:19 people all around my car and they was

00:48:19 --> 00:48:22 asking me are you okay I've gathered

00:48:22 --> 00:48:24 myself then I was able to breathe after

00:48:24 --> 00:48:27 I moved my thumb off my chest everything

00:48:27 --> 00:48:30 was great now mind you I said my my car

00:48:30 --> 00:48:33 was mangled okay inside the dumpster

00:48:33 --> 00:48:35 they got me out the car I only had a

00:48:35 --> 00:48:37 gash in my knee cuz something under the

00:48:37 --> 00:48:39 hood had went to my knee gash in my knee

00:48:39 --> 00:48:43 I'm able to walk I'm able to talk able

00:48:43 --> 00:48:45 to do anything that I want and uh you

00:48:45 --> 00:48:48 know that's truly one of my testimonies

00:48:48 --> 00:48:49 but prior but prior to that I'm me show

00:48:49 --> 00:48:53 you how God works in the whole thing

00:48:53 --> 00:48:55 prior to that I had that was a brand new

00:48:55 --> 00:49:00 car and my dad I wasn't humble my dad

00:49:00 --> 00:49:02 had said I need to use your car I

00:49:02 --> 00:49:04 straight told him nah dad you can't use

00:49:04 --> 00:49:05 my

00:49:05 --> 00:49:08 car got into that accident first person

00:49:08 --> 00:49:11 I called but I my first person I called

00:49:11 --> 00:49:13 was my father he dropped what he was

00:49:13 --> 00:49:14 doing he

00:49:14 --> 00:49:17 came and it showed me in that in that

00:49:17 --> 00:49:19 time that in that season it showed me

00:49:19 --> 00:49:23 that I had to be more humble yeah um I

00:49:23 --> 00:49:26 love my dad you know what I'm saying and

00:49:26 --> 00:49:29 I had to be humble enough to say all

00:49:29 --> 00:49:31 right go ahead Dan and trust him enough

00:49:31 --> 00:49:34 to say I'm GNA let you use my car and um

00:49:34 --> 00:49:37 you know I Grew From That No No Malice

00:49:37 --> 00:49:39 no nothing but I grew from that and how

00:49:39 --> 00:49:42 I grew is I learned how to be humble I

00:49:42 --> 00:49:46 learned how to be uh like they say old

00:49:46 --> 00:49:49 school I learned how to be

00:49:49 --> 00:49:52 Manish you know what I'm saying and not

00:49:52 --> 00:49:56 well not be managed be humble um and

00:49:56 --> 00:49:57 devote

00:49:57 --> 00:49:59 my time where it needs to be devoted you

00:50:00 --> 00:50:02 know what I'm saying so I never worked a

00:50:02 --> 00:50:03 second job again after that that was it

00:50:03 --> 00:50:05 for me I was like you know what this

00:50:05 --> 00:50:07 ain't for me and God provided me with a

00:50:07 --> 00:50:11 a great pay job every time I never had

00:50:11 --> 00:50:13 to work two jobs um I don't plan on

00:50:13 --> 00:50:16 working two jobs ever again well I'm too

00:50:16 --> 00:50:19 old now so that ain't happening um

00:50:19 --> 00:50:20 you're not too

00:50:20 --> 00:50:24 old no to work two jobs to work two jobs

00:50:24 --> 00:50:27 at 47 n nobody you nobody 47 she have to

00:50:27 --> 00:50:30 work two jobs you if if you have to work

00:50:30 --> 00:50:33 two jobs you have to apply yourself to

00:50:33 --> 00:50:35 get something greater it's if it's not

00:50:35 --> 00:50:38 too late for that you can go to back to

00:50:38 --> 00:50:40 school you can get some type of Ed other

00:50:40 --> 00:50:42 education so you don't have to work too

00:50:42 --> 00:50:44 job you gotta apply yourself not working

00:50:44 --> 00:50:46 two jobs I don't recommend somebody at

