[00:00:00] Luka talk brand new episode starts right now. Welcome on. Welcome everybody to another edition of Luka talk. Welcome back to Luka talk. I'm your man Victor. I'm the host of the Luka talk podcast. Thank you for tuning in whether you tune in on YouTube. I'm a podcast Spotify. I heart radio. And of course Spotify. Get those drinks poured up. Ladies and gentlemen, because podcast was today she is an adult entertainer. Don't entrepreneur. She'll be here.
[00:00:29] She also has her own podcast. Ladies and gentlemen, give it up for Paisley Hayes. How you doing today Paisley? Hey, how are you? I'm doing great.
[00:00:39] Welcome to Luka talk. You're not the first adult entertainer to talk with come on Luka talk. So for those of you out there listening, you might want to hide your kids.
[00:00:50] Because this is some adult theme. So I'm just for one of y'all. Go ahead and hide the kids and stuff. You don't want them being traumatized or talking about their childhood. I mean, they don't learn about it anyway, but it is what it is. We got another adult work on.
[00:01:07] Guess what? Y'all people too love to talk to y'all. So tell the people about we'll start with the mattress account at the mattress Academy. The mattress actress Academy talking about the Academy. What made you want to start this Academy?
[00:01:19] Well, back in 2020, I knew I wanted a digital course and teaching people how to do PSO, which is phone sex operating and Cami. And so at the time, this wasn't right.
[00:01:35] And 2022, I started my Paisley Haze YouTube channel. And it just kind of took off from there. Girls were constantly asking, could I mentor them?
[00:01:48] But I teach them stuff, could they pay for some extra time? And that's when I started doing consultations to essentially teach women how to be PSO's and care models and structure themselves and being able to sell themselves as an e-girl.
[00:02:04] So did that. And then last year in 2023, I officially launched mattress actress Academy. And that's where they get to come with me for 10 weeks.
[00:02:16] And we meet twice a week and go over everything that gets a hold of them accountable. We set up our schedules, we set goals, and I make sure that they're on the right track to actually reach their goals because everyone's goals is different.
[00:02:31] So that's real. That's real. So why does it take 10 weeks? Is there a lot about being on camera, being an adult actress, they have to learn?
[00:02:40] Oh, yes. Okay. So really, the first go around, I did it was 16 weeks because, oh my gosh, I just couldn't figure out how to structure it like to get it all out there. But honestly, even 10 weeks, I feel like it's not enough to like really go like I still, I still talk to some of my previous
[00:03:00] students just to make sure that they're on the right tracks. Like one of my students, she just won the mini vids, Cupid Contest, so extra money in her pocket. And then they reach out and still be like, okay, Paisley, I'm reaching my goals this week.
[00:03:16] I'm still making my schedules. I'm still doing this. So it's a lot of valuable information that we go over. Plus, to be successful in this, people think you could just sign up for something and still make all this money.
[00:03:29] And it's just not that.
[00:03:32] Yeah, they said the same thing about podcasts and some people thought it was, let me just get on the mic and start talking and I'm going to get make money and, and have a lot of followers.
[00:03:43] It's how I love viewership and it ain't like that. For whatever it is, you got to put into work. And I think people need to realize that no matter what you go through, you have to put into work.
[00:03:55] Yeah, for sure.
[00:03:57] So what made you decide you wanted to be a mentor to everybody instead of just being, being in the business for yourself.
[00:04:06] Well, for starters, my goal overall goal in life is to be able to just inspire, honestly, and show people like, you can really one come from nothing and make something out of yourself.
[00:04:23] No matter what people tell you, you can do whatever you want to do.
[00:04:27] And, you know, just be able to have confidence and live life correctly and be happy. I feel like a lot of people are missing that.
[00:04:36] So, on top of all of the adult industry people following me, like they all just like me. I consider myself the friend to all the corn stars because, you know, people just flocked to me.
[00:04:57] So I think it was that, and then, honestly, it was a struggle. Oh my gosh, it was a struggle, trying to learn how to do PSO because YouTube at the time before I started making videos, it was like three.
[00:05:13] They were like old, like years old, like 1990s, phone, sex style, and it's just not that anymore. So in 2019, there was nothing, I couldn't find anything.
[00:05:25] And being that it was so hard and I kind of lost money before I made money, I didn't want girls to make the same mistake. So kind of just a mix of all that.
[00:05:36] So, now I have has any men approached you about wanting to get help and stuff because I had somebody as well. Like, a long time ago, he says, Oh, they'll be paying men to get on cameras and stuff. I'm like, really, who's going to pay a man?
[00:05:50] I don't know. You know, it's 2024. You got to be able to mind it, right? No, for sure. So I do consultations with everybody under the sun. So men, women, trans couples, straight men, gay men, people from all over the world.
[00:06:09] Really? I get a lot of people from the UK and Canada and Brazil. So it's just everybody. And if you believe you could succeed in this industry, you could do it. No matter what you look like, no matter your skin, no matter how big or small you are, like you could be successful in this industry.
[00:06:28] But it takes work now.
[00:06:31] Yeah, of course, anything we've established does take work. What did you learn about yourself going through the adult industry and become the success that you are? What have you learned about yourself and what ways they make you a better person?
[00:06:46] Oh, this is a really good story. So I got into this when I was 27 turning on 28, I believe. Maybe I got the years wrong. But anyways, I didn't really like myself.
[00:07:02] And I took this journey of going through this, I guess I can give it to credit to this, but also at the same time I was just intentionally working on me to be a happier person.
[00:07:16] I was like 28 to 32. It took a lot of work, but I finally decided to love myself and the body that I'm in. The way I think and how I am and everything about me.
[00:07:30] And I think that's where I got a lot of growth. I learned to really love me.
[00:07:38] I would think you would have to love yourself to be on the camera and stuff. So don't put yourself out there. You would have to really love yourself in order to do that right.
[00:07:48] Because you get to stay at yourself, but you're also noticing all your flaws and some people, it could be in security. If you're just sitting on your screen for five hours looking at yourself noticing every little thing.
[00:08:01] But when people come and start tipping for your flaws, they're like, Oh my gosh, you got the beautiful stretch mark. So you have this and they're throwing money at you. You're going to think a little bit different.
[00:08:14] Yeah, money does make things change. So now I know you mentioned me, you do have kids. Now, what would you say to your kids when they find out all this about you when they grow up, you know, so when they become a age and they go off to college and they might have to deal with kids.
[00:08:31] Oh, I got your mom's content on hearing stuff because I've heard some, some adult actually have to deal with that, you know, because they said their kids, their friends, their kids will bind up their content, subscribe to their content.
[00:08:46] Yeah, I'd be like, kids are ruthless. So, what would you have, have you mentally prepared for that? Yes, so for when me and my kid are really, really close.
[00:09:00] And I feel like when it's that time, whenever she's like, Oh, do you do this or what do you do or what's this mean, it's just going to be time to talk about it. And I'm fully prepared to do so.
[00:09:14] We've had several conversations that lets me know that if she was to find this out, she would just be like, like, just say she's like 18 to 21 and finds this out.
[00:09:27] And she'd be like, yeah, that makes sense. You know, so I just find her being really accepting. I mean, we've even had conversations. Like, I feel like the TikTok exposes them to a lot of things.
[00:09:41] So I've had to just be like, mindful that at the age, at this age, I didn't know a lot of these types of things or they just weren't talked about.
[00:09:51] So for instance, the subject of trans was brought up. And I was just joking. I was like, well, what if momming was trans, and just like, I wouldn't care, I would love you no matter what.
[00:10:01] So things like that, let me believe whenever this does come out. It's I'm a love you no matter what I don't care what people think like she's very strong. So.
[00:10:14] Yes, I can, I could respect a strong child. Now, now, having said that, would you be okay if your child, when she becomes of age says, mommy, I want to do this because I've heard stories from lady rappers saying that they want, they wouldn't have the things they talk about in her songs.
[00:10:33] They wouldn't want their, their daughter to live that life. Now, are you opposed to it? Or, or how did, where do you stand on that?
[00:10:42] Um, being that I do everything from my house behind a screen, I never leave anywhere. It's nothing in person.
[00:10:52] I'm not ashamed of this. And I feel like any adult over the age of 18, if you want to do this to make your money, or your side money or whatever, I don't, I don't feel ashamed of this, you know, so, like the normal society things like what their reactions to things.
[00:11:11] I'm just like, okay, of course that's not what you want, but if it was to happen, would I be like so pissed off and that no, I'm by myself, you know, if she, if she said, oh yeah, like men just pay me to ignore them.
[00:11:29] What I mean.