00:50:46 --> 00:50:49 47 to try go to school work one job it's

00:50:49 --> 00:50:52 gonna be tough go to school get some

00:50:52 --> 00:50:54 some type of trade whatever it is that

00:50:54 --> 00:50:56 you working and and and so you can get

00:50:56 --> 00:50:58 that extra money because you know some

00:50:58 --> 00:51:01 jobs some some people don't look into

00:51:01 --> 00:51:04 look into the resources some jobs are

00:51:04 --> 00:51:07 for schooling working okay so you saying

00:51:07 --> 00:51:10 that but you got two incomes at home so

00:51:10 --> 00:51:12 if you lived alone would you yeah did

00:51:12 --> 00:51:15 your wife work yeah yeah you got two

00:51:15 --> 00:51:17 incomes at home so let's say I was

00:51:17 --> 00:51:22 single and I might need a second

00:51:22 --> 00:51:24 job it's going to be rough but you go to

00:51:24 --> 00:51:26 school and I went to school I went

00:51:26 --> 00:51:28 School keep in mind I got a doctorate

00:51:28 --> 00:51:31 degree huh

00:51:31 --> 00:51:34 yeah so what happens is is that even in

00:51:34 --> 00:51:37 the time and day that we live

00:51:37 --> 00:51:40 in everything is so expensive some

00:51:40 --> 00:51:43 people have to just work a second job

00:51:43 --> 00:51:46 like I mean I I know people I work with

00:51:46 --> 00:51:49 during the day I work in insurance and

00:51:49 --> 00:51:51 um you know if they can't get overtime

00:51:51 --> 00:51:54 at my job yeah one of the girls she just

00:51:54 --> 00:51:55 started working at like a grocery store

00:51:55 --> 00:51:57 and like you work at the grocery store

00:51:57 --> 00:52:00 like what like really like we make good

00:52:00 --> 00:52:02 money she was like listen I only got one

00:52:02 --> 00:52:04 income my husband not working I got one

00:52:04 --> 00:52:07 income she got I got kids I got M to

00:52:07 --> 00:52:09 feed I gotta get this money you know so

00:52:09 --> 00:52:12 think that I'm now now his here gonna be

00:52:12 --> 00:52:15 here's the tough thing yeah what you

00:52:15 --> 00:52:18 ready for this come on give it you ready

00:52:18 --> 00:52:20 for

00:52:20 --> 00:52:22 this

00:52:22 --> 00:52:26 listen now when a person like myself and

00:52:26 --> 00:52:29 yes self right when you doing God's will

00:52:29 --> 00:52:33 God provides and God's not listen if

00:52:33 --> 00:52:35 youbody God's will that's what I'm

00:52:35 --> 00:52:38 saying so if if they not then then I'm

00:52:38 --> 00:52:40 speaking to the people who want to do

00:52:40 --> 00:52:43 God's will now if if you not doing and

00:52:43 --> 00:52:46 it's no knock and I I want to say this

00:52:46 --> 00:52:48 it's no knock to the ones who don't want

00:52:48 --> 00:52:50 to do God's will because it might not be

00:52:50 --> 00:52:52 the time for you so you have to work two

00:52:52 --> 00:52:54 jobs people wrestle with it some people

00:52:54 --> 00:52:56 wrestle with I don't about the cloes but

00:52:56 --> 00:52:59 some people wrestle with um faith I mean

00:52:59 --> 00:53:01 we move from Faith to Faith and and

00:53:01 --> 00:53:03 everyone needs to build up their faith

00:53:03 --> 00:53:04 we all have a mustard seat of Faith

00:53:04 --> 00:53:05 right we have enough Faith to sit in

00:53:05 --> 00:53:07 that chair and pray that and know that

00:53:07 --> 00:53:09 the chair is not gonna break but we may

00:53:09 --> 00:53:11 not have enough Faith to say listen I'm