[00:11:33] they paid them to ignore you? Yeah, like I'll sit on the phone with them. Hour to hours just ignoring them. Of course I'm doing other things. It allows me to buy back my time as what it does. But yeah, sit there and pay like two, three dollars a minute. Just sit in the door. You. Okay, that's the interest that that's funny. Like I said, because I know as a man, I'd pay somebody if they were mad or pay somebody to talk to you. But that's a new one.
[00:11:59] Yeah, that's what I want to let a lot of people know, like it's a lot of cool fetishes out here that you never really hear about. But I do get paid to ignore every single day I'm ignoring someone, which lets me know there's a lot of guys that like to be ignored.
[00:12:14] I don't know what's wrong with them guys, but it's okay with the fetishes. What is the strangest fetish that you heard that you were just like, what the fuck? We've heard it.
[00:12:28] Oh, freak. Strange is a funny word because it takes a lot to weird me out after everything. But the strangest thing that I've had to deal with was watching a guy was finding right words urinates in the toilet and then take a wine glass and scoop it and drink it.
[00:12:55] What? That's how the weirdest. Yeah, I thought I thought she was gonna say so it's a man, a man paying a woman to take a shit on with the weirdest but that's okay that beats that beats that.
[00:13:11] You know what everything that I do is online so yeah, but I mean they do like the shedding videos and all that if you do appear into that charge don't know the charges up because they will pay.
[00:13:27] There's some things out there I've learned over the even from my previous conversations where people in the adult industry. There are some things out there that you can get paid for that shouldn't even that the normal first known civilians like they pay for that.
[00:13:42] I never never will have imagined it.
[00:13:48] Yeah, I said oh, man, please see it. See, I don't, I don't get personally.
[00:13:54] Well, you don't want to help with me because like for instance that guy who just wanted to drink it. We were on a video chat for like five hours.
[00:14:05] I think I got paid like 87840 for those five hours, but we just said I just said and talked.
[00:14:14] Like I don't have anything but talk in the conversation honestly the conversation was really good, but it's just every so often he, you know like how we're sitting here liquor talk.
[00:14:27] That's that's a version of liquor talk. I don't even approve of right there.
[00:14:40] I don't give me some liquor and call it a day. Look, I don't, I don't approve that bodily fluids come out of your body for a reason.
[00:14:50] Yeah, and you can make money off of them, men and women. Wow. But ladies and gentlemen, this is liquor talk the more you drink the better we sound so liquor to get through this conversation y'all.
[00:15:03] If y'all really being weirded out y'all just get shot some liquor and let's get through this conversation because you can learn a lot of different things.
[00:15:11] Yeah, I just learned that people will piss piss in the toilet and scoop it out and sip on it as if it's a wine.
[00:15:22] I'm like, crazy. So what is your biggest advice to anybody looking to do this like, now, how do you besides that, um, answer that and I'm gonna come back with another question because another question popped in my mind but what's your biggest advice to anybody want to get in this.
[00:15:43] Well, biggest advice would be if you don't believe you can make money with this if you don't believe you can make $300 $400 a day, whatever you don't believe you could do what you want.
[00:15:56] You're not going to be consistent if you're not prepared to treat treat this like an actual job make a schedule stick to it, work the hours, not be distracted and all this is not for you.
[00:16:09] If you are worried if you are too worried about people finding out this is the internet it's open yes you can geo block on a lot of sites, however it's still out there once it's on the internet it's out there forever.
[00:16:21] If you're not prepared for that please do not put your content out there, and stick to your boundaries stick to your boundaries.
[00:16:31] That's real now, now what's something now what's your safe word, you just tell people straight up hey this is hit my boundaries, because I'm surprised I've heard some things about porn stories I'm like, I didn't know they had some had boundaries.
[00:16:46] Yeah so I'm doing our boundaries. Well, here's the thing I'm always by myself, so they can't force me to do anything on the other side of the screen.
[00:17:00] They can't be demanding like I don't really like dominant guys online, because they just kind of want to be extreme once you hurt yourself and things and I'm not doing all that.
[00:17:13] I don't do it at all. And I'm not doing taboo talk, no family talk, no age play, no race play, no none of that. It's not my thing.
[00:17:29] Other than that I'm open. I like to find guys to just sit and talk. I usually focus on my shifts maybe to find one to three guys that just buy out my day and spend my time with those gentlemen.
[00:17:42] That's real. Now, now what have you now shifting back to the course and stuff, the teacher side of you now. Has there been any students that you're like, you're not going to make it your you could tell by how they're doing within the first use plus that they're not going to make it like.
[00:17:59] I haven't had that situation happen. Okay, so it's students know with girls that get consultations. Yes, but I typically I'm just honest with them.
[00:18:12] Like, you know, maybe you should try this or you've given me one too many excuses, then maybe you need to go find a nine to five job or find something else. Like, because I don't really tolerate their excuses.
[00:18:25] And with my students because they have that they watch me on YouTube first they found me on YouTube first so they're there they like me they fell in love with my personality which by the way pays the haze on YouTube, but they find me there so they like me so I typically get
[00:18:44] more guys or whoever people that I'm for, so personalities mesh will and my students have been great. Awesome women. Thank you all.
[00:18:55] Got out there soon as they've been wonderful as well. That's all to me about to do please to dollars podcast. Have you what's going on there you're going to bring that back. Yes, I want to bring that back. I want to launch it back again on for 20 this year.
[00:19:07] I've taken about a year and a half off. I started in 2021 because like the pervy guys on the phone kept telling me I need to start a podcast. They were just talk to me like people think phones like the super sexual well my guys like me.
[00:19:22] So they get to know me and different things and one one too many said start a podcast so I did.
[00:19:29] I started off by interviewing rappers in the Houston area like son for Vegas, DJ chose peso peso did vlogs and I viewed like tarot shops like moon magic.
[00:19:43] Then I started interviewing all my porn star friends because why not friends with all of them so might as well get them to.
[00:19:51] Yeah, like I said listen you got to guess right here whenever you need me just let me know.
[00:19:56] Yeah for sure. I son of your way. Oh wait. Are you based in Houston? Yeah I'm in Houston.
[00:20:02] Now I got a sibling in Houston that stayed trying to recruit me to come out to Houston. I'm coming since I don't know when but I'm coming and I'm saying it's hard to leave Florida but you know I don't know if I could build that Houston traffic.
[00:20:16] Yeah, but it's cool. I'm all like.
[00:20:21] But what's something that you wish that you would have learned about the adult industry that you wish you would have known before you got started.
[00:20:31] Oh, that's a good question.
[00:20:44] Hmm.
[00:20:47] I don't know. Maybe you can't do this alone or you're going to be really successful.
[00:20:54] See I came in. I came and had a great time. I came in before pandemic.
[00:21:00] So I didn't come in with this rush of people thinking they know how to do only fans and not realizing it's actual work.
[00:21:08] When I came in I was like prepared a little bit better and I watched YouTube videos on cam and I didn't just think I knew what I was doing.
[00:21:16] So I did take the time to do research. I feel like a lot of people don't know that so maybe they should know that you need to research.
[00:21:23] Um,
[00:21:26] I didn't know I would find people I really like. Like good people. Good solid friendships.
[00:21:36] Hmm. So.
[00:21:39] And I feel that I actually feel that same way about podcasting. I've met me a lot of good friends in podcast and that I'm like, Hey, I'm in different cities.
[00:21:49] Oh, hey, let me know. You know, so I definitely kill you on all that.
[00:21:54] Now, get into some of the myths. What are some of the myths that you're like, you hear people say all the time, but you're in it, but you're like, that is not true.
[00:22:06] Anybody could just sell some big pictures. Not true. It's work.
[00:22:12] What else? That's the first thing that popped in my head. What do people say about this? I'm so far removed from like people that aren't in here.
[00:22:22] So I don't want our people to think it's easy to just start adult work. And then some people, like I said, they think all they got to do is just take the book and stuff.
[00:22:31] And that's it.
[00:22:33] It's work.
[00:22:35] It's work. It's a work.
[00:22:39] I love how this world is like sex work is one umbrella, but then there's so many different departments.
[00:22:51] And so from people that want to do in person stuff to just stay in blind screen or not even showing your skills at all and doing awesome stuff.
[00:23:02] You can find something for anybody in here, so I do feel like almost anybody could do it because there is something for everybody but it is work. Yes, I figured it would be work and stuff. Now, do you prefer being by yourself or do you like shooting scenes? Ok, so I've only did one boy girl scene. Well, I've only did one blue wapping scene period with one person.
[00:23:31] So, shout out Finney's Playhouse. I've done light stuff with girls like Chris Madaluca and Marilyn Marie, but it's always been like side by side or it's not fluid swabbing me.
[00:23:51] I don't know, that's my extent of it. I don't do scenes. I make about the same money as them,
[00:24:01] so why do I need to go do that? I mean, you never say it for the experience or to say it.
[00:24:07] When I tried it with Finney, it was great, a beautiful experience. But it's not for me.