00:53:11 --> 00:53:16 G to go back to school at 47 or 48 and

00:53:16 --> 00:53:18 I'm gon work this job but I'm GNA go

00:53:18 --> 00:53:21 back to school and rack up student loans

00:53:21 --> 00:53:23 at that so I'm gonna get more money on

00:53:23 --> 00:53:25 top of that I already owe and God for

00:53:25 --> 00:53:26 you got kids in college you got their

00:53:26 --> 00:53:28 student loans too and this light bu bill

00:53:29 --> 00:53:30 is coming in and that mortgage got to be

00:53:30 --> 00:53:32 paid cuz you know we in a time and you

00:53:32 --> 00:53:34 can't afford to be behind because we

00:53:34 --> 00:53:35 only one paycheck away even a half a

00:53:35 --> 00:53:39 paycheck away from being hungry so um

00:53:39 --> 00:53:41 everyone's Faith isn't there so I and I

00:53:41 --> 00:53:43 and I'm with you listen I'm gon go C I'm

00:53:43 --> 00:53:45 gonna go down on I'm gonna go pray and

00:53:45 --> 00:53:47 God's Gonna I mean the blessing of the

00:53:47 --> 00:53:49 Lord gonna chase me down but everyone's

00:53:49 --> 00:53:53 Faith isn't there and we live in a world

00:53:53 --> 00:53:57 right now where people can't eat

00:53:57 --> 00:53:59 you know like go to church every single

00:53:59 --> 00:54:01 Sunday go every Sunday pay their tie and

00:54:01 --> 00:54:03 give their offering and still every week

00:54:03 --> 00:54:05 wake up in a panic wonder if their car

00:54:05 --> 00:54:08 is sitting outside but hold on hold on I

00:54:08 --> 00:54:10 got a problem with that see I got a

00:54:10 --> 00:54:12 problem with it too but it's real but

00:54:12 --> 00:54:14 but people see and I'mma tell you

00:54:14 --> 00:54:17 something people that pay ties and they

00:54:17 --> 00:54:18 go through that there's something that

00:54:19 --> 00:54:21 they missing they missing something

00:54:21 --> 00:54:24 because not you can God said he'll pull

00:54:24 --> 00:54:25 out a

00:54:25 --> 00:54:28 blessing M that you that overflow that

00:54:28 --> 00:54:33 you can't even receive it so paying ties

00:54:33 --> 00:54:37 is not just to to benefit your Finance

00:54:37 --> 00:54:40 it's other things that people Miss in

00:54:40 --> 00:54:43 paying ties that they're missing so

00:54:43 --> 00:54:45 they're looking for a financial blessing

00:54:45 --> 00:54:47 no it's something else that they missing

00:54:47 --> 00:54:50 that's a sacrifice that they doing but

00:54:50 --> 00:54:53 teaching on it there's a teaching that's

00:54:53 --> 00:54:57 being missed for the understanding of

00:54:57 --> 00:55:00 pay ties I all of pay ties there's

00:55:00 --> 00:55:04 there's a a and also

00:55:04 --> 00:55:09 fear will bring upon destruction and if

00:55:09 --> 00:55:12 we are already living in fear and we're

00:55:12 --> 00:55:14 already living lacking Faith that's why

00:55:14 --> 00:55:17 the Bible says father listen I help my

00:55:17 --> 00:55:20 unbelief help my unbelief because job

00:55:20 --> 00:55:22 told us that thing that he feared the

00:55:22 --> 00:55:25 most Came Upon him so if I'm fearing

00:55:25 --> 00:55:26 being let put out I'm fearing feing

00:55:26 --> 00:55:28 being hungry I'm fearing not having a

00:55:28 --> 00:55:30 roof over my head the thing that the

00:55:30 --> 00:55:32 Bible said the thing Joel feared the

00:55:32 --> 00:55:34 most Came Upon him so when you begin to

00:55:34 --> 00:55:37 fear something it begins to draw you all