[00:24:17] I don't know, my body, it could be for the world to see. That's cool. We can look at it, but it's like
[00:24:26] don't touch, it's for my person. I'll be on display, but only select Fusion, and I can start.
[00:24:36] You're like a selective museum, because in museums you can walk around and you can look, but you can't touch.
[00:24:43] Yeah, doesn't really put it. That's interesting. I usually thought that most porn stars,
[00:24:51] they like some games, because they actually like sex, but I like sex with my person.
[00:24:59] And now it's just like, I don't know if I get into it, I feel like I'm just fucking my friends.
[00:25:06] Like I get so annoyed when I'm going over some of these sites, because it's less like
[00:25:11] I'm turned off. There's my friend again, like, oh my gosh, this content, let me direct the work.
[00:25:16] So you get turned off if you see somebody you know? Well, I'm not turned off because that would
[00:25:22] that would be putting down their content. They have some beautiful content, some fire content,
[00:25:26] but because they're my friends and I know that it's work, it triggers in my brain,
[00:25:31] what the fuck are you doing? They're on air posting videos working more on too.
[00:25:35] So give back to work. No, not.
[00:25:39] Or maybe you can get the nut and then go to work.
[00:25:45] Well, you know, I was doing real quick or whatever, get out of work, back to work.
[00:25:49] Yeah, don't let, don't stop the nut. You know, I'm saying I'm already close to getting the nut.
[00:26:02] Already there. Yes, yes. So now what's something about,
[00:26:08] what's something about the scenes that you look at? You're like, okay, this is just crazy.
[00:26:14] Well, get it into like the wet and messy and like getting like one time I did the scene,
[00:26:25] and it's just me and like 20 pies and then my wig and my pie, just squish them just.
[00:26:33] That's pretty cool. The fun cosplays. What was the question? I'm sorry, maybe I'm not
[00:26:42] answering the question. Oh, I think you did answer the question. It was just like, what's the craziest
[00:26:46] thing you've seen in the scenes? Yeah, but like my friends, my friends, my friends, they'd be doing
[00:26:54] reman and everything.
[00:26:58] Gang bangs, 10 guys, all these cream pies. I mean, I've got to record it. Like when I get to record
[00:27:05] my friends, it's pretty cool. So do they ever be like, hey, Pais, you need to get in on this or
[00:27:11] whatever or maybe ask you when you gonna get in on it? Um, yeah, before, before I did my scene for
[00:27:16] sure, I would have friends ask, why do you want to do this? I get companies reach out to me all the
[00:27:20] time. I accept solo work from companies, but it's not for me. They don't pressure me.
[00:27:29] And plus, I kind of like it this way because it allows them to be my friend and not look at me
[00:27:35] as competition. Like they look at each other. Oh, wait, Pais does move in each other like a
[00:27:42] competition? Oh, yeah, it's a lot of pennies, for sure. It's like a wrap industry, honestly.
[00:27:49] It's like any, any other kind of entrepreneur, entertainment deal. Yeah. Damn. So that's crazy
[00:27:58] how you would think everybody we trying to eat together. Like it's plenty of, there's plenty of
[00:28:02] sex cells. People don't realize there's sex cells that there's plenty of work for everybody. I don't
[00:28:07] know why people want to have these competitions. Well, you know, I don't know, people are people,
[00:28:13] and they will. But I do try to bring fellowship together. I actually took a pause for the past
[00:28:18] couple of months, but I was doing community fellowship for all the adult workers. And I
[00:28:23] appreciate everybody that showed up because I would have a big audience and just come and tell them
[00:28:28] about disciplining themselves or organizing or getting structured for the next week or being
[00:28:33] the safe space where they could tell me about their burnout or whatever the case is. So I do
[00:28:40] try to bring unity to the community, but I'm only one person now. No, I understand. I understand
[00:28:45] you're only one person and you're doing the work. I know sometimes it feels like God's work to try
[00:28:50] to bring everybody together, but you know, some people, yeah, because I tell them the world is
[00:28:55] already against us. The world looks down on adult workers. It is what it is. That's how
[00:28:59] they do, but we don't need to be caddy with each other because we should be like a family unit.
[00:29:05] Yes, you should definitely be a family unit. You guys should be united by the fact that so many
[00:29:12] people in the world look down on us, but I'm like, I find it crazy because I'm like,
[00:29:16] why would anybody be a good shot when everybody got to get a nut every once in a while.