00:55:37 --> 00:55:40 you do is call it to you yeah call it to

00:55:40 --> 00:55:42 you so we have to be so careful because

00:55:42 --> 00:55:45 everyone doesn't have the knowledge or

00:55:45 --> 00:55:47 the teaching to understand how to be

00:55:47 --> 00:55:50 successful when they utilize these tools

00:55:50 --> 00:55:52 and they utilize these laws that are

00:55:53 --> 00:55:54 given to us for us to be

00:55:55 --> 00:55:56 successful abely

00:55:56 --> 00:55:58 absolutely might need second job but I

00:55:58 --> 00:56:00 just said that because I want my

00:56:00 --> 00:56:01 watching saying you know what I'mma quit

00:56:01 --> 00:56:03 my job I shouldn't be working my second

00:56:03 --> 00:56:05 you better work that job until the Lord

00:56:05 --> 00:56:08 bless you don't you not feed those kids

00:56:08 --> 00:56:11 now listen you got to go down into to

00:56:11 --> 00:56:14 MCD you better feed those kids go go get

00:56:14 --> 00:56:16 that job yeah got you gotta do what you

00:56:16 --> 00:56:19 gotta do until like until it's time to

00:56:19 --> 00:56:22 move so I appreciate you I I had I know

00:56:22 --> 00:56:23 we my podcast is a little shorter than

00:56:23 --> 00:56:26 yours it's like only hour but I I want

00:56:26 --> 00:56:28 you we G well I'm coming actually

00:56:28 --> 00:56:31 everyone I'm going to be uh coming on to

00:56:31 --> 00:56:33 uh Chef Dennis's podcast if he's if he

00:56:33 --> 00:56:34 gonna still have me after this podcast

00:56:34 --> 00:56:38 here but um we G let him I'm gonna make

00:56:38 --> 00:56:40 sure that he have all of his information

00:56:40 --> 00:56:43 in the comments and just before I close

00:56:43 --> 00:56:45 uh Chef Dennis I love to go live let me

00:56:45 --> 00:56:46 tell you why I stopped going live and I

00:56:47 --> 00:56:48 thought about going live with you today

00:56:48 --> 00:56:50 I said I can go live with him no problem

00:56:50 --> 00:56:52 because Black

00:56:52 --> 00:56:54 Folk you know I'm gonna tell you why

00:56:54 --> 00:56:57 because Black Folk so I would schedule

00:56:57 --> 00:56:59 podcast and because I'm now part of a

00:56:59 --> 00:57:01 network I will schedule podcast and

00:57:01 --> 00:57:03 people will call like a half an hour

00:57:03 --> 00:57:05 before the show or 10 minutes oh I'm

00:57:05 --> 00:57:07 sorry I'm not home yet you think we can

00:57:07 --> 00:57:10 reschedule no we cannot we are going

00:57:10 --> 00:57:13 live in five like I booked you a week

00:57:13 --> 00:57:15 ago or two months ago or you knew about

00:57:15 --> 00:57:17 this I've sent you emails to follow up

00:57:17 --> 00:57:18 you already knew and they will leave me

00:57:18 --> 00:57:21 high and dry Chef den and I said no I

00:57:21 --> 00:57:23 said I'mma pre-record that way I have

00:57:23 --> 00:57:26 some podcast already ready and so I love

00:57:26 --> 00:57:28 to go live I think it's more authentic

00:57:28 --> 00:57:31 let people be able to comment in real

00:57:31 --> 00:57:32 time and we can answer questions and

00:57:32 --> 00:57:34 things like that so next time I have you

00:57:34 --> 00:57:35 on you gonna have to come on once a

00:57:35 --> 00:57:37 month we're gonna do just a live just

00:57:37 --> 00:57:40 you of course I'm you know listen I'm

00:57:40 --> 00:57:43 all for it you Lady T I want think I'm

00:57:43 --> 00:57:46 stealing you nah n look lady T see look