[00:29:21] And some people just, they filmed themselves getting a nut or, yeah.
[00:29:28] But let's talk a little about sexual health that some people may not know. So how are the
[00:29:35] porn stars able to last long, long to keep doing all them scenes? Because you can get tiresome.
[00:29:44] Well, from my friends, I know they get tested every two weeks and they have to go through
[00:29:53] talent tested or industry standard testing. Can't just be your own doctor or whatever the case is,
[00:30:00] which allows you to see access and know if they're actually clean or non-date,
[00:30:06] actually have to go through the whole anal swabbing and everything is industry standard.
[00:30:11] So every two weeks they're going through that to stay safe. Other than that, I really don't know,
[00:30:20] like, not only sexual health, what I would advise people to do what I do was to make sure
[00:30:25] you clean your toys and to understand that these $40 toys that you buy on Amazon,
[00:30:31] they're cool for a month or so, but get rid of them because one calls me a bad yeast infection.
[00:30:37] Oh, what?
[00:30:38] From just having a toy for a while.
[00:30:41] Wait, but don't you clean, even though?
[00:30:45] Even if we clean them, because it's like the cheaper ones are made out of cheaper material
[00:30:49] that starts wearing off every, I don't know, I'd describe it, but like the cheap $40 ones you
[00:30:55] get on Amazon, aren't meant to last.
[00:30:57] So the ones that I meant to last would be the ones you walk into your adult store and buy?
[00:31:04] Yeah, more expensive ones are different ones. Don't quote me and ask me which ones I don't know,
[00:31:09] but I just know that after a few months I gave me a really bad yeast infection and I wasn't
[00:31:16] having sex with anybody. I was cleaning my toys just with myself, so that's where it had to have
[00:31:22] came from. Oh, man, well, I hope you recovered from that, because oh, yeah, that thing was it.
[00:31:28] That's crazy to get a yeast infection from a damn toy. That's a little scary right there.
[00:31:40] Yeah, they'll be safe. Like people need to clean their stuff clean, clean, clean.
[00:31:44] So another thing I want to ask you, well, I don't know if I can ask you this, but from what you can
[00:31:51] see like, what is the difference between sex on the camera and then sex with your partner,
[00:31:56] like somebody you're actually in love with? The connection with the scene. You're worried about
[00:32:05] getting the correct angles. It's not really what makes you feel good. It's
[00:32:09] is this going to sell? Is this the good angle? Did we did we get the pop shot? Did we get
[00:32:15] like certain, you know, stuff that they have to get further? What depending on what type of
[00:32:21] scene that they're filming, did it come out right? So
[00:32:23] stuff with your partner is different. It's supposed to be special in a bond
[00:32:31] in a deeper connection. Yes, so. Okay, so I guess if you're on scene, it doesn't even matter if you
[00:32:40] get yours or if they get theirs. Well, the guys are probably going to get theirs, right? Because
[00:32:45] you need the actual pop shot. That's what they want to see. But the girls, that's a hit or miss.
[00:32:50] Mmm. I don't have a bad for girls because it's like, what? What's the point in doing this if
[00:32:57] you can't even get yours? The money. Yeah, I mean, yeah. The money. It's just like if you go work at
[00:33:05] whatever job, like you're just working to get the paycheck. You don't really care
[00:33:10] about their business or their corporation. You're just trying to get your paycheck.
[00:33:15] So is this scene going to sell? Is it believable? Yeah, I feel bad for the guys more than the girls
[00:33:26] on set because girls, we don't have to get hard. The guys having it hard and say hard
[00:33:33] and know how to control it. So if it's like, hey, we need to stop and take a break,
[00:33:37] you gotta stay like that. And not a lot of guys can. You can't go down and it's like,
[00:33:42] it's not the girls job to make you feel turned on. She's your work partner. She's not your,
[00:33:48] it's your job to make sure that you stay like that. So, yeah, that sounds like that sounds
[00:33:54] in itself a challenge to stay hard. You know, especially with the group. Yeah. Especially if
[00:34:01] you get get off, it's like, it's gonna be hard to get it back up once you got off.
[00:34:08] So shout out to the ones I can. There's some great melton out there that I can.
[00:34:13] Yeah, shout out to the all the melton out there and also shout out to the ones that
[00:34:17] done came through Lickitaw. I appreciate those guys. And if any other melton wanna come on
[00:34:23] Lickitaw, y'all let me know. We'll just get a conversation going as well. So, what is something
[00:34:30] a man can do to make a sex better for women?
[00:34:32] This is the thing that they can do. I can only answer that for my partner. What men felt to realize is every woman is different.
[00:34:46] And down there, for instance, me. I don't like anything that curves. If it curves, it's going to be very painful. The reason why is because most vaginas tilt, like on the inside, one way or the other, mine is straight.
[00:34:59] I learned that I have a straight canal when I went to give birth, which is why it wasn't painful for me. None the less because I don't have a curve or a tilt, curved ones really are painful.
[00:35:13] To not tell, like, you know what, the guy's on cam. They'll be like, okay, this is about you. I want to make you feel good. But then they'll tell you to do things that don't make me feel good. They're like, oh, rub your cliddens or that don't feel good for me.
[00:35:28] Maybe for another person, but for me. So then you're asking me how does it feel? I'm having a faith because it doesn't feel good or you're saying rub it fast or do with this or do that.
[00:35:38] Every vagina is different. They're different. Look at some lips are longer some this. You've got to really find what makes each one tick. It's like a new game each time.
[00:35:50] Yeah. That's definitely a new game time. And I know for personal, like, you might be able to do one thing for this one woman. You have it going crazy. And then you try that thing on another woman, they'll just look like you're like, you're stupid. I'm like, yeah.
[00:36:07] Yeah. But that's good. And also, what is something that that when it comes to this kind of working stuff, how's the health? How do you like stay healthy news the diet or do you stay doing it regularly?
[00:36:24] Honey, I cook. Hey, I could. I'm Southern cook mother this mother that right now I've been cooking pork tenderloin all day to make pulled homemade pork sandwiches with baked beans and macaroni.
[00:36:42] And that's all good.
[00:36:44] Okay, that's what I'm about to go. I don't know. As long as we don't with this. I think, though, you need to have some sort of health because it's not healthy just to sit behind your screen all day and don't get out, get fresh air, take a walk, get exercise stretch.
[00:37:02] I'm 34 years old, like, I have much stretch. I have to stretch. And I think that's important to do.
[00:37:10] You know, if you're somebody like me, that doesn't exercise regularly or eat healthy.
[00:37:16] Yeah, understood. I understood.
[00:37:19] So, now, what is some blessing advice you would give to people at our own OnlyFans right now, because they'd be complaining about some of them daily to get paid.
[00:37:27] Like, that's only those big top celebrities are getting paid.
[00:37:31] And it's like, I come across so many OnlyFans pages and I sit there wondering, like, I wonder how much are y'all really getting paid off this.
[00:37:39] So, this is what I need to tell the world. OnlyFans doesn't have an integrated network system where they can find you, meaning you are responsible for driving 100% of your traffic to your page.
[00:37:54] If you do not have a fan base, why the fuck would you think you could start a fan club?
[00:38:01] Okay, so that's for starters. Let's stop getting on that site and going to sites that have an internal fan base where they can find you, for instance, clip sites, many vids, loyal fans, clips for sale, I want clips.
[00:38:17] All of those have traffic. The more often you post, you're getting seen, your videos are actually selling, your content's selling great.
[00:38:27] So, that would be my thing. Stop thinking that that's the entrance into the squirrel when you and got no fans.
[00:38:35] Hey, that makes perfect sense, though.
[00:38:39] Now, what do you think about this story about, because I saw a story where a Florida mom got kicked out of the Christian stool.
[00:38:48] They're not even allowed to pick up their kids, because she got only fans.
[00:38:54] Well, I think that's the one that had it on her car, but what kind of sense do you have of your kids in the Christian school having that on your car?
[00:39:02] Why would you think that would be cool, or even if it's not a Christian school, why the hell would you think that's cool to put on the back of your car at a school where you know where to drive your other car, or have a sign that comes on and off, but you can't do that.
[00:39:17] That's just not respectable.
[00:39:20] Agreed. And it's like, then when I saw it, I'm like, oh no wonder they kicked out. She got the big only fans plastered on the back of her on the back of her car and I'm like, so what do you think? Like, come on, lady.
[00:39:34] Yeah, you can't do anything for clout.
[00:39:37] Yeah, it's just some of the stupid shit for clout is crazy.
[00:39:42] Oh, one thing I didn't know, I thought everybody was like me and was actually in this for money.
[00:39:51] If I'm not making money, I wouldn't be here for five, six years, but there are people that have been in the industry a long time and they don't care if their money flows or not.