00:57:46 --> 00:57:50 I could do I me I yes I am the host she

00:57:50 --> 00:57:53 gives me only two days like we now we

00:57:53 --> 00:57:56 getting ready to go live in the studio

00:57:56 --> 00:57:59 I know said that so so we actually got a

00:57:59 --> 00:58:03 a calendar ready where I have to travel

00:58:03 --> 00:58:05 she has to travel and we're going in

00:58:05 --> 00:58:07 that state to to know to record not it's

00:58:07 --> 00:58:10 not even record it's going live

00:58:10 --> 00:58:13 okay once we once we listen once we you

00:58:13 --> 00:58:16 stop the recording stay on because I

00:58:16 --> 00:58:17 want to tell you some stuff because you

00:58:17 --> 00:58:18 need to you know you say when me show

00:58:18 --> 00:58:20 you some stuff absolutely okay

00:58:20 --> 00:58:23 absolutely so we G close out now and I

00:58:23 --> 00:58:25 always ask my guests just just to pray

00:58:25 --> 00:58:29 us out do you mind of course father God

00:58:29 --> 00:58:32 thank you for this re this Union thank

00:58:32 --> 00:58:34 you for how you allow us to connect Lord

00:58:34 --> 00:58:36 I ask you right now to cover us right

00:58:36 --> 00:58:38 now Lord if we have to do any traveling

00:58:38 --> 00:58:40 Lord I ask you for traveling mer mercy

00:58:40 --> 00:58:43 and Grace Lord I ask you right now to

00:58:43 --> 00:58:46 strengthen our hearts our minds and

00:58:46 --> 00:58:48 allow us to receive your word not our

00:58:48 --> 00:58:50 own understanding but your understanding

00:58:50 --> 00:58:52 right now Lord what you have for our

00:58:52 --> 00:58:54 lives so I ask you right now Lord to

00:58:54 --> 00:58:56 govern our thoughts order our steps

00:58:56 --> 00:58:58 right now Lord be continues to be our

00:58:58 --> 00:59:00 mouthpiece and Lord strengthen us so

00:59:00 --> 00:59:03 we'll bring forth the word that you see

00:59:03 --> 00:59:06 fit right now not us not our words your

00:59:06 --> 00:59:08 words right now Lord let your words

00:59:08 --> 00:59:11 minister to our minds and our hearts in

00:59:11 --> 00:59:15 Jesus name I pray amen amen amen amen

00:59:15 --> 00:59:17 thank you so much for coming on I

00:59:17 --> 00:59:19 enjoyed you it was a f conversation I

00:59:19 --> 00:59:21 got be myself with you everyone that's

00:59:21 --> 00:59:24 watching be encouraged go and watch Chef

00:59:24 --> 00:59:27 Dennis's podcast go And subscribe to his

00:59:27 --> 00:59:29 podcast I want you to go over not just

00:59:29 --> 00:59:30 watch it I want you to go and subscribe

00:59:30 --> 00:59:32 and watch about five of his podcast and

00:59:32 --> 00:59:35 leave a message okay we want it to go VI

00:59:35 --> 00:59:36 want to send it and move it through the

00:59:36 --> 00:59:37 algorithm the Lord's going to do what

00:59:37 --> 00:59:39 he's going to do but you know what

00:59:39 --> 00:59:41 Destiny helpers many hands makes light

00:59:41 --> 00:59:42 work so let's go ahead and be a blessing

00:59:42 --> 00:59:44 to one another and while you're there

00:59:44 --> 00:59:46 don't y'all forget to subscribe to mine

00:59:46 --> 00:59:49 amen yes so as I always say little

00:59:49 --> 00:59:50 prayer little power a lot of prayer a

00:59:50 --> 00:59:52 lot of power I will see you all on the

00:59:52 --> 00:59:55 next podcast of the birthing room I'm G

00:59:55 --> 00:59:56 put y'all in the order

00:59:56 --> 01:00:00 [Applause]