[00:40:03] I'm not here for this for clout purposes, the attention, the this that I'm not here for no that I'm here to make money so I do tell my students, if that's you don't come to my classes because I'm not working.
[00:40:16] Yeah, that only makes sense to me because it's like, if you're not in it for the money then why are you here? Why are you put yourself on this camera? Why are you wasting time.
[00:40:27] Or they're not getting any in real life and that's not just men it's women too there's a lot of women that get into this industry because they can't get none in real life.
[00:40:38] So men do it too, but I'm just saying people look at it like men just doing no women do it as well, but they get into that I'm just like, I don't need to get into this to have sex.
[00:40:53] I didn't know that about I didn't know that about women women get into it because I'm like, y'all control with nine sex is going to go down or not.
[00:41:03] But they do, they do they're not confidence I guess.
[00:41:08] That's that's I find that crazy they don't have counters because I meet a whole bunch of one with confidence you know what I'm saying, or the presumed image of.
[00:41:17] And a lot of them like for instance, why would they come on here and tell you oh my confidence is down or this or I'm really just in this for clout, you know, like, if they were on your podcast they're not going to do that.
[00:41:29] People are going to present themselves in the best light whereas I keep it real like on my YouTube channel.
[00:41:34] You know, I'm like, you're just fighting, burping, crying, y'all get all of me. You just get me like it's just, I'm not here to be fake I never lied about my age I don't understand why people still do that.
[00:41:48] Like Google in the thing like you can go you can find access on somebody and you can find that shit on the dark web to you know.
[00:42:00] It's crazy. But yeah, that's definitely big. And, and what do you think about people that they lose their jobs if their employer finds out that they have only fans.
[00:42:15] Here's the thing, if you're working, that's why I said before like if you worry about somebody find you it's not for you so that is always a tough chance.
[00:42:24] But don't go and go into it being an audio artist audio only until you make enough to get out. You don't have to show yourself.
[00:42:33] Mm hmm.
[00:42:35] They're audio content. Yeah, that you that people are not thinking smart you know I said because of course the company they have their morals and all that.
[00:42:48] So they have their fake morals or this or that.
[00:42:57] But you know they're like, oh we can't stand for that. That's what y'all draw the line.
[00:43:02] But y'all got people to rob you all the time but that's where y'all draw along. Yeah.
[00:43:07] Exactly. And it be the ones within your own, within your own business we out here robbing us out here doing craziness but I don't know about these companies.
[00:43:18] So what do you got planned for the rest of 2024.
[00:43:22] Well, I'd love to get nominated again for XBiz Awards. So in this industry there's two major awards there's ABN's but that's typically for people that do more.
[00:43:35] And then for me, the cam girl and content clip artist. They have the XBiz creator awards.
[00:43:43] So that's coming up here in a few months. And I'm hoping to get nominated again I was nominated in 2021 and 2022. I wasn't last year so I was hoping to get nominated again possibly one.
[00:43:58] I definitely want to get to more exotic cuz I was thinking I was going to go to Chicago, Exotica probably not. I don't know what's in April so we'll see.
[00:44:10] But if not I'll make it to the New Jersey one.
[00:44:16] So just keep building my team building mattress actress building paisley haze. That was kind of why I wanted to do like my press run this month and get on as many podcasts as possible.
[00:44:28] Get a magazine and blogs.
[00:44:32] Just get money out there.
[00:44:34] Hey, that's really your name is definitely getting out here.
[00:44:37] And I'm hoping to make exotic because I applied for media pastor exotica but back to me so I'll probably have to talk to somebody else I know of let's see if they can help me out with that I might I might make a little call to our sponsor
[00:44:52] to see if he helped me out. I don't know.
[00:44:54] So, one you could always just buy tickets and go and interview people no one's gonna stop you from every day. They all want to be interviewed so if you just buy regular tickets, you can also get a booth but try reaching out.
[00:45:10] Message me when we're done here I'll send you an email and do the dry reach out and see.
[00:45:14] All right, all right, well definitely will definitely set that up. And I want to thank you for joining me on liquor talk today. Like I said, if you got any more adult entertainers that want to come through or in your downtown friends want to come through.
[00:45:26] Let them know that this is a safe space for adult entertainers and sex workers, all like it's a safe space for everybody.
[00:45:34] Okay, cool. And thank thank you for that and thank you to listen so subscribe to liquor talk on YouTube podcast Spotify iHeartRadio remember to keep pointed up because life is life is only going to keep life and support up and let's get through it.
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